why do black men give up on black women?
Get Real

Annandale, VA

#21 May 30, 2009
supremeking wrote:
I don’t know what this guy is talking about, but as a black man I can’t give up on my black women
That what the white supremacist and IR black women bloggers come here and try to make us do
But it won’t on real brothers like me
Are you serious? Do you honestly think that a real black man wouldn't respond in such a fashion. The response is not to further separate or divide black men and women but, to shed light on the obvious issues that are causing the division. What qualifies you as a "Real Black man? I would like to know.......A real black man is a provider, protector, is of moral character, is an attribute to his society and his race. And, whomever he should date regardless of the woman's race does note discredit or denote his positive influences. You perpetuate this lethargy with such responses....And, I'm a black man saying this......Get Real. And, I love black women but, if I could find balance in my life with any woman, her race doesn't come to mind. It's the individual that makes a difference.

“BLACK FIRST”

Since: Nov 08

maryland

#22 May 30, 2009
Get Real wrote:
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Are you serious? Do you honestly think that a real black man wouldn't respond in such a fashion. The response is not to further separate or divide black men and women but, to shed light on the obvious issues that are causing the division. What qualifies you as a "Real Black man? I would like to know.......A real black man is a provider, protector, is of moral character, is an attribute to his society and his race. And, whomever he should date regardless of the woman's race does note discredit or denote his positive influences. You perpetuate this lethargy with such responses....And, I'm a black man saying this......Get Real. And, I love black women but, if I could find balance in my life with any woman, her race doesn't come to mind. It's the individual that makes a difference.
Well that your opinion and you’re entitled to it,

I do believe it is the individual that makes a difference but for me I just don’t see my self not being with a black women who knows my struggles
numyourhor

Baton Rouge, LA

#23 May 30, 2009
if i get married it will be to a black women period
Malcolm

United States

#24 May 31, 2009
The real question is what is our culture, and where/who did it come from? One would think that we as African Americans would be the best Africans because the White man claimed he civilized us? But the opposite is true because he uncivilized us.

The same in South Africa a country 1/10 the size of the U.S has 50 murders a day, whereas in the U.S it's 43 per day.

Why is it that the South African who was influenced by Englishmen more than any other Black Africans on the continent are the more violent, because that White man didn't civilize he uncivilized.

So the problems between AA men, and AA women come from the same devil, and when we get the devil out of the meeting we'll be much better off.

One thing I can say is that I see a complete differance between AA Muslims, and AA Christians. I went to more weddings between African American Muslims in the first five years of being a Muslim than in the first 19 years of my life as a Christian.

I never saw so many young AA men get married before until I accepted Islam, that's one of the indicaters of how powerful Islam is and why so many oppose it for AA's, or even Europeans.

“Lucky charm”

Since: Dec 08

where lost souls gather

#25 May 31, 2009
sabrina19 wrote:
most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Lets not generalize I've dated outside of my race and was very pleased. Yet I still have hope that my final mate will be a black woman or something close atleast.
Eric

Pontiac, MI

#26 Apr 26, 2013
supremeking wrote:
I don’t know what this guy is talking about, but as a black man I can’t give up on my black women
That what the white supremacist and IR black women bloggers come here and try to make us do
But it won’t on real brothers like me


Man I gave up on black women because they all seemed mean and had bad attitudes. I'm a well educated african American man but it seems that most african american women are after money. Granted a lot of us african American men aren't rich but that does not give u the right to judge us based on money. Plus the number of african American stuck up women is extremely high compared to other races and this sabrina girl is one of them. I don't hate any race and I'm not perfect but if african American women don't get themselves together interacial marriage is gonna be even more common than it is now. Marriage is about love not how much money u have or if u have a benz. Its mostly young african American girls too. Probaly because there not mature enough to look for quality not money.

