BLACK WOMEN! Wearing Weave Is A Sign ...

BLACK WOMEN! Wearing Weave Is A Sign Of Self Hate

Created by CHOCOLATE FLAV on May 6, 2009

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It's self hate

Do it to look Eurocentric

To meet the standard of beauty

To gain the acceptance of BM

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“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#1 May 6, 2009
I just want to first start off by saying that I LOVE My beautiful BLACK SISTAHS and I am in no way trying to start an argument because when I was here last year every last one of my threads turned into a 150 page insult warzone and I don't want that this time around.

So please read this post with an open mind and respect my opinion.

I want to first say I'm not speaking for ALL BLACK WOMEN....it would be wrong of me to generalize and lump all BLACK WOMEN into the same catergory.

However,many seem to have the same tendacies and outlook on life because they more often then not come from the same enviornments causing them most times to have the same experiences ,which causes the same behavior...which is why so many BLACK WOMEN can see eye to eye and relate to one another.

My question is....Do black women love themselves?

I'm beginning to think alot of our sistahs don't and it sadens me to my heart because they are in fact the most beautiful ethnicity of women on the planet.

Now nevermind these self hating bruthas who would prefer dating a flat ass ,no lip ,skinny long nose ,pale ,fast aging bunny.

They apparently have some self hating issue and have been brainwashed by the WHITE MAN ,as usual to think pale skin, flat booty, no lips, and no style is better than beautiful, colorful shades of brown skin,full juicy reluptuous lips,and curves out this mofo world.

But what do you BLACK WOMEN feel about yourselves? Can you honestly look AT YOURSELF in the mirror in your natural form (No weaves,No eye contacts,No make up) and say "I LOVE MYSELF." or "I'M HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH WHAT I SEE." ?

I don't think many of you ladies can.

And yall just crack me the FUCK up how yall come up with a millions lame excuses as to why it is you wear weaves.

It's easier to manage...blah blah blah blah blah!

Where has the love for self BLACK WOMEN use to have back in the day gone....when BLACK WOMEN wore their AFROS with pride and dignity?

How can you say you're happy with yourself when you're constantly changing yourself?

Getting nose jobs,thinning out your juicy lips,bleaching your brown skin,wearing make up to make yourselves lighter,and not to forget eye contacts and now... BLONDE WEAVES?

People change things to IMPROVE themselves....why is it you feel like you need to upgrade and improve your natural African features?

Why is it you feel the need to bleach your skin?

Well the answers pretty simple.

Why do people change things? Because they aren't happy with it's current state.

Black women are changing themselves because they aren't happy and satified and content with who they are and what they see when they look in the mirror at night.

They often times have a inferiority complex about their hair texture ,skin color ,facial featurs(broad nose,full lips)and who they are as a whole.

Because if they didn't they wouldn't make so many changes to their body if they were content with being a BLACK WOMAN.

So don't FUCKIN tell me, BLACK WOMEN that you're happy being a BLACK WOMAN because BLACK WOMEN don't have green blue eyes...BLACK WOMEN ,on average don't have straight eurocentric texture hair...and BLACK WOMEN,don't usually have thin ass noses no frog lips ,and blonde hair.

A real PROUD BLACK WOMAN IS NATURAL...that shows that you love what you have.

When you wear weaves and feel the need to change your natural god given features....it shows that you aren't because it you was you wouldn't change them.

BOTTOM LINE!

TAKE HEED TO THIS MESSAGE.

I HAVE A VIDEO ON THIS I WANT YOU ALL TO WATCH.



http://www.youtube.com/watch...

“Find The God Within Yourselves”

Level 1

Since: Jul 08

Born in Paradise

#2 May 6, 2009
you right, brother... keep preaching!

“Yeah, I'm A Guy”

Level 1

Since: Sep 08

So What?

#3 May 6, 2009
I have never worn a weave and my hair is natural but I do know CF some Black women who are very strong and confident who wear weaves. Some just wear them for the convenience or for the simple fact that its their own personal choice.

