African Americans that look like Trib...

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1638 Mar 23, 2013
there are times when the woman has to be dominant, such as when she is raising her kids .she has to enforce the rules of the home and instruct the kids on proper behavior. sometimes it's when she's with her girlfriends giving advice. that takes some dominant qualities. so, there's a time and place for anything. a man who lets his wife dominate him is a loser...a man who says he and his wife are "equal partners" and neither is dominant or submissive is fulla sh8t.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1640 Mar 23, 2013
metromedia wrote:
Nigerians are the ugliest especially the men. AA's are much better looking.
i think africans in general are just as good-looking as aa's...in a lot of cases, they are actually much better looking. africans in general are very beautiful. i think it's a case of the people with the hardest life that come from the poorest places are usually the most stunninglhy beautiful. i used to see that a lot in harlem and oakland. africanr women, especially nigerian are often better looking.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1641 Mar 23, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>the most normal of relationships is where the man is dominant and the woman is submissive. does that mean he's gonna bully her and push her around and disregard her?...no. But it means HE's in charge. like I say, if a woman wants to be an alpha, it's fine. but us bm don't particularly like alpha women...we like submissive women. a woman who knows HOW to submit is the best. a submissive woman knows how to advise her man and help him lead. she enjoys her role as a submissive and his role as the dominant.
We would submit to you guys if you were paying all the bills.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1642 Mar 23, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>We would submit to you guys if you were paying all the bills.
that's why y'all don't have no man compared to white/asian/latina and all other non-bw. they know a man is good for other things besides paying the bills. y'all still can't figure it out but constantly cryin about how single y'all are.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1643 Mar 23, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that's why y'all don't have no man compared to white/asian/latina and all other non-bw. they know a man is good for other things besides paying the bills. y'all still can't figure it out but constantly cryin about how single y'all are.
you just really have to be a man that we truly respect in order for us to "submit" to you.

and yes, the man is supposed to be responsible for the bulk of the bills in the home.

if you men would get this there would not be so many divorces because you would live within your means for one and you would seek to buy a reasonable home (or fix one up) before marrying and bearing children.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1644 Mar 24, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that's why y'all don't have no man compared to white/asian/latina and all other non-bw. they know a man is good for other things besides paying the bills. y'all still can't figure it out but constantly cryin about how single y'all are.
All those other groups don't have to even ask because their men know how to handle all the bills on his own.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1645 Mar 24, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>All those other groups don't have to even ask because their men know how to handle all the bills on his own.
did you just crawl out from under a rock? women work these days and a lotta them make more than men. the difference is that bw don't know how to make money and still act like women. other races of women can hold down a good job, pay bills and still happily submit to the man...because they understand the value of a man.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1646 Mar 24, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
you just really have to be a man that we truly respect in order for us to "submit" to you.
and yes, the man is supposed to be responsible for the bulk of the bills in the home.
if you men would get this there would not be so many divorces because you would live within your means for one and you would seek to buy a reasonable home (or fix one up) before marrying and bearing children.
of course you shouldn't submit to a man you don't respect. but what does holding down a job and making money have to do with respect? No man is gonna pay your fkin bills for you. You responsible for your own damn bills. no man wants to to be with a woman who thinks he's only there to pay her fkin bills. it's not gonna happen unless he's too old or ugly to get a woman any other way. y'all act like money is the only thing that matters...If that's how bw feel, they should be happy with their lil jobs and take comfort in the fact they can make money and stop complaining that they can't find men.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1647 Mar 24, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> did you just crawl out from under a rock? women work these days and a lotta them make more than men. the difference is that bw don't know how to make money and still act like women. other races of women can hold down a good job, pay bills and still happily submit to the man...because they understand the value of a man.
Respecting men and submitting to them are two different things. No woman who works hard and pay half the bills submit to men. Why would they? Submission is for the women who are supported by their men and to me those women should respect those men who work hard to care for them.
Phoenix

Humble, TX

#1648 Mar 24, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Respecting men and submitting to them are two different things. No woman who works hard and pay half the bills submit to men. Why would they? Submission is for the women who are supported by their men and to me those women should respect those men who work hard to care for them.
Learn what God says it means for us women to submit to our husbands.

