What do white guys think of black women

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homegurl

Fort Leonard Wood, MO

#1 Apr 14, 2007
You know, I've noticed that white guys do love black women, but they're hard to get. That's why they stick with there own kind. but they still tend to look at them all the time.They just don't want to admit it.

“Just passin' through”

Since: Mar 07

Madtown

#2 Apr 14, 2007
homegurl wrote:
You know, I've noticed that white guys do love black women, but they're hard to get. That's why they stick with there own kind. but they still tend to look at them all the time.They just don't want to admit it.
If you find a person attractive, and there's chemistry between them, by all means, go for it. I wouldn't be ashamed to admit if someone impressed me. Color doesn't matter, character does. Unfortunately, I haven't 'shopped' since I proposed to my wife years ago!
Darkflower

AOL

#5 Apr 14, 2007
homegurl wrote:
You know, I've noticed that white guys do love black women, but they're hard to get. That's why they stick with there own kind. but they still tend to look at them all the time.They just don't want to admit it.
For what it's worth, men who are willing to projectile-vomit the contents of their libido onto you are a dime a dozen, and all too often it seems that's the way white men "pitch their woo" to me. I don't know if those particular guys hit on all women in such a way, no matter what their color, but I rarely meet a white guy who's interested in anything about me but my pussy, and I find it insulting.

I wouldn't date a black guy who jumped right in with sexual inuendo and tasteless leering, so why would I give a white guy the time of day if he's the same way?

I guess all in all, I think that the number of white men who are interested in black women for relationships, and who are strong enough to stand up to anyone who'd degrade her or the relationship, are few and far between. I'm not interested in being anyone's chocolate fantasy.
homegurl

Fort Leonard Wood, MO

#6 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
black women are filty disgusting and fat. I am not interested in any black chick ever! their own men dont even want them!! why the hell would we. black women are pATHETIC
You jerk. Well, you obviously haven't seen me.

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Jim

Egg Harbor Township, NJ

#7 Apr 14, 2007
I do more than just look. The first black woman I was ever with was the first woman I was ever with. I was 18. She was 29. In high school my girlfriend was 2 years younger than I. After the first time we were together, I'd just have to look at her like I was going to lay it on her, and she would hop and skip and prance all over the place. I found that to be very flattering. I've been sleeping with black women ever since.
Darkflower

AOL

#8 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
black women are filty disgusting and fat. I am not interested in any black chick ever! their own men dont even want them!! why the hell would we. black women are pATHETIC
It's a good thing noone is depending on you for their feelings of self-worth.

For the record, 80 per cent of black men marry black women, so I guess that gives the lie to your stupid assertion.

Then again, I don't know why I'm bothering to answer your idiocy with reasoned conversation. You strike me as someone who has problems with women no matter what their color.
Darkflower

AOL

#10 Apr 14, 2007
Jim wrote:
I do more than just look. The first black woman I was ever with was the first woman I was ever with. I was 18. She was 29. In high school my girlfriend was 2 years younger than I. After the first time we were together, I'd just have to look at her like I was going to lay it on her, and she would hop and skip and prance all over the place. I found that to be very flattering. I've been sleeping with black women ever since.
Yes, but have you ever been in LOVE with one?

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Austin

#11 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
black women are filty disgusting and fat. I am not interested in any black chick ever! their own men dont even want them!! why the hell would we. black women are pATHETIC
Obviously you have experience something with a black girl that have made you to think of them this why. I hope you get help.
Mack

Bethesda, MD

#12 Apr 14, 2007
Well, even though I'm a black man, I can give you my honest from the heart opinion on what white men think of black women. I think white men to this very day still see black women as sexual objects that exist to fulfill their exotic sexual fantasies. You can call me a racist all you want but I still just don't trust white men since they've historically had a habit of passively and secretly exploiting our women during slavery as well as other people and their cultures. Asian women as well, do not exist to fulfill your exotic sexual fantasies so sorry white men. Darkflower, I respect you because you respect your body and realize that you are not a sex toy for any man. I doubt that any white men would want to marry a black women as they would want to have sex with them and not be in a dedicated serious relationship that would lead up to marriage. Yes, I know that there are few, honest white men that would see black women just as a women and not as a sex goddess but I still don't trust the vast majority of white men. Just my 50 cents, however.

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RAY

United States

#13 Apr 14, 2007
YOU HAVE WHITEMEN THAT WANT BLACKWOMEN
YOU HAVE BLACKWOMEN THAT WANT WHITEMEN
YOU HAVE WHITEWOMEN THAT WANT BLACKMEN
YOU HAVE BLACKMEN THAT WANT WHITEWOMEN
And what does that mean?nothing because It`s only been going on since the
beginning of time.Most people don`t know
the difference of shit and applebutter.
Check your history fools.
Jim

Egg Harbor Township, NJ

#15 Apr 14, 2007
Darkflower wrote:
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Yes, but have you ever been in LOVE with one?
I can't say I have. Not because the woman was black, but because I never met a black woman who likes nerdy stuff like I do. I like hanging out at book stores. If I dated a black woman who likes the same nerdy stuff I do, I could fall in love with her.
The black women I have dated all worked with me. The one I mentioned above, I dated for about 6 months. But because of age difference, it couldn't last. I wasn't mature enough.
Because I don't only search for black women, I find it hard to find one who I have things in common with. But truthfully, I have a hard time finding white women who I have things in common with too.

