why do black men give up on black women?

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Why do you feel compelled to put this on a public forum? You joined 30minutes ago and THIS is the first subject you post? THIS is the pressing issue in your life?

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if your not going to answer my question dont bother writting anything
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gorgeous black girl?...

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Do you know most black American men? Because I date both.

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Pathetic, i guess you feel like something special because you date a white guy. You must be put into the record books. If a white guy likes me i must be beautiful, its something to aspire for, i can get a white man that means iam beautiful. I date white guys like that is something to brag about, just pathetic.
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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Yet another devisive thread!

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Once you go white.... I'm joking . Its been my observance that most men prefer their own race but are attracted to women of all races the same. While there are are a handful of guys that exclusively date IR, i dint think this is a general rule,
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sabrina19 wrote:
most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Yes because if I date a woman (especially a woman who is not of my race or ethnicity) it is only so that I can have a trophy to parade around to strangers.

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Unlike other races of men, I don't feel that most black men have enough respect and appreciation for their black women.

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Whatever... Who cares?

If they give up then they were never ours to keep in the first place.

I'll have to ask my dad who is married to a Black woman, why he gave up on us.

I will also ask every last male relative I have who is either married to a Black woman or dating a Black woman why they gave up on us.

I will also ask my brother who has dated white women in the past but is currently with a Black women why he gave up on us.

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Actually, no I won't because they will say stuff that actually makes sense like "what are you talking about? Black men have not given up on Black women.That's a dumb question"

SO in order to keep in line with the thread topic, I will offer this suggestion.

Just ask TITO!
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Whatever... Who cares?
If they give up then they were never ours to keep in the first place.
I'll have to ask my dad who is married to a Black woman, why he gave up on us.
I will also ask every last male relative I have who is either married to a Black woman or dating a Black woman why they gave up on us.
I will also ask my brother who has dated white women in the past but is currently with a Black women why he gave up on us.
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Actually, no I won't because they will say stuff that actually makes sense like "what are you talking about? Black men have not given up on Black women.That's a dumb question"
SO in order to keep in line with the thread topic, I will offer this suggestion.
Just ask TITO!
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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
LOL, it never fails. A random black woman who IS DATING A WHITE MAN comes bashing the average black man claiming WE are the ones dating out and giving up on the black woman.

Anyway dearest, many black men are still dating and committed to black women. This will never change no matter how many times general society tries to say otherwise.
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never ever give up on the sisters...

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
Well sister its on both sides of the fence.
Black men and Women have given up on each other because of the media image of ourselves, and now we have become to beleive it!
There has never been an assault like is is now on the image of Black people as in the past.
W/ T.V. and now computers in many homes we are seeing negtives images of ourselves 24/7, as in the past it was mainly when you went to the Movies, or signs of Segreation , BUT never in your own home. Turn on the T.V. and I bet you will see more negative images of Blacks then Whites.
And the more some look at other races ALWAYS being shown in a positve light, we desire that more.
I have never even kissed a White women on the mouth, so I would not know about HOW White people
are sexually. I LOVE MY BLACK WOMEN 2 MUCH!
So we have to start looking at ourselves in a more postive light, and then we can love ourselves more and not believe THE HYPE!

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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
You wrote that most(generalizing and grouping all black men) Is this based on your personal experience or your in-depth research? I always wonder when "Black Women" stero-type all black men who date outside of their race, Have you actually taken the time to assess the genuine issues that you have, and how your own action attribute......We are not in the dark ages of Jim Crow and further more I find your comments without merit in entirety. You still find black men attractive but, and I quote: "i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off." You know the reason why black women such as yourself bypass quality black men......Because, you choose to overlook quality. The ultimate variable in the equation is, "You."
Perhaps, you should be more selective in your process and screening potential mates. For a woman of color to state that you are unable to find an educated black men who is articulate, upstanding, lives by morals, is loyal, and seeking a quality lifestyle with a woman of his own race is as detrimental as every foul word that spread against black men.
In short, try being part of the solution and examining one's self: If you are only as good as the company you seek: I think that this speaks volumes as to your personal character. And, for the record black men look to black women for solace, inspiration, adoration, and affection just as any self respecting black woman would like to have these same attributes reciprocated. You have a-lot of growing up to do in terms of maturity.

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I donít know what this guy is talking about, but as a black man I canít give up on my black women

That what the white supremacist and IR black women bloggers come here and try to make us do

But it wonít on real brothers like me

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never ever give up on the sisters...
everytime I hear someone says brothas and sistas I just wanna throw up that shid sounds straight up incestious
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most african american guys that date outside their race never want to date black women again. Other races of men that date outside their race still date within there race. Im dating a white guy but i still find black men attractive but most of them talk shit about black women which is a turn off. ive also noticed that all the gorgeous black women like myself lol date white men and most not all black men have plain looking girls of other race. aren't you as a black guy embarrassed that the only reason those girls date you is because their men dont find them attractive?
I've dated outside my race plenty of times and I still date black women. Most of the attractive black women out here date black men. I don't know how things are where you are located, but it's not like that everywhere. In my area the black people that do date non blacks are average and the non blacks they date are average. You really need to stop generalizing people.

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