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Hussien

Toronto, Canada

#1 Apr 5, 2012
So I'm dating this nice girl who is a virgin. She is 26. I'm 29 and also a virgin. We both come from East Africa originally, so we have been saving each other for until marriage. I will be marrying her soon. I was talking to my co-worker and he was shocked at the notion of us being virgins.

Is it a negative thing these days? Most people are just shocked especially since we are both generally attractive people so others assume this cannot be true.

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#2 Apr 5, 2012
Foolish African negroes. Go have sex with each other.

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#3 Apr 5, 2012
Hussien wrote:
So I'm dating this nice girl who is a virgin. She is 26. I'm 29 and also a virgin. We both come from East Africa originally, so we have been saving each other for until marriage. I will be marrying her soon. I was talking to my co-worker and he was shocked at the notion of us being virgins.
Is it a negative thing these days? Most people are just shocked especially since we are both generally attractive people so others assume this cannot be true.
It's not a negative thing. Just EXTREMELY foreign. People may think you are up-tight and odd because of it. Most Americans do not wait until marriage to have sex unless they are like in their teens or something.

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#4 Apr 5, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
Foolish African negroes. Go have sex with each other.
interesting name..."mulatre", are you a mulatto? Nice to meet you, i'm a mixed-creole.

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#5 Apr 5, 2012
Genevieve11 wrote:
<quoted text>interesting name..."mulatre", are you a mulatto? Nice to meet you, i'm a mixed-creole.
Yea I'm Mulatto, thus Mulatre.

You're creole from where?

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#6 Apr 5, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
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Yea I'm Mulatto, thus Mulatre.
You're creole from where?
Louisiana

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#7 Apr 5, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
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Yea I'm Mulatto, thus Mulatre.
You're creole from where?
its weird in america, but I kind of envy it... atleast on your wedding day you can look at your wife and know she hasnt been 20 guys come dumpster b4 u

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#8 Apr 5, 2012
J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH wrote:
<quoted text>its weird in america, but I kind of envy it... atleast on your wedding day you can look at your wife and know she hasnt been 20 guys come dumpster b4 u
What's weird is in a world where men are as equally promiscuous as women that women are the figureheads for this behavior. I'm sure the men are just as loose as the women are. Besides, I do not think it's wrong for any women to get her fuck on as she pleases.

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#9 Apr 5, 2012
Genevieve11 wrote:
<quoted text>Louisiana
A Louisiana Creole of color. I don't think you speak Louisiana Creole? Few do at all. What are you mixed with?

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#10 Apr 5, 2012
It isnt weird, Western Culture Is OverSexed to

Being a virgin isnt a sacared thng in America

It seens like.

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#11 Apr 5, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
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A Louisiana Creole of color. I don't think you speak Louisiana Creole? Few do at all. What are you mixed with?
I'm have spanish, french, british, african, about 3 tribes of Native, and a bit of German/Swiss/Austrian. I can trace my history back to the 1500s on one line. And on both sides back to 1850 at least. I haven't done an official DNA test though, so the above mix is from notable ancestors based on census and family oral history. What about you?

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#12 Apr 6, 2012
Coca-Cola Body wrote:
It isnt weird,
It isn't weird that promiscuous behavior is associated with women when men do it too?

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#13 Apr 6, 2012
Genevieve11 wrote:
<quoted text>I'm have spanish, french, british, african, about 3 tribes of Native, and a bit of German/Swiss/Austrian. I can trace my history back to the 1500s on one line. And on both sides back to 1850 at least. I haven't done an official DNA test though, so the above mix is from notable ancestors based on census and family oral history. What about you?
Ah, not quite Creole. In Louisiana a white Creole would be of Spanish and/or French stock. A Creole of color would be anyone not American. The Anglo is definately who the white Creoles distingusished themselves from. Then the French/Spanish started to integrate with the other whites, French became less spoken, the Creole was not quite the same anymore, mixing with the Italians, and the Anglos. I've some Spanish too, though the negro in me I do not know from whence since I have not found out from where they came before America. Probably there is some Igbo in there since they tended to be the ones shipped off to the Americas.

