What exactly do YOU have to offer in ...

What exactly do YOU have to offer in a relationship?

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“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#1 Nov 23, 2008
There are many many post on Topix where some black men and black women are bashing other. Both claiming that neither are any good. There are even some that date exclusively outside of their race or even travel abroad to find a mate. But the real question is, what do you have to offer your mate. I have read many times what a person desires in a mate, and they become very angry with everyone when they dont find a person who meets their specifications or they get even madder when they find a person who does but they person just isnt interested in them. Ive never once read where anyone has said what exactly THEY have to offer their partner. I will start by posting what I have to offer my partner

- Trust
- Understanding
- In due time hopefully love
- The ability to know my place as a woman and his as a man
- Im able to tell him how I feel, I dont expect him to guess
- Respect
- Support
- Affection
Im sure that this thread wont get 500 plus post because its not created to demean a person or crush anyones self-esteem. I just want ppl to be aware that you although you want someone with alot to offer, make sure you can offer a great bit yourself

“Uncle Tom”

Since: Feb 07

Paterson, NJ

#2 Nov 23, 2008
Drama.if you like the unpredictable , untrustworthy guy. Holla at me. Lol

“Making My MoM Proud!!!”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#3 Nov 23, 2008
Actually that is a very good question.
I'm
- Excellent Listener
- Very Affectionate
- Not cheap
- Will be honest with you whether you like it or not.
- Mature enough to understand the rules of an argument.
- Can make PB&J sandwiches

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#4 Nov 23, 2008
Hey sis!Nice thread!Here's what I have to offer my partner:

-Respect
-Trust
-Honesty
-Complete and lifetime devotion to her
-The knowledge of our history
-Support
-Affection
-My Knowledge of our rich history
-My skills of Japanese that I can teach her if she's interested
-My skills of drawing and painting in MS paint if she's interested
-Entertainment using my cartoon character impersonations

...and more to name that comes to mind.;):)

“This was so much FUN!”

Since: Sep 08

Thomasville, GA

#5 Nov 23, 2008
Honesty
Loyalty
Encouragement
Support
Affection
Respect

Those things pretty much cover everything......because they branch out and are connected to everything in a relationship. Thats JMO though

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#6 Nov 23, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
Hey sis!Nice thread!Here's what I have to offer my partner:
-Respect
-Trust
-Honesty
-Complete and lifetime devotion to her
-The knowledge of our history
-Support
-Affection
-My Knowledge of our rich history
-My skills of Japanese that I can teach her if she's interested
-My skills of drawing and painting in MS paint if she's interested
-Entertainment using my cartoon character impersonations
...and more to name that comes to mind.;):)
you sound like a great guy MTG, whatever women gets you is going to be very lucky:)
bolly

Brooklyn, NY

#7 Nov 23, 2008
Hot sex.

“GET OUT OF YOUR DREAMS!”

Since: Nov 08

jersey native (new jerusalem)!

#8 Nov 23, 2008
Honesty
Respect
Wisdom
Security
Affection
Understanding
Patience
And Good D1&k
Freedom

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#9 Nov 23, 2008
bolly wrote:
Hot sex.
lol... is it hot clean, std-free sex?
bolly

Brooklyn, NY

#10 Nov 23, 2008
of course
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>lol... is it hot clean, std-free sex?

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#11 Nov 23, 2008
bolly wrote:
of course
<quoted text>
lol. ok then. thats the best kind

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#12 Nov 23, 2008
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>you sound like a great guy MTG, whatever women gets you is going to be very lucky:)
Aww, thanks GP!((HUGS))

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#13 Nov 23, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
<quoted text>
Aww, thanks GP!((HUGS))
mwah!!!

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

Norfolk, VA

#14 Nov 23, 2008
*Modern in style and flare but traditional/Biblical views of marital gender roles
*Domestic, great cook, I sew, garden, and keep a very clean comfortable home
*Business savvy
*Frugal with money
*Supportive
*Affectionate
*Love sex (just waiting for marriage)
*Understand the importance of keeping myself attractive to my man
*Feminine and lady like, but not afraid to get my hands dirty
*Loyal
*Honest
*Nurturing
*Understand how important respect is to a man
*Make a concerted effort to get to know his individual likes, dislikes, quirks and idiosyncrasies

Myers Briggs I am an INFP so....
http://www.personalitypage.com/INFP_rel.html
Very accurate, eerily accurate, LOL

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#15 Nov 23, 2008
Miss Sha wrote:
*Modern in style and flare but traditional/Biblical views of marital gender roles
*Domestic, great cook, I sew, garden, and keep a very clean comfortable home
*Business savvy
*Frugal with money
*Supportive
*Affectionate
*Love sex (just waiting for marriage)
*Understand the importance of keeping myself attractive to my man
*Feminine and lady like, but not afraid to get my hands dirty
*Loyal
*Honest
*Nurturing
*Understand how important respect is to a man
*Make a concerted effort to get to know his individual likes, dislikes, quirks and idiosyncrasies
Myers Briggs I am an INFP so....
http://www.personalitypage.com/INFP_rel.html
Very accurate, eerily accurate, LOL
you are going to make a great wife Miss Sha. You can adopt me as you daughter if would like. You love to cook and I love to eat.lol

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

Norfolk, VA

#16 Nov 23, 2008
Oh yeah, I can bring a man of ANY race home to my parents and they will welcome him with open arms.

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

Norfolk, VA

#17 Nov 23, 2008
GirlPower wrote:
<quoted text>you are going to make a great wife Miss Sha. You can adopt me as you daughter if would like. You love to cook and I love to eat.lol
Awww thank you, as will you!

I LOVE to cook for people. Especially my new daughter, her name is GirlPower.

:O)

“Learn to love yourself first!!”

Since: Oct 07

Georgia Peach

#18 Nov 23, 2008
Miss Sha wrote:
<quoted text>
Awww thank you, as will you!
I LOVE to cook for people. Especially my new daughter, her name is GirlPower.
:O)
he he he. that sounds like a celebrity couple child's name

“My future husband!”

Level 1

Since: Dec 07

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#19 Nov 23, 2008
Respect
Loyalty
Humor
Good sex
Honesty
Unconditional love
I gots ta trust him
Make him feel important
and always have his back

ermmm that's all I can think of.

“My future husband!”

Level 1

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#20 Nov 23, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
Hey sis!Nice thread!Here's what I have to offer my partner:
-Respect
-Trust
-Honesty
-Complete and lifetime devotion to her
-The knowledge of our history
-Support
-Affection
-My Knowledge of our rich history
-My skills of Japanese that I can teach her if she's interested
-My skills of drawing and painting in MS paint if she's interested
-Entertainment using my cartoon character impersonations
...and more to name that comes to mind.;):)
=o>
I like how you said "My Knowledge of our rich history". hehehe

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