Black Women ..Wake UP!
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“glorified work permit”

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Since: Jul 07

Toronto

#1 Feb 15, 2013
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?

- Justiz
A Black Woman
Can We Talk

Chester, PA

#2 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
Dammm TROLL! Do you ever get tired of being a loser? Do you ever feel it’s time to grow up?

“esa hembra es mala”

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Since: Sep 09

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#3 Feb 15, 2013
Can We Talk wrote:
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Dammm TROLL! Do you ever get tired of being a loser? Do you ever feel it’s time to grow up?
LMFAO seriously! Everyone has the same rights as the next person. A black womans success is based off hard work lol that's it.

lol@ kings to gurl please! LOL most of these men are no such thing.

Lunarblitz

“There's enough for everyone”

Level 7

Since: Mar 07

USA

#4 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
Naw. Black males are just dumb and lazy, and the black woman has to always take care of him.

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Since: Feb 13

Hai Phong, Vietnam

#5 Feb 15, 2013
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Atlanta, GA

#6 Feb 15, 2013
<< not a, "just dumb and lazy" black male.

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#8 Feb 15, 2013
First of all, as a son of a bw, father of a black daughter and a brother to my sisters, I would certainly encourage every black woman to take advantage of every opportunity that is availed to her; leaving no stones unturned, nor crumbs on the floor. However, you guys are being disingenuous if you believe that success for either male or female is based solely upon individual hard work and efforts. That is an oversimplification of life as we know it!

If sisters are going to make the argument that their achievements are attributable singularly to their hard work and dedication without being specifically provided opportunities to succeed, then it can be reasoned, rather argued that all those years prior to the civil rights, that black women failed to achieve economic independence was due to some innate deficiency....WHICH WE ALL KNOW IS NOT TRUE. This was clearly because they, we, were disenfranchised and keep outside of the gates of opportunity, denied the right to self determination.

Hard work, dedication to goals and aspirations and education are certainly imperatives to success but all of that without opportunity is useless in achieving the ends of economic independence. Their are people with Law degrees and MBA's that are not being given opportunities in this rotten economy that are not fulfilling their potential. In other words, non of us....especially economically.....are islands unto ourselves.

Having said that, though the OP may be well intended, black women should not stop or slow down the engine of achievement because of bm's perceived lack of achievements. In the aggregate, black men earn considerable sums of money, we just lack institutional and organizational structure to recycle this capital in a way to engender group prosperity. And thought it is a central part of our collective inertia, our group dysfunction runs much deeper than just economics,

Since: Feb 13

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#9 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
I agree. Everybody with a brain can see how the system is set up to benefit whites and tear down blacks. White women also attend college at a higher rate than white men, but since the system is set up for white men, they still succeed.
Many studies out there that prove it, a white man with no education can get hired before a blk man with an education.

Since: Feb 13

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#10 Feb 15, 2013
Studies even showed white men with a criminal record will get hired over a blk man with no criminal record.
Your Mind Is A Toilet

Leicester, UK

#11 Feb 15, 2013
Too fat for your own topix identity, that figures.
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#12 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
Well said.Long time no see,this is Godbody.

"The natural family structure of the American born africans has been basically forbidden by society. During the legal years of chattel slavery 1779 to 1865,there were open face laws and codes suppressing and/or omitting the Moorish male from fulfilling the stations of Father and Husband. these positions were substituted by the dictates of the Slave Master and his appointees. it was during this time the African mothers were made head of the family and the today's ''single parent family'' got its origin.-The Exhuming of a Nation
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#13 Feb 15, 2013
Black men dont need us, they have white women

