How to Tell a "Down-Low" Brother

“Welcome to the truth!”

Since: Jan 09

Birmingham, AL

#527 Jan 8, 2009
ROFL! So a boo boo story is supposed to get him excited? I doubt it. I would rather do stake outs, check emails, and check cellphones.
Ric Ricland wrote:
A down-low brother is the lowest form of life there is. He has sex with men and woman and usually doesn't tell either about his bisexuality.
Real gays despise down-low brothers with good cause. A down-low brother will have sex with them then pass them on the street when he's with his woman and pretend he doesn't see them.
Women despise a down-low brother because he's not only two-timing them, but you never know what he's going to bring back into the bedroom.
So, smoking out a down-low brother is vitally important -- sometimes a matter of life and death.
An ex-girl friend shared with me how she does it.
Professional gamblers will tell you about a technique they use call "a tell." Simply put, it's observing how a card player reacts to good and bad hands to gauge his unknown hand.
A pro gambler will watch you for a few hands, maybe lose a few dollars in the process, then up the stakes once he's determined your "tell."
Most rookies have one: a guy gets a royal flush and his eyes light up or his eyebrows jump, or he starts talking in a excited voice. Each is a tell.
When my ex met a new guy she'd watch him very closely before having sex with him. She'd tell him a variety of stories to get his reactions.
For example: she'd tell him a story of how she once saw a guy get stabbed playing close attention to his eyes as she told the story.
Over time, after telling him a half dozen stories, she had all the data she needed to gauge when a story affected him on a personal level; that is, when it connected to his own experiences. Then she'd tell him this story:
While working as a security guard at the YMCA she'd notice many of the gay men had sphincter control problems. They'd get on the elevator and start jumping like they had to go real bad and all too often they went... right where they stood, crapping in the pants then running down the hall when the elevator door opened, a trail of steaming turds dropping onto the floor behind them.
Apparently, years of anal sex totally trashed their sphincter muscle.
Now, ladies, the trick is to pay close attention to your man's eyes why you tell him this anecdote.
If you've done you homework, you'll either see or not see his tell.
Happy Hunting...
ricland
Wakeup sisters brothers

Coden, AL

#528 Jan 23, 2009
Please read the book "The Straight Up Truth About the Downlow." Go to that site. Your worries are truly on point. In this book they talk about "Intuition," God's way of telling you what it real even when you are reluctant to accept it. Your instincts would give me concern if that was me. Go www.straightuptruth.com .
Best of everything to you Sis.
Wakeup sisters brothers

Coden, AL

#529 Jan 31, 2009
Sistahs, Stop asking gay men about the down-low. They are afraid to tell you the truth because it uncovers some of the them that are not admitting they are gay. Go to www.straightuptruth.com . Buy the book and educate your d---m self.

“My Shining Star”

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#530 Jan 31, 2009
I heard that 'down-low' men are usually low-down. Is that true?
STILLANOINTED

Norfolk, VA

#532 Jan 31, 2009
I WAS SERIOUSLY LOOKING FOR SOME INFO MORE THAN WHO'S GOT THE BEST GARBARGE. 1ST. ALOT OF MEN HAVE BEEN RAPED AS KIDS OR TEENS . 2ND. THE ISSUE ISN'T JUSTTO MAKE IT A BLACK THING IT'S A PEOPLE ISSUE ALL RACES INVOVLED! NOW THAT THAT'S OUT OF THE WAY MOST OF THE TIME IT CAN BE FOUND IN THE CHURCH IN ALL CULTURES IN THE U.S.A.. THE WOMEN AND THE CHILDREN ARE VITIMIZED BY THESE SHADY LIARS. ALSO THERE ARE ARRANGED MARRIAGES BETWEEN GAYS AND LESBIANS ( THE BIBLE CALLS THEM SODOMITES). WE NEED PROOF BECAUSE THOSE THAT KNOW WON'T TELL AND THOSE THAT TELL DON'T KNOW AND THAYS HOW THEY KEEP IT. MANY A HURTING WOMAN AND HER CHILDREN LIVE A B.S. LFE IN MANY HURTFULSITUATIONS BECAUSE THESE MEN HATE THEMSELVES, THEIR WIVES AND LIVE IN FEAR OF BEING EXPOSED . SO PLEASE KEEP YOUR ANSWERS TRUE TO LIFE AND HELP A SISTER OUT!
Wakeup sisters brothers

