Divorce rate for Black couples Higher...

Divorce rate for Black couples Higher then Whites.

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Just the facts

Chalfont, PA

#1 Mar 28, 2013
http://www.divorcesaloon.com/2010/09/17/black...

Divorce rate for Black couples at close to 70%!

The rate of marriage among American Blacks as compared to the rest of the population, and then the rate of divorce. Seems there is a lower marriage rate for Black couples, and a higher rate of divorce.

One needs to Keep in mind the Black population is only 12 percent.
Just the facts

Chalfont, PA

#2 Mar 28, 2013
http://www.divorcesaloon.com/2010/10/29/stati...

Statistics show that Black men/white women have a higher divorce rate than white men/black women – why is that?
bdcsr

Tempe, AZ

#3 Mar 28, 2013
Because most black women who date out call the shots and control the purse strings. Most responsible black men won't put up with that. Black women who marry out dominate the white men they marry. I have a college educated cousin who make 6 figures and looking for a black man on her fiancial level. I told her to get a white man because she is a "shot caller", and a black man on her financial level won't let her call the shots.
bdcsr

Tempe, AZ

#4 Mar 28, 2013
Most black women want their daughters to be "shot callers", but they'll never stand by and let another black women "hen peck" their sons(especially if he's successful).
Just the facts

Chalfont, PA

#5 Mar 29, 2013
bdcsr wrote:
Because most black women who date out call the shots and control the purse strings. Most responsible black men won't put up with that. Black women who marry out dominate the white men they marry. I have a college educated cousin who make 6 figures and looking for a black man on her fiancial level. I told her to get a white man because she is a "shot caller", and a black man on her financial level won't let her call the shots.
"Black women who marry out dominate the white men they marry"

WRONG !!! YOU HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT THAT AT ALL. YOUR SJUST SAYING SO.

"Purse strings" "Black men won't put up with that"

MOST BLACK WOMEN FROM WHAT I SEE HAVE MORE CONTROL OF THE CASH BECAUSE THIRE THE ONE THAT BRINGS THE BACON HOME.

"Financial level won't let her call the shots"

YOUR RIGHT!!!! MOST MEN BLACK OR WHITE THAT ARE ON THE SAME "FINANCIAL LEVEL' WITH THIER WIFE WANT TO BE (both) IN CONTROL.

EDUCATION IS WHAT PLAYS A BIG PART IN "WHO IS IN CONTROL" AND IN MOST CASES THE BLACK FEMALES ARE THE ONE'S THAT SHOULD HAVE CONTROL.

OK back to the Topix ...

"Divorce rate for Black couples Higher then Whites"

Why are Black Couples Divorce Rate Higher ?
bdcsr

Tempe, AZ

#6 Mar 29, 2013
Just the facts
Get a white man, because no responsible black man would any women call shots. Black mothers won't allow it. Right or wrong is an opinion. I'm just giving you a simple solution. Black women are losing any feminine qualities they have left. Get a weak ass white man you can control and you'll be happy. I really don't care what black women do, and the truth is most black men don't care either.
bdcsr

Tempe, AZ

#7 Mar 29, 2013
I really trying to deal with black women without hating them like a lot of decent black men are starting to do.
bdcsr

Tempe, AZ

#9 Mar 29, 2013
Bronze5 is right, worry about getting married first and you'll find out.

“No Substitute For The Truth”

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Since: Jan 10

United States

#10 Mar 29, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
Fake...divorce rate can't be higher because 70% of black women are single
LOL Exactly. Plus America has the highest divorce rates followed by other European countries.
Hoopla

Oakdale, CA

#11 Jul 6, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
Fake...divorce rate can't be higher because 70% of black women are single
Rate not quantity, learn the difference.

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

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Since: Jan 08

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#12 Jul 6, 2013
Why is this hard to believe? Few years ago I read that the first-time divorce rate for BM/BW marriages was 66%!
Ced15

Miami, FL

#13 Jul 16, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
Fake...divorce rate can't be higher because 70% of black women are single
The sample is not the black population, but black couples.

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#14 Jul 16, 2013
Black couples need to get it together. thats crazy
dee

New York, NY

#15 Aug 25, 2013
Black females in this country, for many social/historical reasons, find it difficult to be submissive to any man, for some reason they find it demeaning and insulting to take a second level position and allow the man to be the head of the relationship, black men, who struggle in this society to be recognized as men, due to the underlining racist elements in America, will not relinguish their standing in that relationship. where they feel they should be recognised as a man. Black female can more often than not, dominate a white man, or are more willing be submissive to him, based solely on the fact that he is white, which is reminisent of the slavegirl/slavemaster mentality.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#18 Aug 25, 2013
Are these blacks living in a vacuum? No. These black relationships are trying to survive in a hostile environment.

The influences on these relationships vary. People have a set belief in their minds about what Black couples should lack. As soon as "some" black or white see a healthy black couple, growing in a powerful way people begin trying to undermine their relationship.

When a white person gets into a good relationship folks stare in awe.
BM Moving ON

Toronto, Canada

#19 Aug 25, 2013
Yeah, we know that when a BW somehow convinces a WM to marry her, she does anything possible to maintain the marriage. She lets the WM get away with everything. To the point that BW are now calling into radio shows complaining that their White husbands call them the N-word or allow their friends to speak to them in that manner.
Naima

UK

#20 Aug 25, 2013
BM Moving ON wrote:
Yeah, we know that when a BW somehow convinces a WM to marry her, she does anything possible to maintain the marriage. She lets the WM get away with everything. To the point that BW are now calling into radio shows complaining that their White husbands call them the N-word or allow their friends to speak to them in that manner.
Two of my best friends are married and the other engaged to non bm and they get on famously that's why they have solid relationships, Bw enjoy being with men who are providers it makes them feel all warm inside.

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#21 Aug 25, 2013
Just the facts wrote:
http://www.divorcesaloon.com/2 010/09/17/black-couples-divorc e-why-is-the-divorce-rate-for- blacks-so-high-in-the-u-s/
Divorce rate for Black couples at close to 70%!
The rate of marriage among American Blacks as compared to the rest of the population, and then the rate of divorce. Seems there is a lower marriage rate for Black couples, and a higher rate of divorce.
One needs to Keep in mind the Black population is only 12 percent.
Seems that would only matter to wedding planners,counselors,divorce lawyers,etc. since they would benefit from it.
Personal I don't care what people do.
dee

New York, NY

#22 Aug 27, 2013
self esteem,(or the lack of it), also plays a significant role in the disfunctional relationships between bm/bw. Bw have been bombarbed in american society with a glamerization of the european culture and look, in a attempt to devalue african beauty. Black women have fallen for this shell game and invest in buying hair from europeans and having fake nails done by koreans in order to fit more or less into the "mainstream". As a black person (male or female), when you fail to admire what you see when you look in the mirror, you fail to admire anyone who looks like you, and connect with that. which you feel will enhance your self worth (namely a white man). BW need to learn to love themselves again, like they did once during the black power movement, instead of looking for validation from outside sources. Love yourself first.
Cjm

Cedar Rapids, IA

#23 Sep 12, 2013
bdcsr wrote:
I really trying to deal with black women without hating them like a lot of decent black men are starting to do.
. Just what we need, another hateful Blackman making his own insecure that's why a lot of women are dating out their race now to find someone confident enough not only to love them but their self as well, shame shame.

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