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#247 Nov 23, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
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Halle Berry considers herself black, although she shouldn't now. I'll never defend any woman who drops their draws or do anything for an Oscar. I think that's a disgusting mindset... and I generally wouldn't hold a long dialogue in person or on-line with anyone who would defend such immorality concerning something most African-American men and women consider sacred. Not meaning to sound rude, but I think I'll in this chat with you concerning this topic...adios.
Absolutely brilliant Post!

I agree with everything you've stated here. I used to like Halle, but she gave all that up.

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#248 Nov 23, 2013
RarestRose29 wrote:
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how thoughtful of you, thank you for wishing them a happy anniversary. I will ignore the rest of your post....
Okay beautiful, when you get off your period then come talk to me :)

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#249 Nov 23, 2013
Hannia wrote:
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I went to see this movie with my man. Even though I have my own money I let him take care of our outings as he insists. There are certain things men want to do just because of their nature. My man never allows me to pay for anything when we go outside.
I thought you said you were married?

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#250 Nov 23, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Ah fool, I told this happened to me 12 years ago, long before I met my husband who by the way has a masters degree and back then I was in my 20s. Your problem is that you don't read very well and love to put your own spin on what I have clearly told you. I can assure that I am not in my forties though my husband is my junior by a few years. My husband makes more than enough income to support us but I would be happy to work if he didn't. Keep on dreaming and telling yourselves false things about me, if it makes you feel better because I really could care less.
Don't get angry. You're the one that talks about a fairy tale life style but can't support any of it with the things you say.

It's very easy to state something is a certain way, but if it isn't really that way, then you're not going to know the intricate details of it, as you have proved with the posts you are making here.

If your husband or boyfriend is paying his half fully then a woman like you should be satisfied with that. No offense, but your lack of personality and character doesn't really entitle you to the good life.

You should do personality exercises or something and maybe you'll land a man that can support you and himself.

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#251 Nov 23, 2013
Capree wrote:
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My friends on topix and the reading posters on topix already know the answers because I have been more than open about myself and having children but you are not good at reading or comprehension so you will probably twist this around to mean what you want it to mean also.
Just answer the question Older lady that's supposedly been in a relationship with the same man for over 12 years. Do you or do you not have children?

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#252 Nov 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Don't get angry. You're the one that talks about a fairy tale life style but can't support any of it with the things you say.
It's very easy to state something is a certain way, but if it isn't really that way, then you're not going to know the intricate details of it, as you have proved with the posts you are making here.
If your husband or boyfriend is paying his half fully then a woman like you should be satisfied with that. No offense, but your lack of personality and character doesn't really entitle you to the good life.
You should do personality exercises or something and maybe you'll land a man that can support you and himself.
I don't like repeating myself and since your read comprehension is terrible, it does get a little on my nerves. Can't support what I've said???? What do you want me to do saw you my husband and mine's bank statements or perhaps the deed to our apartment building??? Why in the hell should I have to be satisfied with my husband paying only half when he makes far more money than I did when I worked as a social worker and an office supervisor?? He makes more than enough to support us both and we both like that arrangement. How do you know what personality entitles you to the good life??? When you have been poorer than owl shyt all of your life,LOL. Besides that sounds totally crazy because it is not the personality that entitles one to the "good life" but the means they have.

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#253 Nov 23, 2013
Correction: Show not saw

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#254 Nov 23, 2013
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Just answer the question Older lady that's supposedly been in a relationship with the same man for over 12 years. Do you or do you not have children?
This is what I posted you. I never said I was married 12 years ago but that I lost my job and hit hard times 12 years ago long before meeting my future husband. Please get someone else to read these posts to you because you can't understand the simplest of sentences.

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Ah fool, I told this happened to me 12 years ago, long before I met my husband who by the way has a masters degree and back then I was in my 20s. Your problem is that you don't read very well and love to put your own spin on what I have clearly told you. I can assure that I am not in my forties though my husband is my junior by a few years. My husband makes more than enough income to support us but I would be happy to work if he didn't. Keep on dreaming and telling yourselves false things about me, if it makes you feel better because I really could care less.

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#255 Nov 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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I thought you said you were married?
?? Your response to my post makes no sense.

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#256 Nov 23, 2013
Hannia wrote:
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?? Your response to my post makes no sense.
I think he either drinks heavily or smoke drugs or both.

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#257 Nov 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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I thought you said you were married?
she's divorced and now dating.

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#258 Nov 23, 2013
so interesting little side note Nia Long herself actually requested a white man to ply her love interest in "The Best Man Holiday"

http://www.eurweb.com/2013/11/nia-long-wanted...

nice now watch dudes call her a sell out when she's married to and just bore a black child. lol oh I cant wait for the comments!

