Kelly Rowland Says She Hated Her Dark...
Donna

Chicago, IL

#804 Mar 16, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>The "sistas" are just as color struck...TRUST!
But I guess you're going to tell me that Black men in the states have something to do with that too, huh?
how are we so " colorstruck" when most of us praise " the bald head chocolate brother" ? If we were so colorstruck we would stop sleeping with dark skin men in fear of dark skin kids! Bm are more colorstruck than black women

Since: Jul 10

Minneapolis, MN

#805 Mar 16, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
You went around harassing my GF's and calling them Dark Ugly B*tches and they were dark skin classy women.
You calling her a Sheboon bytch. calling her the white man Cum bucket ..........she's an executive for a Fortune 500 company!
She talked to you Civil she even showed me! I told her you were married to a White woman for 16 years at the time she was shocked!
Someone like You..........
http://youtu.be/1evI__iy9y0
You and Tommy chased her for 2 years calling her Ugly B*tch whor*es!.........
The guy she met on Match married her after a year when she came back from New Zealand. As a result she said she wouldn't marry or date any Black males !
They both live well and she's very very happy! After being treated so poorly by MOST Black males she finally found someone who didn't call her a Bytch, slut or too dark Nappy headed bytch like you called her for 2 years !
Your Sorry MACEO!
I dont think you EVER had a GF.
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nerds aka aspies have better luck than you for getting dates. why do you think there are soo many running about.

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Since: Oct 10

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#806 Mar 16, 2013
London wrote:
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Nonsense. And they certainly aren't as hateful. Plus I thought black males were supposed to be men. Why are you guys always comparing yourselves to women?
Its funny...you can question me "comparing" and contrasting, but my post was merely a response to someone who was "comparing" and contrasting.

The fact that you would have the audacity to even go as far as to question my manhood without challenging the womanhood of the poster I responded to, doesn't do much for your integrity as a poster.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#807 Mar 16, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Cogito thinks you're an idiot.
I think Cogito is a parroting fool. He's knowledgeable but he's not wise. I've ran across more than a few just like him. To put it more plainly, I don't care what Cogito thinks. He thinks I'm an idiot. I think he's a buffoon.

So that's how he and I will do this thing.
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
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I just think you're a mad woman who has an affinity for being contrary even if it does rail against all logic.
Some truth...I feel in order to come up with new ideas and solutions to problems; one must hear the most outlandish possibilities.

I think though you meant to type I'm a BAD woman. It's okay, all is forgiven dear.
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
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Why does my post sound "weird"? If Blacks assumed their identities and used their identity to help develope their pride and self-worth, we'd all get a different response from people groups who despise US.
You have just listed the recipe for more disrespect, not less. Self love is within.
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
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post only sounds "weird" to YOU because that isn't the response YOU get from whites.
Most whites I meet in life are tending to their own business. They don't have time to uplift me and give me a standing ovation because they simply have sh!t to do.

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#808 Mar 16, 2013
Donna wrote:
<quoted text> how are we so " colorstruck" when most of us praise " the bald head chocolate brother" ? If we were so colorstruck we would stop sleeping with dark skin men in fear of dark skin kids! Bm are more colorstruck than black women
When you consider how often Black men step outside their race its safe to determine that Black men have more of a proclivity with being color struck. HOWEVER...the focus shouldn't be whose on top of the color struck pile. I think what's important here is to seek ways to resolve the condition through raising a generation of Black men & women who'll want to seek romance/ marriage with their own as opposed to "crossing over".

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#809 Mar 16, 2013
We have to het a hold of the minds of OUR children. If not, we WILL be extinct.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#810 Mar 16, 2013
I certainly don't like the ant looking bm. I will admit to that. They are the most hateful toward darker bw which I've always found amusing considering they aren't the least bit appealing. In all honesty, I think they practice racism as a means of protection. That's my view. It's like they want to reject me before I reject them or something.

