Black Women, which men do you prefer?

[The Moor]

Vega wrote:

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If I met a really good, decent black man then I would be terribly surprised. But once my shock was over I would try to introduce him to my friend S because she is a die-hard bm-lover who have put up with all kinds of crap trying to be with bm. She as been physically, mentally abused, lied to cheated on, money ripped off by black man after black man and eventhough she is in her forties now she is still waiting for her black Kang! It only took me one bad relationship and dating a few other black men to realize that 75% of black men are fked up and not fit for relationships with women.

Okay..and I have a best friend who met a woman with a child....the father was in jail...she was trying to get an education...he was working on his MBA...they met and got into each other....they got closer...he fell in love with her....because while they were dating she was a complete angel...his dream come true....the no good father came back...she started fooling around with this loser again...behind my friends back...this guy ened up going back to jail...same stupid shid...my friend asked her to marry him...she did...we all hoped that it would all end in "they lived happily ever after"....she gets pregnant...we are all happy....

But she seems moody about the whole thing...turns out it is not even his baby...it's some other guys...some thug/loser that she met God knows where!

They get a divorce...she starts telling everyone that it's his baby and that he hit her while they were married...then later admits to making it all up...he is so pissed and so hurt that he has to take some time off from his job....then he finds out that she has filed for child support for both children...neither of which are even his....and he had to pay for three years...before she finally drops the case...but he still does what he can for them both...because as he put it...bruh I'm all that they have....she's crazy as hell!

And he keeps saying "I want a sistah like that one you married that's what I need"...

He still wont give up on black women,doesn't bash all black women...even when frustrated by them sometimes...and has turned down white and Hispanic women for long term relationships...hell he has taken to online dating to meet black women!

This black man is educated,highly intelligent,decent looking,generous and cultured...but there are no good black men out there?

[Vega]

jupiter wrote:

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Have you ever thought of getting counselling? you have alot of pent up anger and hatered. let it go because you will not find love that way, trust me- get the help you need!!!

Don't already have a love and he is great. Maybe you seek out someone to help you, make believe psychologist.

[Checkered Chick]

The Moor wrote:

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Okay..and I have a best friend who met a woman with a child....the father was in jail...she was trying to get an education...he was working on his MBA...they met and got into each other....they got closer...he fell in love with her....because while they were dating she was a complete angel...his dream come true....the no good father came back...she started fooling around with this loser again...behind my friends back...this guy ened up going back to jail...same stupid shid...my friend asked her to marry him...she did...we all hoped that it would all end in "they lived happily ever after"....she gets pregnant...we are all happy....
But she seems moody about the whole thing...turns out it is not even his baby...it's some other guys...some thug/loser that she met God knows where!
They get a divorce...she starts telling everyone that it's his baby and that he hit her while they were married...then later admits to making it all up...he is so pissed and so hurt that he has to take some time off from his job....then he finds out that she has filed for child support for both children...neither of which are even his....and he had to pay for three years...before she finally drops the case...but he still does what he can for them both...because as he put it...bruh I'm all that they have....she's crazy as hell!
And he keeps saying "I want a sistah like that one you married that's what I need"...
He still wont give up on black women,doesn't bash all black women...even when frustrated by them sometimes...and has turned down white and Hispanic women for long term relationships...hell he has taken to online dating to meet black women!
This black man is educated,highly intelligent,decent looking,generous and cultured...but there are no good black men out there?

see that's where logic clashed coz the way he is limited in his views about same-race dating he might miss his chance, this goes for sistas too who only look for a brotha. love sees no color and happiness is not necessarily in our own hood

[istherehope4]

Checkered Chick wrote:

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see that's where logic clashed coz the way he is limited in his views about same-race dating he might miss his chance, this goes for sistas too who only look for a brotha. love sees no color and happiness is not necessarily in our own hood

lol, maybe he thinks dating a non black woman is settling for some one he doesnt want. You see their is a spark that black men and women get with eachother that is irreplaceable. I know their are many black people that settled for non black partners and dont feel fulfilled. I heard a story from a black guy where this black woman who was married to a white guy when he moved into the neighbor hood would be really mad at him for no reason and he came to find out it was because she saw him and his wife. So basically she was mad because she couldnt find a brotha like him. You see when you settle a part of you will always feel unfulfilled.

