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Why African American Women are Becoming Obsolete

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Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#1 Dec 2, 2010
I know that many people, especially AA women, are going to attack me for this thread, but this thread isn't for AA women. I've designed this thread for professional, intelligent, wealthy African American men who are tired of hood rats, hoochie mamas, chicken heads, and high minded career Black women who are more concerned with their careers than they are with their men. Having said that, lets begin.

Why I Created This Thread

I was recently talking to a Black buddy of mine who lives in a major U.S. city. He is an African American who is highly intelligent, well read, in college, he has a good salary, and he is a hard worker. He is also over 30 years of age.

Despite this, my buddy is still single. When I talked to him recently, he told me he went to a club in town where he saw a bunch of fine AA women. When I asked him if he hooked up with any of them, he said "no."

This to me didn't make sense. How can a brother with such a good head on his shoulders walk into a club and not get any attention from his own women?

Despite Being a Convicted Felon, My Uncle Has 7 Kids

The opposite of my college educated Black friend is my uncle. Despite the fact that he has been to prison, and has done nothing with his life, he has had no trouble having 7 kids with at least two different Black women. Why is it that a failure like my uncle can easily get Black women and have many children with them while my highly educated friend can't?

Many African American Women Consciously Choose Dead Beat Black Men

The evidence shows that many AA women are choosing dead beat Black men over good Black men like my friend. Many AA women are choosing men like my uncle instead of career oriented Black men who are stable. The statistics show that as many as 70% of AA children are being born out of wedlock:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php...

Professional Black Men Must Seek Foreign Black Women

The only solution to this problem for us professional Black men is to seek foreign Black women in the Caribbean, Latin America, and other places. If AA women want to continue to pick dead beats then good AA men such as myself must look elsewhere.

Many professional Black men choose White, Latina, and Asian women, but this is a bad strategy because the White man will elevate these bi-racial children above their fathers and if these children grow up and marry and have kids with non-Black women then their kids won't be Black and will discriminate against Blacks.
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#2 Dec 2, 2010
I also wanted to say I didn't start this thread to bash AA women(I've already done that on many other threads). I started this thread so that professional, wealthy, intellectual AA men such as myself could share ideas with other like minded AA men on the pros and cons of getting foreign Black women.

So I know you AA women are coming to attack me, but again, this thread is not about you, it is about Black men like me who are tired of you all, but who don't want White, Latin, or Asian women.
Ouch

Houston, TX

#3 Dec 2, 2010
OFF TOPIC: When you get the time you should take the time out to contribute to this thread about economic empowerment I made about a week ago.

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T1VC9GNC6PLQ8...

I want to bring it back to life.

“PROSPERITY”

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#4 Dec 2, 2010
Oh give me a break this is bullsh*t!!

“HONOR YOUR ANCESTORS ”

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#6 Dec 2, 2010
I agree with you sometimes, but you seem to be trying to hard. I have come to believe you may be a troll. While it is obvious that the men fathering all these OOW kids are not the best black men available, i don't put all the blame on BW.

I myself could never marry a woman raised in this country. I have west indian parents, and have always wanted a west indian wife. They have a different mindset, yet even they are slowly being infected with this westernized, feminist, sickness.

I will agree that it is best for upwardly mobile black men to steer clear of the "strong, independant" type of women. Nothing against any female who identifies herself as such, but they just are not built for marriage. These women have no idea what the true strength of a female is. As for independance, i am still looking for the black female owned fortune 500 company. Even Oprah has to answer to the owners of ABC (white men).

There is a widening divide in the black communtiy, those who get it, and those who don't. I for one am glad to see it. we need to be able to identify the ones who don't get it
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#7 Dec 2, 2010
innocentprincess7 wrote:
Oh give me a break this is bullsh*t!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =VLeD64KKW7MXX
Yeah, AA women put professional Black men on "ignore" but dead beats like my ex con uncle have no problem getting them.......and THIS is why I started this thread.

Anyways honey, the Afro-Latinas and foreign Black women won't ignore us, I should know since I've been down there. You AA women will be stuck with dead beat Black men like my uncle OR you will remain single.

Now, I didn't start this thread to fight with you AA women so please don't turn it into that.

