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Why Do Black Men Treat Nonblack Women BETTER In Relationships?

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The Moor

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STILL THE SAME wrote:
How is that a black men is quick to cheat on a black woman who is attrative, successful, faithful, cooks, clean and treats her man well. But a black man is so quick to stick with a nonblack chick, and not even cheat on her. I see black man do things for nonblack women that they would't even do for a black man. I know sooo many black men who are faithful to their nonblack women. But these are the same black men that mistreated their black women.
I don't understand.
For example look @ Reggie Bush and Kim Kardashian
Reggie Bush a successful black man who makes millions and is very attrative. Can have almost any girl in the world..but he descides to settle for the less. Kim Kardashian. A chick with a sex tape...who seeks attention 24/7, blogs about their personal life all day, with him for the fame. He knows it. He even has been faithful to her.
So why are these black men so quick to treat a nonblack women sooooo good...but don't do the same for a black women?
MAYBE BECAUSE OTHER WOMEN TREAT BLACK MEN BETTER THAN BLACK WOMEN!

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Nov 10, 2009
 
The Moor wrote:
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RIGHT...BECAUSE NO MAN CAN BE FAITHFUL RIGHT?...COME ON CS...STOP IT WITH THE ASSUMPTIONS....I HAVE HAD PLENTY OF WOMEN ALL IN MY FACE....AND READY,WILLING AND ABLE AND I HAVE TURNED DOWN PLENTY OF FINE LOOKING TAIL...EVERYTHING THAT LOOKS GOOD IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU...AND WHEN YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT IS WORTHWHILE YOU HAVE TO PROTECT IT....
WE ARE NOT ALL LEAD BY OUR LITTLE HEADS!
I'm not a naive woman so yes most men do cheat. Thats a fact and its no point denying it. Maybe not all but most. A man can turn ass down and still cheat other times. Especially a young, rich, professional athlete. Ofcourse he cheats. Now if we look at say an old celebrity man that has already cheated all his life and is now worn out and tired like Bill Cosby, he is probably faithful since he has already done it so much but Reggee Bush, please. I guess Kobe is faithful too, LMAO. Not saying men are whore mongers but average joes cheat so you can imagine what rich celebrities do. I can't believe your a dude denying this. Had you been a female I would understand because I realize she really doesn't know men. Men in this society at least.

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The Moor wrote:
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MAYBE BECAUSE OTHER WOMEN TREAT BLACK MEN BETTER THAN BLACK WOMEN!


Maybe he's a RACIST!

“What is wrong with Black Men? ”

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Nov 10, 2009
 
Conscience Sister wrote:
<quoted text>I'm not a naive woman so yes most men do cheat. Thats a fact and its no point denying it. Maybe not all but most. A man can turn ass down and still cheat other times. Especially a young, rich, professional athlete. Ofcourse he cheats. Now if we look at say an old celebrity man that has already cheated all his life and is now worn out and tired like Bill Cosby, he is probably faithful since he has already done it so much but Reggee Bush, please. I guess Kobe is faithful too, LMAO. Not saying men are whore mongers but average joes cheat so you can imagine what rich celebrities do. I can't believe your a dude denying this. Had you been a female I would understand because I realize she really doesn't know men. Men in this society at least.
Thats why I tell women to get a man with "money" or a "Stable income" otherwise, there's no sense in "parking with him"or giving him your time. If things go sour, you can get compensated for your time, seek support for your children.

Its unfortunate, but many Blk men cheat often, bring very litle to the table. For some reasons, many refuse to take care of their women and children; so is it worth the investment?

Blk women drop into proverty taking care of children alone. Brothers just don't care and rarely do they help out.

At one time, i didnt feel that way but with Blk men doing so much, wrong to women; you need to look at the stats, check out his family before getting involved in order to protect themselves.

I can see why so many Sistters are taking about bailing out on Brothers! Then they call you nasty names after you gave them a chance and they ruin women's lives.

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Nov 10, 2009
 
STILL THE SAME wrote:
How is that a black men is quick to cheat on a black woman who is attrative, successful, faithful, cooks, clean and treats her man well. But a black man is so quick to stick with a nonblack chick, and not even cheat on her. I see black man do things for nonblack women that they would't even do for a black man. I know sooo many black men who are faithful to their nonblack women. But these are the same black men that mistreated their black women.
I don't understand.
For example look @ Reggie Bush and Kim Kardashian
Reggie Bush a successful black man who makes millions and is very attrative. Can have almost any girl in the world..but he descides to settle for the less. Kim Kardashian. A chick with a sex tape...who seeks attention 24/7, blogs about their personal life all day, with him for the fame. He knows it. He even has been faithful to her.
So why are these black men so quick to treat a nonblack women sooooo good...but don't do the same for a black women?
Black men collectively "DeValue" Black women and children and feel other races have more value.

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Nov 12, 2009
 
all of this makes me want to cry.
The Moor

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That's bullshit...not all black men behave in this retarded manner...nor all black women!

*some of us have been raised to know better than this silly sht!
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Maybe he's a RACIST!
You have issues of inferiority!

All black men do not do this...nor all black women...this is yet another generalization that has been excepted as a fact!

*as much as you want to believe this and every other thing that is negative about black men....this is simply not true...of all black men or women!
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Nov 12, 2009
 
atalanta wrote:
all of this makes me want to cry.
Don't cry, it's not true.

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The Moor wrote:
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You have issues of inferiority!
All black men do not do this...nor all black women...this is yet another generalization that has been excepted as a fact!
*as much as you want to believe this and every other thing that is negative about black men....this is simply not true...of all black men or women!
Yes, Blk men don't do anything for Blk women and children the stats dont lie and what we see around us.

