Do Indian men have a problem with dark skinned Black women?

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#1 Jan 27, 2012
As an African American, I've noticed a trend where East Indian men (guys from India) are rude towards me or act like I don't exist when I'm right there. I've had this experience with over five guys. They will be incredibly rude and act like I'm not even there while they talk to someone or just look irriated if I look at them. I don't understand seeing as I haven't done anything to them. Now, my skin color may not even have anything to do with this. But sometimes it's hard to tell because there are a lot of people who consider me being a black woman when they act a certain way towards me.

Any black women share any similar experiences? Do Indian guys have a problem with us black girls? I know they tend to be obssessed with lighter skin and light eyes, but could that lead some of them to have disdain for dark skinned black women?

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#2 Jan 27, 2012
I doubt it.
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#3 Jan 27, 2012
Miss_Cocoa wrote:
As an African American, I've noticed a trend where East Indian men (guys from India) are rude towards me or act like I don't exist when I'm right there. I've had this experience with over five guys. They will be incredibly rude and act like I'm not even there while they talk to someone or just look irriated if I look at them. I don't understand seeing as I haven't done anything to them. Now, my skin color may not even have anything to do with this. But sometimes it's hard to tell because there are a lot of people who consider me being a black woman when they act a certain way towards me.
Any black women share any similar experiences? Do Indian guys have a problem with us black girls? I know they tend to be obssessed with lighter skin and light eyes, but could that lead some of them to have disdain for dark skinned black women?
Here is the simple fact. Many BW have been rude and racist for no apparent reasons just because someone is from a different part of the world or maybe a different country like Mexico.

Look everybody wants get treated right with respect... but when some members from ur own community fails to adhere to that, that's when stereotype and prejudice occurs being ghetto, nasty etc. whether we talk about Indians, Asians, White, Latino or Black males.

But obviously there are exceptions to the rule.

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#4 Jan 27, 2012
From my experience indian men have been attracted to me.

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#5 Jan 28, 2012
Why should we even care what they think about us? Indians are mostly close minded RACISTS and none of them are going to answer questions about us. They are NOT...I repeat NOT interested in us enough to recognize bw who do not live up to the stereotypes.
Finally they treat their women a way that we bw won't tolerate. So the experiences that you had with the men actually doesn't have much to do with skin tone but your gender.
There are many other types of men to date in this world, don't limit yourself to this bullshit.
Giggs

Manchester, UK

#6 Jan 28, 2012
Indian people can have skin which is just as dark as the darkest Africans.

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#7 Jan 28, 2012
Giggs wrote:
Indian people can have skin which is just as dark as the darkest Africans.
True, this is why I don't understand the racism.

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#8 Jan 28, 2012
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Giggs

Manchester, UK

#9 Jan 28, 2012
Soul_Electronica wrote:
<quoted text>True, this is why I don't understand the racism.
There are alot of Indians in England because England once owned India.

They seem to follow a caste system where they are only allowed to date and marry people from within their own tribe.

They claim its not racist.... But its not unusual for indian girls to be murdered or have acid thrown in their faces by family members because they have been seen with a white or black man or anyone the family doesnt approve of.

Goes without question that the Men can fk whoever the please.
yoo

Rocky Hill, CT

#10 Jan 28, 2012
I have many black friends, lot of them are pretty dark skinned and women.
I know of Indian guys, not just ABCDs but FOBs as well, who approach dark skinned black women for relationships. Do not generalize!!
yoo

Rocky Hill, CT

#11 Jan 28, 2012
Giggs wrote:
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There are alot of Indians in England because England once owned India.
They seem to follow a caste system where they are only allowed to date and marry people from within their own tribe.
They claim its not racist.... But its not unusual for indian girls to be murdered or have acid thrown in their faces by family members because they have been seen with a white or black man or anyone the family doesnt approve of.
Goes without question that the Men can fk whoever the please.
There is nothing wrong with being endogamous. Traditional people throughout the world are endogamous. African immigrants also do arranged marriages with spouses from approved caste and tribe.

Personally I do think it is silly. It is generally the first generation parents who will put a lot of pressure on the second generation kids to marry "within". The second generation will most likely not push it on the third generation unless they are psycho ("my parents forced me into it, so I'm going to take it out on my kids now").
Giggs

Manchester, UK

#12 Jan 28, 2012
yoo wrote:
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There is nothing wrong with being endogamous. Traditional people throughout the world are endogamous. African immigrants also do arranged marriages with spouses from approved caste and tribe.
Personally I do think it is silly. It is generally the first generation parents who will put a lot of pressure on the second generation kids to marry "within". The second generation will most likely not push it on the third generation unless they are psycho ("my parents forced me into it, so I'm going to take it out on my kids now").
Tell that to the girls who are outcasted by their families or are perminently scared because they have had acid thrown in their face.

You may also ask the educated girl who is destined to a life of constant pergnancy and abuse from a first cousin who doesnt realy love her. Mabey she knows why a percentage of her offspring will be born with deformaties of serious illness but her husband is too backwards and islamic to understand.

Mabey ask the girl who was doing things her own way....seing guys who made her happy and treated her well untill she was drugged, forced on a plane and sent to Pakistan to marry someone she has never met.