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#259 Nov 23, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
so interesting little side note Nia Long herself actually requested a white man to ply her love interest in "The Best Man Holiday"
http://www.eurweb.com/2013/11/nia-long-wanted...
nice now watch dudes call her a sell out when she's married to and just bore a black child. lol oh I cant wait for the comments!
nia long was on the tavis smiley show the other day and she was tryna be gracious but appeared all bitter and sad about how her career had turned out and all the opportunities denied to her as a bw in hollywood. a lotta these hollywood types are just as ratchet and confused as regular bw. i mean, how you gonna deny the opportunity to a young upcoming bm actor and instead give the job to wm when wm make a point of not even putting you in their movies because you a bw? that's just one confused chick.

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#260 Nov 24, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>she's divorced and now dating.
False. By the way, how is that "Black Power" thing going for you while you date Inter racially?

lol

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#261 Nov 24, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>nia long was on the tavis smiley show the other day and she was tryna be gracious but appeared all bitter and sad about how her career had turned out and all the opportunities denied to her as a bw in hollywood. a lotta these hollywood types are just as ratchet and confused as regular bw. i mean, how you gonna deny the opportunity to a young upcoming bm actor and instead give the job to wm when wm make a point of not even putting you in their movies because you a bw? that's just one confused chick.
and may our first whiner come up and take his position...

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#262 Nov 25, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
<quoted text>and may our first whiner come up and take his position...
lol...i just think it's sad and funny when bw like nia long lose their looks and relevancy but still act like bm give a sh8t about their "controversial" choices.

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#263 Nov 25, 2013
Hannia wrote:
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False. By the way, how is that "Black Power" thing going for you while you date Inter racially?
lol
hmmm...so you see me as a "black power" guy, huh?

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#264 Nov 25, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
so interesting little side note Nia Long herself actually requested a white man to ply her love interest in "The Best Man Holiday"
http://www.eurweb.com/2013/11/nia-long-wanted...
nice now watch dudes call her a sell out when she's married to and just bore a black child. lol oh I cant wait for the comments!
Well Desmond is right and she is to a point. I'm disturbed by the trend (being optimistic) that everyone except blacks are claiming racial loyalty is a thing of the past (when expaling thier desires for the white race).

Nia represents the BW in the workforce.

White men are the door she must pass through to gain the acknowledgement she has dreamt of. She is stuck between her passion for her craft and loyalty to her race. And in Hollywood aparently BM are not putting up with BW while while WW are throwing their panties and being easy to deal with.

I can only assume WM are not taking that lying down and are targeting BW when no one is looking... or in Halle Berry's case when everyone is looking.

Nia Long was my favorite black beauty when everyone love Halle Berry.

She never got the roles Halle got. Even after doing Boiler Room with the white boy.

So I don't know if she is really trying to further her practically dead career. I think she is putting the blood in the water. Perhaps as a forshadowing to her current man of what's to come after him. She may just be talking nonsense but how often do BW known for being protective of their image simply say things without motive.

She is letting WM know she is open to dating them if her current situation doesn't go her way. Possible it's just a "power move" on the part of another BW in the modern black family who doesn't want to follow but wants to lead BM.

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#265 Nov 25, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>lol...i just think it's sad and funny when bw like nia long lose their looks and relevancy but still act like bm give a sh8t about their "controversial" choices.
Nia us still gorgeous at 40+ i doubt dudes who are into asian women would realize that black dont crack and nia still looks better than half the females in the game. Now u just taking unnecessary shots to validate ur frame if thinking. Awful

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#266 Nov 25, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
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Well Desmond is right and she is to a point. I'm disturbed by the trend (being optimistic) that everyone except blacks are claiming racial loyalty is a thing of the past (when expaling thier desires for the white race).
Nia represents the BW in the workforce.
White men are the door she must pass through to gain the acknowledgement she has dreamt of. She is stuck between her passion for her craft and loyalty to her race. And in Hollywood aparently BM are not putting up with BW while while WW are throwing their panties and being easy to deal with.
I can only assume WM are not taking that lying down and are targeting BW when no one is looking... or in Halle Berry's case when everyone is looking.
Nia Long was my favorite black beauty when everyone love Halle Berry.
She never got the roles Halle got. Even after doing Boiler Room with the white boy.
So I don't know if she is really trying to further her practically dead career. I think she is putting the blood in the water. Perhaps as a forshadowing to her current man of what's to come after him. She may just be talking nonsense but how often do BW known for being protective of their image simply say things without motive.
She is letting WM know she is open to dating them if her current situation doesn't go her way. Possible it's just a "power move" on the part of another BW in the modern black family who doesn't want to follow but wants to lead BM.
so everything has to be about lust for the wm? Ehy cabt she just be following along with the times. Bm have always been seen with white counterparts in films. Soon as bw do it its an issue... she's a hoe a sellout ....

I just saw 12 yrs a slave in that movie the actress gets raped by master is she a sellout as well for depicting what actually went on in those times? Some of yoududes take movies and reenactments/fiction to heart

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