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“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1009 Mar 28, 2014
sweetgirl102 wrote:
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You should be ashamed of yourself. I was hoping you weren't like the rest, but you are....TYPICAL
Is this your futile attempt at playing some mind game with me...lol!

I have nothing to be ashamed of...no secrets nor any hypocrisy at all...my life is pretty much an open book!

Now as far as me being typical...the word has rarely ever been associated with me...not by anyone who knows me...sorry!

*Truth be told...people are often amused and unsure what to make of me....they're often puzzled and very curious if anything!

“Creole Coated!”

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#1010 Mar 28, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>this right here is a very hard question because I don't find most attractive...
That makes me more curious to who would be the exception to your rule...

“Creole Coated!”

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#1011 Mar 28, 2014
carmen wrote:
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My friends say the same thing about Idris you are saying!..lol. I only know one other person who thinks Reggie is just drop gorgeous and her tastes are definitely much to be desired..lol. But Reggie is just so dreamy to me..lol.
But have a good night hun, not sure if I will get a chance to respond today!! Good "talkin" to ya.
Always a pleasure conversing with you :)
Hope you slept well and get back to me whenever you free...
I think it's Reggie's "overall" vibe that is probably a turn off for many BW...although his physical appearance seems like it could/should be appreciated by a lot more BW maybe...
He just don't have the right "energy" imho

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#1012 Mar 28, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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My wife would agree...clearly!
But again...there is no such man that every woman finds sexy,gorgeous nor even appealing...that's the whole point!
The same goes for women....there is no such woman that all men foam at the mouth over!
Everyone has their own taste!
I think your wife and I have similar tastes :)
minus Morris Chestnut (I could never get into him either)

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1013 Mar 28, 2014
My wife and I both know countess single,divorced and or never married ww...some with children...who have horror stories about he men (white men) in their personal experiences...and it seems that the list just keeps growing!

Some of these women...are now just as open to trying something new as some bw are....why?...because they have enough intelligence...both mentally and on an emotional level...to understand by now that the whole perfect white knight reality is in fact often little more than a fairy tale...it's not real...it's what they long for...but often only see in films such as "The Notebook"..."Pretty Woman" and "Must Love Dogs"...

But in the real world...white guys are often like anything other than the perfect...big hearted...non-judgemental characters on the screen...they're less caring,less responsible and less than madly in love and faithful to a fault!

But then most men are that way...in reality!
Sense

Brooklyn, NY

#1014 Mar 28, 2014
Analyze_ wrote:
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I might as well srick to my own kind. Im not a follower. Like I see. There are people waiting ready to initiate change and thats where my loyalties lay. Thats where my bloodline comes from why would I change it??
Do you think you're ideologies and aims are new? Do you think that your heart is a new breed in Black women? The women that truly feel like you far outnumber the men who do. Do you truly know the hearts of these so called pro Black men? You have many of them posting on this site. The Black community has had so called pro Black men for a very long time now. Pro Black men have continually infantalized the Black male and have failed to address any of the issues and concerns of Black women. Issues that are largely caused by Black males. You nor your grand daughters, or your great grand daughters will see the change that you seek. You will die an unappreciated and unrecognized soldier in a war that a woman should have never had to fight.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1015 Mar 28, 2014
Analyze_ wrote:
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I agree with this 100% but this wont stop me from dating bm. Ive come to learn in my 25 yrs, that the system set up against the black community is for us to fail. How can we move forward with backwards thinking? We can bash eachother all day but will we move forward to help the black community to prosper?
There are some good black men and women out there waiting and ready to initiate change. Then there are the troublesome blacks (ir dating, self hating, whitey licker, im rich fuck the lower blacks, all about me fuck the black community) who do absoulty nothing for black improvement but actually strive for whiteys approvement.
You see the problem? Conquer and divide. Its a never ending battle. With so much division in our community how well do you think black men and women will get along? And how many more black generations will there be in America?
Excellent comment!...exactly!
sme

