How to Tell a "Down-Low" Brother

How to Tell a "Down-Low" Brother

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Ric Ricland

“"Same as it ever was..."”

Since: Jan 07

Dayton, OH

#1 Feb 23, 2008
A down-low brother is the lowest form of life there is. He has sex with men and woman and usually doesn't tell either about his bisexuality.

Real gays despise down-low brothers with good cause. A down-low brother will have sex with them then pass them on the street when he's with his woman and pretend he doesn't see them.

Women despise a down-low brother because he's not only two-timing them, but you never know what he's going to bring back into the bedroom.

So, smoking out a down-low brother is vitally important -- sometimes a matter of life and death.

An ex-girl friend shared with me how she does it.

Professional gamblers will tell you about a technique they use call "a tell." Simply put, it's observing how a card player reacts to good and bad hands to gauge his unknown hand.

A pro gambler will watch you for a few hands, maybe lose a few dollars in the process, then up the stakes once he's determined your "tell."

Most rookies have one: a guy gets a royal flush and his eyes light up or his eyebrows jump, or he starts talking in a excited voice. Each is a tell.

When my ex met a new guy she'd watch him very closely before having sex with him. She'd tell him a variety of stories to get his reactions.

For example: she'd tell him a story of how she once saw a guy get stabbed playing close attention to his eyes as she told the story.

Over time, after telling him a half dozen stories, she had all the data she needed to gauge when a story affected him on a personal level; that is, when it connected to his own experiences. Then she'd tell him this story:

While working as a security guard at the YMCA she'd notice many of the gay men had sphincter control problems. They'd get on the elevator and start jumping like they had to go real bad and all too often they went... right where they stood, crapping in the pants then running down the hall when the elevator door opened, a trail of steaming turds dropping onto the floor behind them.

Apparently, years of anal sex totally trashed their sphincter muscle.

Now, ladies, the trick is to pay close attention to your man's eyes why you tell him this anecdote.

If you've done you homework, you'll either see or not see his tell.

Happy Hunting...

ricland

“Concrete Rose”

Since: Dec 07

St Louis, MO

#2 Feb 23, 2008
Ric Ricland wrote:
A down-low brother is the lowest form of life there is. He has sex with men and woman and usually doesn't tell either about his bisexuality.
Real gays despise down-low brothers with good cause. A down-low brother will have sex with them then pass them on the street when he's with his woman and pretend he doesn't see them.
Women despise a down-low brother because he's not only two-timing them, but you never know what he's going to bring back into the bedroom.
So, smoking out a down-low brother is vitally important -- sometimes a matter of life and death.
An ex-girl friend shared with me how she does it.
Professional gamblers will tell you about a technique they use call "a tell." Simply put, it's observing how a card player reacts to good and bad hands to gauge his unknown hand.
A pro gambler will watch you for a few hands, maybe lose a few dollars in the process, then up the stakes once he's determined your "tell."
Most rookies have one: a guy gets a royal flush and his eyes light up or his eyebrows jump, or he starts talking in a excited voice. Each is a tell.
When my ex met a new guy she'd watch him very closely before having sex with him. She'd tell him a variety of stories to get his reactions.
For example: she'd tell him a story of how she once saw a guy get stabbed playing close attention to his eyes as she told the story.
Over time, after telling him a half dozen stories, she had all the data she needed to gauge when a story affected him on a personal level; that is, when it connected to his own experiences. Then she'd tell him this story:
While working as a security guard at the YMCA she'd notice many of the gay men had sphincter control problems. They'd get on the elevator and start jumping like they had to go real bad and all too often they went... right where they stood, crapping in the pants then running down the hall when the elevator door opened, a trail of steaming turds dropping onto the floor behind them.
Apparently, years of anal sex totally trashed their sphincter muscle.
Now, ladies, the trick is to pay close attention to your man's eyes why you tell him this anecdote.
If you've done you homework, you'll either see or not see his tell.
Happy Hunting...
ricland
No..just ask him if you can play w/his behind..the reaction and answer you receive will tell you automatically if he is gay or not.

