Why do some women prefer to be bi*che...

Why do some women prefer to be bi*ches instead of ladies?

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“"Class, the #1 Motivator"”

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#1 Nov 29, 2012
I like this thread because it gives some women the chance to come clean about their attitudes. Some will just own up to it and say, "I like being a bi*ch, sometimes!" For some, its a badge of honor. For the people on the receiving end, NOT SO GOOD!

What is it about some women who want to come off as cutie cute, but be bi*chy bi*ch? You can see the smile on their face when they have accomplished this act of ego. What happened to the lovely, sweet smelling, soft, classy, intelligent sexy female?Real men still love those types!

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#2 Nov 29, 2012
Some moderator keeps deleting this thread as well. So bump the hell out of it yall! Hahahaha!

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Three of my posts have been rerouted for me not to be able to access them. Sound like a jealous moderator abusing his job. Hope they get fired! I can't stand abuse of the job!

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#4 Nov 30, 2012
Why u sterotyping bw how they gonna break the cycle

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#5 Dec 3, 2012
What makes men and women want to mistreat each other at times for no reason? Can anyone give me some input on that situation?

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It's a defense mechanism. Women who are used to being mistreated or are unhappy go out of their way to show their unhappy, or make others unhappy. Same can be applied to anyone. Bw have had to endure a lot. I don't think the attitude is always voluntary. I think It's from a wall thats been put up to protect emotions.
lovey26

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#7 Dec 3, 2012
It's just what you said...men and women mistreat each other so badly.

Personally speaking, I've always known who I wanted to be, how I wanted to treat my partner, and how I wanted to be treated. But, in dating, it seemed that guys didn't respect the niceness (lol). However, instead of letting my negative experiences change me as a person, I just decided to stop dating until I found the person who wanted what I wanted.

But, I guess it's easier to just pass on the hurt instead of taking stock of yourself...

Idk, that's my answer

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#8 Dec 6, 2012
RarestRose29 wrote:
It's a defense mechanism. Women who are used to being mistreated or are unhappy go out of their way to show their unhappy, or make others unhappy. Same can be applied to anyone. Bw have had to endure a lot. I don't think the attitude is always voluntary. I think It's from a wall thats been put up to protect emotions.
Now you know what? This is one of the better honest answers that I have heard. When I take what you said, and then think about some of the situations that come into mind? It relates to why some are just that way! here's the thing though....do yall think for a minute that African American men have it easy...yall get harassed on your jobs...we get harassed....especially if we are good at what we do. We have a target on our heads lots of times and women always think the man is going to be okay...my problems are the ones to be concerned with. And that thinking is so wrong. they both have concerns with life, both of their concerns are significant. Not just ones....they need to always stay together with their concerns for each other....its like looking out for each other against the world. Both of them have significant concerns about their everyday life....and if they shared those more often...they could find out some very interesting things that could help each other. No time for the "special bi*ch" syndrome in this situation....I'm just saying. What do you think?

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#9 Dec 6, 2012
lovey26 wrote:
It's just what you said...men and women mistreat each other so badly.
Personally speaking, I've always known who I wanted to be, how I wanted to treat my partner, and how I wanted to be treated. But, in dating, it seemed that guys didn't respect the niceness (lol). However, instead of letting my negative experiences change me as a person, I just decided to stop dating until I found the person who wanted what I wanted.
But, I guess it's easier to just pass on the hurt instead of taking stock of yourself...
Idk, that's my answer
Men have the same problem with being nice to women...it gets taken for granted and you're right about "the choices". We have to make good choices, just don't price ourselves out of the market. Its an intelligent situation...but we have the capacity to come together in a good way when we stay on track of our differences and share in bringing those differences together. This is a good cure....for the "bi*ch syndrome" when a woman will let it work. there is no need for a man to act like a "bastard"....nor a woman to act like a "bi*ch". Thats straight up!

