I love Asian men!!!!!

“YOU TOO?!?!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Houston, TX

#43 Jun 5, 2010
*ignore their....

“Love”

Level 1

Since: Sep 09

Beach Bunny <3

#44 Jun 5, 2010
BlackGoddess wrote:
I can't help it. I am more attracted to them than anyone.
I mean, how can a man look so exotic and sexy?
I think that other races of men are jealous of them... for real.
I thought you liked White guys....*creeped out look*....

Anyways, I've always loved Asian guys, but I'm usually stuck between them and other Black guys. If I'm dating or with an Asian guy, & then I meet a Black guy that I like, then I start to feel torn between them. And vice versa. A hot Asian guy will make me want to leave a Black guy! They both drive me completely INSANE! Its so terrible...:/

lol

“Love”

Level 1

Since: Sep 09

Beach Bunny <3

#47 Jun 5, 2010
Cao Cao wrote:
You may love us but we don't love you. Asian men rarely date out, we rarely date out even with white women, but when we do it isn't with black women. Most of us here bad things about black women, stereotypes that they are loud, fat, ghetto, rude, that kinda of stuff. Asian men in America date Asian women, but when we do date out it's with White women or sometimes Indian women.
I've met, kind of dated/dated, known as friend and had Black friends who dated Asian guys. I used to live in a neighborhood with many Asians and my family has many Asian friends. My professor/mentor at my college is from China and I planned on going to China today, PLUS, my beautician who does my eyebrows is from Shanghai and has invited me to go with her next time - so I know you can't speak for all Asian guys.

Maybe some do think that way, but I've met many Asian guys at my school who've liked me, or liked Black girls. There are also a LOT of Asian guys who are into hip hop dress and dancing and lots of those guys like Black women too. My friend dating an Asian guy was dating a very normal, plain Asian guy who was not into rap music or anything. They started dating in 9th grade and are still together in college at UCI. So don't speak for all of them.

“Love”

Level 1

Since: Sep 09

Beach Bunny <3

#48 Jun 5, 2010
**NO! Lol, I didn't plan on going to China today - I planned on going this summer!!!

That made me sound like a weirdo. haha.
Cao Cao

Kansas City, MO

#49 Jun 5, 2010
everyone loves chocolate wrote:
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I've met, kind of dated/dated, known as friend and had Black friends who dated Asian guys. I used to live in a neighborhood with many Asians and my family has many Asian friends. My professor/mentor at my college is from China and I planned on going to China today, PLUS, my beautician who does my eyebrows is from Shanghai and has invited me to go with her next time - so I know you can't speak for all Asian guys.
Maybe some do think that way, but I've met many Asian guys at my school who've liked me, or liked Black girls. There are also a LOT of Asian guys who are into hip hop dress and dancing and lots of those guys like Black women too. My friend dating an Asian guy was dating a very normal, plain Asian guy who was not into rap music or anything. They started dating in 9th grade and are still together in college at UCI. So don't speak for all of them.
Most of us don't like to date out, stop making it seem as if Asian guys are dating out like crazy. We aren't. We are still loyal to our countrymen back at home. At am from Hong Kong originally, and I am going to get married to a girl from China. Most if not all Asian guys don't date out. It very rare to see Asian man with black woman. That is probably the rarest combination in the world. We are too smart to even consider black women as dating material.
Sharlene84

Los Gatos, CA

#50 Jun 5, 2010
I also have a friend who married a hot Korean guy, been together for 6yrs have amazing looking babies.

“YOU TOO?!?!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Houston, TX

#51 Jun 5, 2010
BlackGoddess wrote:
Why didn't you just lead by example and ignore this thread, bitter black man?
<quoted text>
To simply voice my opinion, and counter false claims made about Black men made by some pathetic excuses for women. And this was the appropriate thread to do so.

Is that OK with you, desperate black woman?

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#52 Jun 5, 2010
I hate these type of threads because it makes black women look desperate. And unless Asian men started pursuing black women then I don't think black women should show that any love.

“The Beating Heart Of Africa”

Level 4

Since: Mar 10

Washington, DC

#53 Jun 5, 2010
So why are you not with one?? I think we all know the answer to this.
Cao Cao

Kansas City, MO

#54 Jun 5, 2010
Face to face,, 90% of whole Asians are afraid of black people and rarely a Asian man would date a black woman. Even if they do ,, under the skin they will always think of you as inferior than a white person. When they do get to know you they will patronize you with something like "Even though he/she is black,, he/she is very good" But black entertainers or athletes are always welcomed in public format. Most Asian societies are very racist ones,, because 90% of us Asians are culturally ignorant SOBs. It has a lot to do with American media and the portrayal of black people. They will assume that you don't speak English well, ie ebonics. In addition, there are a lot of Africans in Itaewon. It's very very true and more than likely, u will never be accepted by their mother if you are not Korean, Chinese, Taiwanese, etc. In fact, you will be rejected. Most Asian mothers want the best for their child, my Korean freind once dated a mixed black girl, his mother was very angry, and she shipped him back to Korea, just so he would not be with the black girl. Black woman-Asian man couples are like considered rare in the US… sometimes even ridiculed as poor matches by whites, blacks and Asians alike. Is this combo freakish as some people who have never seen such a couple put it?