“To A Women So Heartless”

Since: Dec 07

Vincentown, NJ

#5 Feb 24, 2008
I'll cut a long story short. You have to types of ppl in the world. Honest ppl and liars. And whats in the dark always comes to light, so we all must be patience when it come to the truth. *Ric* I noticed that the whole world plays mind games. When Sh#t should be simple and honest. Theres no need 4 it. Watchin for this and look for that. Watch the tone of voice. Ask a question, get the answer, and wait for the actions to speak. Simple as that...

Ric Ricland

“"Same as it ever was..."”

Since: Jan 07

Dayton, OH

#6 Feb 24, 2008
PrePare FoR GloRy wrote:
I'll cut a long story short. You have to types of ppl in the world. Honest ppl and liars. And whats in the dark always comes to light, so we all must be patience when it come to the truth.*Ric* I noticed that the whole world plays mind games. When Sh#t should be simple and honest. Theres no need 4 it. Watchin for this and look for that. Watch the tone of voice. Ask a question, get the answer, and wait for the actions to speak. Simple as that...
Who the hell are you?

ricland
Truth Be Known

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#7 Feb 24, 2008
Most men in general lie about sex. I met a guy who told me he had to be checked for prostate cancer...at the time he was only 27. He was trying to explain away his large anus. The buttocks cheeks did not even close. There was a gap. I never had sex with him but I did tell him I knew he had had homosexual sex and don't lie to people about it. Most broke brothers are gay for pay.
Meaning they will do homosexual acts for money.
Then act like they are so straight. Another sign is when these men talk so bad about homosexuality, seriously that is a sign they are battling issues of their own Homosexuality. They are trying to throw people off. Of course many men calling the house, he says they are just "friends". Look for the voice and hand , body movements of their friends. Sometimes you can tell from them even if your own boyfriend is very closeted. Birds of a feather flock together.
There are other signs but that is a few I've noticed.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#8 Feb 24, 2008
A magazine stated another sign of a homosexual man is that they will not perform oral sex on their girlfriends. Also they will call her a Nypho is she wants sex more than once a month. These men are not truly interested in women but they do try to decieve and act like they are.

Anyone else know of a tell tell signs? I'd like to learn more.

Since: Dec 07

United States

#9 Feb 24, 2008
Truth Be Known wrote:
Most men in general lie about sex. I met a guy who told me he had to be checked for prostate cancer...at the time he was only 27. He was trying to explain away his large anus. The buttocks cheeks did not even close. There was a gap. I never had sex with him but I did tell him I knew he had had homosexual sex and don't lie to people about it. Most broke brothers are gay for pay.
Meaning they will do homosexual acts for money.
Then act like they are so straight. Another sign is when these men talk so bad about homosexuality, seriously that is a sign they are battling issues of their own Homosexuality. They are trying to throw people off. Of course many men calling the house, he says they are just "friends". Look for the voice and hand , body movements of their friends. Sometimes you can tell from them even if your own boyfriend is very closeted. Birds of a feather flock together.
There are other signs but that is a few I've noticed.
LOL, how funny. His assholeEE was all gaped open,and tried to say he had is prostate checked recelty, I love it!
ahhh ha! ha! ha!

Yeah theres a whole lot of " homo thugs" out there
AOG

Since: Oct 07

chicago

#10 Feb 24, 2008
most straight men can tell within a few minutes if they are around some DL bros.. Straight bros obviously don't care about gay shyt or who is gay...but the gay ones are always trying to figure out who is gay and who isn't...when u know ur being tested by another brother...he's DL..

There are a few things to notice..

Eye Contact.

Acting manly.

the biggest jokesters sometimes.

trying to invite u over as if to engage in manly activities such as working out, seeing his pitbull, or even drugs/drinking.

By the car he drives.

always bringing up his girlfriend in convo..as if to validate his manhood.