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Since: Jan 12

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#14 Feb 15, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
Studies even showed white men with a criminal record will get hired over a blk man with no criminal record.
Yes, there are all kinds of variables being omitted from the equation that contributes to both success and failure. White men have had 400 years of affirmative actions where all the opportunities to self determination were reserved exclusively to them, and after four centuries, with all the capital and property firmly within their grasp, they say come out of the darkness and compete.....yet still they obstruct the paths for many.
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#15 Feb 15, 2013
'The U.S making of "My baby's daddy": This terminology basically means there is now a third party(courts)standing between the paternal father and his bloodline.'my babys daddy'simply means, "he's not the father but the paper-dollar daddy". A(Sugar daddy)'Daddy' is an unattached male financial source for a woman,bieng unmarried to each other. this "sugar daddy" combined with the court exile of the Father gave rise to the term,"my baby's daddy". To the Moorish mothers of in america it may be a bit shocking or difficult to understand the degradation of their proudly self-proclaimed "my baby's daddy" so candidly applied to the one from whom she recieved,developed and gave life to his seed."--The exhuming of a nation

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#16 Feb 15, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>Yes, there are all kinds of variables being omitted from the equation that contributes to both success and failure. White men have had 400 years of affirmative actions where all the opportunities to self determination were reserved exclusively to them, and after four centuries, with all the capital and property firmly within their grasp, they say come out of the darkness and compete.....yet still they obstruct the paths for many.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DT59YPX7tl8/S9EbrZm...

“glorified work permit”

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Since: Jul 07

Toronto

#17 Feb 15, 2013
LAcreole wrote:
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If the system is designed to have black males fail, then it would make sense that the black female who was helped in creation by a black male would fail also. Does the black female mind differ any more than the black male mind? What about their collective mindset or goals? The system I would say is made for those who want to achieve to achieve and those who don't want to put forth every effort to fail. It's possible that the female has a higher success rate in school because females overall, black-white-hispanic-Asian-Afr ican born-etc. see how hard it is for women all over the world to achieve the same success as men. We have to work 3xs harder than any male to get the next promotion. Many of us know that females in other parts of the world don't even have the same right to an education as we do here in the west so it makes us work even harder. Don't take away that black woman's success because your brothers and father didn't take the open opportunity he most likely was offered but turned it down because it didn't pay enough. Sometimes we gotta start from the bottom and work our way to the top. So lets demonize the successful hard working, a_s busting black women out there who not only achieve higher test scores than their black male counterparts but also at the same time taking care of the black male's offspring he decided to leave behind in responsibility. Stop making excuses for black males. Not all but many do not want to take those construction jobs because it's "too hard of work". Many do not seek pell grants online (free monies) to go to college to gain a degree. Women now dominate the world of animal medicine and doctors where males heavily dominated this field for decades. They busted their arses for those jobs. System designed my a_s. If the black female can make it, then their black male counterparts can too. Women period have it harder anywhere. No excuse for a man not to make it.
The black female is giving the illusion of success.. She essentially fails b/c the family unit fails. And, yes the female and the male mind differ, that is a scientific fact. The education system isn't setup and taught in a way to properly teach a black male child..hence their low graduation rate and high ADHD misdiagnosis.

The system if you are speaking of the american system isn't made for anyone to achieve, it is made to create slaves.. you can not be free in debt and anyone who is attempting to achieve the "american" dream is more than likely in debt. Their is no such thing as free money and this sistah is the brainwashing I am talking about it. It is easier for you to "demonize" the black man and not open your eyes and see that slavery and welfare destroyed the black family b/c the man was either taken or not allowed to live in the home. That they build more schools than the do prisons and black males make up majority of the prison population, this isn't by chance.. prison is a billion dollar a year business.

And no one should be busted their ass for a "job" that's a mindset of a slave.. create your own business or company.

As far as the jobs.. the lost black women are paid far less, more loyal, more compliant and easier to control..nothing to brag about.
Lucifer

