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#520 Aug 11, 2012
FloridaGirlx wrote:
Sigh. This is what's wrong with the black community. I don't know any whites, Asians, Hispanics, native Americans, "loathe" and diss the women and men in their community.
Only black people....
This is exactly one of the reasons why we are the butt of all jokes. Get it together
I hate to disillusion you, but that's not the reason we've always been the butt of everyones jokes.
Other races think we look like monkeys... that's what most of the jokes are about.
They also get a big laugh out of black women wearing straight weaves, they think we look like apes in wigs.
Carol

Orem, UT

#521 Aug 11, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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I hate to disillusion you, but that's not the reason we've always been the butt of everyones jokes.
Other races think we look like monkeys... that's what most of the jokes are about.
They also get a big laugh out of black women wearing straight weaves, they think we look like apes in wigs.
Must be aziya posting now....how many pictures do you have in the ads

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#522 Aug 11, 2012
Carol wrote:
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Must be aziya posting now....how many pictures do you have in the ads
Don't get offended by the truth. Facing truth head on, makes us stronger.
Other races do laugh at us because they think we look like primates and they do think black women often look ridiculous in straight weaves.
Italian Gods

Slippery Rock, PA

#523 Aug 11, 2012
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>maceo
maceo
It appears that many Educated black women that I talk to these days are swearing off Black males in lieu of White men!
Social circle after social circle hardly any Black women want Black males these days. From the incarceration rates, IR dating, don't take care of their kids, Black men as a collective race of men are LOSERS!
I don't blame Black women for moving on. Many of us are forming groups to encourage black women to not date/marry or waste their time on black males who do nothing with their lives except take care race down.
Stop allowing lowly Black men in your life who uplift White women and other races while they put black women down !
These dumb black men will do for White man and his daughters but won't do for their own families which is foolish!
Lets Blackcott Black males in large numbers and let them know they don't have our Support!
Let their RACIST Black ASS stay with White women and don't allow them to come out way!
BLACK MAN BAILOUT 2012 BOYCOTT BLACK MEN TODAY!
I agree. " bro-mance" the black man's version of a white man's romance. It concists of beatings, constant
fighting, poverty and cheating. Drugs, jail and drive-by shootings.
Black women are smart to date anything but black men.

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Since: Jul 12

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#524 Aug 11, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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I hate to disillusion you, but that's not the reason we've always been the butt of everyones jokes.
Other races think we look like monkeys... that's what most of the jokes are about.
They also get a big laugh out of black women wearing straight weaves, they think we look like apes in wigs.
Obviously that's not the reason. I said it's one of the reasons and it most certainly is. If we're bringing each other down, it makes it easier for other races to. They think "even your men/women don't want you". These ridiculous assumptions about one another needs to stop.

I will never say I loathe black men. My father is black and he's the greatest dad in the world. My brother in law in black and he's every mothers dream son in law

“The voice of reason. ”

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Since: Aug 12

Winston Salem, NC

#525 Aug 11, 2012
Carol wrote:
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How conveniently deceitful.....
are you claiming that blk women didn't want the support of a man...when that baby was sick at night.... when the teen was acting up...
dishonestly like this.... makes me truly glad that the bridges have been burned with certain blk men....
the only men that blk women didn't want in their homes were abusive men.....
are you claiming that those blk men lived alone....
heck no...they were living from woman to woman being playas...
a REAL MAN wouldn't have left his family... he would have did whatever it took to keep that family together...
BM didn't start truly abandoning their blk families...
until they had white women (who came into the blk community breaking every sexual and social norm)..
s*cking and swallowing.... paying their way...keeping them the way men keep mistresses.
Please stop lying...no need to... there's no bond here...
I'm glad your type is gone.
LMAO.... excuse me for laughing at that melodramatic monologue. But
notice you did not refute my point? "I'm glad your type is gone." Oh I'm not gone. Not at all. I still date black women. I just avoid wenches like you with emotional baggage because some thug gave you a STD AND a child THEN left you. Like I said facts > conjecture.

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#526 Aug 11, 2012
Whew...

Ok. Deep breath.

Sadbuttrue, please find a loved one to help you manage your time better. Love you but you aren't helping.

Floridagirlx, you are right. We have some bad things going on in our hearts. But don't give up on us sista.