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“"Class, the #1 Motivator"”

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#11 Dec 7, 2012
What gets into a woman when she just wants to go around and crank up some drama?

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#12 Dec 7, 2012
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
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Now you know what? This is one of the better honest answers that I have heard. When I take what you said, and then think about some of the situations that come into mind? It relates to why some are just that way! here's the thing though....do yall think for a minute that African American men have it easy...yall get harassed on your jobs...we get harassed....especially if we are good at what we do. We have a target on our heads lots of times and women always think the man is going to be okay...my problems are the ones to be concerned with. And that thinking is so wrong. they both have concerns with life, both of their concerns are significant. Not just ones....they need to always stay together with their concerns for each other....its like looking out for each other against the world. Both of them have significant concerns about their everyday life....and if they shared those more often...they could find out some very interesting things that could help each other. No time for the "special bi*ch" syndrome in this situation....I'm just saying. What do you think?
I think men & women are wired very differently. Women are emotional creatures, so a man & women could encounter the same social problems & come out with very different emotional scars. If we are expected to luv & embrace one another...we have to understand that we don't behave or think the same. Love solves all issues (attitudes) that were created by hate. I think if they are able to find a patient & understanding man they may be able to put down the mental walls they've put up. If not they'll always be unhappy with themselves. Despite what a lot of women say...every woman wants a man that's there for her.

Hope that makes sense :)

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<quoted text> I think men & women are wired very differently. Women are emotional creatures, so a man & women could encounter the same social problems & come out with very different emotional scars. If we are expected to luv & embrace one another...we have to understand that we don't behave or think the same. Love solves all issues (attitudes) that were created by hate. I think if they are able to find a patient & understanding man they may be able to put down the mental walls they've put up. If not they'll always be unhappy with themselves. Despite what a lot of women say...every woman wants a man that's there for her.
Hope that makes sense :)
it makes a lot of sense, and you know....for your explanations to sound so simple...yet they are actually worlds apart from being at all simple. Women can explain something simple.....they can think simple....but their reactions are totally complicated sometime to the point even they don't understand them. For that reason they expect the man to to frolic up and down "Emotional lane" with them....while they jerk the man around....and he is supposed to see that as him being understand. Bullsh*t...that woman needs to understand her over thrown emotions can sometimes complicate things and instead of making things even more complicated...she must learn to come around...and say..."Look...for some of the times I know I may make things more complicated than they are...without knowing it...I am going to try and better understand your side of things so I can try and meet you halfway?" Then we're talking.....that same old overused excuse of women are emotional is nothing but another crutch for them to lean on...and smile and think how crafty they are behind a man's back...let's keep in mind now sweetie....women....ARE VERY...VERY....CUNNING...AND THATS THE TRUTH!

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#14 Dec 7, 2012
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it makes a lot of sense, and you know....for your explanations to sound so simple...yet they are actually worlds apart from being at all simple. Women can explain something simple.....they can think simple....but their reactions are totally complicated sometime to the point even they don't understand them. For that reason they expect the man to to frolic up and down "Emotional lane" with them....while they jerk the man around....and he is supposed to see that as him being understand. Bullsh*t...that woman needs to understand her over thrown emotions can sometimes complicate things and instead of making things even more complicated...she must learn to come around...and say..."Look...for some of the times I know I may make things more complicated than they are...without knowing it...I am going to try and better understand your side of things so I can try and meet you halfway?" Then we're talking.....that same old overused excuse of women are emotional is nothing but another crutch for them to lean on...and smile and think how crafty they are behind a man's back...let's keep in mind now sweetie....women....ARE VERY...VERY....CUNNING...AND THATS THE TRUTH!
But men & women are wired differently. Even God recognises that. I'm not saying the behavior is right, I'm saying we are on two different spectras when it comes to emotions. I come from a different culture, so I'm an outsider looking in. I feel that there's little communication & a lack of respect from both black males & females (of course this doesn't apply to all). All of the blame is being shifted on the opposite gender. & without conflict resolution what do u have? A bunch of people who feel they aren't the problem. A bunch of people who easily abandon their sense of duty or obligation to their family. A bunch of people who eagerly disrespect their male or female counterpart. Without conflict resolution & people who are capable of setting aside petty differences...what are we left with?

