but not helping a person who is dealing with depression is not good.<quoted text>
I assure you most blacks don't need validation. If you see a grown adult struggling with self esteem that isn't your fight. I see women and men all the time who seem down etc. For all I know there cat could have just died. Unless I know them, I leave them be.
Not to mention lots of you guys believing blacks need you to cheer them on, aren't much yourselves.
#1 cause of suicide is untreated depression. and low self esteem is one possible cause of depression.