Do foreign BW hate BM?
Anon

New York, NY

#498 Nov 11, 2013
They embrace the stereotypes = they embrace the stereotyping
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#499 Nov 11, 2013
It's so funny how all the AAM bashing stops when these women are asked about their good ole home in Africa. Suddenly they lose focus and can't hold a thought.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#500 Nov 11, 2013
lol... well, well... look at that.

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Since: May 13

Location hidden

#501 Nov 11, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
It's so funny how all the AAM bashing stops when these women are asked about their good ole home in Africa. Suddenly they lose focus and can't hold a thought.
That's because we are incredulous over how stupid you are. It's because immigrants who come to the U.S. do not come for AAM to abuse us.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#502 Nov 11, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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That's because we are incredulous over how stupid you are. It's because immigrants who come to the U.S. do not come for AAM to abuse us.
You weren't welcomed here so you can perpetuate stereotypes either!

If you stopped to think for 5 damn seconds you might ask yourself why you can't interact with AAM the same way educated non-BW interact with BW.

In my life BW have been spoiled by BM. Song too. Courted. Bought gifts. Told how beautiful they are. And none of that is reflected in how BW act towards BM today. All you reflect is BS stories about how all BM are bad. Have you met all BM? Have you met most? No? Then that is a "perception" you have.

Perceptions are molded by "opinions" on personal experiences. Your ability to see beyond your own narrow minded view of the immediate leads you to disregard most BM.

So stop asking me about your personal experiences. You've couched your personal experiences in a negative light. You control how you interpret those experiences.

Look at Cynee Simpson.

She's a successful educated BW. She lives in the same America you live in. All she dates is BW. Her last BF was the Black Forensics Specialist off of NY CSI.

So let's explore how you both live in the same world yet here you are perpetuating negative stories about BM you claim to know well but she is dating AAM and doing so much better than you.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#503 Nov 11, 2013
"Sung to"

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#504 Nov 11, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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You weren't welcomed here so you can perpetuate stereotypes either!
If you stopped to think for 5 damn seconds you might ask yourself why you can't interact with AAM the same way educated non-BW interact with BW.
In my life BW have been spoiled by BM. Song too. Courted. Bought gifts. Told how beautiful they are. And none of that is reflected in how BW act towards BM today. All you reflect is BS stories about how all BM are bad. Have you met all BM? Have you met most? No? Then that is a "perception" you have.
Perceptions are molded by "opinions" on personal experiences. Your ability to see beyond your own narrow minded view of the immediate leads you to disregard most BM.
So stop asking me about your personal experiences. You've couched your personal experiences in a negative light. You control how you interpret those experiences.
Look at Cynee Simpson.
She's a successful educated BW. She lives in the same America you live in. All she dates is BW. Her last BF was the Black Forensics Specialist off of NY CSI.
So let's explore how you both live in the same world yet here you are perpetuating negative stories about BM you claim to know well but she is dating AAM and doing so much better than you.
There's always the exception! I don't know her story so I can't comment, but I do know the AAW who I know that date AAM say they have to go through lots of pickings and turning the other cheeks.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#505 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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There's always the exception! I don't know her story so I can't comment, but I do know the AAW who I know that date AAM say they have to go through lots of pickings and turning the other cheeks.
That's because you hang out with a bunch of negative minded BW that act like you. And you know it. For you to attract good BM you have to appear inviting. You HAVE no room in your life god BM because you and your pack of wolves have a certain mindset and BM see it a mile away. The only BM that waste time with you are the ones that see that attitude on your face and have an axe to grind with you.

I share an experience with you that reminds me of a brainwashed BW like you.

My nieghbor as a child lost his mother. We all meet up at his house after the funeral and his step father, wife and his buddies he grew up with cooked everything you could imagine for us.

While we sat together and watched video of the decease mother on a big screen a woman stood up and said her phone was missing.She began making a scene. She accused the BM in the room of stealing her phone and demanded it be returned! Now, we all came from different backgrounds... so she took the appearance on face value.

Everyone began looking for her phone. All the BW turned the place upside down. Then the wife and the woman found this ladies phone in her own jacket near the front door.

You see? Some BW can't help it. You see what you want to see because you are so brainwashed.

That woman made me so mad I left out of fear I couldn't keep my mouth closed. I could have chewed her out beyond anything she every heard. She's the type you hang with.

You will ALWAYS get negative vibes off BM because you choose to project that same stink attitude. You think because of your college degree that the average BM can't read your mind. That's exactly why they can't stand you. Plus you Ethiopian so by now everyone must expect some level of BS from you right from the start.