Los Angeles, CA

#1016 Mar 28, 2014
Sense wrote:
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Do you think you're ideologies and aims are new? Do you think that your heart is a new breed in Black women? The women that truly feel like you far outnumber the men who do. Do you truly know the hearts of these so called pro Black men? You have many of them posting on this site. The Black community has had so called pro Black men for a very long time now. Pro Black men have continually infantalized the Black male and have failed to address any of the issues and concerns of Black women. Issues that are largely caused by Black males. You nor your grand daughters, or your great grand daughters will see the change that you seek. You will die an unappreciated and unrecognized soldier in a war that a woman should have never had to fight.
hahaha. you're a real nut and the devil is a lie.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1017 Mar 28, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text>I'm not a bm but everything she said in that post is 100% truth in regard to bm in the Diaspora.
Uhhh...no it's not....it's merely half of the story...and just like other men with other women...yes some bm have misused bw...again...this is what men do...some men are selfish,reckless and let the chips fall where they may!

Do you have any idea how many single,divorced and or never married nonbw there are in this country alone?

Women who have had their hearts broken and their lives disrupted in the most unpleasant manner....do you think that these women planned their lives out this way?

No they didn't...no woman plans to marry,have children,start a family with a man then go though a nasty,bitter divorce...just to see how it feels...or because her girlfriend has done it..lol!

As a man...I'll admit that yes men are horrible to women and children...they are often complete a-holes...but this is not a bm thing alone..if you believe this...than i'ts due to your own lack of sophistication and awareness of the world around you...now yes there are issues surrounding bm and bw...but it's on both sides!

You've simply bought into the generalized negative stereotype of bm being somehow different than all other men!

Most men...regardless of what you think have issues...men use and break women's hearts every single day!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1018 Mar 28, 2014
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text> I think your wife and I have similar tastes :)
minus Morris Chestnut (I could never get into him either)
Well she most definitely likes Idris....lol...she doesn't even try to hide it....hell I could be right next to her...and she's like...woooo.....ummm hmm ummm..."That's a nice tall serving of chocolate"...and I'm like..."ummm...hello I'm right here".

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#1019 Mar 28, 2014
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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BM, what do you have to say in response?
Black men will not respond because they have no comeback for the truth.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1020 Mar 28, 2014
Sense wrote:
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Do you think you're ideologies and aims are new? Do you think that your heart is a new breed in Black women? The women that truly feel like you far outnumber the men who do. Do you truly know the hearts of these so called pro Black men? You have many of them posting on this site. The Black community has had so called pro Black men for a very long time now. Pro Black men have continually infantalized the Black male and have failed to address any of the issues and concerns of Black women. Issues that are largely caused by Black males. You nor your grand daughters, or your great grand daughters will see the change that you seek. You will die an unappreciated and unrecognized soldier in a war that a woman should have never had to fight.
Again...here we have it....why the hell are you trying to talk her out of her own personal preference?

Here you are....trying to divide and conquer bm and bw...by attacking the young bw...her mind,her perspective and her values!

And with inaccurate,biased and misleading info at that...you're wrong..clearly you lack any real understanding of the true history of blacks in this country...yet here you are typing out of your ass...trying to gain points for white guys...who have their very own horrible history with women in general!

NO ALL BM HAVE NOT MISTREATED OR ABUSED BW...AND LEFT THEM...AND MOST BM ARE IN FACT WITH BW...BY CHOICE!

This is merely your take on the situation...one that you're probably ill advised to even speak on...you don't even know the whole story....and how do I know this....because I do know the whole story...I've known and benefited from the very type of bm that you are now...like the coward that you are...trying to demean,degrade and demonize!

*Bw who have dealt with problems caused by bm...are again...no different than women of any race who have had to deal with problems caused by the men of their group...

NEED I REMIND YOU THAT WW ARE THE ONES WHO STARTED THE WOMEN'S LIB MOVEMENT..NO ONE ELSE...AND THEY ARE STILL STRUGGLING TO THIS VERY DAY!

“Creole Coated!”