ISW_Reborn. You remind me of my little cousin. I don't mean "little" in a bad way. I hadn't met her until recently and she grew up in my old neighborhood. I noticed all she really had was her brother and they attacked each other nonstop. I felt like I should speak to her because she was my family. But when I told her to come over to talk to me I noticed she had a lot of distrust in her. She was uncomfortable sitting next to me. It made me feel like males in my family had done something to her. But she also had a lot of venom in her. Her mother died before she could remember her. But you remind me of her. I wish I could convey to you that we love you. But somehow I think you might see that as soft or not very macho or maybe not something "real" blacks don't say. Well I'm sorry for everything that we've done to you because no woman should feel the way you do towards men. It's not fair for you to not enjoy an undeniable love for your other half. That's the best I can do. Don't take that as anything but real. It's not a come on. I don't ever want to see you or meet you to take anything from you.

To both Carols... You got me all confused. I don't know who is who or what. Let's get new names or something. haha

Bigsmoke MrAnderson and Moorspeak... yes I feel that anger from them. I'm not trying to pretend. I get it. I seriously see your point of view. But we not getting any better by going in on them that way. You see one of us (Male or Female) has to step above the fray. It might as well be us if we are to be the protectors of our race. We can give in to the anger. I been in it with you. I know we don't like being disrespected by the ones we call our other half. I know it just doesn't make sense that white men "seem" to enjoy more respect from our women than we do sometimes for doing nothing but throwing hot coals on the fire that feeds our anger towards each other. But we got to pull in the bad feelings. Some young girl that isn't speaking up in this thread is learning from this. We not getting better by replying to what our women are saying to us in the same vile way. We both are saying we are hurting right? You got a point that it's not us alone that should be claiming responsibility. But we can't say it any way we like. Hey man I'm sorry if that came across disrespectful in anyway but this public (and private) hating got to stop.

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#527 Aug 11, 2012
Oh and Shalimar. No body thinks we look like apes. You can't believe they believe that BS. Some want us to repeat that back to each other. And we do. When we fight among each other we have been known to repeat what the world has said about our own race back to each other in the heat of an argument. And THAT is the only goal. It works. It sticks. Some of those people don't think we are smart. That's why they used those tactics. Because when we say it back to each other it becomes the ultimate knife in the back. It hurts because it seems real when even you own race believes it.

No need to even repeat that mess.

“>3 =O”

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Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#528 Aug 11, 2012
MrAnderson9 wrote:
Now keep in mind that this masculine, hateful and unladylike image that these women are displaying is the same image that they say black men are guilty of telling the world they had.
Sooo... It's more than obvious now that this is yet another lie that black women have told on black men in attempts to receive sympathy from other races of men and women.
Talking about selling out your own race and expected some kind good thing for yourself in return... lol.. how about 70% single and the least desired women by men of other races.
How about that for acting masculine,, bashing your own men... siding with racists to attack your families.. etc :)
Way to go sistas!
And oh yeah... I put down the "Pipe" at least every other day :) There's happy women that can attest to that.. And stalkers with their hidden innuendo's subconsciously telling me what they "really" want. ;)
I noticed you called them sisters, why claim people like that?
ms thang

Dallas, TX

#529 Aug 11, 2012
BW4WM wrote:
Yeah, with their big noses, dirty brown skin, nappy hair and big lips. black people need to go back to africa.
Not All dark skinned black men , some light skinned black men look the same.
ms thang

Dallas, TX

#530 Aug 11, 2012
not all dark skinned black men are ugly, just as not all light skinned black men are nice looking.

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#531 Aug 11, 2012
FloridaGirlx wrote:
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Obviously that's not the reason. I said it's one of the reasons and it most certainly is. If we're bringing each other down, it makes it easier for other races to. They think "even your men/women don't want you". These ridiculous assumptions about one another needs to stop.
I will never say I loathe black men. My father is black and he's the greatest dad in the world. My brother in law in black and he's every mothers dream son in law
Link me to any post other than the OP, where a BW says she loathes or hates all BM.

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#532 Aug 11, 2012
Eriq Barrington wrote:
Oh and Shalimar. No body thinks we look like apes. You can't believe they believe that BS. Some want us to repeat that back to each other. And we do. When we fight among each other we have been known to repeat what the world has said about our own race back to each other in the heat of an argument. And THAT is the only goal. It works. It sticks. Some of those people don't think we are smart. That's why they used those tactics. Because when we say it back to each other it becomes the ultimate knife in the back. It hurts because it seems real when even you own race believes it.
No need to even repeat that mess.
This is where arrogance makes you a fool.
You are a black person, you have NO IDEA what whites and other non blacks think of us.
Some of them DO think we look like primates.
I know it's true because I used to work in a kinter garten and I heard small white and asian children innocently saying black people on the TV looked like moneys.
These were 2 and 3 year olds! So that means they do, even if they are not racist, they do think we resemble apes!.
get over it, we can't change what other people think, denying it is pathetic, when you live in a western country among whites and you DO actually know what some of them think!