I'm like hey, do whatever you gotta dude. Like the song says "Blame it On Me" if you have to.

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#811 Mar 16, 2013
holycrap wrote:
<quoted text> I think Cogito is a parroting fool. He's knowledgeable but he's not wise. I've ran across more than a few just like him. To put it more plainly, I don't care what Cogito thinks. He thinks I'm an idiot. I think he's a buffoon.
So that's how he and I will do this thing.
<quoted text> Some truth...I feel in order to come up with new ideas and solutions to problems; one must hear the most outlandish possibilities.
I think though you meant to type I'm a BAD woman. It's okay, all is forgiven dear.
<quoted text> You have just listed the recipe for more disrespect, not less. Self love is within.
<quoted text>Most whites I meet in life are tending to their own business. They don't have time to uplift me and give me a standing ovation because they simply have sh!t to do.
Noone is seeking praise from whites...let's just be clear on this. But what makes you think that whites, as long as they've been examining Blacks, cannot tell when they encounter an individual of another race apart from their own who is established in knowing who they are and are proud of who they are from those who do not exude that same measure of pride & self-awareness???

whites may be "tending to their business" as you placed it, but a great deal of them "tending to their business" is also WATCHING YOU. You better remember that!!!!

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#812 Mar 16, 2013
holycrap wrote:
I certainly don't like the ant looking bm. I will admit to that. They are the most hateful toward darker bw which I've always found amusing considering they aren't the least bit appealing. In all honesty, I think they practice racism as a means of protection. That's my view. It's like they want to reject me before I reject them or something.
I'm like hey, do whatever you gotta dude. Like the song says "Blame it On Me" if you have to.
What the fk are you talkin' about??????????

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Since: Jun 10

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#813 Mar 16, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>First off, I didn't "ASSume" that you had "kinky" hair all because your Black, and the reason why I never ASSumed such a thing was because being Black myself I realize OUR Blackness is not subjected to one particular type of hair texture, and I'm also a Black peson who appreciates and celebrates ALL of OUR diversities. Its just a reproach that as a Black woman you don't.
SMH
Bro..she is nuts...she went off on me the exact same way. I never said she looked like Jimmie Walker (not trying to make a judgement about his looks or anything), but somehow she interpreted my posts as to mean she has thick lips, and nappy hair. She is overly defensive and sensitive about this for some reason.

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#814 Mar 16, 2013
holycrap wrote:
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Again, more b.s. from you. I simply don't like that hair texture and I didn't want my kids to have it. It isn't my hair texture nor do I believe just because I have something physically with myself that I have to like it nor appreciate it.
If I had an extra finger would I have to also like that and pass that on to my kids? NO. Some things lots of us simply don't wish our kids to have even if we ourselves have it. If I had nappy hair I wouldn't want my kids to have it. Luckily for me I don't have it. Luckily for me my genes were strong enough to pass to my kids. Obviously I would not care and love my kids if they had kinky hair however I certainly thought about these things when I chose my husband because I consider kinky hair a negative trait. Therefore, I looked at his physical traits as well as his mental stability (because mental instability is inherited as well). If my partner had nappy hair but yet was still a good solid guy with other attributes I would have chosen him still. Just saying however that I didn't want my kids to have nappy hair.
You sound nuttier with each post. I wish you'd just go interracial and forget we even exist.
London

Powell, OH

#815 Mar 16, 2013
Donna wrote:
<quoted text> how are we so " colorstruck" when most of us praise " the bald head chocolate brother" ? If we were so colorstruck we would stop sleeping with dark skin men in fear of dark skin kids! Bm are more colorstruck than black women
Again, showing your stupidity. If you are having sex with these men who in truth don't care much for you, get pregnant and you end up having a BLACK kid so he leaves (as the stats and state of community show). Whose the fool? Especially considering he's probably bumping a hateful skin obsessed rap song in your presence.