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#1021 Mar 28, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Well she most definitely likes Idris....lol...she doesn't even try to hide it....hell I could be right next to her...and she's like...woooo.....ummm hmm ummm..."That's a nice tall serving of chocolate"...and I'm like..."ummm...hello I'm right here".
Ha!
You have to give her that one...He's everything hehehe

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1022 Mar 28, 2014
Sense wrote:
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Do you think you're ideologies and aims are new? Do you think that your heart is a new breed in Black women? The women that truly feel like you far outnumber the men who do. Do you truly know the hearts of these so called pro Black men? You have many of them posting on this site. The Black community has had so called pro Black men for a very long time now. Pro Black men have continually infantalized the Black male and have failed to address any of the issues and concerns of Black women. Issues that are largely caused by Black males. You nor your grand daughters, or your great grand daughters will see the change that you seek. You will die an unappreciated and unrecognized soldier in a war that a woman should have never had to fight.
You coward you....

All that she needs is one good man in her life...that's all that any one woman needs...if that's what will make her happy!

That's all that my wife needed...but then she understood this....understood the world around her and never believed that all bm are as white boys like you would have all bw to believe that we are!

You're a coward...who has nothing going for you but the myth...idea that white guys are always better!

*Yet I know both white and nonbw who would say otherwise!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1023 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
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Black men will not respond because they have no comeback for the truth.
Bullshyt...I have and will respond to anything that you trow up...nothings changed!

But here's the thing....just like white males...who you defend as if it's your life's' work...you're only interested in your own personal agenda...therefore you merely attempt to deflect any new info injected into the exchange!

It's only during the times that everyone else on the board just stops and lets you know that you're crazy as all hell that you backup and relent with..."Did I say all bm"...lol!

Like many irbw...you suffer from the ill affects of a white male dominated mindset...you're thick...with blind worship of anything white and male!

You've posted every conceivable and inconceivable bit of nonsense and hatred about bm that any one normal persons could ever muster up and beyond!

It's not about bm....it's in reality about your own personal issues and baggage!

AS I'VE STATED BEFORE..IF I WEREN'T HAPPILY MARRIED TO A BW AND EVEN OPEN TO IR DATING AND SETTLED DOWN WITH SAY AN ASIAN WOMAN...I'D NEVER FEEL THE NEED TO PRAISE ALL ASIAN WOMEN IN GENERAL NOR RUN ALL BW DOWN ON THE DEEPEST MOST DEGRADING LEVEL...EVEN THOUGH SOME BW ARE WRETCHED!

You bought into the whole White Knight myth a looooong time ago and you're going to die defending it to your very last breath!

The very extreme nature of your assertions is only proof that there is in fact something wrong with you!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1024 Mar 28, 2014
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text> Ha!
You have to give her that one...He's everything hehehe
Okay fine...but why do I get pinched when I'm looking at Tika then?

https://www.google.com/search...

Lawd have mercy I could do some things with that!

“Creole Coated!”

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#1025 Mar 28, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Okay fine...but why do I get pinched when I'm looking at Tika then?
https://www.google.com/search...
Lawd have mercy I could do some things with that!
It's just different :P

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#1026 Mar 28, 2014
sme wrote:
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hahaha. you're a real nut and the devil is a lie.
Exactly why I didnt respond

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#1027 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>Black men will not respond because they have no comeback for the truth.
This black man has not responded because he has had a rather busy day at work today as opposed to yesterday when he was off. I can see, however, that Moor responded quite adequately. No need for me to do anything but give him a strong co-sign.

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#1028 Mar 28, 2014
Analyze_ wrote:
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I agree with this 100% but this wont stop me from dating bm. Ive come to learn in my 25 yrs, that the system set up against the black community is for us to fail. How can we move forward with backwards thinking? We can bash eachother all day but will we move forward to help the black community to prosper?
There are some good black men and women out there waiting and ready to initiate change. Then there are the troublesome blacks (ir dating, self hating, whitey licker, im rich fuck the lower blacks, all about me fuck the black community) who do absoulty nothing for black improvement but actually strive for whiteys approvement.
You see the problem? Conquer and divide. Its a never ending battle. With so much division in our community how well do you think black men and women will get along? And how many more black generations will there be in America?
Is this logic of the baby mamas with the multiple OOW babies? "Preserve the race," huh?

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