I'm a black girl why do I only attrac...
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#656 Dec 8, 2012
Is that Rachel True?^^^^^^

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#657 Dec 8, 2012
Quante wrote:
<quoted text> I'm a 26 your recent graduate of constitutional law! Im not here to judge nobody. Every last one of those black girls back in College were dismissed by their white boyfreinds after graduation because they were black. they were incredibly mean to black guys and got them in trouble for no apparent reason. it's like they were born to hate us for some reason. now since I'm out of college there's no way in the heck I would ever get involved with a black woman. they ignore the good black guys and they throw themselves at nasty looking white guys. Blackgirls only good for sex and wilf partiestuff but when it comes to wife and family I'm going to marry a white womam. at least you know what your getting into
well good for you!! I'm almost done with my masters and I live in a City were black men have a BAD rep for abandoning their kids! I don't care what kind of a degree a man has if he doesn't support his kids he ain't worth sh!t!! I haven't been around that many BW who were obsessed with white men except on this site so I can't really relate to what you are saying. White men are ok and many of them do indeed marry BW these days!! As far as you marrying another race DO YOU!!! A lot of Bm are sell out anyway waaaaaay more than BW and that's a statistical FACT!!! Some Bm will jump in front of a bus to save a 300 lb white woman so really it's no big deal !!!

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#658 Dec 8, 2012
MeJustMeThatsAll wrote:
Is that Rachel True?^^^^^^
Yep..finer tan all get out.
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#659 Dec 8, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> Hmmm maybe I will....Atleast I'm not on welfare with 6 kids and 5 babymamas....
hahahaha...boy, i am glad you don't. you probably would have molested them all. also, who is on welfare with 6 kids and 5 babymamas trailer park trash. P.S. also, get that little boy off of your lap! PLEASE!!!
Quante

United States

#661 Dec 8, 2012
We are all adults here by far the last time I checked. it doesn't matter what your economical or social status is, people have feelings and no 1 wants to get her. I can I can understand that black women and Black men have been through a lot but it doesn't give you reason to take it out on innocent people! it's like the more successful and self reliant you are..the more problems you have with black female and white males. I truly honestly believe its jealousy because if it looks like a duck walks like a duck it is a duck. black women can date whoever they want as long as they stay away from me. my wife have long blonde hair gray and a slim figure with deep dimples she kinda look like barbara stanwick.lol white women are truly a gift from god to the most patient hard working and self respecting blackmen.look me up on face book. I know tons of interracial dating pools only for the most hardest working black males in the northern DC area
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#662 Dec 8, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>ce
Your question is somewhat ambiguously expressed, so I'm not sure exactly what you are asking me, but I'll take a stab at it.
No, I'm not concerned with white men being attracted to black women. Black women are free to romantically negotiate with whomever they so desire, as are we black men. Our being together is a by product of a shared history and culture which is the coagulant of what we refer to as "Black Love," in which we come together out of individual free will and volition.
Having said that, the ideal that darker sisters are, or should be some protected group with a guaranteed market share is ridiculous to me. We, collectively as a people and a culture are practioneers of "Colorism," I do not deny that, but at the same time I stand up for anyone's right to express their preference no matter the underlying psychological motive behind this choice, even if it excludes me from romantic consideration.
Once again, I do not deny or feign unawareness of some black men who reject darker sisters on the basis of complexion alone, but there are also some sisters who reject black men similarily on this basis of complexion. As well as some lighter sisters rejecting lighter brothers and so on and so forth in various combinations; such is the nature of colorism.
So, the ideal that bm are exclusively responsible for some sisters having a DARK GIRL complex, when in fact everyone is aesthetically valued in greater or lesser degrees in various or certain regions and locales is to, in effect, limit or control black men's option to preferences, the very same options that everyone else has, by constraining their rights through guilt manipulation by making us reponsibile for how they feel about themselves.
lesson to learn here. i think that i am a littler older than you. the bm or bw who have a certain color complex. those people do not live long. i had several members of my family who thought among those lines. they died in their 40's, 50's and early 60's. also, others outside of my family. they were or are living with a lost soul. you are a lost soul if you do not like or love your own complexion. i have not yet seen a person who think that way live a long healthy life. but, those kinds of bm or bw are very few.

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#663 Dec 8, 2012
Pure Observation wrote:
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Another joke... The person that bought you that camera phone and let you use it.
Lmfao!!!

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#664 Dec 8, 2012
Cee Cipher wrote:
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Blaq Honey, you know I like you? But you need to use your brain once in a while. Doesn't the name "Quante" sound like a White boy trolling?
you know I was evening thinking about that I'm at work I just responded real quick !!! You are proably right!

