Women should learn to SHUT UP!

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Since: Aug 14

La Vergne, TN

#1 Aug 20, 2014
GROUNDBREAKING ADVICE:
1) Stop nagging your man to do more when he's already trying his hardest
(nothing worse than wanting to fall into your woman's arms for compassion and love and she's nagging about frivolous things)
2) If he isn't trying to be his best... Leave him
(because he probably doesn't care about him so how the hell is he going to care about you)
3) Appreciate a man for being a man (It's hard to be a man!)
Don't let the post fool you. I am a black woman and I often find that 9 times out of 10 when my friends are complaining about their men it's silly and it can be resolved with 1 or, if not, all 3 of these bullet points. I'm just trying to reduce divorce rates :)
Ugh

Houston, TX

#2 Aug 20, 2014
NikkoGirl wrote:
GROUNDBREAKING ADVICE:
1) Stop nagging your man to do more when he's already trying his hardest
(nothing worse than wanting to fall into your woman's arms for compassion and love and she's nagging about frivolous things)
2) If he isn't trying to be his best... Leave him
(because he probably doesn't care about him so how the hell is he going to care about you)
3) Appreciate a man for being a man (It's hard to be a man!)
Don't let the post fool you. I am a black woman and I often find that 9 times out of 10 when my friends are complaining about their men it's silly and it can be resolved with 1 or, if not, all 3 of these bullet points. I'm just trying to reduce divorce rates :)
You spoke a bold truth, young lady. I had a debate just a couple days ago with a BW who is in college and don't date BM, and she felt once she get a college education, a BM not suppose to apply to her anymore......as if she "have to" to date a White Man, now. And there's no other way around it. Sick.

I explained how couples should start off with nothing and build together. The experience strengthens the relationship in the long run. She told me BW shouldn't have to want to struggle with a BM and building up together in the right way.

However, if its a White Man starting at the bottom the same, exact way as the Black Man then, it's okay for a sister coming out of college and starting together with a WM, to build up together.

I had to scratch my had and wonder if such BW really believe that self-hating b.s.

“Sleep is My Sanctuary”

Since: Mar 14

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#3 Aug 21, 2014
Ugh wrote:
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You spoke a bold truth, young lady. I had a debate just a couple days ago with a BW who is in college and don't date BM, and she felt once she get a college education, a BM not suppose to apply to her anymore......as if she "have to" to date a White Man, now. And there's no other way around it. Sick.
I explained how couples should start off with nothing and build together. The experience strengthens the relationship in the long run. She told me BW shouldn't have to want to struggle with a BM and building up together in the right way.
However, if its a White Man starting at the bottom the same, exact way as the Black Man then, it's okay for a sister coming out of college and starting together with a WM, to build up together.
I had to scratch my had and wonder if such BW really believe that self-hating b.s.
Please tell me you're not still talking about Ashleigh.
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Since: Mar 13

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#4 Aug 21, 2014
NikkoGirl wrote:
GROUNDBREAKING ADVICE:
1) Stop nagging your man to do more when he's already trying his hardest
(nothing worse than wanting to fall into your woman's arms for compassion and love and she's nagging about frivolous things)
2) If he isn't trying to be his best... Leave him
(because he probably doesn't care about him so how the hell is he going to care about you)
3) Appreciate a man for being a man (It's hard to be a man!)
Don't let the post fool you. I am a black woman and I often find that 9 times out of 10 when my friends are complaining about their men it's silly and it can be resolved with 1 or, if not, all 3 of these bullet points. I'm just trying to reduce divorce rates :)
Well said, and I appreciate it!
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Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#5 Aug 21, 2014
Ugh wrote:
<quoted text>
You spoke a bold truth, young lady. I had a debate just a couple days ago with a BW who is in college and don't date BM, and she felt once she get a college education, a BM not suppose to apply to her anymore......as if she "have to" to date a White Man, now. And there's no other way around it. Sick.
I explained how couples should start off with nothing and build together. The experience strengthens the relationship in the long run. She told me BW shouldn't have to want to struggle with a BM and building up together in the right way.
However, if its a White Man starting at the bottom the same, exact way as the Black Man then, it's okay for a sister coming out of college and starting together with a WM, to build up together.
I had to scratch my had and wonder if such BW really believe that self-hating b.s.
A black woman will get a whiteboy out of the gutter before she gets a brother with an education!

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

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#6 Aug 21, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text>A black woman will get a whiteboy out of the gutter before she gets a brother with an education!
Immoral women will be with immoral men.
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Since: Mar 13

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#7 Aug 21, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Immoral women will be with immoral men.
The black woman and the whiteboy in the gutter both can still have morals!

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

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#8 Aug 21, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text>The black woman and the whiteboy in the gutter both can still have morals!
If they are both in the gutter, how's that possible?
puppetspotter

Los Angeles, CA

#9 Aug 21, 2014
NikkoGirl wrote:
Don't let the post fool you. I am a black woman
We're not fooled. You're obviously some woman-hating phag like Ugh who thinks by trolling he'll convince stupid people (blacks) to buy into this insecure line of crap.

If you treat a woman RIGHT, there will be no wars. If you treat her like a rap video ho, she'll be a rap video ho.

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