The type of women we were speaking of initially. Bitter, angry, spiteful, hateful, with an endless supply of rage.
Animal Galindez

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#15 Dec 7, 2012
Brngthtrth2u wrote:
Some moderator keeps deleting this thread as well. So bump the hell out of it yall! Hahahaha!
Bump!
Animal Galindez

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#16 Dec 7, 2012
RarestRose29 wrote:
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But men & women are wired differently. Even God recognises that. I'm not saying the behavior is right, I'm saying we are on two different spectras when it comes to emotions. I come from a different culture, so I'm an outsider looking in. I feel that there's little communication & a lack of respect from both black males & females (of course this doesn't apply to all). All of the blame is being shifted on the opposite gender. & without conflict resolution what do u have? A bunch of people who feel they aren't the problem. A bunch of people who easily abandon their sense of duty or obligation to their family. A bunch of people who eagerly disrespect their male or female counterpart. Without conflict resolution & people who are capable of setting aside petty differences...what are we left with?
The type of women we were speaking of initially. Bitter, angry, spiteful, hateful, with an endless supply of rage.
Some women use their charms to lure a man close enough so they can then humiliate via rejection. They are very skillful at it.

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#17 Dec 7, 2012
lol
Animal Galindez

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#18 Dec 7, 2012
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lol
Not so funny when you're the one who's repeatedly lured. It can also prove deadly if the woman tries that little game on a mentally and emotionally, unstable male. One such offended male recently reacted to a snub by hurling a bowling ball at the woman's head. Was charged with attempted murder.

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RarestRose29 wrote:
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But men & women are wired differently. Even God recognises that. I'm not saying the behavior is right, I'm saying we are on two different spectras when it comes to emotions. I come from a different culture, so I'm an outsider looking in. I feel that there's little communication & a lack of respect from both black males & females (of course this doesn't apply to all). All of the blame is being shifted on the opposite gender. & without conflict resolution what do u have? A bunch of people who feel they aren't the problem. A bunch of people who easily abandon their sense of duty or obligation to their family. A bunch of people who eagerly disrespect their male or female counterpart. Without conflict resolution & people who are capable of setting aside petty differences...what are we left with?
The type of women we were speaking of initially. Bitter, angry, spiteful, hateful, with an endless supply of rage.
Another very interesting response and I agree to most all of what you say. Again, we are saying the same thing only different. The curve here is a lot of women may want to care, seem like they care...but in reality women more and more could care less than a damn about anything more than themselves and their kids and this is showing more and more each day. Here's some examples...when you are out driving a see a car coming where they damn near run you off the road...aren't you shocked when you see its a woman in a hurry? It happens to me practically everyday. Just this evening a woman called herself going around me....then hopped back in front of me without measuring the distance between us...then crossed over again in the far left lane and all inside of what is definitely less than a city block. I drove past her looking at her as if to say, "What the hell were doing? what was that all about?" She looked at me and rolled her eyes with a look that said, I'm not paying you any attention." She was definitely bold...and rude as hell. Look around you...there is something happening and taking place with the women that is changing them and being driven by an ego that wants to be superior to EVERYTHING! What she is actually doing is causing more problems than necessary in the process and then want to be understood. Put a man in the same situation....is she going to understand? Will she want to understand? Hell...to the naw! She does not give a damn...now how much love can a woman get with this type of attitude?We don't get any when we are tripping...so she shouldn't get none when she is tripping....

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#20 Dec 7, 2012
Samoan Irish wrote:
Why u sterotyping bw how they gonna break the cycle
She never said anything about bw....

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