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#14 Apr 6, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
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Ah, not quite Creole. In Louisiana a white Creole would be of Spanish and/or French stock. A Creole of color would be anyone not American. The Anglo is definately who the white Creoles distingusished themselves from.
Uh, I beg to differ. A Louisiana Creole of Color is a person descended from the original African and French/Spanish settlers of the Louisiana region. We come in all shades and mixes. You can be very black or very white and may have additional admixture such as German and/or Italian (who settled the region during the American period after the 1830s and well into the early 1900s). I have a creole last name (no my last name is not french or spanish, but CREOLE) Most creoles have french or spanish last names and their surnames may be found in spain or france, but mine is creole, hence it cannot be found in either place, just Louisiana. I have Anglo ancestry, but i still am very much creole. The British doesn't negate that.
auntie bee

Mount Vernon, IA

#15 Apr 6, 2012
Hussien wrote:
So I'm dating this nice girl who is a virgin. She is 26. I'm 29 and also a virgin. We both come from East Africa originally, so we have been saving each other for until marriage. I will be marrying her soon. I was talking to my co-worker and he was shocked at the notion of us being virgins.
Is it a negative thing these days? Most people are just shocked especially since we are both generally attractive people so others assume this cannot be true.
but can she still let loud farts?, you should know.

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#16 Apr 6, 2012
Genevieve11 wrote:
<quoted text>Uh, I beg to differ. A Louisiana Creole of Color is a person descended from the original African and French/Spanish settlers of the Louisiana region. We come in all shades and mixes. You can be very black or very white and may have additional admixture such as German and/or Italian (who settled the region during the American period after the 1830s and well into the early 1900s). I have a creole last name (no my last name is not french or spanish, but CREOLE) Most creoles have french or spanish last names and their surnames may be found in spain or france, but mine is creole, hence it cannot be found in either place, just Louisiana. I have Anglo ancestry, but i still am very much creole. The British doesn't negate that.
That's fine to differ, but as I said, the people of French/Spanish descent were Creoles in DISTINCTION from Anglos and other whites. This is why I said not quite Creole when you mentioned being part German and Anglo. Way back when, when the Creole was soley the white of French/Spanish descent, they were the face of the Creole and thus certain physical characteristics were seen in the Creole. Such Creoles would have olive or milky skin with dark eyes and black hair and not be tall of stature. They were speakers of Continental French.

I understand what you mean about a Creole name. Louisiana Creole is not French. ;) Again, I never said the Anglo negated your being of Creole descent, just that it was not quite Creole if you get me.

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#17 Apr 6, 2012
Mulatre wrote:
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That's fine to differ, but as I said, the people of French/Spanish descent were Creoles in DISTINCTION from Anglos and other whites. This is why I said not quite Creole when you mentioned being part German and Anglo. Way back when, when the Creole was soley the white of French/Spanish descent, they were the face of the Creole and thus certain physical characteristics were seen in the Creole. Such Creoles would have olive or milky skin with dark eyes and black hair and not be tall of stature. They were speakers of Continental French.
I understand what you mean about a Creole name. Louisiana Creole is not French. ;) Again, I never said the Anglo negated your being of Creole descent, just that it was not quite Creole if you get me.
Oh okay. Yeah, i have a lot of family that looks like that (olive or pale skin and brown/black hair)(the white creole side). And the black creoles in my family tend to have black or strangely enough, red hair and are olive/tan. It's good to know that you weren't telling me who I am or identify with, because I've gotten that before. Some puerto rican chick was about to kick my -ss when I went back east because she thought that I "didn't want to be hispanic" and I had to end up telling her my whole family history.

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#18 Apr 6, 2012
Genevieve11 wrote:
<quoted text>Oh okay. Yeah, i have a lot of family that looks like that (olive or pale skin and brown/black hair)(the white creole side). And the black creoles in my family tend to have black or strangely enough, red hair and are olive/tan. It's good to know that you weren't telling me who I am or identify with, because I've gotten that before. Some puerto rican chick was about to kick my -ss when I went back east because she thought that I "didn't want to be hispanic" and I had to end up telling her my whole family history.
Why would she get on you for not being Hispanic?

You are a mixed woman. If you would tell me you were black, or you were white I'd say no you're not because you are not. You're mixed. Some Puerto Ricans are assclowns anyway. They think Puerto Rican is a race, as do other non-Puerto Ricans. Some Puerto ricans are black, asian, white, mixed , etc. I point out an asian and a white PR to some dumb ass PR and ask how are you the same race. They are idiots. There are some people who think all PRs are mixed just like there are people who think being Creole means you are mixed black/white/amerindian. Simpletons all.

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#19 Apr 6, 2012
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. As long as you're waiting for the right person and right time, that's what matters.
Hussien

Toronto, Canada

#20 Apr 7, 2012
Coca-Cola Body wrote:
It isnt weird, Western Culture Is OverSexed to
Being a virgin isnt a sacared thng in America
It seens like.
People are just shocked when they find out we are both virgins.

I guess you're right Western culture is just oversexed.

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