[AngelWitch]

The Moor wrote:

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The thing is...white males have had much attitude ini secret about the fact that most black women will not date them...their egos...have been bruised for so long about this...because they had convinced all other women to date/mate with them....but they had to take black women by force...most of them...and they have always hated this fact...that is why they are so very pro IR now...and of course they have always hated black men!

You are the first person to get mad when someone makes absurd general statements about blacks.But you find it mighty proper to make your own absurd statements about white males...lol.First of all most white males are not into dating/wanting black females.Most are not pro Ir either.Also bascially its your brothers who think that all females have the hots for them.And than get ultra touchy when they are being turned down.Granted not all black males are like that,but many are.And most white males do not hate black males.lolso do not flatter yourself as if you are such a object of desire..

[Checkered Chick]

istherehope4 wrote:

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lol, maybe he thinks dating a non black woman is settling for some one he doesnt want. You see their is a spark that black men and women get with eachother that is irreplaceable. I know their are many black people that settled for non black partners and dont feel fulfilled. I heard a story from a black guy where this black woman who was married to a white guy when he moved into the neighbor hood would be really mad at him for no reason and he came to find out it was because she saw him and his wife. So basically she was mad because she couldnt find a brotha like him. You see when you settle a part of you will always feel unfulfilled.

mmm i will have to think that over. it hasnt been the case for the 4 immediate bw/wm couples in my friend circle. i really believe it is quite individual

[AngelWitch]

Fxybrwn20 wrote:

Yeah I definately know that it's whites voting themselves it just shows how insecure they are with themselves newsflash not everyone wants white people. I don't believe any of these polls it's been tainted by non blacks there was one poll that said which race wouldn't you sleep with number 1 was blacks now why would black people pick themselves. Every negative poll were number 1 on our own forum and whites are number 1 in positive forums it doesn't make sense but this is like the real world people of color always have something taking away whether land, freedom, and rights but we will prevail in the end

Cut the drama out this 2009.When was the last time you where whipped?had your home taken away from you?Picked cotton out in the fields?Are had your children removed?Or told you had to get on the back of a bus?And when was the last time your land was stolen from you?Pervail!lol What a jole.All that happend to your very worthy forefathers.What happens to you today is mere champ change.The forefathers are the ones who suffered and endured.And all you can do is play professional victim.I do not feel sorry for you at all weeping Willow.

[jupiter]

The Moor wrote:

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Okay..and I have a best friend who met a woman with a child....the father was in jail...she was trying to get an education...he was working on his MBA...they met and got into each other....they got closer...he fell in love with her....because while they were dating she was a complete angel...his dream come true....the no good father came back...she started fooling around with this loser again...behind my friends back...this guy ened up going back to jail...same stupid shid...my friend asked her to marry him...she did...we all hoped that it would all end in "they lived happily ever after"....she gets pregnant...we are all happy....
But she seems moody about the whole thing...turns out it is not even his baby...it's some other guys...some thug/loser that she met God knows where!
They get a divorce...she starts telling everyone that it's his baby and that he hit her while they were married...then later admits to making it all up...he is so pissed and so hurt that he has to take some time off from his job....then he finds out that she has filed for child support for both children...neither of which are even his....and he had to pay for three years...before she finally drops the case...but he still does what he can for them both...because as he put it...bruh I'm all that they have....she's crazy as hell!
And he keeps saying "I want a sistah like that one you married that's what I need"...
He still wont give up on black women,doesn't bash all black women...even when frustrated by them sometimes...and has turned down white and Hispanic women for long term relationships...hell he has taken to online dating to meet black women!
This black man is educated,highly intelligent,decent looking,generous and cultured...but there are no good black men out there?

hey, you should introduce him to my friend.

[The Moor]

Checkered Chick wrote:

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see that's where logic clashed coz the way he is limited in his views about same-race dating he might miss his chance, this goes for sistas too who only look for a brotha. love sees no color and happiness is not necessarily in our own hood

noooo.....he simply has to make better choices....he is not even into other women or he would have been with one of them by now!

