Black men: the most confident when approaching women?

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PinknGold

Baltimore, MD

#1 Jan 2, 2014
I am approached by men of all races. However, it has always seemed to me that black men feel the most confident when they are approaching women. I'm sure many other women have had similar experiences.

I know if I was a guy, I'd be nervous going up to women and asking them out...but then again, I'm white. So do black men fear rejection less than men of other races? Do they not mind being rejected at all?

“Perfection is impossible”

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#2 Jan 2, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
I am approached by men of all races. However, it has always seemed to me that black men feel the most confident when they are approaching women. I'm sure many other women have had similar experiences.
I know if I was a guy, I'd be nervous going up to women and asking them out...but then again, I'm white. So do black men fear rejection less than men of other races? Do they not mind being rejected at all?
That's not necessarily true. It's just your experience and that's why you deduce this.
WM_Rule_BM

Ashburn, VA

#3 Jan 2, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
I am approached by men of all races. However, it has always seemed to me that black men feel the most confident when they are approaching women. I'm sure many other women have had similar experiences.
I know if I was a guy, I'd be nervous going up to women and asking them out...but then again, I'm white. So do black men fear rejection less than men of other races? Do they not mind being rejected at all?
Maceo

Not true!

Black men "Insult attractive Black women" to take them down due to "low self esteem"! He doesnt feel that he can attract her or he can't afford her lifestyle and he' gets angry!

Other attractive Black women tell me the samething, Black men Insult women to take them down hoping the "Scare Tactics" will get Black women to lower their standards!

Now you have to deal with attractive Educated Black women moving on to other races many won't accept marginal men.

The only Black women that I see accepting Marginal lowly Black men are Fat White women or Black women with low self Esteem and those men cheat on them and don't work to improve the relationshp like you did to your White wife!

You chased ASS instead!
PinknGold

Baltimore, MD

#4 Jan 3, 2014
WM_Rule_BM wrote:
<quoted text>Maceo
Not true!
Black men "Insult attractive Black women" to take them down due to "low self esteem"! He doesnt feel that he can attract her or he can't afford her lifestyle and he' gets angry!
Other attractive Black women tell me the samething, Black men Insult women to take them down hoping the "Scare Tactics" will get Black women to lower their standards!
Now you have to deal with attractive Educated Black women moving on to other races many won't accept marginal men.
The only Black women that I see accepting Marginal lowly Black men are Fat White women or Black women with low self Esteem and those men cheat on them and don't work to improve the relationshp like you did to your White wife!
You chased ASS instead!
What the hell are you talking about?
-patricia-

Ashburn, VA

#5 Jan 3, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
<quoted text>
What the hell are you talking about?
maceo

A man that has a lot to lose because he wronged his own race of women1 LMAO Your women don't want you and you have no respect from your children because you abandoned them!

I think the race is "Imploding within" and BM can't do anything about it! lmao

Go to the White men and ask for help! lmao
PinknGold

Baltimore, MD

#8 Jan 3, 2014
-patricia- wrote:
<quoted text>
maceo
A man that has a lot to lose because he wronged his own race of women1 LMAO Your women don't want you and you have no respect from your children because you abandoned them!
I think the race is "Imploding within" and BM can't do anything about it! lmao
Go to the White men and ask for help! lmao
Huh? What does this have to do with the original post? Do you just randomly post your off topic rants on random threads?
-patricia-

Ashburn, VA

#10 Jan 3, 2014
-patricia- wrote:
Great! Another sadbuttrue invasion. Thread ruined!
maceo

The average BM is a "Gold Digger" to me! Most BM will seek out a BW/WW with a good job, no kids while he has OOW kids by different women and a marginal job. Most BM are comfortable being marginal as long as he can do what he wants and you pay the bills!

Christelyn wrong an article on this..........BW Beware! They don't' even want to partner, they want to be accepted for "Just being a nice BM" because they waste time on the wrong things, they were simply misunderstood! LMAO

Each person needs to be accountable for their choices, I weight up a man's history, trust me what he does to one women,, he will do to you!
-patricia-

Ashburn, VA

#11 Jan 3, 2014
[QUOTE who="No Comment-Pink&Gold-MACEO "]<quoted text>First of all, TROLL,....you're not white, so stop lying.
Secondly, you black men are twenty times more likely to have Mister Softee Syndrome than whites.
And finally, white men aren't "nervous" about approaching women, as you alluded to. We're more discerning...you black men will proposition anything with a hole in it.[/QUOTE]

Why do you talk to your profiles aen't you a Senior? LMAo
PinknGold

Baltimore, MD

#12 Jan 3, 2014
No Comment wrote:
<quoted text>First of all, TROLL,....you're not white, so stop lying.
Secondly, you black men are twenty times more likely to have Mister Softee Syndrome than whites.
And finally, white men aren't "nervous" about approaching women, as you alluded to. We're more discerning...you black men will proposition anything with a hole in it.
I'm a black man, huh? Well then, you're an alien with pink stripes and yellow polka dots.

Actually, I'm a white woman and incidentally, I only date white men because I find them the most attractive by far (among other reasons). My original observation/question still stands, however.
Masud_S_Hoghughi __

London, UK

#13 Jan 3, 2014
sociability is one of the racial traits of the blak kneegro.........

and due to having a low IQ, blak males can chat chat BS to women without getting bored.........becoz talkin with women is boring........
a-hole with a keyboard

Duluth, GA

#14 Jan 3, 2014
Confident ?? It's more like " wtf do I have to lose ??" Plus they know the ones who are approachable and they are typically just a POS.

“Reality is merely an illusion”

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#15 Jan 3, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
I am approached by men of all races. However, it has always seemed to me that black men feel the most confident when they are approaching women. I'm sure many other women have had similar experiences.
I know if I was a guy, I'd be nervous going up to women and asking them out...but then again, I'm white. So do black men fear rejection less than men of other races? Do they not mind being rejected at all?
Lol nice troll bro, I like how you added in "but then again im White" when there was no reason to say that. Nice troll black guy.

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Since: Apr 12

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#16 Jan 3, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm a black man, huh? Well then, you're an alien with pink stripes and yellow polka dots.
Actually, I'm a white woman and incidentally, I only date white men because I find them the most attractive by far (among other reasons). My original observation/question still stands, however.
You sound like a black man in your first post, but ill answer you. The western feminist society has painted White men out to be rapists, psychos, ect.

I saw a video on youtube of a White guy picking up women. Guess what, most the comments were positive, the only negative comments were from feminist white women. "This guys a creep" "Hes invading their personal space".

Thats why. Also ive noticed a double standard where ditzy White women are ok with guys of other races whistling at them, ect, but get pissed if a White guy does it.
Style

UK

#17 Jan 3, 2014
PinknGold wrote:
I am approached by men of all races. However, it has always seemed to me that black men feel the most confident when they are approaching women. I'm sure many other women have had sim,lar experiences.
I know if I was a guy, I'd be nervous going up to women and asking them out...but then again, I'm white. So do black men fear rejection less than men of other races? Do they not mind being rejected at all?
Confidence is developed from a proven track record of SUCCESS!

I was listening to a Nick Cannon interview and the interviewer asked him about his high success with women. Nick has dated Mariah Carey, Kim Kardashian, Nicole Scherzinger, et al. and to my disgust he gave away the secret. ALL Black guys should have developed this skill by time they reach their mid-teens.

I won't give away any secrets because WM (the enemy) and women (the prey) are reading this, but I will show you something...



LOL, even this Asian so-called PUA missed it. This is why these guys are momma's boys!

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