“Sexy emo chick :)”

Level 3

Since: Apr 13

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#28 Apr 27, 2013
Idk prolli cuz our attitudes suck lol...i can admit that as as a bw...in real life and on the internet most bw start shyt with their ghetto a**ses lmbao...im a type of bw that is "white girl acting"so they dnt get along with me or like me..but whateves lol.Anywho...i really dnt care anymore what blk guys date..cuz i date latino guys anyways...blk luv died out VERY long ago...so im used to them dissing us...its pretty second nature with them...part of their bloodline to hate bw or sumthin...oh well not my lost
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#30 Apr 27, 2013
dab399 wrote:
I gave up on black women because I had many bad experiences with them plus they have negative attitudes as well so I date outside my race because I find women of other races attractive.
MACEO

I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!

You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested in a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#34 Apr 27, 2013
dab399 wrote:
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STFU nutcase,you're not making any sense here. You're like a broken record saying the same thing over & over & over & it's annoying to other people. You hate black men but yet still you keep talking about us instead of seeking after white men. I dont get it at all. Please take the focus off black men & just focus only on white men okay sheboon.
MACEO

You get angry because I put 'YOUR TRUTH IN YOUR FACE"! Your an Old Sorry A&& Loser!

I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!

You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested in a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!

Your life FOOL!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#35 Apr 27, 2013
dab399 wrote:
<quoted text>
STFU nutcase,you're not making any sense here. You're like a broken record saying the same thing over & over & over & it's annoying to other people. You hate black men but yet still you keep talking about us instead of seeking after white men. I dont get it at all. Please take the focus off black men & just focus only on white men okay sheboon.
MACEO

the only one that I harass is YOU! When you stop harassing Black women and stop the habitual lies, Ill stop exposing you!

Your a Damaged Beyond Repair Black man that loves hating on Young Black women who are doing well, tell you how Black men are Losers because its true!

They tell you how Black men act and how their treated but for some reason you don't feel that black women deserve respect as well as you feel that Black women should remain alone if Black men don't measure up!

My reply to us is GO FU*K YOURSELF! LMAO

Your angry because your 60 years old chased White sluts and ended up with NOTHING!

THAT'S YOUR FAULT MACEO!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#36 Apr 27, 2013
Get Real wrote:
<quoted text>
Are you serious? Do you honestly think that a real black man wouldn't respond in such a fashion. The response is not to further separate or divide black men and women but, to shed light on the obvious issues that are causing the division. What qualifies you as a "Real Black man? I would like to know.......A real black man is a provider, protector, is of moral character, is an attribute to his society and his race. And, whomever he should date regardless of the woman's race does note discredit or denote his positive influences. You perpetuate this lethargy with such responses....And, I'm a black man saying this......Get Real. And, I HATE black women
MACEO

I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!

You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested in a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#37 Apr 27, 2013
supremefool-maceo wrote:
<quoted text>
Well that your opinion and you’re entitled to it,
I do believe it is the individual that makes a difference but for me I just don’t see my self not being with a black women who knows my struggles
MACEO

I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!

You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested in a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!
Eric

Pontiac, MI

#39 Sep 4, 2013
sabrina19 wrote:
most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
We date them because most black women are too stuck up and mean. So why would a good guy like me want to go out with a good looking black girl with no heart or kindness vs a white girl with a heart and kindness. I think aggressive african american women need to learn how to be submissive like a woman supposed to be like. Not loud and aggressive which is the opposite of how a woman should behave. Also being stuck up is an automatic turn off for is guys. So mayby u should ask yourself how do u treat us african American men? Because u sure aound like the stuck up full of myself type
Eric

Pontiac, MI

#40 Sep 4, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
I find many Black women doing the same things. A woman's greatest fear is getting a broke, uneducated Black male who lives off her, she tries to help him and he disrespects her like you did to your White wife of 20 years!
You made her look like a FOOL as well as yourself! lmao She didn't get anything because she invested inu a Black man that didn't do "Schitt with your life" except chasing White women office sluts!
That's the problem with u black women. I have a good job its just that it takes time to reach the top. I have a cra, I'm goodlooking, I have money in which I'm not rich but I can afford a lot, but I don't smoke, drink, or go to clubs. I'm a good black man but most of u black women are all about getting rich and money. Lol get real its not about broke men its about getting rich. So dont use words like being broke because us middleclass african american men aren't broke but we have bills like everyone else. Its u black women who are after upclass white men. So Im gonna probaly date a white girl because she will have more quality in personality then a black woman and finaly to go with it patients. Which black women don't have enough said.
Danny The Geek