*But you wouldn't understand...you just want to date around with every and anything that you can....but we aren't all like that!

[a Sister]

jupiter wrote:

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What do you put on your head when you go to bed??

My White Boy Friends Balls .

[The Moor]

AngelWitch wrote:

<quoted text>You are the first person to get mad when someone makes absurd general statements about blacks.But you find it mighty proper to make your own absurd statements about white males...lol.First of all most white males are not into dating/wanting black females.Most are not pro Ir either.Also bascially its your brothers who think that all females have the hots for them.And than get ultra touchy when they are being turned down.Granted not all black males are like that,but many are.And most white males do not hate black males.lolso do not flatter yourself as if you are such a object of desire..

Wrong...first of all I never said all white males anything...now did I....no not at all!

next of all...white males have always wanted access to all women on the planet...that is a historic fact...and yes some of them have been/are interested in black women...why the hell do you think that IR is auch a big issue now...look at the ads on Topix alone nucklehead....DO YOU HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT MOST BLACK WOMEN WANT WHITE MALES....THEY DON'T...AND THEY NEVER HAVE...THEY ARE AMONG THE LAST GROUP OF WOMEN IF NOT THEE LAST TO WANT TO DATE WHITE MALES...AND EVEN SOME OF THE ONES THAT CLAIM THAT THEY LOVE WHITE MEN SO MUCH...ARE JUST ANGRY AT THE BLACK MEN IN THEIR PERSONAL LIVES...IF THE RIGHT BLACK MAN CAME ALONG...THEY WOULD BE WITH IT!

LASTLY....NOT ALL BLACK MEN WALK AROUND THINKING THAT EVERYONE WANTS THEM...THAT IS YOUR WHITE MALE INSECURITY...."WHICH IS A REAL ISSUES"...BECAUSE WHITE MALES HAVE FOR THE LONGEST TIME FELT THAT THEY COULD NOT COMPETE WITH BLACK MALES IN THIS AREA...IT HAS ACTUALLY THEIR OWN FEARS AND INSECURITIES THAT ARE THE REAL ISSUE...

BUT NO WE DON'T ALL WALK AROUND THINKING THIS...THAT IS A BIG ASS ASSUMPTION....WE DON'T CONSIDER OURSELVES TO BE THE END ALL BE ALL LIKE MANY WHITE GUYS...NOR THE STANDARD OF MALE BEAUTY IN THIS COUNTRY...THAT WOULD BE WHITE MALES!

*NOW AS AN INDIVIDUAL I HAVE ALWAYS DONE VERY WELL WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX...BUT I AM AN INDIVIDUAL...AND OTHER DIFFERENT TYPES OF GUYS COULD SAY THE SAME THING...BUT I CERTAINLY DON'T THINK THAT ALL WOMEN WANT ME...THAT IS RIDICULOUS!

THERE IS NO SUCH GUY...OR GROUP OF MEN...PERIOD!

[a Sister]

The Moor wrote:

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noooo.....he simply has to make better choices....he is not even into other women or he would have been with one of them by now!
*But you wouldn't understand...you just want to date around with every and anything that you can....but we aren't all like that!

Well moor I see you got your black - azz out of bed .

[a Sister]

Moor I have to say you May be one of a few good black men out there .( Maybe ) You get up early in the morning 8:00 am thats early for most black men that stay up all night looking for women and a high.

My Grandmother told me one time that she doesn't know of one black man that can be faithful to just one women .( I always thought that my Father was Faitful ) But in time I came to realize she was right . I see how my blood brother would cheat on his women Black and white . I see it going on all the time. Not that whites don't cheat but dating a whiteman I see how whites are and they seem to be more Homebodys and take time to be with their partner . Blackmen are always on the go and seem to be up to no good dam near all the time. Doing drugs , Drinking , having babys from 3 or 4 different women and not taking care of them and not even being around to raise them . No wonder we have so many brothers in jail half of them never had a real FATHER . Then when they get of of jail who's going to give them a Job ?