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

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#8 Dec 2, 2010
...because of their heightism...
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#9 Dec 2, 2010
TheBlackPatriot wrote:
I agree with you sometimes, but you seem to be trying to hard. I have come to believe you may be a troll. While it is obvious that the men fathering all these OOW kids are not the best black men available, i don't put all the blame on BW.
I myself could never marry a woman raised in this country. I have west indian parents, and have always wanted a west indian wife. They have a different mindset, yet even they are slowly being infected with this westernized, feminist, sickness.
I will agree that it is best for upwardly mobile black men to steer clear of the "strong, independant" type of women. Nothing against any female who identifies herself as such, but they just are not built for marriage. These women have no idea what the true strength of a female is. As for independance, i am still looking for the black female owned fortune 500 company. Even Oprah has to answer to the owners of ABC (white men).
There is a widening divide in the black communtiy, those who get it, and those who don't. I for one am glad to see it. we need to be able to identify the ones who don't get it
If I was a White troll why would I be urging Black men to get with FOREIGN Black women? Doesn't make much sense, does it? Believe what you want, I know what I am.

AA women are partly at fault because THEY CHOOSE these bad Black men while ignoring the good ones, they have no one else to blame but themselves. At the end of the day, AA men who are in the same position that me and other Black men are in must make a decision to leave the country and find a foreign Black woman.

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#10 Dec 2, 2010
TheBlackPatriot wrote:
I agree with you sometimes, but you seem to be trying to hard. I have come to believe you may be a troll. While it is obvious that the men fathering all these OOW kids are not the best black men available, i don't put all the blame on BW.
I myself could never marry a woman raised in this country. I have west indian parents, and have always wanted a west indian wife. They have a different mindset, yet even they are slowly being infected with this westernized, feminist, sickness.
I will agree that it is best for upwardly mobile black men to steer clear of the "strong, independant" type of women. Nothing against any female who identifies herself as such, but they just are not built for marriage. These women have no idea what the true strength of a female is. As for independance, i am still looking for the black female owned fortune 500 company. Even Oprah has to answer to the owners of ABC (white men).
There is a widening divide in the black communtiy, those who get it, and those who don't. I for one am glad to see it. we need to be able to identify the ones who don't get it
c/s.. this is must watch from a aaw who definitely gets it. we need many more voices like hers:

&fe ature=related
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#11 Dec 2, 2010
innocentprincess7 wrote:
Oh give me a break this is bullsh*t!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =VLeD64KKW7MXX
I'm listening to this video, and it is a bunch of crap. This woman is making excuses for the bad choices Black women make by saying that "professional Black men aren't giving Black women what they need." Okay........and so I guess the dead beats and thugs are? At least until they get your ass pregnant and then they are gone with the wind, right? Or they end up in prison or dead?

You see, I've been to the tropics, and I've met foreign Black women, and the real problem is AA women and the dead beats they choose. I get ignored by AA women here but then I hop on a plane to Rio and suddenly I have gorgeous babes hitting on me, is it really us professional Black men? No, it isn't.

You AA women piss me off because you keep making these tired old excuses, it disgusts me listening to that imbecile on You Tube, she is just justifying the bad decisions that idiot Black women make.

But hey, I don't give a damn sweet cheeks, because I've been south of the border and the Black women there treated me WAY BETTER than you trash AA women so I'm through with you women because you ain't worth it.

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#12 Dec 2, 2010
See ya later buddy! I think many black american women would like you all to abandon them so they can have more reason to seek out hot white guys. And yes proffesional beautiful black women will have no problem scoring men from other races.
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#13 Dec 2, 2010
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>
c/s.. this is must watch from a aaw who definitely gets it. we need many more voices like hers:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =_AdRs5fEy-kXX&feature=rel ated
Disaster Looms, you and I are like minded and I have a question.....do you plan to stay in the USA and bring a foreign Black woman here, or do you plan to relocate to a foreign country and settle and marry a Black woman there?

I'm thinking of living the USA altogether. Housing prices are cheap and all but I'm thinking getting away from this country altogether wouldn't be a bad idea.
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#14 Dec 2, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
See ya later buddy! I think many black american women would like you all to abandon them so they can have more reason to seek out hot white guys. And yes proffesional beautiful black women will have no problem scoring men from other races.
You can have the White guys honey; and when your Mulatto babies are born, the White man is going to elevate them above your Black ass! Haven't you studied Black history? Don't you know the Mulattoes and other bi-racials often side with Whites? Just look at Tiger Woods. No, you AA women can't counter us by running to the White man, it won't work.