And most of us are NOT praising these dudes. Only you stupid bw continue to do this. If you stupid women would simply stfu.. maybe, just maybe, we could make SOME sort of progress on this thing.

You have no strategy, no intellect and no insight. You are just here laying it all out and attacking them but praising them all at the same time. Get a clue.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#816 Mar 16, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>What the fk are you talkin' about??????????
lol. Just talking about the type of bm who tend to show racism.

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#817 Mar 16, 2013
Hannia wrote:
Well when many of these Black men keep talking about how they like redbones and light skinned women, what did you expect? Black men in this country are very color struck.
She is a beautiful woman so good to hear she got over it.
Colorstruck? I think not. Are you yet another TOPIX female who wants affirmative action for dark skinned sisters?

If a guy is with a woman, believe me it is because he is attracted to her personally. It isn't her skin tone, or to impress white men (LMAO).

If a guy doesn't like a certain dark skinned sister, it is because she is whack. Externally or physically. It isn't her skin tone.

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#818 Mar 16, 2013
Correction: externally or internally
holycrap

Powell, OH

#819 Mar 16, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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Bro..she is nuts...she went off on me the exact same way. I never said she looked like Jimmie Walker (not trying to make a judgement about his looks or anything), but somehow she interpreted my posts as to mean she has thick lips, and nappy hair. She is overly defensive and sensitive about this for some reason.
I'm just as defensive about my hair and features and those with nappy hair are. You assumed I had nappy hair so I corrected you. You have yet to admit you showed yourself with this assumption. I find that interesting.

Dev, I showed you up on this issue and you won't admit it.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#820 Mar 16, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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You sound nuttier with each post. I wish you'd just go interracial and forget we even exist.
And you're the nut who won't admit the assumption regarding my hair texture.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#821 Mar 16, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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Colorstruck? I think not. Are you yet another TOPIX female who wants affirmative action for dark skinned sisters?
If a guy is with a woman, believe me it is because he is attracted to her personally. It isn't her skin tone, or to impress white men (LMAO).
If a guy doesn't like a certain dark skinned sister, it is because she is whack. Externally or physically. It isn't her skin tone.
So whack women don't get husbands and boyfriends? Let me get this straight most women out with men are gorgeous???

The rap industry, which is mostly an industry with black males, runs contrary to what you are saying (and I do acknowledge that some of it mentions all skin tones but this was after years of bashing--it also means this is the only industry in entertainment openly spreading a form of hatred, why is skin tone such a big focus?).

Now, as I've said, I have no problems with males and women going after what they want. But denying racism is exactly what this country does on a larger scale. If you don't believe racism exists in the aa community; well, you'd also have to say racism doesn't exist in the larger community/society.

Are you prepared to say this?
holycrap

Powell, OH

#822 Mar 16, 2013
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
We have to het a hold of the minds of OUR children. If not, we WILL be extinct.
Until blacks start teaching that self love is within, they will continue to go in the direction they are going. Also, blacks need to quit blaming black mothers for the moral decay just because many black males chose to make kids and leave them so that the mother could be blamed. I'm not going for that bull. Imo, when you have an abundance of kids being abandoned like that, it sounds like a decision has already been made in regards to our existence because women can't do everything. No one can.

And all these guys thinking they can live these girls/women in dire and then come back to negotiate terms of his return, are still beyond help. Life doesn't work like that. The world doesn't work like that.

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Since: Oct 10

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#823 Mar 16, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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Bro..she is nuts...she went off on me the exact same way. I never said she looked like Jimmie Walker (not trying to make a judgement about his looks or anything), but somehow she interpreted my posts as to mean she has thick lips, and nappy hair. She is overly defensive and sensitive about this for some reason.
This is why when your on these type of sites you have to be ever so clear as to what your stance is in matters like these because a lot of things go lost in translation. That means you have to demand clarity and be just as willing to clarify.

But, you're right...she's a little "nuts".

:D

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