I'm not going to be part of this CLUB where Black women ONLY can date Black , But Blackmen can date any race they care too and have been doing it for 50 some years . THIS BLACK WOMENS CLUB needs to Stop and Change the Rules !

[jupiter]

a Sister wrote:

<quoted text> My White Boy Friends Balls .

That about sums you up. So its 3 choices:
1) your boyfriend has huge balls
2) you have a tiny head
3) your boyfriend don't share the oillow with you because your face is stuck between his buttocks.

which is it?

[jupiter]

pillow sorry typo##

[jupiter]

a Sister wrote:

Moor I have to say you May be one of a few good black men out there .( Maybe ) You get up early in the morning 8:00 am thats early for most black men that stay up all night looking for women and a high.
My Grandmother told me one time that she doesn't know of one black man that can be faithful to just one women .( I always thought that my Father was Faitful ) But in time I came to realize she was right . I see how my blood brother would cheat on his women Black and white . I see it going on all the time. Not that whites don't cheat but dating a whiteman I see how whites are and they seem to be more Homebodys and take time to be with their partner . Blackmen are always on the go and seem to be up to no good dam near all the time. Doing drugs , Drinking , having babys from 3 or 4 different women and not taking care of them and not even being around to raise them . No wonder we have so many brothers in jail half of them never had a real FATHER . Then when they get of of jail who's going to give them a Job ?
I'm not going to be part of this CLUB where Black women ONLY can date Black , But Blackmen can date any race they care too and have been doing it for 50 some years . THIS BLACK WOMENS CLUB needs to Stop and Change the Rules !

what rules are you talking about? Im sure in todays society your allowed to date whom you please?? so I have lost the plot with you. To be honest I smell something not quite right about you. IF you are a black women - I really really advise you get counselling. You are angry and its not doing your blood pressure no good. OK white men are the only men who do not cheat. Wheres your partner now?

[a Sister]

jupiter wrote:

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what rules are you talking about? Im sure in todays society your allowed to date whom you please?? so I have lost the plot with you. To be honest I smell something not quite right about you. IF you are a black women - I really really advise you get counselling. You are angry and its not doing your blood pressure no good. OK white men are the only men who do not cheat. Wheres your partner now?

I see the truth hurts , it is what it is.

You think I'm not black because I speak the truth and say things that other Sistas would never say about blackmen and you don't want to hear the truth. Its not that I don't love my race , I just think it can better itself and it needs to start with the Blackmen . The Sisters have been pulling to long to make it better .

My partner is a work .

[BlkwomanVanman]

I luv this thread!

[BlkwomanVanman]

The poll speaks for itself.

[istherehope4]

a Sister wrote:

Moor I have to say you May be one of a few good black men out there .( Maybe ) You get up early in the morning 8:00 am thats early for most black men that stay up all night looking for women and a high.
My Grandmother told me one time that she doesn't know of one black man that can be faithful to just one women .( I always thought that my Father was Faitful ) But in time I came to realize she was right . I see how my blood brother would cheat on his women Black and white . I see it going on all the time. Not that whites don't cheat but dating a whiteman I see how whites are and they seem to be more Homebodys and take time to be with their partner . Blackmen are always on the go and seem to be up to no good dam near all the time. Doing drugs , Drinking , having babys from 3 or 4 different women and not taking care of them and not even being around to raise them . No wonder we have so many brothers in jail half of them never had a real FATHER . Then when they get of of jail who's going to give them a Job ?
I'm not going to be part of this CLUB where Black women ONLY can date Black , But Blackmen can date any race they care too and have been doing it for 50 some years . THIS BLACK WOMENS CLUB needs to Stop and Change the Rules !

lol your retarded, most of the white men i know have been married more than once and cheat on their women. Sh.. i worked with a white guy who cheated on his wife with her sister and still does. Sh.. she even got a tatto of his name between her legs. So black men have been getting with non black women for 50 years while black women have not been fkn non black men lol please. So from the time the slave ships came over sistas were not with non black men right. You know they got lynched for being with them. We get it sistas wanna be h... they get stripes for being able to get non black men to like them. Its a challenge, like men getting a.. from women. So any non black man who approaches has a 100% success rate because its a priviledge massa has returned for his property.