“Just passin' through”

Since: Mar 07

Madtown

#16 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
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that has always been a fear of mine when dealing with white men..they are only curious but not truly interested!
Will, WTF? you come off as a hateful white guy w/ the first post, then this post? Can you offer anything remotely worthwhile to the topic??
Darkflower

AOL

#17 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
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that has always been a fear of mine when dealing with white men..they are only curious but not truly interested!
Well, isn't that odd? Why would you sign in with the same screenname and location of the person who made racist comments earlier?

Maybe it's a fluke of the messageboard, but it sure is odd ...
Darkflower

AOL

#18 Apr 14, 2007
Mack wrote:
Well, even though I'm a black man, I can give you my honest from the heart opinion on what white men think of black women. I think white men to this very day still see black women as sexual objects that exist to fulfill their exotic sexual fantasies. You can call me a racist all you want but I still just don't trust white men since they've historically had a habit of passively and secretly exploiting our women during slavery as well as other people and their cultures. Asian women as well, do not exist to fulfill your exotic sexual fantasies so sorry white men. Darkflower, I respect you because you respect your body and realize that you are not a sex toy for any man. I doubt that any white men would want to marry a black women as they would want to have sex with them and not be in a dedicated serious relationship that would lead up to marriage. Yes, I know that there are few, honest white men that would see black women just as a women and not as a sex goddess but I still don't trust the vast majority of white men. Just my 50 cents, however.
Thank you for your respect, Mack. It means alot to me. I respect you also, for your wisdom and your desire to see black women, and all women, value themselves. I also respect you because you express your opinion in a measured, thoughtful way, without petty insults and pointless venom.

“Just passin' through”

Since: Mar 07

Madtown

#19 Apr 14, 2007
Will,
your 3rd post hadn't come up when i replied to your 2nd. Anyway, yours is an opinion, but it doesn't speak for all white men. FYI, I'm white, married to a blonde, but beauty is colorblind.
Darkflower

AOL

#20 Apr 14, 2007
will wrote:
Look I aint tryin to be mean but do you see the topics here? Black women crying because they cannot find a man in their own race. Their own men are not interested in them. So now they are trying to come over here to our race and get with us! We dont want you either. Black women are NOT attractive. They are not femininne, they do not have nice hair. I will stick with a beautiful white woman anyday they are the true definition of beauty
And that's your right, Will, to stick with your own. But this messageboard is a snapshot of a very large world, and shows only a fraction of that large world. MOST black men PREFER black women, and vice versa, just as most people of other races prefer people who look like them as well. So it's erroneous to presume that just because YOU don't find black women attractive, that no one does. Among the threads you mentioned, you will also find a few of thousands of posts in length full of white men who disagree with you. Opinions are like assholes. Everyone's got one.

Your opinion is just that--your opinion. And I think it's a lie that you aren't trying to be mean. Unless you're very, very stupid, you could figure out a way to state your opinion without being insulting.

I can only say this to you because I can objectively say that as a black woman, I know that I'm beautiful. I wear my hair natural, with no chemicals and it's in dreadlocks down to my butt. My skin is caramel brown in color. I say that only to say that I don't look white at all. I am obviously black, and obviously beautiful. Men of all races agree with me, as I have no trouble finding dates. So, your opinion is only your opinion.

Now, since you've been so gracious as to share your opinion with us so clearly, would you mind moving on to other topics?
Willing Thinker

Youngstown, OH

#21 Apr 14, 2007
Black women are extremely attractive, and when they are grown, they KNOW it.

:p

Do not fall for Will's ploys. These, just like the others are ploys ment to demoralize black women, since healthy confident, luscious(- sorry!), black women are a threat to white supremacy.

Without all this baggage, they could concentrate on raising up a strong black race.
Jim

Egg Harbor Township, NJ

#22 Apr 14, 2007
Darkflower wrote:
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Well, isn't that odd? Why would you sign in with the same screenname and location of the person who made racist comments earlier?
Maybe it's a fluke of the messageboard, but it sure is odd ...
It sounds like he's bi, Darkflower. I think he likes black dudes and white women.
Willing Thinker

Youngstown, OH

#23 Apr 14, 2007
Also, women, if you want to know about physical aspects of attraction, well:

it's not exactly your skin color we're looking at, lol. ;):P
a white guy

Bedford, TX

#24 Apr 14, 2007
Mack wrote:
Well, even though I'm a black man, I can give you my honest from the heart opinion on what white men think of black women. I think white men to this very day still see black women as sexual objects that exist to fulfill their exotic sexual fantasies. You can call me a racist all you want but I still just don't trust white men since they've historically had a habit of passively and secretly exploiting our women during slavery as well as other people and their cultures. Asian women as well, do not exist to fulfill your exotic sexual fantasies so sorry white men. Darkflower, I respect you because you respect your body and realize that you are not a sex toy for any man. I doubt that any white men would want to marry a black women as they would want to have sex with them and not be in a dedicated serious relationship that would lead up to marriage. Yes, I know that there are few, honest white men that would see black women just as a women and not as a sex goddess but I still don't trust the vast majority of white men. Just my 50 cents, however.
mack...you couldn't be more wrong...in my 35 years I've never heard another white guy utter anything even remotely close to what you have expressed...and in fact whites in general do not even talk about blacks at all unless it's something to do with sports/entertainment or there is a scandal on the news...just visiting forums like this I can see that white society must be a huge topic within the black community but the reverse is not true...
and as far as a white guy marrying a black woman, I don't know what the marriage rates are but I'm sure it's in the thousands...just google it and you will probably get the answer if you want...but I do know where I live that in the past few years I have seen many WM/BF married couples with kids while I am out shopping or doing whatever...so I'd conclude there are quite a few white men who want black women as more than just a piece of ass...

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