Greenville, KY

#42 Jun 23, 2014
Well Black women like thugs and bad boys they will not give a nice a chance because they consider him lame not cool it's music as well lot for example Lupe Fiasco or Common artist who talk about social issues in their music never get acknowledge now compare that to someone like Future Rapper or Young Jeezy they get acknowledge because they are thugs black women are just programmed to like thugs if I a nice guy approached a black woman with I think your pretty I would to take you on a date they would laugh in my face now if I approach them like wat sup shawty wats happenin they would be in love with me I would rather date a tree than date a black woman if I was set up on a blind date and found out it was a black woman I would just get up and leave because I'm not a thug I'm not rich I don't have swag so glad I date Asian and Caucasian women don't have to deal with the attitude and ratchetness with black women wearing weave and have short tempers they are also known for that.
Cigar Face 21

Tampa, FL

#43 Jun 23, 2014
The real wise blackmen of today will not put up with a mean blackwoman.
Danielwalker

Los Angeles, CA

#44 Aug 3, 2014
I give up on black women in America period try south America.
Jamerican Princess

Ocala, FL

#45 Oct 4, 2014
The vast majority of African American men aren't shit. A good portion of them hate Black women due to issues with their mother and believing that all Black women have bad attitudes and wear weaves. This portion of Black American men disrespect, use, abuse and take their women's resources and bring it back to the White man by marrying and sharing the fruits of the labor with White or non Black women. And the rest are indifferent to Black women's struggles even the so called good Black men. So you don't see this portion of African American men even the good ones defending, protecting or uplifting Black women. And I rarely meet nice and decent African American men too. Thus like my first sentence on this post said: the vast majority of African American men aren't shit.

I hope more Black American women wake up and realize that they should leave their men behind and date quality Black African, White, Latino and Asian men to date, settle down with and marry instead. It is time African American women stop letting their men use, abuse your time, energy and resources only to share the fruit of the labor with a White woman or Latina. Because we all know that African American men can't survive without their women putting so much time, energy and faith into his lazy behind. More Black American women need to cut them off and they would be better off.

And these gender war issues isn't really an issue in Jamaican culture however many Jamaican men are sexist and colorist just like their African American counterparts. Thus I also refuse to date Jamaican like I like refuse to date African American men.
da faq

Seoul, Korea

#48 Oct 4, 2014
sabrina19 wrote:
most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
'Embarrassed they only date you because their men dont find them attractive?'

Please...whatever rock you just came from under....go back.

And stay
lol

Seoul, Korea

#49 Oct 4, 2014
Jamerican Princess wrote:
The vast majority of African American men aren't shit. A good portion of them hate Black women due to issues with their mother and believing that all Black women have bad attitudes and wear weaves. This portion of Black American men disrespect, use, abuse and take their women's resources and bring it back to the White man by marrying and sharing the fruits of the labor with White or non Black women. And the rest are indifferent to Black women's struggles even the so called good Black men. So you don't see this portion of African American men even the good ones defending, protecting or uplifting Black women. And I rarely meet nice and decent African American men too. Thus like my first sentence on this post said: the vast majority of African American men aren't shit.
I hope more Black American women wake up and realize that they should leave their men behind and date quality Black African, White, Latino and Asian men to date, settle down with and marry instead. It is time African American women stop letting their men use, abuse your time, energy and resources only to share the fruit of the labor with a White woman or Latina. Because we all know that African American men can't survive without their women putting so much time, energy and faith into his lazy behind. More Black American women need to cut them off and they would be better off.
And these gender war issues isn't really an issue in Jamaican culture however many Jamaican men are sexist and colorist just like their African American counterparts. Thus I also refuse to date Jamaican like I like refuse to date African American men.


Correction....the vast majority of African Americans YOU date aren't shit. With that ugly attitude no wonder nobody wants you.

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