If your a black man, please come in! I want your honest opinion!

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#1 Dec 9, 2013
Please fill up this survey about interracial dating. There's only 4 questions. It will only take you less than a minute. Please be honest, that's all I am asking for!
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1nciG2iXff3Sv...

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#3 Dec 10, 2013
Plz come in to vote!
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#4 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
Plz come in to vote!
What's the true meaning behind this thread?

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#5 Dec 10, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>What's the true meaning behind this thread?
I am just curious about what most black men think. I rarely see any Asian/black couple in my area, but I see other types of interracial couples much more often. I am very attracted to black guys but I've come to realize that very few of them will actually consider me. I am just trying to figure out what they think.
Soul Hunter

Los Angeles, CA

#6 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal"
I am just curious about what most black men think. I rarely see any Asian/black couple in my area, but I see other types of interracial couples much more often. I am very attracted to black guys but I've come to realize that very few of them will actually consider me. I am just trying to figure out what they think.

Been reading your post and if your are interested in meeting bm you should join a ir dating site.

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#7 Dec 10, 2013
Soul Hunter wrote:
Anniemal"
I am just curious about what most black men think. I rarely see any Asian/black couple in my area, but I see other types of interracial couples much more often. I am very attracted to black guys but I've come to realize that very few of them will actually consider me. I am just trying to figure out what they think.
Been reading your post and if your are interested in meeting bm you should join a ir dating site.
I still prefer to find someone around me but my town is just a very close-minded place. I wish I could eventually go to New York or Chicago to find somebody. If I can make it, I'd just give up on black guys completely.

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#8 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I still prefer to find someone around me but my town is just a very close-minded place. I wish I could eventually go to New York or Chicago to find somebody. If I can make it, I'd just give up on black guys completely.
If I can't make it to the big cities, I'd just give up on black guys completely.
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#9 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I am just curious about what most black men think. I rarely see any Asian/black couple in my area, but I see other types of interracial couples much more often. I am very attracted to black guys but I've come to realize that very few of them will actually consider me. I am just trying to figure out what they think.
Blackmen are understanding and very open minded. Its absolutely nothing wrong with Asian women. Have you been into us your whole life? Or is this a curious attraction?

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#10 Dec 10, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>Blackmen are understanding and very open minded. Its absolutely nothing wrong with Asian women. Have you been into us your whole life? Or is this a curious attraction?
I started to find some of you guys really hot since high school years. It's been many years.

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#11 Dec 10, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>Blackmen are understanding and very open minded. Its absolutely nothing wrong with Asian women. Have you been into us your whole life? Or is this a curious attraction?
I am also pretty much into your culture. I read several books about slavery and civil war in high school. I have some African American friends in college and they're pretty nice to me. A lot of ppl told me that black men are open-minded but in reality they just only wanna be my friends, especially the hot ones. I also have never seen a black man with an Asian girl in my university.
Cigar Face

Hollywood, FL

#12 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I am also pretty much into your culture. I read several books about slavery and civil war in high school. I have some African American friends in college and they're pretty nice to me. A lot of ppl told me that black men are open-minded but in reality they just only wanna be my friends, especially the hot ones. I also have never seen a black man with an Asian girl in my university.
We are nice and polite and open-minded cause thats the way we do things,and we think like that cause its our identity,and people get mad cause we wont think closed minded. You seem like a very nice woman. Im sure its a matter of time before the kind of man you need is alredy checking you out and will approach you the correct way. Women like you are rare .
KingsloveQueens

Walnut Creek, CA

#14 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I am just curious about what most black men think. I rarely see any Asian/black couple in my area, but I see other types of interracial couples much more often. I am very attracted to black guys but I've come to realize that very few of them will actually consider me. I am just trying to figure out what they think.
In northern Cali..bm I/R with Asian females not as much as wht men but enough to take notice anyway..I think most bm outside of northern cali assume Asian women circles (family and friends)would not be popular for them to be with a bm so most bm assume Asian w want wht men or Asian men...

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#15 Dec 10, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>We are nice and polite and open-minded cause thats the way we do things,and we think like that cause its our identity,and people get mad cause we wont think closed minded. You seem like a very nice woman. Im sure its a matter of time before the kind of man you need is alredy checking you out and will approach you the correct way. Women like you are rare .
Thank you so much! I really don't understand why so many people are close-minded. I almost gave up on looking for black guys cuz I feel they're just not into me. Before I gave up, I'd like to figure out why they're not into me.(maybe Asians in general, cuz I'm definitely not an ugly or boring Asian). Some ppl said it might be because I'm not black guys' type, even though a lot of Asian/white men find me very hot. You sound pretty nice but most black guys around me only wanna be my friends, except several desperate and unattractive ones.

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#16 Dec 10, 2013
I think you do not see a lot aw/bm relationships because they have a hard time finding one another. Plus add the fact that most aw do not like bm or that is what bm tend to think. So I guess that is why bm around you just wanna be your friend. Maybe some of them think you are not into them.

But if you want to find a decent bm in this country online dating site would probably be your best bet.
Cigar Face

Miami, FL

#17 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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Thank you so much! I really don't understand why so many people are close-minded. I almost gave up on looking for black guys cuz I feel they're just not into me. Before I gave up, I'd like to figure out why they're not into me.(maybe Asians in general, cuz I'm definitely not an ugly or boring Asian). Some ppl said it might be because I'm not black guys' type, even though a lot of Asian/white men find me very hot. You sound pretty nice but most black guys around me only wanna be my friends, except several desperate and unattractive ones.
Blackmen are into Asian women. What make you think we aren't into you? It has to be a deeper reason for it, or you wouldn' t be here? Have you been exposed to the wrong kind of brothas? Like homos,workaholics,prettyboys? Because the average opened minded blackman is looking for you.

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#18 Dec 10, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>Blackmen are into Asian women. What make you think we aren't into you? It has to be a deeper reason for it, or you wouldn' t be here? Have you been exposed to the wrong kind of brothas? Like homos,workaholics,prettyboys? Because the average opened minded blackman is looking for you.
I don't know. Maybe it's all because of my location. I've dated one black guy before but he was really weird.
Cigar Face

Miami, FL

#19 Dec 10, 2013
Anniemal wrote:
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I don't know. Maybe it's all because of my location. I've dated one black guy before but he was really weird.
Weird, Like how?

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