The Truth Why BW are Now Finding WM ...

The Truth Why BW are Now Finding WM Attractive

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BBrainy

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#1 Oct 3, 2012
All of these theories as to why a larger segment of black women are finding white men and other nonblack men more attractive and interesting is very simple. There have always been the small amount of Diana Ross black women who liked white men for ages. But for the most part black women followed and looked up to black men. For decades a growing number of black men have praised and prized white women basically telling black woman that white women are better and black women aren't as good so it's natural for black women to begin seeing the male gender of the white race as better and black men as lacking.

Black men played themselves on this one by putting another race of above their own and foolishly thinking that black women would accept second place and continue to support and praise black men. White men may date and marry a lot of Asians but they were never stupid enough to prize Asian women above their own white women.

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#2 Oct 3, 2012
What ever happened to just liking someone because your personalities click.

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#3 Oct 3, 2012
Black men I know, they dont praise white women because they date them. Most black men prefer their own race. I dont relate to white women.
David B

Baltimore, MD

#4 Oct 3, 2012
BBrainy wrote:
All of these theories as to why a larger segment of black women are finding white men and other nonblack men more attractive and interesting is very simple. There have always been the small amount of Diana Ross black women who liked white men for ages. But for the most part black women followed and looked up to black men. For decades a growing number of black men have praised and prized white women basically telling black woman that white women are better and black women aren't as good so it's natural for black women to begin seeing the male gender of the white race as better and black men as lacking.
Black men played themselves on this one by putting another race of above their own and foolishly thinking that black women would accept second place and continue to support and praise black men. White men may date and marry a lot of Asians but they were never stupid enough to prize Asian women above their own white women.
If your girl said she found a white man attractive. Would you still date her?

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MzNora89 wrote:
What ever happened to just liking someone because your personalities click.
Hard to know what the other person is like if WP have been taught by history and modern day to think that BP are just former slavepeople.

More and more contact between WM and BW.
Seeing BW do the same kind of hobbies and the same stuff as us.

And in time we WM realize "oooo that´s a woman! I´m gonna go say hello"
And once the gates are open, we see BW always as potential gfs/wives just like any other race of women.

Many of us see you as "Female. Black, Light-labour!"

Hope that wasn´t too offensive.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#6 Oct 3, 2012
BBrainy wrote:
Black men played themselves on this one by putting another race of above their own...
If that is true, then where did the MILLIONS of NON MIXED, african americans come from???
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#7 Oct 3, 2012
MzNora89 wrote:
What ever happened to just liking someone because your personalities click.
The white man passed miscegenation laws to stop that!

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#8 Oct 3, 2012
BW have always been attracted to wm but they just couldn't admit it.

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#9 Oct 3, 2012
Black women have always dated and been attracted to Black men. Doesn't mean they didn't prefer Black men or maybe circumstances prevented more Black women from dating out.

But it's not a coincidence. That because of Rap Videos IMO. More non-bm are approaching Black women. Now we have an increase in Black women dating out.

People are only as loyal as their options.

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#10 Oct 3, 2012
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
Black men I know, they dont praise white women because they date them. Most black men prefer their own race. I dont relate to white women.
I don't relate to white women either. Its not that I don't find a few of them atractive from time to time, but I KNOW when it comes down to who I want to date, mate, multuply & marry, it HAS TO BE a Black woman.

PLUS, I just can't see myself INVESTING in the community of the oppressor by assuming one of his women, only for her and those joined to her to benefit from it.

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#11 Oct 3, 2012
Hakim01 wrote:
BW have always been attracted to wm but they just couldn't admit it.
Not so. Stats show that ALL RACES have the proclivity toward their own race, Black women/ Black people are no different.

If "Black women have always been attracted to white men", the statistics would dictate that.

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#12 Oct 3, 2012
Some stupid excuses...
I came to the conclusion that average bw love wm (no matter what they say)but since average wm tend to date ww and aw, most bw can't being honest with themselves.
Must be the reason why they're so mad at bm since most can't reach their 'ultimate' goal - which is to be with a wm - and then have to date bm, their second choice.
I would be frustrated too if I couldn't date women I'm naturally attracted to.

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#13 Oct 3, 2012
not BW but AAW, Idk about other Blacks.

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#14 Oct 3, 2012
bout 1/3rd of the ynda in aa is 'european', so obviously aaw have been /liking/ wm for a long time.

the sad reality that i often like to repeat whenever this subject comes up, is that the aam has never had his own woman.

there has always been an abnormal spiritual disconnect between aam and aaw, as a result of hundreds of years of chattel slavery, jim crow, and more recently, media and government social engineering that's designed to create as much division between aam and aaw, as possible.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#15 Oct 3, 2012
Hakim01 wrote:
BW have always been attracted to wm but they just couldn't admit it.
The attraction is due primarily to the GLORIFICATION of white men in this WHITE DOMINATED, RACIST SOCIETY!

In old movies, for example, the white man is always portrayed as "the boss" and "attractive", while black men and asian men were portrayed as the WHITE MAN'S SERVANTS, you see!

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#16 Oct 3, 2012
ChadFromLA wrote:
Some stupid excuses...
I came to the conclusion that average bw love wm (no matter what they say)but since average wm tend to date ww and aw, most bw can't being honest with themselves.
Must be the reason why they're so mad at bm since most can't reach their 'ultimate' goal - which is to be with a wm - and then have to date bm, their second choice.
I would be frustrated too if I couldn't date women I'm naturally attracted to.
So, you're saying that Black women are ONLY dating within their own race by default?
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#17 Oct 3, 2012
Hakim01 wrote:
BW have always been attracted to wm but they just couldn't admit it.
A ho will be a ho, but that's beside the point.

Since the white man CONTROLS the MEDIA, he LIES and FEEDS MISINFORMATION to make himself look good!
David B

Baltimore, MD

#18 Oct 3, 2012
ChadFromLA wrote:
Some stupid excuses...
I came to the conclusion that average bw love wm (no matter what they say)but since average wm tend to date ww and aw, most bw can't being honest with themselves.
Must be the reason why they're so mad at bm since most can't reach their 'ultimate' goal - which is to be with a wm - and then have to date bm, their second choice.
I would be frustrated too if I couldn't date women I'm naturally attracted to.
Hardcore truth. A lot of BW are frustrated at BW simply because they aren't white.
David B

Baltimore, MD

#19 Oct 3, 2012
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David B

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#20 Oct 3, 2012
Odinist wrote:
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Hard to know what the other person is like if WP have been taught by history and modern day to think that BP are just former slavepeople.
More and more contact between WM and BW.
Seeing BW do the same kind of hobbies and the same stuff as us.
And in time we WM realize "oooo that´s a woman! I´m gonna go say hello"
And once the gates are open, we see BW always as potential gfs/wives just like any other race of women.
Many of us see you as "Female. Black, Light-labour!"
Hope that wasn´t too offensive.
I just realized who you really are woman. lol

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