I have seen some weaves that look very nice and pretty.
Knottie

United States

#4 May 6, 2009
IMAGINE THAT, A SOMEWHAT GAY MAN TELLING WOMEN ABOUT "BEING" WOMEN ;AND WHAT A WOMAN SHOULD BE. IS HE SURE IT IS "US" WHO ARE HAVING THESE ADVERSE FEELINGS ABOUT US. I DO NOT, NOR HAVE I EVER HAD A WEAVE, BUT IMO, THAT DOES NOT DEFINE..."SELF HATE".

IS HE SURE IT IS OUR HATE OF "OURSELVES" HE'S REFERRING TO; OR IS HE PROJECTING HIS DISDAIN FOR WOMEN ONTO US?

x
Knottie

United States

#5 May 6, 2009
AFRICANS "IN" AMERICA!

x
Shaquita

Montgomery, AL

#6 May 6, 2009
A lot of black women have had relaxers in their hair since they were little girls, through no fault of their own, and the only way to upkeep the hair is to continue to relax it.

Don't judge black women.
Shaquita

Montgomery, AL

#7 May 6, 2009
Also, its hard for some black women to see themselves as beautiful when so many black men act as if we aren't.

“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#8 May 6, 2009
Pharaoh Malik-Akin wrote:
you right, brother... keep preaching!
Much Love, Pharaoh Malik:)

“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#9 May 6, 2009
lilnita wrote:
I have never worn a weave and my hair is natural but I do know CF some Black women who are very strong and confident who wear weaves. Some just wear them for the convenience or for the simple fact that its their own personal choice.
I have seen some weaves that look very nice and pretty.
Yea, that's why I made it clear that I wasn't talking about every black woman.

But my thing is...if you switch it up every now and then...I have no prob with that ,boo....but it's the women who live and die with the weave that disturb me.

“Engaged :)”

Since: Aug 07

Salisbury, UK

#11 May 6, 2009
lol what makes me laugh are the black women who wear weave yet call themselves pro black?

how does that make sense?????

“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#12 May 6, 2009
Knottie wrote:
IMAGINE THAT, A SOMEWHAT GAY MAN TELLING WOMEN ABOUT "BEING" WOMEN ;AND WHAT A WOMAN SHOULD BE. IS HE SURE IT IS "US" WHO ARE HAVING THESE ADVERSE FEELINGS ABOUT US. I DO NOT, NOR HAVE I EVER HAD A WEAVE, BUT IMO, THAT DOES NOT DEFINE..."SELF HATE".
IS HE SURE IT IS OUR HATE OF "OURSELVES" HE'S REFERRING TO; OR IS HE PROJECTING HIS DISDAIN FOR WOMEN ONTO US?
x
This stupidity and ignorance in BLACK PEOPLE in general is the main cause of the breakdown in the BLACK COMMUNITY.

Instead of taking accountability and coming up with realistic solutions to solve the problem, we deflect it by speaking on irrelevant shit like sexuality ,which has nothing to do with the important topic at hand.

I'm not gay ,and if I was...that doesn't mean that my points aren't valid or legitimate.

And how the fkk did you conclude from my post that I was TRYING TO TELL WOMEN HOW TO BE A WOMAN?

WTF?

I'm talking about self hate which in fact is not only an issue with BLACK WOMEN but BLACK MEN.

GROW UP and get help...your level OF childishness is beyond shocking and quite disturbing.
Shaquita

Montgomery, AL

#13 May 6, 2009
brutality wrote:
<quoted text>
Ya CHEATIN azz HOBAG!!!
GITcher azz back in bed boi....an I meanz NAH!
RAT nah!
lmbao

“Whatever”

Since: Apr 08

San Jose, California

#14 May 6, 2009
another boring thread. just go f*ck WW.....stop demonizing BW. They are your sisters and your mothers.

This is just one excuse for you to run chasing fat white chicks.

“Find The God Within Yourselves”

Level 1

Since: Jul 08

Born in Paradise

#15 May 6, 2009
Chocolate Flavor is actually being rather nice on this issue. So Ladies-- PLEASE dont attack him. He is a lot tamer than What I would have said.