“YOU TOO?!?!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Houston, TX

#55 Jun 5, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
I hate these type of threads because it makes black women look desperate. And unless Asian men started pursuing black women then I don't think black women should show that any love.
lol...

"Desperate" is an understatement.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#56 Jun 5, 2010
Cao Cao wrote:
Face to face,, 90% of whole Asians are afraid of black people and rarely a Asian man would date a black woman. Even if they do ,, under the skin they will always think of you as inferior than a white person. When they do get to know you they will patronize you with something like "Even though he/she is black,, he/she is very good" But black entertainers or athletes are always welcomed in public format. Most Asian societies are very racist ones,, because 90% of us Asians are culturally ignorant SOBs. It has a lot to do with American media and the portrayal of black people. They will assume that you don't speak English well, ie ebonics. In addition, there are a lot of Africans in Itaewon. It's very very true and more than likely, u will never be accepted by their mother if you are not Korean, Chinese, Taiwanese, etc. In fact, you will be rejected. Most Asian mothers want the best for their child, my Korean freind once dated a mixed black girl, his mother was very angry, and she shipped him back to Korea, just so he would not be with the black girl. Black woman-Asian man couples are like considered rare in the US… sometimes even ridiculed as poor matches by whites, blacks and Asians alike. Is this combo freakish as some people who have never seen such a couple put it?
Very True! I remember a few years back when I saw such a couple at walmart I was in shock. I had never seen asian guys express interest in black women but here this asian guy was with his black wife. Now that was ten years ago and that was the only black women/asian man pairing I have ever seen in real life.
Sharlene84

Los Gatos, CA

#57 Jun 5, 2010
The brothas on this thread should start their own forum:
'prejudice reasons why some black men are opposed to the idea of some black women and some Asian men finding love''
Cao Cao

Kansas City, MO

#58 Jun 5, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
I hate these type of threads because it makes black women look desperate. And unless Asian men started pursuing black women then I don't think black women should show that any love.
Yep, and sadly we aren't chasing after you. Asian men are still marrying Asian women. It's very rare that you see Asian man with Black woman. That's the harsh reality of it.
Cao Cao

Kansas City, MO

#59 Jun 5, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Very True! I remember a few years back when I saw such a couple at walmart I was in shock. I had never seen asian guys express interest in black women but here this asian guy was with his black wife. Now that was ten years ago and that was the only black women/asian man pairing I have ever seen in real life.
It's because of how we were brought up. We even rarely date white women, what do you expect? But our Asian women are dating White guys like crazy. That is why I am going to get woman from China, western Asian women are horrible self haters. it sickens me too see so many white guys with Asian women here in America.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#60 Jun 5, 2010
Cao Cao wrote:
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It's because of how we were brought up. We even rarely date white women, what do you expect? But our Asian women are dating White guys like crazy. That is why I am going to get woman from China, western Asian women are horrible self haters. it sickens me too see so many white guys with Asian women here in America.
Wow I have never heard asian men complain about this. Well I am sure you will find a good woman who values her heritage as much as you.

“YOU TOO?!?!”

Level 1

Since: Apr 10

Houston, TX

#61 Jun 5, 2010
"I love Asian men" thread = "Black men bashing/baiting" thread in disguise. That's quite obvious.
Cao Cao

Kansas City, MO

#62 Jun 5, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Wow I have never heard asian men complain about this. Well I am sure you will find a good woman who values her heritage as much as you.
Yes it happens. It's just because were quiet about it. Not all of them, but many Asian women marry white guys for money and status.
Kenyan brother

Owatonna, MN

#63 Jun 5, 2010
TheRealMR_youtoo wrote:
<quoted text>
Cosign %100
A decent man of any race would be smart to stay FAR away from self-hating, color obsessed, women like this. Unless they're just looking for a quick ego boost and some easy sex.
Sadly this is the mentality of a lot of Black women these days.
They are a lost cause. Desperation and self-hate has cause them to want to tear us, their own men down. As Black men we have to ignore there ignorant bantering towards us, and focus on bettering our selves. This should prove to be a great initiative for our advancement to prove all those who doubt us wrong, especially those back-stabbing Black women.
I see it happening very soon.
Yes, that is true. I love my african sisters, but african american women are still slaves to the white man. I mean I love the AA women that stick with their own kind, but the ones that insult their own heritage, bleach their skin, and wear fake hair, I do not respect.

Only because it means they don't like who they are. African american women need to get their shit together, before they end up without any man, period. Even the asian guy on here is against the fact that 'Blackgoddess' hates her own people, it made him sick, and he doesn't talk to her anymore.
blk-fox

Middle Village, NY

#64 Jun 5, 2010
TheRealMR_youtoo wrote:
"I love Asian men" thread = "Black men bashing/baiting" thread in disguise. That's quite obvious.
Not every thread is a BM bashing thread.

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