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#533 Aug 11, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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Link me to any post other than the OP, where a BW says she loathes or hates all BM.
This is what this whole topic is about. I've clicked through pages and pages of women claiming "black men are losers" and "boycott black men" and "amen sista those black men are no good"

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#534 Aug 11, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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This is where arrogance makes you a fool.
You are a black person, you have NO IDEA what whites and other non blacks think of us.
Some of them DO think we look like primates.
I know it's true because I used to work in a kinter garten and I heard small white and asian children innocently saying black people on the TV looked like moneys.
These were 2 and 3 year olds! So that means they do, even if they are not racist, they do think we resemble apes!.
get over it, we can't change what other people think, denying it is pathetic, when you live in a western country among whites and you DO actually know what some of them think!
Can't speak for Hispanics Asians and others, but I DO know what whites and Indians think of blacks.

Keyword: some

SOME of them think blacks look like apes. Other than reading topix posts, I've only met about 2 whites that think blacks look like monkeys. Now what I have met a lot of is black men claiming they can't stand and don't date black women and vice versa

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#535 Aug 11, 2012
FloridaGirlx wrote:
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This is what this whole topic is about. I've clicked through pages and pages of women claiming "black men are losers" and "boycott black men" and "amen sista those black men are no good"
Try to understand that posts and comments are aimed at the relevent people.
No one is saying ALL BM are losers. They are referring to the loser BM like Anti-Chaos and Moorspeaks, not the good BM like Iamcurious and Cogito:)
Bad comment are referring to bad people, not EVERYBODY in that race or gender :)
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#536 Aug 11, 2012
BOONS, whether male or female, are worthy of being loathed by humans.
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#537 Aug 11, 2012
Italian Gods wrote:
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I agree. " bro-mance" the black man's version of a white man's romance. It concists of beatings, constant
fighting, poverty and cheating. Drugs, jail and drive-by shootings.
Black women are smart to date anything but black men.
get out of here you stupid moron. what are italian men about. living their life as a mafia gangster. john gotti wanna be and calling black people moolies. get your racist, murdering dumb butt out of here. out of all the white people, italians are the most racist. don't come with this crap about italians are not white. because italians are white! YOU BIG RACIST!

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#538 Aug 11, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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This is where arrogance makes you a fool.
You are a black person, you have NO IDEA what whites and other non blacks think of us.
Some of them DO think we look like primates.
I know it's true because I used to work in a kinter garten and I heard small white and asian children innocently saying black people on the TV looked like moneys.
These were 2 and 3 year olds! So that means they do, even if they are not racist, they do think we resemble apes!.
get over it, we can't change what other people think, denying it is pathetic, when you live in a western country among whites and you DO actually know what some of them think!
Ok so I read arrogant. I hear you and I will accept my arrogance if it causes me to do or say something right. But I'm arrogant on things I feel I know intimately. The a girl I barely knew stood up in front my Humanities class and shared with us an experience when she was young. She said while wearing a very nice dress and walking down a sidewalk she was told she was just a monkey in a dress.

That girl later was found to be depressed. No one knew this until the local news reported she had driven her car into a telephone pole. The news reported it as a suicide.

Even if her death was unrelated I can tell you that girl looked nothing like a monkey. But she felt she did. She was hurt by those white men.

My point in saying they don't really believe what they spew out is that commonsense should tell you that's simply not true. You said kids at very young ages said similar things. What 3 year old even knows the difference between a monkey and a cow unless someone is teaching these things to them. Those kids are either learning these things directly or indirectly. And secondly these are kids! Who cares what they think. It's grown adults who have learned the difference between reality and make believe that I was talking about. I don't care to change them. I already know the end game in spreading such lies. It's to get one up one you and I. Tough luck doing that to someone who knows you know better. Now someone who thinks you don't know any better? That's someone you can get to. You see what I'm saying?

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#539 Aug 11, 2012
Also you said I'm a black person and I have no idea what whites think of me.

Let that marinate for a second.

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