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#665 Dec 8, 2012
Quante wrote:
We are all adults here by far the last time I checked. it doesn't matter what your economical or social status is, people have feelings and no 1 wants to get her. I can I can understand that black women and Black men have been through a lot but it doesn't give you reason to take it out on innocent people! it's like the more successful and self reliant you are..the more problems you have with black female and white males. I truly honestly believe its jealousy because if it looks like a duck walks like a duck it is a duck. black women can date whoever they want as long as they stay away from me. my wife have long blonde hair gray and a slim figure with deep dimples she kinda look like barbara stanwick.lol white women are truly a gift from god to the most patient hard working and self respecting blackmen.look me up on face book. I know tons of interracial dating pools only for the most hardest working black males in the northern DC area
no one cares!!!!

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#666 Dec 8, 2012
black man1 wrote:
<quoted text>lesson to learn here. i think that i am a littler older than you. the bm or bw who have a certain color complex. those people do not live long. i had several members of my family who thought among those lines. they died in their 40's, 50's and early 60's. also, others outside of my family. they were or are living with a lost soul. you are a lost soul if you do not like or love your own complexion. i have not yet seen a person who think that way live a long healthy life. but, those kinds of bm or bw are very few.
Well, I won't argue about the correlation between self love and early death; I'll leave that up to the trained pathologist to determine cause of death, but self love is a necessary ingredient to personal happiness and if you are incapable of loving yourself, then by extension, you are incapable of loving others.

My observation are not emotional in nature, so my perspectives are born of my empirical journey in life. I grew up in the south where people at that time separated themselves and socialized based on hues of color (jack and jill clubs, Links, sororities etc.) so colorism is not endemic to the imagination of few, but is in fact, a cultural pratice with historical stamina.

However, the reality of its existence does not suffice to explain why we only attract certain people; its much more complicated than that. Some would argue that "colorism" as a prejudice is no difference than "heightism" "weightism" "uglism" or any other physical charateristic that is beyond our control.
Quante

United States

#667 Dec 8, 2012
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> no one cares!!!!
my post wasn't meant for you! 100 percent does not apply to you. I read somewhere you were a white guy carrying on like a black woman with three different aliases. I can care less about homosexual white males!! you should go to those gay forums I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for, it's definitely not in Me.

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#668 Dec 8, 2012
Quante wrote:
<quoted text>my post wasn't meant for you! 100 percent does not apply to you. I read somewhere you were a white guy carrying on like a black woman with three different aliases. I can care less about homosexual white males!! you should go to those gay forums I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for, it's definitely not in Me.
you are a naive new poster!!! People accuse people on this forum of all kinds of things when their posts doesn't agree with them!! For a college grad I would expect you to have a Lil bit more common sense why would I defend black men? I am black however you are the one with the question mark!!! This is a public forum and if you talk shi about black women DUH!! You will definitely get a response! I personally don't care who you date makes me no difference you are not the first sell out and you won't be the last!! That entire subject is so old on this forum and yes many sick white men/women come to this forum pretending to be " a Bm that loves Ww" no one cares !!!!!! The majority of Bm marry Bw anyway so no big deal
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#669 Dec 8, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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Well, I won't argue about the correlation between self love and early death; I'll leave that up to the trained pathologist to determine cause of death, but self love is a necessary ingredient to personal happiness and if you are incapable of loving yourself, then by extension, you are incapable of loving others.
My observation are not emotional in nature, so my perspectives are born of my empirical journey in life. I grew up in the south where people at that time separated themselves and socialized based on hues of color (jack and jill clubs, Links, sororities etc.) so colorism is not endemic to the imagination of few, but is in fact, a cultural pratice with historical stamina.
However, the reality of its existence does not suffice to explain why we only attract certain people; its much more complicated than that. Some would argue that "colorism" as a prejudice is no difference than "heightism" "weightism" "uglism" or any other physical charateristic that is beyond our control.
yea, you don't have to convince me. you need to convince white people. the people who started racism, colorism or what ever: are white people. africans welcomed the europeans with open arms. the europeans were like that alien movie. where the aliens came to earth and said "we come in peace". those aliens tried to destroy earth. so, you see what happened in africa. white people are always going to think that they are suppose to be on top. trying to get blacks to hate their color is always going to be a goal by many white people. i can't say all whites but many whites. well, we are not going to have to worry about that. because the environment and this planet are dieing. guess who started this to get into motion? the answer: white people.
Quante

United States

#670 Dec 8, 2012
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> you are a naive new poster!!! People accuse people on this forum of all kinds of things when their posts doesn't agree with them!! For a college grad I would expect you to have a Lil bit more common sense why would I defend black men? I am black however you are the one with the question mark!!! This is a public forum and if you talk shi about black women DUH!! You will definitely get a response! I personally don't care who you date makes me no difference you are not the first sell out and you won't be the last!! That entire subject is so old on this forum and yes many sick white men/women come to this forum pretending to be " a Bm that loves Ww" no one cares !!!!!! The majority of Bm marry Bw anyway so no big deal
I think I told you, that your not my best of interest! Go away sissy Caucasian.nothing here.