Coden, AL

#533 Feb 1, 2009
Amen, Still annointed. I couldn't have said it better. This is no play thing. It is happening to women of all colors and ages. The thing that most surprises and frustrates me is that if I bring this issue up to older women, they are emphatic about us being careful to recognize and protect ourselves. But the younger women....they laugh like it can't happen to them. I think they are just more afraid of not having a man than they are of losing their lives. What a shame!!!!

www.straightuptruth.com - you gotta get this book.
kellysummers

United States

#535 Feb 4, 2009
I went out with this guy to a see a play. One of the actors in the play was fine, I mean real fine. I commented to my male friend that the guy was very handsome. He said, "yeah look at his dimples." He seemed to enjoy looking at him just as much as I did. I was suprise that he would notice another man's dimples. I always felt that he might be on the down low. When we attempt to have sex, it was always a problem with him getting an erection. After, the third time, I said forget it. He would get turned on, but could not function.

“L.I.F.E is a beaaaaach”

Level 1

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#536 Feb 4, 2009
Truth Be Known wrote:
A magazine stated another sign of a homosexual man is that they will not perform oral sex on their girlfriends. Also they will call her a Nypho is she wants sex more than once a month. These men are not truly interested in women but they do try to decieve and act like they are.
Anyone else know of a tell tell signs? I'd like to learn more.
Omg! So even if the guy looks all masculine? He can still be f**ckin dudes?
kellysummers

United States

#537 Feb 4, 2009
I went out with a guy to see a play. I commented on one of the actors in the play. I saide that the gut is really fine. My boyfriend said with a smile on hius face, "look at his dimples. He seemed to enjoy looking at him just as much as I did. I was suprise that he would notice another man's dimple. There was another incident where he had invited me to go to dinner. He didn't show up. The next day he called and said he took Joe out to eat instead. I didn't know what to make of that. I said okay! I really didn't care at that point. I was thanking God that I am open minded to the possibilty that I might be getting played. I backed off from him and didn't take him seriously, because he was too confusing to me.

Level 5

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#538 Feb 4, 2009
Wow! this thread is old! But anyhow I still say ewwwwwwwwww! Abstinence is the best policy in this day and age.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#539 Feb 4, 2009
Princess Lovable S wrote:
I heard that 'down-low' men are usually low-down. Is that true?
Of course they are low down. Educate yourself on the signs becouse the down low, low down men will NEVER tell you until it's too late.

“L.I.F.E is a beaaaaach”

Level 1

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#540 Feb 4, 2009
ms_tickled wrote:
Wow! this thread is old! But anyhow I still say ewwwwwwwwww! Abstinence is the best policy in this day and age.
OMG,i agree. I will not let him F*** me .
apple

Mckinney, TX

#542 Feb 5, 2009
Mr B wrote:
<quoted text>
Ha ha, sphincter......... that's funny.
Ha ha ha, sphincter muscle problems. That's really funny.
The only people who have this kind of issue are the people who get into fisting. For the sake of propriety I'll leave it at that.
As for regular anal sex there is rarely damage to the sphincter muscle. Think about it. You've probably had bigger logs comin' out that the average penis goin' in.
Just the facts mamn, nutin' but the facts.
Oh.......... and I aint gay, ok?
Not that there's anything wrong with dat.
To each his own I suppose. ha ha ha! That's funny.
Fa...gg...ot.