Everything the brother says can go both ways...this is a test to see if if your a DL too.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#11 Feb 24, 2008
Alpha Omega Game wrote:
<quoted text>
LOL, how funny. His assholeEE was all gaped open,and tried to say he had is prostate checked recelty, I love it!
ahhh ha! ha! ha!
Yeah theres a whole lot of " homo thugs" out there
AOG
Yes, true story but I knew that happens to men much older. Men at 27 basicly do not have problems with their prostate. Another sign is hemmoroids.
The an*s is being used for ways it was never intended. Hemmoroids and rectal bleeding is another sign.
Nat Turner

United States

#12 Feb 24, 2008
Truth Be Known wrote:
Most men in general lie about sex. I met a guy who told me he had to be checked for prostate cancer...at the time he
close. There was a gap. I never had sex with him but I did tell him I knew he had had homosexual sex and don't lie to people about it. Most broke brothers are gay for pay.
Meaning they will do homosexual acts for money.
Then act like they are so straight. Another sign is when these men talk so bad about homosexuality, seriously that is a sign they are battling issues of their own Homosexuality. They are trying to throw people off. Of course many men calling the house, he says they are just "friends". Look for the voice and hand , body movements of their friends. Sometimes you can tell from them even if your own boyfriend is very closeted. Birds of a feather flock together.
There are other signs but that is a few I've noticed.
I thought you were a guy.

Since: Feb 08

Plymouth, UK

#13 Feb 24, 2008
Ric Ricland wrote:
A down-low brother is the lowest form of life there is. He has sex with men and woman and usually doesn't tell either about his bisexuality.
Real gays despise down-low brothers with good cause. A down-low brother will have sex with them then pass them on the street when he's with his woman and pretend he doesn't see them.
Women despise a down-low brother because he's not only two-timing them, but you never know what he's going to bring back into the bedroom.
So, smoking out a down-low brother is vitally important -- sometimes a matter of life and death.
An ex-girl friend shared with me how she does it.
Professional gamblers will tell you about a technique they use call "a tell." Simply put, it's observing how a card player reacts to good and bad hands to gauge his unknown hand.
A pro gambler will watch you for a few hands, maybe lose a few dollars in the process, then up the stakes once he's determined your "tell."
Most rookies have one: a guy gets a royal flush and his eyes light up or his eyebrows jump, or he starts talking in a excited voice. Each is a tell.
When my ex met a new guy she'd watch him very closely before having sex with him. She'd tell him a variety of stories to get his reactions.
For example: she'd tell him a story of how she once saw a guy get stabbed playing close attention to his eyes as she told the story.
Over time, after telling him a half dozen stories, she had all the data she needed to gauge when a story affected him on a personal level; that is, when it connected to his own experiences. Then she'd tell him this story:
While working as a security guard at the YMCA she'd notice many of the gay men had sphincter control problems. They'd get on the elevator and start jumping like they had to go real bad and all too often they went... right where they stood, crapping in the pants then running down the hall when the elevator door opened, a trail of steaming turds dropping onto the floor behind them.
Apparently, years of anal sex totally trashed their sphincter muscle.
Now, ladies, the trick is to pay close attention to your man's eyes why you tell him this anecdote.
If you've done you homework, you'll either see or not see his tell.
Happy Hunting...
ricland
Sounds like you are talking from experience
Truth Be Known

AOL

#14 Feb 24, 2008
No, I am a woman who have dated some horror stories in her life.

Another thing ladies is to TRUST YOUR INSTINCS.
I do not care how he explains things away, if you really feel he is not flying straight. Listen to that feeling because more times than not you will be right. The number one way the devil works is in deception. You will be lied too.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#15 Feb 24, 2008
Morrison73 wrote:
most straight men can tell within a few minutes if they are around some DL bros.. Straight bros obviously don't care about gay shyt or who is gay...but the gay ones are always trying to figure out who is gay and who isn't...when u know ur being tested by another brother...he's DL..
There are a few things to notice..
Eye Contact.
Acting manly.
the biggest jokesters sometimes.
trying to invite u over as if to engage in manly activities such as working out, seeing his pitbull, or even drugs/drinking.
By the car he drives.
always bringing up his girlfriend in convo..as if to validate his manhood.
Everything the brother says can go both ways...this is a test to see if if your a DL too.
Thanks for the signs from a male view.
Yes, inviting over for manly things...very deceptive.

