Black Women ..Wake UP!
CocoaCurls

San Antonio, TX

#323 Feb 17, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
I'm sorry but I dont fully agree with this. My BM is very sucessful and doesn't looke for handouts. If the system wasnt designed for him to succeed, I guess he said to hell with it and made his own system!

I'm not being played, you are being played. Maybe you should get your head out of the media and check into reality. The media doesnt like to report on anyone's success, that would be boring - no ratings.

I am highly educated and so is my BM! We uplift one another and challenge eachother. Sorry for whatever it is you going through, but that doesn't make it true for everybody!

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#324 Feb 17, 2013
CocoaCurls wrote:
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I'm sorry but I dont fully agree with this. My BM is very sucessful and doesn't looke for handouts. If the system wasnt designed for him to succeed, I guess he said to hell with it and made his own system!
I'm not being played, you are being played. Maybe you should get your head out of the media and check into reality. The media doesnt like to report on anyone's success, that would be boring - no ratings.
I am highly educated and so is my BM! We uplift one another and challenge eachother. Sorry for whatever it is you going through, but that doesn't make it true for everybody!
What she is saying does apply to a specific type of black women.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#325 Feb 17, 2013
CocoaCurls wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm sorry but I dont fully agree with this. My BM is very sucessful and doesn't looke for handouts. If the system wasnt designed for him to succeed, I guess he said to hell with it and made his own system!
I'm not being played, you are being played. Maybe you should get your head out of the media and check into reality. The media doesnt like to report on anyone's success, that would be boring - no ratings.
I am highly educated and so is my BM! We uplift one another and challenge eachother. Sorry for whatever it is you going through, but that doesn't make it true for everybody!
Do not be sorry. Be disgusted. I am disgusted at the way Uncle Toms alway pull an African down and then try to blame it on the white man. Notice I refuse to allow any of them to pull me down. I am doing fine thank you. And If I can do it anybody can do it.

“esa hembra es mala”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#326 Feb 17, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>
My pious mind and disposition would never conceive of the depraved inferences que la senora esta pensando. I searched for a more benign, less suggestive synonym for the word "vibration" but my mental thesaurus ran out of batteries and failed me in my moment of need.
lol you said it! Caliente muchacho..:)
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#327 Feb 17, 2013
I think its funny that you want us to not advance in society for the sake of black men

The same black men who are choosing every other race of woman over us

So basically you want us to be broke ON TOP OF being single

You are no sister of mine
Nothing but the Truth

Cincinnati, OH

#328 Feb 17, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
I agree that the break down of the Black family is by design. However, educated black women have little to do with it. This has been going on since the first slave ship docked. The family unit was attacked, placing women in an unnatural position and it continues today.
We need to focus on solution and it starts with re-establishing the black family not blaming one gender or the other. Black people have to start with family and that means more married couples having kids.Teaching our children our history even the painful parts. Stop promoting thug culture and value education. Also Black people need to be loyal to one another , a huge issue in our community.
Only 14% of Black women hold a Bachelor degree or higher yet 70 % of our kids areborn out of wedlock , 60% ofBlackmenand70% ofBlack women are unmarried. I think it is safe to say thatthis "stuck up educated black women are the problem menatlity." is not based in truth.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#329 Feb 18, 2013
Nothing but the Truth wrote:
<quoted text>I agree that the break down of the Black family is by design. However, educated black women have little to do with it. This has been going on since the first slave ship docked. The family unit was attacked, placing women in an unnatural position and it continues today.
We need to focus on solution and it starts with re-establishing the black family not blaming one gender or the other. Black people have to start with family and that means more married couples having kids.Teaching our children our history even the painful parts. Stop promoting thug culture and value education. Also Black people need to be loyal to one another , a huge issue in our community.
Only 14% of Black women hold a Bachelor degree or higher yet 70 % of our kids areborn out of wedlock , 60% ofBlackmenand70% ofBlack women are unmarried. I think it is safe to say thatthis "stuck up educated black women are the problem menatlity." is not based in truth.
thank you for brining some common sense to this thread!
holycrap

Memphis, TN

#330 Feb 18, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
thank you for brining some common sense to this thread!
He basically attacked bw. Stuck up black women?? Are you serious?
Alfie

UK

#331 Feb 18, 2013
The problem is married people dont have enuff kids n then there is abortion- killing of 1000 babies a day .
Both of them r related to the biggest of
Problems, poverty - unemployment at
18% at twice national rate

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#332 Feb 18, 2013
interesting.i hear about bm having many non black kids but how many non bm babies do bw have/had?cant really tell with 10,000 abortions a day can you?lol

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#333 Feb 18, 2013
holycrap wrote:
<quoted text>
He basically attacked bw. Stuck up black women?? Are you serious?
i was giving accolades to him/her for the posted i responded too. i did not see any other post of theirs call blk women "stuck up" or other names.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#334 Feb 18, 2013
post not posted. i need to type a little slower and thoroughly reread my posts!

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#335 Feb 18, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
interesting.i hear about bm having many non black kids but how many non bm babies do bw have/had?cant really tell with 10,000 abortions a day can you?lol
why should you be able to tell? its really none of your business.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#336 Feb 18, 2013
Alfie wrote:
The problem is married people dont have enuff kids n then there is abortion- killing of 1000 babies a day .
Both of them r related to the biggest of
Problems, poverty - unemployment at
18% at twice national rate
if unemployment and poverty is bad now, how much worse would they be with an extra 1000 persons a day?

think before you post.

“I'm a proud grandma”

Level 7

Since: Feb 12

Location hidden

#337 Feb 18, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
That was a good one and so true!

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#338 Feb 18, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
why should you be able to tell? its really none of your business.
like why i said it in the first place,because bw are always talking about how kids with non bw bm have.but bw are getting what they asked for.i know bw who went to get abortions and came out with their tubes tied.wonder what else these white doctors do to you while theyre in you.smh

Since: Feb 13

Location hidden

#339 Feb 18, 2013
Ms Mack wrote:
<quoted text>That was a good one and so true!
yep, thanks. I like that one too.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#340 Feb 18, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>like why i said it in the first place,because bw are always talking about how kids with non bw bm have.but bw are getting what they asked for.i know bw who went to get abortions and came out with their tubes tied.wonder what else these white doctors do to you while theyre in you.smh
if you don't want any children or any more, you are supposed to get your tubes tided!

you complain about abortion and then turn around and complain about a proceedure that eliminates the need for an abortion!

i see we can't win or loose with you.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#341 Feb 18, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
if you don't want any children or any more, you are supposed to get your tubes tided!
you complain about abortion and then turn around and complain about a proceedure that eliminates the need for an abortion!
i see we can't win or loose with you.
tided?crazy person,they ONLY went in for an abortion and the doctor tied their tubes without their knowledge/consent.smh this isnt really about abortion ect. its about how many non bm kids do/did bw have since bm having kids with non bw are always thrown up.thats the subject.

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#342 Feb 18, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>tided?crazy person,they ONLY went in for an abortion and the doctor tied their tubes without their knowledge/consent.smh this isnt really about abortion ect. its about how many non bm kids do/did bw have since bm having kids with non bw are always thrown up.thats the subject.
ok tied. and how much does this actually happen?

this has nothing to do with abortion but rather malpractice. the subject is abortion.

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