I say that chemically straightening, blonde-ing, fake blue-eyed contact wearing, wig-wearing, and skin-bleaching, and plastic-surgery having are ALL symptoms of European-ification of the African Mind.

You can disagree with me w/e. But until we as a race become proud of our features and what we are born with and who we naturally ARE, we will never become the proud Gods we used to be.

PEACE!

“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#16 May 6, 2009
Pharaoh Malik-Akin wrote:
Chocolate Flavor is actually being rather nice on this issue. So Ladies-- PLEASE dont attack him. He is a lot tamer than What I would have said.
I say that chemically straightening, blonde-ing, fake blue-eyed contact wearing, wig-wearing, and skin-bleaching, and plastic-surgery having are ALL symptoms of European-ification of the African Mind.
You can disagree with me w/e. But until we as a race become proud of our features and what we are born with and who we naturally ARE, we will never become the proud Gods we used to be.
PEACE!
This is why things will never change in the black community ,because we are soooo ALLERGIC TO THE TRUTH.

I mean....we HATE to hear the TRUTH!

And the first step to changing any situation is to be able to ADMIT...ADMIT...ADMIT that the problem exist.

They would tell you that in any rehab program....the first step to recovery is to realize you have a probelm and so many black folk as you see aren't willing nor able to do that.

Shakes head....are people are so sad!

“ANGRY GORILLA”

Since: Dec 08

PHILLY

#17 May 6, 2009
Lily_is_back_bitches wrote:
another boring thread. just go f*ck WW.....stop demonizing BW. They are your sisters and your mothers.
This is just one excuse for you to run chasing fat white chicks.
WTF are you talking about?

I'm saying that black women don't need to wear eurcocentric hairstyles and go the extra mile to look beautiful because theyre beautiful as they are when theyre natural...african features...im not trying in anyway to hurt you or be mean.

Im just saying that this self hate has to stop and that black women should start learning to how to be more appreciative for what they have been theyre unique and beautiful as they are.

What's wrong with you?

“Remember to Breathe!”

Since: Jan 09

Damian is my Addiction!!!

#18 May 6, 2009
I don't wear weaves anymore but best believe I'll throw a wig on if my hair appointment is at 4 and I have to be to work at 6am. I don't get perms and I don't use heat in my hair, so I'll be throwing a wig on.

It has nothing to do with self hatred, it's a convenience.

All that other jazz you are talking about skin bleaching, lip thinning (which I've never even heard of), and blue contacts is extreme but I don't know any black women who do that. Topix is the first place I've heard of any of that, so I'm inclined to believe it's over exaggerated.

“Whatever”

Since: Apr 08

San Jose, California

#19 May 6, 2009
CHOCOLATE FLAV wrote:
<quoted text>WTF are you talking about?
I'm saying that black women don't need to wear eurcocentric hairstyles and go the extra mile to look beautiful because theyre beautiful as they are when theyre natural...african features...im not trying in anyway to hurt you or be mean.
Im just saying that this self hate has to stop and that black women should start learning to how to be more appreciative for what they have been theyre unique and beautiful as they are.
What's wrong with you?
Like you'd date a BW with her naturally "rough/kinky" hair. If you would, then you are one of those VERY few AA BM who would.

BW feel pressured to look white cause all BM do is date/screw/marry/chase after WW.

Since: Apr 09

Tallahassee

#20 May 6, 2009
I agree 100%! Good post, I do feel that the women who wear blonde fake hair with excessive chemicals, skin bleaching, fake eye contacts (basically describing Lil Kim) DO have self-hatred. The omen who do this aren't happy being black if they could magically make their skin ligher their hair straight, their eyes light etc.. they would. On average black people do not look like that so what are these women trying to look like?

Since: Apr 09

Tallahassee

#21 May 6, 2009
Lily_is_back_bitches wrote:
<quoted text>
Like you'd date a BW with her naturally "rough/kinky" hair. If you would, then you are one of those VERY few AA BM who would.
BW feel pressured to look white cause all BM do is date/screw/marry/chase after WW.
Only 6% of black men marry white women.

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