There is one thing you forget; you Black women aren't on the top of the White man's wish list. The White man will pick a White woman first, an Asian woman, a Hispanic, and then maybe a Black woman. You Black women are way down the list.
ppp

Boston, MA

#15 Dec 2, 2010
white man go to africa brig wife ............aa man, they have to do the same.

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Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#16 Dec 2, 2010
Kashta_Bureh wrote:
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If I was a White troll why would I be urging Black men to get with FOREIGN Black women? Doesn't make much sense, does it? Believe what you want, I know what I am.
AA women are partly at fault because THEY CHOOSE these bad Black men while ignoring the good ones, they have no one else to blame but themselves. At the end of the day, AA men who are in the same position that me and other Black men are in must make a decision to leave the country and find a foreign Black woman.
I do not trust you. But on this point, I have to agree. This has been my own experience: not one American so-called black woman has ever done me any kind of justice. As white blonds have never been my favorites (although I will resort to them if things do not get better fast) I see no real alternative but to seek non-AA Arabs, Asians and Africans. So-called AAs are just too destructive and counter productive. They bring nothing to the table that will benefit the African family or the African Nation that cannot be done better bynon-AA Africans, Arabs and Asians. Even the rich ones are not as rich as the Arabs, Asians and Africans. Go figure.

But, I will concede that there are a few good women, all of whom are married and will remain married. But of those married, most are not worth the trouble. They seem to hold their husbands back rather than push them forward. I know excatly what I am talking about because the men in my family, like me, are all the marrying types. But, I would not touch their wives, or women like them, with a ten foot pole no matter what their color is.

“Dynamite Diva!”

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#17 Dec 2, 2010
I'm not even AA but even I'm starting to find you incredibly annoying and tedious.

We "get" it, you're sick of independent career minded women. Enough already. We've had pages and pages of your rambling.

Go to the middle east and get an arab woman because I'm sure that the non-AA black women don't want someone with such a low opinion of women either!
Or if you're so damn clever- invent a time machine so you can go back in time before feminism came into being.
Kashta_Bureh

Norwalk, CA

#18 Dec 2, 2010
ppp wrote:
white man go to africa brig wife ..........aa man, they have to do the same.
Exactly, if these White marshmallow looking dudes can go to Africa, the Caribbean, or Latin America and get non-AA Black women, why can't AA men?

I dedicate this thread to every educated, responsible, financially stable AA man who gets no play from AA women, while watching AA women hook up with dead beat losers and thugs, this thread is dedicated to you.

And my brothers, we have a solution; there is light at the end of the tunnel. The answer is foreign Black women. If you want to stay here in the states, then bring them here. If you have the money and resources, then move down there. But whatever you do, get yourself a foreign Black woman, not an Asian or White woman, because you don't want bi-racial babies because the White man will use them against you.

We successful AA men are at war with our own women, and it is a war we must win. In this thread I will teach the worthy AA men how to gain the most beautiful Black women with the least amount of headaches.

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#19 Dec 2, 2010
I personally agree with this post. It sounds ridiculous on it's face...but when you stop to think about it, the man has a point. If you can't find want you want where you are looking for it or you are constantly being rejected...why not make a change. I did. I couldn't find the acceptance I wanted where I was looking...so I chose to look somewhere else. Though, it hasn't been perfect, it's a 100x better than what I was receiving. I've not been happier.

So, I say go for it. As long as your expectations of these greener pastures aren't unrealistically high, you should be fine. Good Luck!!!

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California

#20 Dec 2, 2010
innocentprincess7 wrote:
Oh give me a break this is bullsh*t!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =VLeD64KKW7MXX
Very interesting link.

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Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#21 Dec 2, 2010
Kashta_Bureh wrote:
<quoted text>
Disaster Looms, you and I are like minded and I have a question.....do you plan to stay in the USA and bring a foreign Black woman here, or do you plan to relocate to a foreign country and settle and marry a Black woman there?
I'm thinking of living the USA altogether. Housing prices are cheap and all but I'm thinking getting away from this country altogether wouldn't be a bad idea.
News flash: Africa is where we came from. And, Africa (including the Arabian Peninsula) is where we must all return to reach our fullest potential. And, I will add that Asia is a good second choice. Africa's destiny is linked to that of Asia: http://grou.ps/frontfortheunificationanddevel... .

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