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#992 Mar 28, 2014
sweetgirl102 wrote:
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You should be ashamed of yourself. I was hoping you weren't like the rest, but you are....TYPICAL
Moor can speak for himself, but I have to ask: what's wrong with what he said? The man spoke the truth. Now, I understand that you're in the Capree camp, but the fact remains that all combinations of man and women are getting together these days. Perhaps you're a youngster who hasn't been around enough to see the absolute variety that is offered up by society. It should not chaff your behind one iota that people are getting on. You'll get whatever you desire if you work toward it. Let other people do the same without being denigrated for it.

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#993 Mar 28, 2014
men and women

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#994 Mar 28, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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LoL...first off...I appreciate you attempting to logically explain your crazy ass post!
But it's very obvious that you're out of touch with the full range of the realities of bm...you live in a world that white men have painted for you!
Again...the type of nonbw that come on to me are just like the bw that have always come on to me...very attractive,smart,sexy,fun,calm and level headed...afterall...I live in what is considered to be an affluent community with highly educated,health conscious,professional,family oriented individuals....and these ww are very straight forward about what they are looking for now...this now includes bm...even bm who are working things out and moving ahead but who aren't there yet!
My wife and I just ran into a young lady who we have watched grow up...she's now a senior in high school and she's dating a young black boy...this girl is not fat,nor unattractive (white boys are always chasing her...but she's not into them!)...her mom is now dating a bm...we were actually surprised...because this woman is very white!
And I have been all over this country and I'm sorry...but no...all bm aren't with fat,sloppy,nasty looking ww...yes that does exist..but it's not the full story of what bm are doing!
Bm are out dating and even marrying nonbw who look all sorts of ways...gone are the days of bm only getting the fatties!
I've seen bm...in the streets of many places...with the very same type of nonbw that other men go after...most men..and black,white and other men are not all highly successful...this is a fact!
A fact that white/nonbw do not pretend to not know now....they fully realize that a man is a man...that it's not about a man's race...only some bw actually believe this silly shyt!
Which is why In another few years....we'll see bw walking around single,with little mixed babies walking behind them....looking for some man to help them raise these children...we're already seeing...one of my wife's best friends younger sister is such a bw...and he does nothing to help her....not shyt!
*And what about bw claiming that they are all marrying the hottest,wealtiest and most sought after nonblack/white men...based on some individual bw (who usually have far more to offer than the average bw!)
If you had a better ability to comprehend what you try to read then you would realize that my posts aren't dumb but do represents reality. Maybe things were like that in your own situation. Very attractive nonblack women or educated white women from middle or upper classed families seriously dating let alone marrying average black men off the street don't reflect the norm at all. I am not tucked away in a dark cave somewhere and I consider myself a woman of the world. I have traveled, experienced many cultures and spoken with many people. Black men as a group are not considered choice or Alpha males and they are not desired by most non-black women or now even most successful black women. For black men to go around trying to promote the delusion that they are, is ridiculous and I don't swallow B.S..

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#995 Mar 28, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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LoL...first off...I appreciate you attempting to logically explain your crazy ass post!
But it's very obvious that you're out of touch with the full range of the realities of bm...you live in a world that white men have painted for you!
Again...the type of nonbw that come on to me are just like the bw that have always come on to me...very attractive,smart,sexy,fun,calm and level headed...afterall...I live in what is considered to be an affluent community with highly educated,health conscious,professional,family oriented individuals....and these ww are very straight forward about what they are looking for now...this now includes bm...even bm who are working things out and moving ahead but who aren't there yet!
My wife and I just ran into a young lady who we have watched grow up...she's now a senior in high school and she's dating a young black boy...this girl is not fat,nor unattractive (white boys are always chasing her...but she's not into them!)...her mom is now dating a bm...we were actually surprised...because this woman is very white!
And I have been all over this country and I'm sorry...but no...all bm aren't with fat,sloppy,nasty looking ww...yes that does exist..but it's not the full story of what bm are doing!
Bm are out dating and even marrying nonbw who look all sorts of ways...gone are the days of bm only getting the fatties!
I've seen bm...in the streets of many places...with the very same type of nonbw that other men go after...most men..and black,white and other men are not all highly successful...this is a fact!
A fact that white/nonbw do not pretend to not know now....they fully realize that a man is a man...that it's not about a man's race...only some bw actually believe this silly shyt!
Which is why In another few years....we'll see bw walking around single,with little mixed babies walking behind them....looking for some man to help them raise these children...we're already seeing...one of my wife's best friends younger sister is such a bw...and he does nothing to help her....not shyt!
*And what about bw claiming that they are all marrying the hottest,wealtiest and most sought after nonblack/white men...based on some individual bw (who usually have far more to offer than the average bw!)
If you had a better ability to comprehend what you try to read then you would realize that my posts aren't dumb but do represents reality. Maybe things were like that in your own situation. Very attractive nonblack women or educated white women from middle or upper classed families seriously dating let alone marrying average black men off the street don't reflect the norm at all. I am not tucked away in a dark cave somewhere and I consider myself a woman of the world. I have traveled, experienced many cultures and spoken with many people. Black men as a group are not considered choice or Alpha males and they are not desired by most non-black women or now even most successful black women. For black men to go around trying to promote the delusion that they are, is ridiculous and I don't swallow B.S. and will point it out every time.