Ric Ricland

“"Same as it ever was..."”

Since: Jan 07

Dayton, OH

#16 Feb 24, 2008
Truth Be Known wrote:
No, I am a woman who have dated some horror stories in her life.
Another thing ladies is to TRUST YOUR INSTINCS.
I do not care how he explains things away, if you really feel he is not flying straight. Listen to that feeling because more times than not you will be right. The number one way the devil works is in deception. You will be lied too.
You forgot to mention the part about the rabbit's foot and black cat bones.

I give you science and this one says, nah, superstition is better.

Go figure...

ricland

“Wishin' you were here”

Since: Mar 07

Caribou Bones

#17 Feb 24, 2008
There is absolutely no evidence that DL is a real phenomena.

Like most things we fear, the reality doesn't match up with the pop culture image. Sure there are bisexuals and some even behave in an irresponsible manner but there has never been a widespread epidemic of such irresponsible behaviour.

The notion of DL behaviour was an attempt to explain the higher rate of HIV infection in the black community but it has never been shown to be the case.

It is more likely that the vector that accounts for the higher rate of HIV infection is related to either the peculiar immune system of people of African descent or to the safe sex practices (or lack thereof) in the black community.

“I'm just one vote.”

Since: Sep 07

Washington, D.C.

#18 Feb 24, 2008
Wow, learn something new everyday on Topix. I understand a lot of gay men have these installed now because of lack of spincer muscles:

http://www.medicinenet.com/colostomy_a_patien...

If it is one thing I learned in my Navy Boot Camp sex-ed class was this: The "a nus" is an exit, not an entrance.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#19 Feb 24, 2008
Ric Ricland wrote:
<quoted text>
You forgot to mention the part about the rabbit's foot and black cat bones.
I give you science and this one says, nah, superstition is better.
Go figure...
ricland
What sciece did you give? You talk about card games. The only thing you said that made sense what the spincter muscle problems. Some older homosexuals will have to start wearing depends.
You also talk about a so called girlfriend telling you this information. Suspicious. You talk of do low brothers not speaking to their gay flings on the street. How would you know that? Suspicious.
Like I said the number one way the devil works is in deception. Are you talking from your own point of view? Most gays will never admit it and always pretend to be straight. That is another sign.
Truth Be Known

AOL

#20 Feb 24, 2008
Mr B wrote:
There is absolutely no evidence that DL is a real phenomena.
Like most things we fear, the reality doesn't match up with the pop culture image. Sure there are bisexuals and some even behave in an irresponsible manner but there has never been a widespread epidemic of such irresponsible behaviour.
The notion of DL behaviour was an attempt to explain the higher rate of HIV infection in the black community but it has never been shown to be the case.
It is more likely that the vector that accounts for the higher rate of HIV infection is related to either the peculiar immune system of people of African descent or to the safe sex practices (or lack thereof) in the black community.
Ah.. I beg to differ. There are closeted brothers.
There are also closeted men of other races too.
Truth be Known

“Wishin' you were here”

Since: Mar 07

Caribou Bones

#21 Feb 24, 2008
Truth Be Known wrote:
<quoted text>
Ah.. I beg to differ. There are closeted brothers.
There are also closeted men of other races too.
Truth be Known
Yes, I know there are some bad people and some of them are Bi. I was speaking only to the notion that it was widespread and endemic to the AA community as an explanation for the higher HIV rates in the AA community.

Since: Dec 07

United States

#22 Feb 24, 2008
Truth Be Known wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, true story but I knew that happens to men much older. Men at 27 basicly do not have problems with their prostate. Another sign is hemmoroids.
The an*s is being used for ways it was never intended. Hemmoroids and rectal bleeding is another sign.
Yeah doctors don't reccomend prostate exams to men under 50.

Also hemmoroids are not uncommon for staight males. Physical activitys such as sports, weight lighting ,and even from picking up a box the wrong way,ect can cause piles.

AoG

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