Take your BS elsewhere! There are very few committed Blk men and you know it. Otherwise, the Blk community wouldn't be in shambles if men were committed but there NOT!

Saying most Blk men are committed makes you a liar!

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<quoted text>I'm not a naive woman so yes most men do cheat. Thats a fact and its no point denying it. Maybe not all but most. A man can turn ass down and still cheat other times. Especially a young, rich, professional athlete. Ofcourse he cheats. Now if we look at say an old celebrity man that has already cheated all his life and is now worn out and tired like Bill Cosby, he is probably faithful since he has already done it so much but Reggee Bush, please. I guess Kobe is faithful too, LMAO. Not saying men are whore mongers but average joes cheat so you can imagine what rich celebrities do. I can't believe your a dude denying this. Had you been a female I would understand because I realize she really doesn't know men. Men in this society at least.
Since women have this knowledge that most men cheat why not get something if you invest time in them?

Why would I date or invest in a Broke Blk man knowing good and well he'll cheat and run off? I seen that happen in most cases, so I refuse to invest in Brothers their not committed to anybody especally their women and children so you have to get something out of the relationship.

I use to not feel that way but I do now, based on what ive seen in MOST men especially Brothers. For some reason, Blk men love using Sisters not doing or for them or being cheap calling us "Gold Diggers" yet their the biggest Opportunistic men out there.

Blk men are the only race of men who live off their women and children and dont bring much to the table. Racism exists but many don't even try, its more like a "lifestyle" for many Brothers
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The Moor wrote:
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You have issues of inferiority!
All black men do not do this...nor all black women...this is yet another generalization that has been excepted as a fact!
*as much as you want to believe this and every other thing that is negative about black men....this is simply not true...of all black men or women!
But you can claim this:
MAYBE BECAUSE OTHER WOMEN TREAT BLACK MEN BETTER THAN BLACK WOMEN!
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<quoted text>Since women have this knowledge that most men cheat why not get something if you invest time in them?
Why would I date or invest in a Broke Blk man knowing good and well he'll cheat and run off? I seen that happen in most cases, so I refuse to invest in Brothers their not committed to anybody especally their women and children so you have to get something out of the relationship.
I use to not feel that way but I do now, based on what ive seen in MOST men especially Brothers. For some reason, Blk men love using Sisters not doing or for them or being cheap calling us "Gold Diggers" yet their the biggest Opportunistic men out there.
Blk men are the only race of men who live off their women and children and dont bring much to the table. Racism exists but many don't even try, its more like a "lifestyle" for many Brothers
You have to look at the quality of the sister. One who can do better in men will and the ones who can't will put up with broke black men.
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coz there tossers

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Nov 13, 2009
 
who's to say they treat them better. i have nothing against IR relationships, but i know some people do put their non black partners on a pedestal, or have escapist attitudes which is wrong.

i honestly dont think black men treat these women any better, because i see white women alone with mixed kids just like i see black ones, i see them being left too, by all races of men just like we are.

now I dont know Kim and Reggie, but if they are happy then why not. If thats the kind of woman he wants, then i guess thats the kind of woman he's got. Yeah she was a bit trashy in the day but may be shes settling down. I have learned dthat there is no point in asking anymore.
in the meantime we have to live our lives and manifest our own destinies.

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BW 4 WM wrote:
<quoted text>You have to look at the quality of the sister. One who can do better in men will and the ones who can't will put up with broke black men.
The quality and quantity are not available in blk males.

I see alot of top notch Sisters alone not willing to risk their livelyhood on high risk men.

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The Moor wrote:
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You have issues of inferiority!
All black men do not do this...nor all black women...this is yet another generalization that has been excepted as a fact!
*as much as you want to believe this and every other thing that is negative about black men....this is simply not true...of all black men or women!
Like I said Moor, you got on these forums bragging about your affair with a White women now deal with the fact that some Sisters are moving on and dating/marrying White men!

Double standards don't apply; I refuse to overlook behaviors that are in the 80% negative range, thats would effect me thats crazy and not using "Common sense"!

If you date a Brother with stats that high, you bound to get "hit" by a couple of them.

For me; its not worth it!
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Like I said Moor, you got on these forums bragging about your affair with a White women now deal with the fact that some Sisters are moving on and dating/marrying White men!
Double standards don't apply; I refuse to overlook behaviors that are in the 80% negative range, thats would effect me thats crazy and not using "Common sense"!
If you date a Brother with stats that high, you bound to get "hit" by a couple of them.
For me; its not worth it!
Who cares what's worth it for you Norman?

You were supposed to have gotten married over a year ago, but your white knight seems to have done the right thing. Even HE knew you are a mess and dumped you. Now you have this made up story that you looking for someone with more money.

You're hilarious!
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Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Since women have this knowledge that most men cheat why not get something if you invest time in them?
Why would I date or invest in a Broke Blk man knowing good and well he'll cheat and run off? I seen that happen in most cases, so I refuse to invest in Brothers their not committed to anybody especally their women and children so you have to get something out of the relationship.
I use to not feel that way but I do now, based on what ive seen in MOST men especially Brothers. For some reason, Blk men love using Sisters not doing or for them or being cheap calling us "Gold Diggers" yet their the biggest Opportunistic men out there.
Blk men are the only race of men who live off their women and children and dont bring much to the table. Racism exists but many don't even try, its more like a "lifestyle" for many Brothers
I have a question here.

-Did you see it, or did you read about it?

Since you don't know many black people, and certainly not many black men, as you have confirmed yourself.

And how come; if you're that great and awesome, you divorced from that white man. After, I believe eight years of marriage? While you daughter is "about 20 years old"?
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<quoted text>You have to look at the quality of the sister. One who can do better in men will and the ones who can't will put up with broke black men.
And you are full of lies.

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