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#506 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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That's because you hang out with a bunch of negative minded BW that act like you. And you know it. For you to attract good BM you have to appear inviting. You HAVE no room in your life god BM because you and your pack of wolves have a certain mindset and BM see it a mile away. The only BM that waste time with you are the ones that see that attitude on your face and have an axe to grind with you.
I share an experience with you that reminds me of a brainwashed BW like you.
My nieghbor as a child lost his mother. We all meet up at his house after the funeral and his step father, wife and his buddies he grew up with cooked everything you could imagine for us.
While we sat together and watched video of the decease mother on a big screen a woman stood up and said her phone was missing.She began making a scene. She accused the BM in the room of stealing her phone and demanded it be returned! Now, we all came from different backgrounds... so she took the appearance on face value.
Everyone began looking for her phone. All the BW turned the place upside down. Then the wife and the woman found this ladies phone in her own jacket near the front door.
You see? Some BW can't help it. You see what you want to see because you are so brainwashed.
That woman made me so mad I left out of fear I couldn't keep my mouth closed. I could have chewed her out beyond anything she every heard. She's the type you hang with.
You will ALWAYS get negative vibes off BM because you choose to project that same stink attitude. You think because of your college degree that the average BM can't read your mind. That's exactly why they can't stand you. Plus you Ethiopian so by now everyone must expect some level of BS from you right from the start.
Lol at "Plus you Ethiopian so by now everyone must expect some level of BS from you right from the start."

I see. So you are assuming things about me immediately...the same way you b!tch and cry about others doing to you? Interesting.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#507 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Lol at "Plus you Ethiopian so by now everyone must expect some level of BS from you right from the start."
I see. So you are assuming things about me immediately...the same way you b!tch and cry about others doing to you? Interesting.
You succumb to group think, do you not? SO, is it not rational for BM to look at YOU as holding certain beliefs based on your religion and ethnic background?

You don't choose to think as an individual. You don't choose the road less traveled.

You choose to take in every bit of dribble you hear and project it onto all BM that physically fit into your stereotypes.

Now... is that the best you got? I want to see you dig deep and get truthful. All the "whining" has been one-sided. It's coming from you. I'm just sick of your BS.

“Creole Coated!”

Level 6

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#508 Nov 12, 2013
fair_guy wrote:
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Is it OK for women to have a only prefer tall men? Seriously this is the same shit Proud Sis...
Hey FG...
I don't have a problem with any AAM having a preferences for dark, brown, light,or white skin in women. I just wanted clarification on what is classified as "redbone" or "yellabone" to AA...:)

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#509 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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You succumb to group think, do you not? SO, is it not rational for BM to look at YOU as holding certain beliefs based on your religion and ethnic background?
You don't choose to think as an individual. You don't choose the road less traveled.
You choose to take in every bit of dribble you hear and project it onto all BM that physically fit into your stereotypes.
Now... is that the best you got? I want to see you dig deep and get truthful. All the "whining" has been one-sided. It's coming from you. I'm just sick of your BS.
I'm sick of yours too. I'm sick of you trying to dismiss my and many others experiences as us being brainwashed. You are ridiculous. 9/10 times, my experiences with AAM are negative at best, disturbing at worst. It's not perception. In fact, I give you more leeway for many reasons, and easily always get burned in some fashion.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#510 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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I'm sick of yours too. I'm sick of you trying to dismiss my and many others experiences as us being brainwashed. You are ridiculous. 9/10 times, my experiences with AAM are negative at best, disturbing at worst. It's not perception. In fact, I give you more leeway for many reasons, and easily always get burned in some fashion.
smdh... So What I said above was BS? How???

You can't even explain how some BW are being quite succesful in dating exclusively AAM. While others like your self are trying to get anyone who will listen to believe the worst things possible.

You claim you gave these guys a kinds of chances but if you were being honest with yourself you A) Would be asking yourself if they were really your type to begin with?
B)Were you REALLY open to them or were you sabotaging your success from the start.

You sound like you are destined to fell.

You have been hitting a wall, and I'm thinking it's intentional, like Halle Berry. You are just wasting time until you can get the attention you want and then claim you tried but to make it work but the stereotypes were all true.

BM see this in you. They know your M.O. and they probably resent you for it...