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#996 Mar 28, 2014
DerekJ wrote:
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Moor can speak for himself, but I have to ask: what's wrong with what he said? The man spoke the truth. Now, I understand that you're in the Capree camp, but the fact remains that all combinations of man and women are getting together these days. Perhaps you're a youngster who hasn't been around enough to see the absolute variety that is offered up by society. It should not chaff your behind one iota that people are getting on. You'll get whatever you desire if you work toward it. Let other people do the same without being denigrated for it.
She seem to be finding out that 99.9 black men aren't and never have been committed, supportive or loyal to black women, black children or their community like black women have been to them and other races of men are to their women, children and communities. Where white men and other nonblack men protect, defend and marry their same race women which ensures the continuation of their race, culture and communities, black men don't give good damn about their same race women and prefers to make their black women into bootycalls, babymamas or things to live off of instead of wives and to make their community into shyt holes. What else could that be but self-hate?
HypocriteMuch

Lakeland, FL

#997 Mar 28, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
Lol these crackkkas stay trolling on here!
Real classy! Lol
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#998 Mar 28, 2014
sweetgirl102 wrote:
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You should be ashamed of yourself. I was hoping you weren't like the rest, but you are....TYPICAL
Moore is a liar,I've buck into many bm like him who claim to love bw but when they realize many bw are now dating out and not checking for bm they turn around and start listing all of the bm that are married to non-bw (as if bw suppose to give a sh%t if bm are dating non-bw)Moore is a HYOPOCRITE,he's no different from most bm ,why do people listen to him to begin with?
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#999 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
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She seem to be finding out that 99.9 black men aren't and never have been committed, supportive or loyal to black women, black children or their community like black women have been to them and other races of men are to their women, children and communities. Where white men and other nonblack men protect, defend and marry their same race women which ensures the continuation of their race, culture and communities, black men don't give good damn about their same race women and prefers to make their black women into bootycalls, babymamas or things to live off of instead of wives and to make their community into shyt holes. What else could that be but self-hate?
Amen you got it Capree...

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#1000 Mar 28, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>Amen you got it Capree...
Thanks Diva On Da Rise!

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#1001 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
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She seem to be finding out that 99.9 black men aren't and never have been committed, supportive or loyal to black women, black children or their community like black women have been to them and other races of men are to their women, children and communities. Where white men and other nonblack men protect, defend and marry their same race women which ensures the continuation of their race, culture and communities, black men don't give good damn about their same race women and prefers to make their black women into bootycalls, babymamas or things to live off of instead of wives and to make their community into shyt holes. What else could that be but self-hate?
BM, what do you have to say in response?

“Never suffer fools gladly.”

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#1002 Mar 28, 2014
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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BM, what do you have to say in response?
I'm not a bm but everything she said in that post is 100% truth in regard to bm in the Diaspora.

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#1003 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
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She seem to be finding out that 99.9 black men aren't and never have been committed, supportive or loyal to black women, black children or their community like black women have been to them and other races of men are to their women, children and communities. Where white men and other nonblack men protect, defend and marry their same race women which ensures the continuation of their race, culture and communities, black men don't give good damn about their same race women and prefers to make their black women into bootycalls, babymamas or things to live off of instead of wives and to make their community into shyt holes. What else could that be but self-hate?
I agree with this 100% but this wont stop me from dating bm. Ive come to learn in my 25 yrs, that the system set up against the black community is for us to fail. How can we move forward with backwards thinking? We can bash eachother all day but will we move forward to help the black community to prosper?

There are some good black men and women out there waiting and ready to initiate change. Then there are the troublesome blacks (ir dating, self hating, whitey licker, im rich fuck the lower blacks, all about me fuck the black community) who do absoulty nothing for black improvement but actually strive for whiteys approvement.

You see the problem? Conquer and divide. Its a never ending battle. With so much division in our community how well do you think black men and women will get along? And how many more black generations will there be in America?
Sense

Brooklyn, NY

#1004 Mar 28, 2014
Analyze_ wrote:
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I agree with this 100% but this wont stop me from dating bm. Ive come to learn in my 25 yrs, that the system set up against the black community is for us to fail. How can we move forward with backwards thinking? We can bash eachother all day but will we move forward to help the black community to prosper?
There are some good black men and women out there waiting and ready to initiate change. Then there are the troublesome blacks (ir dating, self hating, whitey licker, im rich fuck the lower blacks, all about me fuck the black community) who do absoulty nothing for black improvement but actually strive for whiteys approvement.
You see the problem? Conquer and divide. Its a never ending battle. With so much division in our community how well do you think black men and women will get along? And how many more black generations will there be in America?
You're making a mistake. What are you fighting for when you know that the majority of the men are non compliant? You're just perpetuating more pain for your female lineage. You might as well get with the program and marry out.
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#1005 Mar 28, 2014
Sense wrote:
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You're making a mistake. What are you fighting for when you know that the majority of the men are non compliant? You're just perpetuating more pain for your female lineage. You might as well get with the program and marry out.
big mistake

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#1006 Mar 28, 2014
Sense wrote:
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You're making a mistake. What are you fighting for when you know that the majority of the men are non compliant? You're just perpetuating more pain for your female lineage. You might as well get with the program and marry out.
I might as well srick to my own kind. Im not a follower. Like I see. There are people waiting ready to initiate change and thats where my loyalties lay. Thats where my bloodline comes from why would I change it??

