Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#22 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin,

The decent black men aren't checking for black women in the first place. That's why a lot of black women are whining and complaining, because you're left with the losers. Only 30% of black women would be able to attract a successful non-black man. The mothers that are trying to raise them by themselves are failing. Both of my adult black daughters are married to responsible men, 1 black one non-black. No normal decent non-black man will intentionally hook up with a black women with multiple" baby daddies" . I'm one of those decent black men that took responsibility and raised my children(same mother, in wedlock). Their black mother had the class and the upbringing(father in home) to respect herself and make a decent choice in a man. My girls spoiled me on Father's day. You sound like you had a miserable Father's day, no father around? Blame your mother not black men like me that actually raised their children. IR dating usually work for any women with class. I'll bet most of you black men haters are surrounded by loser ass bm.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#23 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin,

Sounds like your mom didn't have a father around either. I hope you make better choices so you can break the cycle. Btw I rather see a educated classy black woman with a non-black man than a black thug with their pants hanging off ass. I guess that's the father in me. Most black women raised without their fathers end up hating black men just like their mothers. I have a adult son in the military and he found him a nice young educated black woman. I always told him to make sure that any women that he's serious about has a father that she can introduce him to. Women raised with their fathers are usually traditional.
Karmin

Miami, FL

#25 Jun 17, 2014
It's not really relevant because a lot of educated bw are wisening up and not settling for BM. What made you think I was even checking for black males? I'm shining the light on the pathetic state of black males, thats just it. Y'all are way too irrelevant for me to hate, I rather expend my energy on more meaningful things..
Yep, I had an awesome father's day with my dad, and I was smart enough to choose a man who possessed the same qualities as my dad.
American society is surrounded by loser ass bm, get it right.

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#26 Jun 17, 2014
Ugh wrote:
It's everywhere now! The numbers are bigger than anytime in History. Even in Houston. In Black community, you see majority BM/BW. Outside of the Black Community though, these brothers are with either, White Women or Latina women......more White Women, though.
And these brothers look nothing like thugs or anything these lying sisters tries to paint us to be. It's surreal, man. Haha. They driving better rides, dressing nicer, look better than the Blacks and Thugs in the Black Community.
And when you see a BW outside of the Black community, she's either by herself, with a group of Black girlfriends or a few of them are with BM.
The Media and Reality is two different things. Reality shows the BM are seriously moving on from BW in a BIG WAY!
All ur saying is lighter-skinned/mixed race BM are REPLACING BM.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#27 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin,

Is your father black?
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#28 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin,
American society is surrounded by loser ass black men raised by single black women. You get it right. Most black men raised by both parents turn out okay. Now what happens to the uneducated hoodrat that keep giving birth to these losers. Let's see if they can get a non-black man. Even if you are educated , if you are an obese black women you're stuck. Most black women can't get a successful non-black man, if they were really checking for you it wouldn't be so many bw single. Clue most black men that date out have no taste for black women period.. If you're black and you get pregnant by your non black man your child will be considered black by this racist society, If you find that you're having a son maybe you should think about abortion.
Karmin

Miami, FL

#29 Jun 17, 2014
I must have hit a nerve. Black males forever stuck in immaturity. You just love pulling stats outta of your azz huh? There are several cases of black males from two parents households who ended up being useless to soiety. Single mother excuse is just a cop-out because bm can never take responsibility. Y'all will still be in yours 40's blaming your mommas on your poor life choices. Keep blaming your moms, you're the ones filling up prisons and the morgue.
And why do you keep mentioning what kind of woman most bm want to me? Bm are not on my radar. I'm already with a man who adores and cherish so your bitter ramblings don't faze me. If I have son, I will raise to be a productive citizen, with the help of his dad.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#30 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin,

Thank you for breaking the cycle and making good choices in men(black or non-black). I'm sure with your husbands help you'll raise decent children. Go and get the message out to all of your ratchet chickenhead cousins and sisters. As for immaturity, I already raised my chlidren to adulthood, you still have a long way to go.
WSHH

Twickenham, UK

#31 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin wrote:
It's not really relevant because a lot of educated bw are wisening up and not settling for BM. What made you think I was even checking for black males? I'm shining the light on the pathetic state of black males, thats just it. Y'all are way too irrelevant for me to hate, I rather expend my energy on more meaningful things..
Yep, I had an awesome father's day with my dad, and I was smart enough to choose a man who possessed the same qualities as my dad.
American society is surrounded by loser ass bm, get it right.
65% of bm are single according to the stats.BM are just bragging about breeding themselves out,the sons and daughters they have with non bw chose white partners 95% of the time.Black men are just replacing themselves with lightskin/mixed bm like another poster stated eventually giving them blonde haired blue eyed grandchildren.AA men phasing themselves out is just nature correcting itself.
Level 2