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#512 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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smdh... So What I said above was BS? How???
You can't even explain how some BW are being quite succesful in dating exclusively AAM. While others like your self are trying to get anyone who will listen to believe the worst things possible.
You claim you gave these guys a kinds of chances but if you were being honest with yourself you A) Would be asking yourself if they were really your type to begin with?
B)Were you REALLY open to them or were you sabotaging your success from the start.
You sound like you are destined to fell.
You have been hitting a wall, and I'm thinking it's intentional, like Halle Berry. You are just wasting time until you can get the attention you want and then claim you tried but to make it work but the stereotypes were all true.
BM see this in you. They know your M.O. and they probably resent you for it...
I never once said I was dating any of you all. Why must my interactions mean I have to date you? I am saying a simple neutral or friendly interaction can rarely occur with you lot. You immediately are ready to abuse or sexually hassle...and sometimes both at the same time. This is my experience again and again and again. ONLY WITH AAM. It can never simply be neutral. It's either they want to objectify, hate or both.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#513 Nov 12, 2013
I sure as hell didn't rate your shxt, so don't get any ideas. I'm tired. I can't go back and forth like this so long.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#514 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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That's because you hang out with a bunch of negative minded BW that act like you. And you know it. For you to attract good BM you have to appear inviting. You HAVE no room in your life god BM because you and your pack of wolves have a certain mindset and BM see it a mile away. The only BM that waste time with you are the ones that see that attitude on your face and have an axe to grind with you.
I share an experience with you that reminds me of a brainwashed BW like you.
My nieghbor as a child lost his mother. We all meet up at his house after the funeral and his step father, wife and his buddies he grew up with cooked everything you could imagine for us.
While we sat together and watched video of the decease mother on a big screen a woman stood up and said her phone was missing.She began making a scene. She accused the BM in the room of stealing her phone and demanded it be returned! Now, we all came from different backgrounds... so she took the appearance on face value.
Everyone began looking for her phone. All the BW turned the place upside down. Then the wife and the woman found this ladies phone in her own jacket near the front door.
You see? Some BW can't help it. You see what you want to see because you are so brainwashed.
That woman made me so mad I left out of fear I couldn't keep my mouth closed. I could have chewed her out beyond anything she every heard. She's the type you hang with.
You will ALWAYS get negative vibes off BM because you choose to project that same stink attitude. You think because of your college degree that the average BM can't read your mind. That's exactly why they can't stand you. Plus you Ethiopian so by now everyone must expect some level of BS from you right from the start.
Could have saved a lot of drama by just calling the phone.
Odds are, if she is that forgetful, she forgot to switch it off too.
Anon

New York, NY

#515 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>I never once said I was dating any of you all. Why must my interactions mean I have to date you? I am saying a simple neutral or friendly interaction can rarely occur with you lot. You immediately are ready to abuse or sexually hassle...and sometimes both at the same time. This is my experience again and again and again. ONLY WITH AAM. It can never simply be neutral. It's either they want to objectify, hate or both.
As I said to Anderson certain types of BW have preconceived notions and inherent prejudices. The exchange you are having with The Enemy Within proves my point, especially this post. The part where you stated,'Only with AA men' is honest and explains a lot about you. The way I see it is that it's only with AA. men you feel resentment when approached. Your resentment is based on preconceived notions and inherent prejudice. You only expect neutral interactions with them. Any approach from them translates to harassment. My impression is that you are the friendly type, and it's very likely these AA men with whom you interact, whatever that means, are not aware of your bias. As someone with much experience in the man-woman dynamics, there is no way any young, single man of any race will approach you for a neutral relationship unless he's gay or otherwise inhibited. You are simply not programmed to go beyond the friendly smile with Black men.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#516 Nov 12, 2013
Shay wrote:
Everyone hates us? Maybe it's because you guys don't love yourselves. How can you expect others to respect you when you don't respect yourselves. All over the forum putting down people who are of the same race as you. You don't see white people, Asians, Latinos, Indians etc doing that. You are probably an embarrassment to accomplished black Americans like Oprah, Condalisa Rice and Fredrick Douglass if he wasn't dead. You actually sit and wonder why life isn't simply a bowl of cherries for you guys. You don't have regard for the feelings of your fellow man, and aint nothing funny about that. You can either change or continue being the pathetic lowlifes that you are.
Good post! It is true, black men continually refuse to admit their faults or take responsibility for them. Black men don't love or respect anyone else or themselves and many times choose the wrong to live through crime which in them in prison instead of living good lives and being a productive part of society. Then they throw pity parties wondering why they love or respected by others.
Anon

New York, NY

#519 Nov 12, 2013
I am having a good laugh over this: a young, more than likely attractive, Oromo or Habesha woman, interacts with AAM, but expects only neutral interaction with them. Damit! Some women are only interested in neutering Black men. I guess their idea of the role of BM is to observe while they give non-Black men all the play. Now the arch type has joined the discussion. Let's have a good laugh, guys.

Level 5

Since: Dec 10

Location hidden

#520 Nov 12, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Stop being a hateful little african lady. There is no need to hurl stereotypes at other black posters.. your boyfriend is a lucky guy :)
I'm not hateful.

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