Jacksonville, FL

#18 Feb 15, 2013
LAcreole wrote:
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If the system is designed to have black males fail, then it would make sense that the black female who was helped in creation by a black male would fail also. Does the black female mind differ any more than the black male mind? What about their collective mindset or goals? The system I would say is made for those who want to achieve to achieve and those who don't want to put forth every effort to fail. It's possible that the female has a higher success rate in school because females overall, black-white-hispanic-Asian-Afr ican born-etc. see how hard it is for women all over the world to achieve the same success as men. We have to work 3xs harder than any male to get the next promotion. Many of us know that females in other parts of the world don't even have the same right to an education as we do here in the west so it makes us work even harder. Don't take away that black woman's success because your brothers and father didn't take the open opportunity he most likely was offered but turned it down because it didn't pay enough. Sometimes we gotta start from the bottom and work our way to the top. So lets demonize the successful hard working, a_s busting black women out there who not only achieve higher test scores than their black male counterparts but also at the same time taking care of the black male's offspring he decided to leave behind in responsibility. Stop making excuses for black males. Not all but many do not want to take those construction jobs because it's "too hard of work". Many do not seek pell grants online (free monies) to go to college to gain a degree. Women now dominate the world of animal medicine and doctors where males heavily dominated this field for decades. They busted their arses for those jobs. System designed my a_s. If the black female can make it, then their black male counterparts can too. Women period have it harder anywhere. No excuse for a man not to make it.
You speak the truth.

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#19 Feb 15, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
Imma have to archive that one....that succintly told the story!

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#20 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
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The black female is giving the illusion of success.. She essentially fails b/c the family unit fails. And, yes the female and the male mind differ, that is a scientific fact. The education system isn't setup and taught in a way to properly teach a black male child..hence their low graduation rate and high ADHD misdiagnosis.
The system if you are speaking of the american system isn't made for anyone to achieve, it is made to create slaves.. you can not be free in debt and anyone who is attempting to achieve the "american" dream is more than likely in debt. Their is no such thing as free money and this sistah is the brainwashing I am talking about it. It is easier for you to "demonize" the black man and not open your eyes and see that slavery and welfare destroyed the black family b/c the man was either taken or not allowed to live in the home. That they build more schools than the do prisons and black males make up majority of the prison population, this isn't by chance.. prison is a billion dollar a year business.
And no one should be busted their ass for a "job" that's a mindset of a slave.. create your own business or company.
As far as the jobs.. the lost black women are paid far less, more loyal, more compliant and easier to control..nothing to brag about.
Damn, you nailed that one, because in reality, we are all, save a few, nothing more than modern day serfs who are given a limited education....just enough to comply with the requisites of a specific job in order to keep the wheels of capitalism turning. Most of us work for 40 years and then die with very little to look retrospectively upon as our own. The degrees of separation between those who have a better quality of existence than others is contingent upon who receives the preponderance of opportunities; which is in fact, utilized as an effective wedge instrument. As I stated in my earlier post; I have no issues with sisters taking their opportunities, but when they leverage them as evidence of their superiority, it rips apart the fabric of the group and any potential we may have as a collective. Therein lies the Rub!

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#21 Feb 15, 2013
justiz4once wrote:
Please understand that your so called success is by design.. You have a higher success rate in school b/c the curriculum is not setup for black males to succeed. you get jobs b/c you are less intimidating and accept your oppressors standards. You are being put at odds with your soul mate destroying the natural order of things and you accept it proudly.. You boast and brag.. emasculate and belittle your kings.. eagerly swallowing the BS the media feeds painting your soul mate as worthless. You are being played sister..I guess all your degrees and accomplishments didn't make that apparent to you. Strung along by the oppressor whose world you want to succeed in so badly, The oppressor who uses you to keep your king down. Until the black man reclaims his place..there is no black family and no black community..When will you wake up and stop aiding in his demise?
- Justiz
A Black Woman
This is the most amount of tripe that I have read in a long time!

Black women have a higher rate of success in school because we attend college, something more black men need to do instead of sitting around using curriculum as the excuse.

We don't all live on an Island! Society has set rules of behavior that each individual must follow to prosper in society. Don't black women for adhearing to the rules and following the laws of society instead of joining black men in unproductive, backward negative behaviors!

Most black men put black women at odds with them all by themselves by black men's betrayal and foul treatment of black women.

What makes you kings? Kings don't allow other races of men to oppress them or their women. Kings are not emasculated by women and kings don't sit around whining blaming.

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