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#672 Dec 8, 2012
Quante wrote:
<quoted text>I think I told you, that your not my best of interest! Go away sissy Caucasian.nothing here.
you go away white boy PRETENDING to be black!!! Beat it BRAD
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#673 Dec 8, 2012
GOD wrote:
Because most black girls now have AIDS, hepatidus,and every other disease that bm can give them. And the fact that all this inbreeding is producing some of the most feral trash that has ever walked the face of the earth.
So now your bm are going after the easy prey of the fat skanky trash of the white people producing an even more horrid subhuman type of creature.
If this world is still here in a thousand yrs I"d to see what twyp of alien looking creatures you evoled into.
Oh yeah, about the white guy thing.Your a good five dollar BJ
lmao...hahahaha...boy, there are some people who are living a miserable, hateful life on this planet. you are one of them for sure. but, keep your nutty posts coming. because, they very entertaining...lol.
Girl

Ithaca, MI

#674 Dec 9, 2012
Quante wrote:
<quoted text> I'm a 26 your recent graduate of constitutional law! Im not here to judge nobody. Every last one of those black girls back in College were dismissed by their white boyfreinds after graduation because they were black. they were incredibly mean to black guys and got them in trouble for no apparent reason. it's like they were born to hate us for some reason. now since I'm out of college there's no way in the heck I would ever get involved with a black woman. they ignore the good black guys and they throw themselves at nasty looking white guys. Blackgirls only good for sex and wilf partiestuff but when it comes to wife and family I'm going to marry a white womam. at least you know what your getting into
Angry much? I am tired of black men complaining about black women and using white people to prove points. I have deal with ignorant black men who had bad experiences with other black women and they want to take their angerr out on me just because I have the same skin as the crazy women he deals with. It's not my fault black men look past good women and go for the crazy ones. WHY AREN't white people like this? White men have problems with white women too but it doesn't mean that they stop dating white women.
MarriedLesbian

Chattanooga, TN

#675 Dec 9, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
I'm darkskinned, slim, with long hair. I only attract white guys, black guys just look but never ask me out. but the white guys will approach and strike up a conversation. why is that?
They have an appetite for Black women. Not your skin complexion but for your nectar.
Quante

United States

#676 Dec 9, 2012
Girl wrote:
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Angry much? I am tired of black men complaining about black women and using white people to prove points. I have deal with ignorant black men who had bad experiences with other black women and they want to take their angerr out on me just because I have the same skin as the crazy women he deals with. It's not my fault black men look past good women and go for the crazy ones. WHY AREN't white people like this? White men have problems with white women too but it doesn't mean that they stop dating white women.
please don't over play simple rhetoric! Its a proven fact... when white men go sour with their women they kill the whole family everybody dies nobody lives. learn your history we had black slave owners and black women that was hopelessly in love with their slavemasters and rapist it was a mentality that was hard to describe because no one could you even imagine that took place in front of her kids. read very clearly!!! a true reason why I don't have any kids never been to jail never got in trouble in school never got in trouble in college I never took black girls serious because I know thier just looking for someone to blame for all of their shortcomings and life failures and self hating guilt. for me to ever get to know a black woman she has to to really prove me wrong other than that No Deal. because something is wrong with this whole picture. the black man is the king of the house head of the household when you have black women who feel they are the head of the household they are the man in the house they can't teach the kids that a black man is no good. it's not right with all that's going on who needs that?
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#677 Dec 9, 2012
Girl wrote:
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Angry much? I am tired of black men complaining about black women and using white people to prove points. I have deal with ignorant black men who had bad experiences with other black women and they want to take their angerr out on me just because I have the same skin as the crazy women he deals with. It's not my fault black men look past good women and go for the crazy ones. WHY AREN't white people like this? White men have problems with white women too but it doesn't mean that they stop dating white women.
will you please say some black men. like a few black men. majority of black men are with or looking for a bw. you should not stereotype all bm. those few black men who do not like or love their own skin color tend to not live long. that kind of thinking always leads to health problems. like i said once before, that kind of thinking always damages your soul.

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