I'm sorry but I dont fully agree with this. My BM is very sucessful and doesn't looke for handouts. If the system wasnt designed for him to succeed, I guess he said to hell with it and made his own system!Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
A Black Woman
I'm not being played, you are being played. Maybe you should get your head out of the media and check into reality. The media doesnt like to report on anyone's success, that would be boring - no ratings.
I am highly educated and so is my BM! We uplift one another and challenge eachother. Sorry for whatever it is you going through, but that doesn't make it true for everybody!