It will be a revelation for you.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1649 Mar 24, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Respecting men and submitting to them are two different things. No woman who works hard and pay half the bills submit to men. Why would they? Submission is for the women who are supported by their men and to me those women should respect those men who work hard to care for them.
y'all shouldn't complain that you can't find a man then. no man is gonna be with a woman who can't submit. get used to being alone.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1650 Mar 25, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Learn what God says it means for us women to submit to our husbands.
It will be a revelation for you.
God doesn't exist.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1651 Mar 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>y'all shouldn't complain that you can't find a man then. no man is gonna be with a woman who can't submit. get used to being alone.
If we can handle them not paying all the bills then they can handle an opinionated woman.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1652 Mar 25, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>If we can handle them not paying all the bills then they can handle an opinionated woman.
thats' why 70% of y'all can't keep a man around to raise a family with y'all. better to learn to hug your money tight at night and let that keep you warm...that ww got the man and she don't make any isuses about paying the bills.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1653 Mar 25, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>If we can handle them not paying all the bills then they can handle an opinionated woman.
just because a brother might be broke don't mean he's gone put up with some stank-a88 bw. that's not how it works.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#1654 Mar 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> thats' why 70% of y'all can't keep a man around to raise a family with y'all. better to learn to hug your money tight at night and let that keep you warm...that ww got the man and she don't make any isuses about paying the bills.
Exactly who wants to "keep" a man. They should be "keeping" us. We are desinged by nature for men to work hard and bring home the bacon while women are suposed to depend on it.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1655 Mar 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> of course you shouldn't submit to a man you don't respect. but what does holding down a job and making money have to do with respect? No man is gonna pay your fkin bills for you. You responsible for your own damn bills. no man wants to to be with a woman who thinks he's only there to pay her fkin bills. it's not gonna happen unless he's too old or ugly to get a woman any other way. y'all act like money is the only thing that matters...If that's how bw feel, they should be happy with their lil jobs and take comfort in the fact they can make money and stop complaining that they can't find men.
you always tend to add strawmen to your arguments when you are up against the wall.

no one said men should be paying random womens bills. we are specifically refering to married couples and families.

what exactly is a man worth who has nothing to offer? no only are you not worth having a family you shouldn't even look at a woman until you get your ish together!!

we need to put guidelines in place that specifically state that a man is not to marry until he has established a home of his own. one that he can maintain ALL BY HIMSELF and of course his mate can help out but the man is responsible for the bulk of the financial responsibility regarding home.

if you don't like this then just hand in yours balls.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1656 Mar 25, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Learn what God says it means for us women to submit to our husbands.
It will be a revelation for you.
why you bring your god into this? we don't worship your god.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1657 Mar 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> thats' why 70% of y'all can't keep a man around to raise a family with y'all. better to learn to hug your money tight at night and let that keep you warm...that ww got the man and she don't make any isuses about paying the bills.
ww women get theirs!!! you must think we are dumb or something. take on your manly responsibilities or hand your balls in!

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1658 Mar 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> just because a brother might be broke don't mean he's gone put up with some stank-a88 bw. that's not how it works.
a broke man needs to be about getting unbroke before he considers taking up with any woman whether she is a stank azz or no!

the woman is the prize, not you!

and 70% of us are not single; understand stats. first off, its not 70% nothing its just that a large percentage of blk women that are having children are having them out of wedlock. most blk women are not even having children! and why would we with males like you around?

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

African-American Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
News Barack Obama, our next President (Nov '08) 3 min DBWriter 1,236,164
News Confessions of a black atheist 9 min Samoan Irish 642
Wake up! "AFRICAN AMERICANS" are not AFRICAN. (Feb '11) 9 min Mikemike 1,084
white guys size doesn't matter 11 min bullowme 11
News Duke professor: Blacks riot because they're laz... 13 min Shinichiro Takizawa 226
White men are better lovers? 13 min Guest 123
I hate black women and I'm a black man! 13 min Donell Gaines 4
Hebrew Israelite (Feb '11) 1 hr African AE 121,125
All women prefer white men 1 hr Go Blue Forever 4,845
Why do good looking black women like white men ... (Sep '12) 2 hr Janis 7,138
More from around the web