“My Shining Star”

Since: Oct 08

Location hidden

#543 Feb 5, 2009
Truth Be Known wrote:
<quoted text>
Of course they are low down. Educate yourself on the signs becouse the down low, low down men will NEVER tell you until it's too late.
LoL
Heather W

Phoenix, AZ

#544 Feb 5, 2009
Ric Ricland wrote:
A down-low brother is the lowest form of life there is. He has sex with men and woman and usually doesn't tell either about his bisexuality.
Real gays despise down-low brothers with good cause. A down-low brother will have sex with them then pass them on the street when he's with his woman and pretend he doesn't see them.
Women despise a down-low brother because he's not only two-timing them, but you never know what he's going to bring back into the bedroom.
So, smoking out a down-low brother is vitally important -- sometimes a matter of life and death.
An ex-girl friend shared with me how she does it.
Professional gamblers will tell you about a technique they use call "a tell." Simply put, it's observing how a card player reacts to good and bad hands to gauge his unknown hand.
A pro gambler will watch you for a few hands, maybe lose a few dollars in the process, then up the stakes once he's determined your "tell."
Most rookies have one: a guy gets a royal flush and his eyes light up or his eyebrows jump, or he starts talking in a excited voice. Each is a tell.
When my ex met a new guy she'd watch him very closely before having sex with him. She'd tell him a variety of stories to get his reactions.
For example: she'd tell him a story of how she once saw a guy get stabbed playing close attention to his eyes as she told the story.
Over time, after telling him a half dozen stories, she had all the data she needed to gauge when a story affected him on a personal level; that is, when it connected to his own experiences. Then she'd tell him this story:
While working as a security guard at the YMCA she'd notice many of the gay men had sphincter control problems. They'd get on the elevator and start jumping like they had to go real bad and all too often they went... right where they stood, crapping in the pants then running down the hall when the elevator door opened, a trail of steaming turds dropping onto the floor behind them.
Apparently, years of anal sex totally trashed their sphincter muscle.
Now, ladies, the trick is to pay close attention to your man's eyes why you tell him this anecdote.
If you've done you homework, you'll either see or not see his tell.
Happy Hunting...
ricland
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Intersting....

What made you decide to write this ?
hurt

Toledo, OH

#545 Mar 5, 2009
someone told me my man was on the downlow and i know lies like that don't just come out of the sky it comes from a source also he told me some girl was making claims of him being gay cause he didn't have any problems with a dude that way gay and went to school with him a long time ago, what this sound like to you?
unsure wifey

Desoto, TX

#548 Mar 23, 2009
Okay.. I am reading these post and getting very nervous.. I'm married and my husband has this friend that he's been cool with for about 3 years now. They work together, car pool together, go to lunch together. Buy each other birthday gifts, christmas presents and the stuff is not cheap.. Like women.. He barely have sex with me now and barely goes down.. Its weird to me now.. It only been going on for a couple of months..
KRAMER

Plano, TX

#549 Mar 23, 2009
75% of all black boys are born w/o a father. That means they have no idea what a man is. They are raised by a black ass crack headed welfare recipient, 72% of them are BI, which means they are sissy boys. They talk and act tough but run like bitches when confronted in a fight. They are not men, they never were. Thats why you see so many people talk to blacks like they are 3rd graders...lil boys. 3 out of 4 black boys will be felons in their life time. blacks are 4.5 times more likely to abuse a child. 60% of all robberies in the U.S. are committed by black boys, 40% of all rapes too. A woman is 10 times more likely to raped by a black boy.
Bewear of the DLB

Elizabeth, NJ

#550 Mar 25, 2009
I just feel that if you are going to be with MEN then STAY with them!!!!and dont bring it home to your family...I realy do feel, that MEN on the DL need to be KILLED!!!!!!!!!! b/c they are killing WOMEN AND CHILDREN and for WAIT??? for SEX WITH MEN? I know this MAN in NEWARK NJ that has a book store on B/St and this is what he dose...He has SEX with MEN and WOMEN.....And he is ONE OF THE BIGEST DL BROTHERS...you would ever want to meet, Women yes, HE is FINE but becareful, b/c this is were WE FALL! I KNOW! B/C I DID!
Bewear of the DLB

Elizabeth, NJ

#551 Mar 25, 2009
Sorry for that, the word is and for WHAT!!!

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