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#1007 Mar 28, 2014
* stick. *like I said

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1008 Mar 28, 2014
Capree wrote:
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If you had a better ability to comprehend what you try to read then you would realize that my posts aren't dumb but do represents reality. Maybe things were like that in your own situation. Very attractive nonblack women or educated white women from middle or upper classed families seriously dating let alone marrying average black men off the street don't reflect the norm at all. I am not tucked away in a dark cave somewhere and I consider myself a woman of the world. I have traveled, experienced many cultures and spoken with many people. Black men as a group are not considered choice or Alpha s and they are not desired by most non-black women or now even most successful black women. For black men to go around trying to promote the delusion that they are, is ridiculous and I don't swallow B.S..
Sorry...but your attempt at summing up my post to you..is way off center...no surprise...but that's not at all what I stated!

Where did I state that highly educated,upper middle class nonbw are hooking up with average everyday bm...nope...I typed no such thing...now what I did type is that women....black and nonblack are hooking up with bm (just as others are hooking up!)....why?....

Because in reality...that is in the real world...women understnd the realities that face them in the dating world....

THAT IS THEY UNDERSTAND THAT...THERE ARE FAR FEWER AVAILABLE MEN FOR ANY TYPE OF WOMAN TO DATE THAN THERE ARE AVAILABLE WOMEN FOR ANY TYPE OF MAN TO DATE....THIS IS A STATISTICAL FACT...FROM A STANDSTILL...NOT EVEN MENTIONING THE VARIABLES THAT COME INTO PLAY BEYOND THAT...IT'S JUST A REALITY THAT CAN'T BE DENIED!

What's also a reality is this....all nonbw don't buy into the stereotypes and generalizations about bm...that the overall white male controlled media,the larger culture and angry,bitter and despondent bw such as yourself would have everyone to believe about all bm!

TO BE HONEST...MANY OF THEM SIMPLY CONSIDER BW TO BE INEPT AT KNOWING,FINDING AND KEEPING ANY MAN..BLACK,WHITE OR OTHER HAPPY!

And these very same women...have grown up with these nonblak men...they know them better than anyone...certainly better than any bw....and they don't believe all of the things that they have been taught by them....plus some of them are just plain attracted to bm!

So your whole point about bm not being "Alpha males"...who are sought after is moot...not to mention the fact that the whole Alpha male thing is total nonsense...there's no such thing...not at all...it's just more white male pseudo science...nothing more,nothing less...but of course you want so desperately to believe it!

I'M SORRY...BUT YOU CAN'T HAVE A BUILT IN ADVANTAGE...THEN TURN AROUND AND CLAIM TO BE THEE ALPHA MALE...LOL...IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY!

AGAIN...IF ANYONE IS THEE SO CALLED ALPHA MALE IN THIS SOCIETY....IT WOULD ACTUALLY BE ANYONE OTHER THAN WHITE MALES!

Now as far as you being educated and having been all over the place...I doubt that very seriously....sweetie...to be honest....not trying to be offensive or anything...just stating a fact...you don't sound as if you've ever been off of the block that you live on.....not at all!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1009 Mar 28, 2014
sweetgirl102 wrote:
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You should be ashamed of yourself. I was hoping you weren't like the rest, but you are....TYPICAL
Is this your futile attempt at playing some mind game with me...lol!

I have nothing to be ashamed of...no secrets nor any hypocrisy at all...my life is pretty much an open book!

Now as far as me being typical...the word has rarely ever been associated with me...not by anyone who knows me...sorry!

*Truth be told...people are often amused and unsure what to make of me....they're often puzzled and very curious if anything!

“Creole Coated!”

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#1010 Mar 28, 2014
Diva On Da Rise wrote:
<quoted text>this right here is a very hard question because I don't find most attractive...
That makes me more curious to who would be the exception to your rule...

“Creole Coated!”

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#1011 Mar 28, 2014
carmen wrote:
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My friends say the same thing about Idris you are saying!..lol. I only know one other person who thinks Reggie is just drop gorgeous and her tastes are definitely much to be desired..lol. But Reggie is just so dreamy to me..lol.
But have a good night hun, not sure if I will get a chance to respond today!! Good "talkin" to ya.
Always a pleasure conversing with you :)
Hope you slept well and get back to me whenever you free...
I think it's Reggie's "overall" vibe that is probably a turn off for many BW...although his physical appearance seems like it could/should be appreciated by a lot more BW maybe...
He just don't have the right "energy" imho

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