Essence magazine said BW have unreali...

Essence magazine said BW have unrealistic expectations.

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Ugh

Fort Worth, TX

#2 Apr 6, 2014
On the second Essence Question, that's the very reasons why we have so many ugly Black women and Men. I'm a handsome guy. My Latina and gal is a real beauty and got the figure of a sexy fine Black American woman. Our boys are easily good looking boys. My oldest could pass for a Puerto Rican and my youngest one is light-skinned with "looks", you'd think one of us are a White Parent.

My point, it helps for couples to BOTH look attractive. A beautiful woman with an ugly Man can still get beautiful children but the children will have at least the ugly Parent, ugly features. So, they come out average-looking.

Gotta do better.

Too many times, I see some real sexy, pretty sistas with some ugly dudes and think to myself, "....the f** was she thinking???"

By ugly, the dude may have a feature that's just plain ugly like.....a protruding big lips, ultra big nose, huge a** forehead. We can certainly mate up better than that. The problem, we let the media dictate how we pick a mate.......like that article is doing in Essence. It's a "Whites" ideology how dating should be. Yet, these very White People do not date according to how they got everyone else dating.

They essentially telling you to it worry about looks and just date for personality-match. Yet, Whites are dating for looks and personality match and they get more beautiful offspring than the rest of us.

Black Woman need to stop following the Media. Smh.

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#3 Apr 6, 2014
Ugh wrote:
On the second Essence Question, that's the very reasons why we have so many ugly Black women and Men. I'm a handsome guy. My Latina and gal is a real beauty and got the figure of a sexy fine Black American woman. Our boys are easily good looking boys. My oldest could pass for a Puerto Rican and my youngest one is light-skinned with "looks", you'd think one of us are a White Parent.
My point, it helps for couples to BOTH look attractive. A beautiful woman with an ugly Man can still get beautiful children but the children will have at least the ugly Parent, ugly features. So, they come out average-looking.
Gotta do better.
Too many times, I see some real sexy, pretty sistas with some ugly dudes and think to myself, "....the f** was she thinking???"
By ugly, the dude may have a feature that's just plain ugly like.....a protruding big lips, ultra big nose, huge a** forehead. We can certainly mate up better than that. The problem, we let the media dictate how we pick a mate.......like that article is doing in Essence. It's a "Whites" ideology how dating should be. Yet, these very White People do not date according to how they got everyone else dating.
They essentially telling you to it worry about looks and just date for personality-match. Yet, Whites are dating for looks and personality match and they get more beautiful offspring than the rest of us.
Black Woman need to stop following the Media. Smh.
A Psychology study was done that confirmed that when white women look for mates they only put 35% of their consideration on looks. Black women (American) by contrast put 70% of their consideration on looks. What is the black OOW birthrate again? WW's OOW birthrate?

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#4 Apr 6, 2014
Ugh wrote:
...It's a "Whites" ideology how dating should be...
Whites are "effectively" in charge...WM that is. The own, control, and operate nearly all media outlets. They "effectively" built the modern world, they can make rules and call shots for just about anything. WM can turn to WW and say, "be less superficial, or we will stop building and let everything collapse because you need US to build and maintain the modern infrastructure because WE both know you women are not going to build a got damn thing!!!"

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