most desired as far as irr go. this is likely due to ww who would rather choose a bm over someone else,*if* she were to go ir.<quoted text>
well I don't know about most desired .I haven't really seen any research on it .But what I seen white men are usually the most desired by all races of women.
Well as far as self hate (my opinion ) I think black men suffer more.especially the darker ones.
Thanks for not talking it offensive .
i think most aam are very satisfied with who and what they are. i know there are some michael jackson types who'd love to turn white. but this is a rare bird, and especially today. i don't think the average aam looks at the average wm and says,'i want to be that'. and an aam can go anywhere in the world and have women come at'm from every direction. i don't know what would motivate self-hate among aam when he has every reason to be very confident, at least about his physical appearance and how it's received.
but i know self-hate (or maybe a displaced sense of manhood)is part of the bm's psyche - blackonblack violence certainly comes outta this.