Marriage shouldnt be forced on people. A propper arranged marriage sets people up on dates so they can get to know about relationships and eachother before they are forced together by their parents.
Giggs

Manchester, UK

#13 Jan 28, 2012
@yoo

Immagine this.....

Im a white guy who has stayed in Nigeria.

While their a lebonise/Nigerian family let me come over to stay. They had 3 daughters.

As soon as I stepped in the house I was offered to marry any daughter I chose if not all of them. One was 16, one was 14 and one was only 8!

The only reason I was offered these girls is the parents wanted me to get them visas to England.
Indian

Framingham, MA

#14 Jan 29, 2012
Giggs wrote:
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There are alot of Indians in England because England once owned India.
They seem to follow a caste system where they are only allowed to date and marry people from within their own tribe.
They claim its not racist.... But its not unusual for indian girls to be murdered or have acid thrown in their faces by family members because they have been seen with a white or black man or anyone the family doesnt approve of.
Goes without question that the Men can fk whoever the please.
Oi MF_kr... Zionist SOB... Show me a Single instance where Indian men treated their women bad... BStard son of Btch.. U are White MF_kr... and as always eager to propagate or talk Sht about men of otehr races and color.

U think people are so dumb over here that they don't see the kind of Evilness u are pulling over here.. just like hte BStard wh0re who gave u birth.

Zionist Devil.
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Framingham, MA

#15 Jan 29, 2012
Giggs wrote:
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Tell that to the girls who are outcasted by their families or are perminently scared because they have had acid thrown in their face.
You may also ask the educated girl who is destined to a life of constant pergnancy and abuse from a first cousin who doesnt realy love her. Mabey she knows why a percentage of her offspring will be born with deformaties of serious illness but her husband is too backwards and islamic to understand.
Mabey ask the girl who was doing things her own way....seing guys who made her happy and treated her well untill she was drugged, forced on a plane and sent to Pakistan to marry someone she has never met.
Marriage shouldnt be forced on people. A propper arranged marriage sets people up on dates so they can get to know about relationships and eachother before they are forced together by their parents.
Don't LIE through ur forked tongue Devil... Everybody knows Indian and Asian women are the biggest Sellout of their races these days.. one doesn't have to sit on Topix to nowdays... they can just see it Outside. Hordes of them..

And this Miscreant Vermin Piece of Sht from bottom Hell comes here like Wolves in sheep's clothing talk Sht about Indian/ Brown men...and try to sell their Worthless Piece of Sht Trash White wh0res to us. Shameless BStard like they are.

MF_kr if somebody abuses women the Biggest criminal is U... drunk Wife beaters. Do u want me to bring examples of women abuse right here in the United States? How many women in this so called "first world" country get beaten, rape, killed or drown by their abusive Husbands? Yea Look at the statistics..

http://www.clarkprosecutor.org/html/domviol/f...

Yea, check out the Facts Piece of sht before u talk Sht about some other races. Yea, all the subcontinent countries have all women leaders, Ministers and Presidents already... Where is yours? Shure ki bachcha.. Where??

Because We are the ones who treats women with REAL respect... protect their body, respect their femininity Unlike a Piece of Sht culture like u who abuse and treat women like Piece of meat everyday, disrespect mom and sister by showing their naked body in front of all the public in all over this country.

Yeah, that's kind of MF_kr piece of Sht u are who have no problem then coming here to talk literal Lies through forked tongue like the Devil BStrd son fo a Btch u are... POS.
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Framingham, MA

#16 Jan 29, 2012
I would ask Everybody to be aware many of Zionist Vermin piece of sht that comes here in thsi site regularly to talk Sht about other races.

Yea these vermins are Paid agents who spams and have been caught many many times. One can see them in many threads BSing about other races. No brainier.
Sunjay

Kolkata, India

#17 Jan 30, 2012
Miss_Cocoa wrote:
As an African American, I've noticed a trend where East Indian men (guys from India) are rude towards me or act like I don't exist when I'm right there. I've had this experience with over five guys. They will be incredibly rude and act like I'm not even there while they talk to someone or just look irriated if I look at them. I don't understand seeing as I haven't done anything to them. Now, my skin color may not even have anything to do with this. But sometimes it's hard to tell because there are a lot of people who consider me being a black woman when they act a certain way towards me.
Any black women share any similar experiences? Do Indian guys have a problem with us black girls? I know they tend to be obssessed with lighter skin and light eyes, but could that lead some of them to have disdain for dark skinned black women?
Indian guys don't have anything against Black girls and we are not obsessed with lighter skin its Indian women who are obsessed with lightning their skin. I'm sorry for your bitter experience, I hope your in future you will have better experience in your interactions with Indian people which hopefully will help you to change your opinion towards us in a better way.

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#18 Jan 30, 2012
Carmiana wrote:
From my experience indian men have been attracted to me.
Are you light skinned? I've definitely noticed a difference with light skinned black women. I've seen Indian men praise them, most likely because their skin tone is similar to Indian women. I thought nothing of it until I saw this website with a bunch of Indian guys degrading and bashing black women who weren't light skinned or mixed looking. A lot of Indians are color struck just like black men

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#19 Jan 30, 2012
I know it's not all Indian men because I have had quite a few of them approach me in the club, but I was just wondering because I've also had quite a few not so positive experiences with them

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#20 Jan 30, 2012
maybe not all Indian men are color struck, but I've definitely seen some who are

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