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#32 Jun 17, 2014
Karmin wrote:
I must have hit a nerve. Black males forever stuck in immaturity. You just love pulling stats outta of your azz huh? There are several cases of black males from two parents households who ended up being useless to soiety. Single mother excuse is just a cop-out because bm can never take responsibility. Y'all will still be in yours 40's blaming your mommas on your poor life choices. Keep blaming your moms, you're the ones filling up prisons and the morgue.
And why do you keep mentioning what kind of woman most bm want to me? Bm are not on my radar. I'm already with a man who adores and cherish so your bitter ramblings don't faze me. If I have son, I will raise to be a productive citizen, with the help of his dad.
Nothing is absolute, there are black men who were raised by single moms who turned very well! But your chances are much better when you have two parents in the household! Sadly a lot of black females goal is to have a baby as soon as they can with whoever!
SBT

Providence, UT

#33 Jun 17, 2014
Broadway wrote:
Karmin,
Sounds like your mom didn't have a father around either. I hope you make better choices so you can break the cycle. Btw I rather see a educated classy black woman with a non-black man than a black thug with their pants hanging off ass. I guess that's the father in me. Most black women raised without their fathers end up hating black men just like their mothers. I have a adult son in the military and he found him a nice young educated black woman. I always told him to make sure that any women that he's serious about has a father that she can introduce him to. Women raised with their fathers are usually traditional.
Black women should choose African or Caribbean men,these men are responsible,hardworking and serious about education like Asians and Jews.African American men have arrogant and self entitled attitudes like wm.You are mutts with inferior dna,it makes sense that you're more compatible with non bw and want to immerse yourself in white culture.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#34 Jun 18, 2014
SBT,

So you're going to depend on another black culture to supply African American women with responsible men? Basically you're saying that African American women are failures at raising men. I'm not, you are.
African and Caribbean men are black just like African American men,
I wonder what their mothers did different than African American women to make sure their sons were responsible and hardworking? They made sure that the men that fathered their sons were responsible and hardworking. I always say if the father wasn't sh*t , 8 times out of 10 the son won't be sh*t. I'm not anti black women but African American women need to go back to being traditional like a lot of African and Caribbean women are. I not denying that this generation of black men are a disgrace. Decent American black men and women are all starting to date out because of Tyqueshia, Pookie and Ray Rays. Good hardworking responsible American black men exist, but they've given up just like the decent American black women has. Maybe it's for the good.
Mike

Fulton, NY

#35 Jun 22, 2014
The reality is such: though I am white, with my extensive law-enforcement, military and social services background I can state that many young, professioanal African- American females will never find a successful, dedicated African American male. Where I worked in NYC, there were a number of really nice looking black females who, now in their mid-30's, were still single. None were ever married. They have actually given up. If someone comes along, it will happen or so they told me. The problem is that many black males are well known to the legal system, are on drugs, in prison, parolees/probationers, hold no responsibility of any kind, are rappers ... etc. One black female told my sister that when she found a black dating agency, all they ever gave her were black parolees who only wanted to rip her off sexually and financially. They had nothing, cared about nothing, and were totally useless. Sad! But that is reality.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#36 Jun 23, 2014
Mike,

I can state the young black males with no criminal records and with good futures ahead of them aren't checking for black females, because most of these men are rejected by them. You're just another white man that's out to spit on black men. You sound like a racist. A lot of black male police I know personally aren't with black females.
A Black Man

Fredericksburg, VA

#37 Jun 23, 2014
dbiggs69 wrote:
<quoted text> I'm a black male and I no longer date also! I always hear black women say "I don't need a man" and yet when they give you some they always have their hand out! I'm not taking care of two households!
They just want government welfare jobs!
A Black Man

Fredericksburg, VA

#38 Jun 23, 2014
Mike wrote:
The reality is such: though I am white, with my extensive law-enforcement, military and social services background I can state that many young, professioanal African- American females will never find a successful, dedicated African American male. Where I worked in NYC, there were a number of really nice looking black females who, now in their mid-30's, were still single. None were ever married. They have actually given up. If someone comes along, it will happen or so they told me. The problem is that many black males are well known to the legal system, are on drugs, in prison, parolees/probationers, hold no responsibility of any kind, are rappers ... etc. One black female told my sister that when she found a black dating agency, all they ever gave her were black parolees who only wanted to rip her off sexually and financially. They had nothing, cared about nothing, and were totally useless. Sad! But that is reality.
Many young, professional African-American female are high functioning hoodrats!
A Black Man

Fredericksburg, VA

#39 Jun 23, 2014
Karmin wrote:
Black males always have something to say on what BW are doing wrong but nothing to say on their pathetic selves. Last I checked, black women are attending college at the highest rates, while black males are dropping out of highscool at record rates. Are they not raised in the same single mother homes? There was even a case of a black male who came from a 2 parent household, that decide to drop his college scholarship to pursue a rap career. You would see them well into their 40s standing on corners and doing nothing productive with their lives.
Zero accountability and inability to man up from black males. Always someone to blame for their doings and poor choices. Disgusting effeminate attitude
it's much easier to go college when the government is paying for it

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#40 Jun 23, 2014
Broadway wrote:
SBT,

So you're going to depend on another black culture to supply African American women with responsible men? Basically you're saying that African American women are failures at raising men.
Women of any race don't raise men.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#41 Jun 23, 2014
A Black Man,

If African American woman didn't give the losers they complain about so much "play" it wouldn't be so many of them.
Broadway

Tempe, AZ

#42 Jun 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended ,

That's why you need a man to help raise a man. Stop blaming black men because you're making bad choices in men.

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