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“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1 Sep 7, 2013
What if everything was perfect or looked perfect, would things be MORE or LESS appealing?? Why do some strive for perfection when this may actually be less interesting than imperfections??

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#2 Sep 7, 2013
Wow a thread bout me.. Lol

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#3 Sep 7, 2013
Well.. Being perfect is an art form, takes dedication and lots of motivation.. I make sure i wear clean underwear everyday

Level 5

Since: Jul 13

Canovanas, Puerto Rico

#4 Sep 7, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
Well.. Being perfect is an art form, takes dedication and lots of motivation.. I make sure i wear clean underwear everyday
You kind of made my night, what a good laugh ^.^

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#5 Sep 7, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
Well.. Being perfect is an art form, takes dedication and lots of motivation.. I make sure i wear clean underwear everyday
But do you think a perfect world would be boring or interesting??
reminiscent

UK

#6 Sep 8, 2013
It would not be as interesting, but at the same time if everything was perfect then the world would be more peaceful.

The question is, who would determines what is perfect?

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

...explore outside the milkway

#7 Sep 8, 2013
Nothing and No one can EVER be perfect no matter how perfect some people try to be.

It will never happen, so therefore thinking about it is useless.

Perfect people have mental unstability and are very insecure because anyone who needs to feel or who think they are pefect are afraid to face the flaws that they are afraid to fix. Even if you have fixed those flaws, there is always something else you need to improve.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#8 Sep 8, 2013
It's exhausting being perfect. Especially when you are a kid. My parents expected perfection at all times, still do actually and to be honest it's a lot of work but when you are older you look at your track record and feel so much pride that it makes it well worth it.
I have also felt the need to be perfect because I am black, I can never have meaningless sex or smoke weed or even drink a little too much because thats what people would generally expect..... But thats s whole new topic.
I don't know what you mean exactly by a perfect world but a perfect individual is not boring at all.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#10 Sep 8, 2013
QUEEN Valerie Rae wrote:
Only God is perfect and thank goodness. Perfection would be like a world of robots...that would be boring and frightening. It's better to be unique in your own way. Diversity is the spice of life. The most interesting people in the world are those who follow the beat of a different drummer.
People can be different in their perfectness.

Kip

“Brian's alter ego”

Level 7

Since: Feb 07

San Francisco, CA

#11 Sep 8, 2013
Redefined wrote:
What if everything was perfect or looked perfect, would things be MORE or LESS appealing?? Why do some strive for perfection when this may actually be less interesting than imperfections??
If perfection is boring, then it's not really PERFECT.

People strive for perfection, because of the journey. It's the learning experience to be at the top of one's game. It's the learning experience involved in dealing with the adversity to reach a goal. It's the sweat that comes with the conditioning to be better.

That is why people strive for the perfection.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#12 Sep 8, 2013
Kip wrote:
<quoted text>
If perfection is boring, then it's not really PERFECT.
People strive for perfection, because of the journey. It's the learning experience to be at the top of one's game. It's the learning experience involved in dealing with the adversity to reach a goal. It's the sweat that comes with the conditioning to be better.
That is why people strive for the perfection.
I agree.

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#13 Sep 8, 2013
Mary_ M wrote:
<quoted text>
You kind of made my night, what a good laugh ^.^
lol.. I was being serious

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#14 Sep 8, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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But do you think a perfect world would be boring or interesting??
let me tell you a perfect world without sin.. No growing old, no worrys bout getting fat, no ageing.. In a perfect world there be no sin.. Which means men dont lust.. Cause lust mean having what u dont have.. And if u have god.. Which is.. All joy, all happiness and all in all.. Then how can that be boring

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#15 Sep 8, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
Nothing and No one can EVER be perfect no matter how perfect some people try to be.
It will never happen, so therefore thinking about it is useless.
Perfect people have mental unstability and are very insecure because anyone who needs to feel or who think they are pefect are afraid to face the flaws that they are afraid to fix. Even if you have fixed those flaws, there is always something else you need to improve.
i dont watch porn.. Or cuss, i dont look at woman or killed anyone.. I love childern.. Cry when i watch sad movies.. Work night and day.. Go mass 5am every morning.. 1 hour adoration.. I cook, clean and hardly watch tv.. I iron my clothes.. Have a bath everyday.. Give food to the needy and pray my rosary and 15 prayerz daily.. Fast 3 times a week.. Am i perfect.. Or still imperfect..

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#16 Sep 8, 2013
Answer im still.. Imperfect.. Cause my only mortal sin i have.. is topix.. I never use the god given wisdom god gave me.. But then again it does say in the bible.. Do not give wise advise to fools

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#17 Sep 8, 2013
QUEEN Valerie Rae wrote:
Only God is perfect and thank goodness. Perfection would be like a world of robots...that would be boring and frightening. It's better to be unique in your own way. Diversity is the spice of life. The most interesting people in the world are those who follow the beat of a different drummer.
be perfect.. Jesus said this and its true.. Building a house with crook lines.. Bring forth crooked buildings.. So with the soul.. If a man is desiring with all his heart.. To be perfect.. He will become what he believes.. And i believe perfecting my eyes.. Will perfect my soul

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#18 Sep 8, 2013
Silverness wrote:
It's exhausting being perfect. Especially when you are a kid. My parents expected perfection at all times, still do actually and to be honest it's a lot of work but when you are older you look at your track record and feel so much pride that it makes it well worth it.
I have also felt the need to be perfect because I am black, I can never have meaningless sex or smoke weed or even drink a little too much because thats what people would generally expect..... But thats s whole new topic.
I don't know what you mean exactly by a perfect world but a perfect individual is not boring at all.
A Perfect world where we do NOT experience any Pain emotionally or physically. This would mean we are always makin' choices that wouldn't lead too any suffering. However there are many things we view as 'Fun' which could also lead too emotional or physical Pain. That's why I asked would a Perfect world be BORING or at least seem that way.

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#20 Sep 8, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
Nothing and No one can EVER be perfect no matter how perfect some people try to be.
It will never happen, so therefore thinking about it is useless.
Perfect people have mental unstability and are very insecure because anyone who needs to feel or who think they are pefect are afraid to face the flaws that they are afraid to fix. Even if you have fixed those flaws, there is always something else you need to improve.
If thinkin' about it is useless why would many PPL complain about their imperfections?? It seems we don't want to be perfect but we also don't want to be imperfect either hence you stating there is always something else you need to improve....why??

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#21 Sep 8, 2013
reminiscent wrote:
It would not be as interesting, but at the same time if everything was perfect then the world would be more peaceful.
The question is, who would determines what is perfect?
Perfection based on Biblical Texts. Of course the meaning of Perfection could vary from one individual to the next.

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#22 Sep 8, 2013
QUEEN Valerie Rae wrote:
Only God is perfect and thank goodness. Perfection would be like a world of robots...that would be boring and frightening. It's better to be unique in your own way. Diversity is the spice of life. The most interesting people in the world are those who follow the beat of a different drummer.
Yes we would seem MORE Robotic & less life like. It's imperfections which make us MORE authentic. Something that is too perfect would come across as Cartoonish.

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