I'm a black girl why do I only attrac...

“Karma”

Level 3

Since: Apr 12

Location hidden

#635 Dec 7, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> If I was talking to everyone then why are there seperate reply links on every comment? Thanks for the bio....but I was speaking to a bm about bm
because its a public forum !!!! And don't get me wrong I know it's some f()cked up Bm out there but it's not all of them. I love Bm my only problem is the ones that don't take care of their kids that is my only pet peeve with them
black man1

Coatesville, PA

#637 Dec 7, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> Lol "educated" negros. You're funny tell another joke.
lmao...if you think there aren't any educated negros. why are you here moron? you should take your highly educated butt to the kkk site. where you will feel right at home or maybe you like the pedophile site. i bet the latter of the two.

“Sombrero Galaxy”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

I'm An Illegal Alien

#638 Dec 7, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> If I was talking to everyone then why are there seperate reply links on every comment? Thanks for the bio....but I was speaking to a bm about bm
Well, you were doing so in an open forum. Stop whining!

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#639 Dec 7, 2012
black man1 wrote:
<quoted text>let me ask you a question. are you really concerned about white men being attracted to black women, just you or whatever? i'm trying to understand you.
ce

Your question is somewhat ambiguously expressed, so I'm not sure exactly what you are asking me, but I'll take a stab at it.

No, I'm not concerned with white men being attracted to black women. Black women are free to romantically negotiate with whomever they so desire, as are we black men. Our being together is a by product of a shared history and culture which is the coagulant of what we refer to as "Black Love," in which we come together out of individual free will and volition.

Having said that, the ideal that darker sisters are, or should be some protected group with a guaranteed market share is ridiculous to me. We, collectively as a people and a culture are practioneers of "Colorism," I do not deny that, but at the same time I stand up for anyone's right to express their preference no matter the underlying psychological motive behind this choice, even if it excludes me from romantic consideration.

Once again, I do not deny or feign unawareness of some black men who reject darker sisters on the basis of complexion alone, but there are also some sisters who reject black men similarily on this basis of complexion. As well as some lighter sisters rejecting lighter brothers and so on and so forth in various combinations; such is the nature of colorism.

So, the ideal that bm are exclusively responsible for some sisters having a DARK GIRL complex, when in fact everyone is aesthetically valued in greater or lesser degrees in various or certain regions and locales is to, in effect, limit or control black men's option to preferences, the very same options that everyone else has, by constraining their rights through guilt manipulation by making us reponsibile for how they feel about themselves.
Carol

United States

#640 Dec 7, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>ce
Your question is somewhat ambiguously expressed, so I'm not sure exactly what you are asking me, but I'll take a stab at it.
No, I'm not concerned with white men being attracted to black women. Black women are free to romantically negotiate with whomever they so desire, as are we black men. Our being together is a by product of a shared history and culture which is the coagulant of what we refer to as "Black Love," in which we come together out of individual free will and volition.
Having said that, the ideal that darker sisters are, or should be some protected group with a guaranteed market share is ridiculous to me. We, collectively as a people and a culture are practioneers of "Colorism," I do not deny that, but at the same time I stand up for anyone's right to express their preference no matter the underlying psychological motive behind this choice, even if it excludes me from romantic consideration.
Once again, I do not deny or feign unawareness of some black men who reject darker sisters on the basis of complexion alone, but there are also some sisters who reject black men similarily on this basis of complexion. As well as some lighter sisters rejecting lighter brothers and so on and so forth in various combinations; such is the nature of colorism.
So, the ideal that bm are exclusively responsible for some sisters having a DARK GIRL complex, when in fact everyone is aesthetically valued in greater or lesser degrees in various or certain regions and locales is to, in effect, limit or control black men's option to preferences, the very same options that everyone else has, by constraining their rights through guilt manipulation by making us reponsibile for how they feel about themselves.
lol you're the type of clown who spews profanities at blk womem with non blk men....

while giving a pass to blk men and non blk women.

Stop lying if you possibly can.

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#641 Dec 8, 2012
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
lol you're the type of clown who spews profanities at blk womem with non blk men....
while giving a pass to blk men and non blk women.
Stop lying if you possibly can.
Carol, once again stop mixing up your medication with the breath mints! It's simple...put them in clearly identifiable bottles and in seperate rooms; one in the bathroom and the other on the living room table. The theraphy won't work if you don't follow the instructions without deviation!
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#642 Dec 8, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
<quoted text>I'm not a sellout. I'm just going with those who appreciate me. And black men take darkskinned women like me for granted. They want to just use me as a concubine or baby incubator
I can't help but feel you aren't evaluating the product you are putting out fairly. Either it's being poorly marketed, or perhaps you just alienated your customer base. If neither of those sit well with you, it's being marketed to the wrong target audience as you seem very inclined to think. Do you. But could you do you...elsewhere.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#643 Dec 8, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> Lol "educated" negros. You're funny tell another joke.
Another joke... The person that bought you that camera phone and let you use it.
Carol

United States

#644 Dec 8, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>
Carol, once again stop mixing up your medication with the breath mints! It's simple...put them in clearly identifiable bottles and in seperate rooms; one in the bathroom and the other on the living room table. The theraphy won't work if you don't follow the instructions without deviation!
Truth hurts criminals like you.

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#645 Dec 8, 2012
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
Truth hurts criminals like you.
If you mean criminally insane, your testimony about your pain will be accepted! lol
Carol

United States

#646 Dec 8, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>ml
If you mean criminally insane, your testimony about your pain will be accepted! lol
None of you are insane...just habitual criminals.

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

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#647 Dec 8, 2012
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> because its a public forum !!!! And don't get me wrong I know it's some f()cked up Bm out there but it's not all of them. I love Bm my only problem is the ones that don't take care of their kids that is my only pet peeve with them
Seems to me like all of them are f*cked up

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#648 Dec 8, 2012
black man1 wrote:
<quoted text>lmao...if you think there aren't any educated negros. why are you here moron? you should take your highly educated butt to the kkk site. where you will feel right at home or maybe you like the pedophile site. i bet the latter of the two.
Hmmm maybe I will....Atleast I'm not on welfare with 6 kids and 5 babymamas....

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#649 Dec 8, 2012
Pure Observation wrote:
<quoted text>
Another joke... The person that bought you that camera phone and let you use it.
If you're referring to the profile pic, actually thats my white knight
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#650 Dec 8, 2012
IDontMeanToBeRude wrote:
<quoted text> If you're referring to the profile pic, actually thats my white knight
lol smh...

you are feeding his and your delusion that he's big and your own need to be validated by any ole white boy. But that's your generation's M.O.

If it allows you to feel secure do your thing. But ask your self why you are still running back to bm to show your "white" night off.

Level 7

Since: Oct 11

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#651 Dec 8, 2012
Canisters wrote:
A lot black women don't appreciate educated black men. Thank god white and other non black women do.
We really do.

Level 7

Since: Jun 10

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#652 Dec 8, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
<quoted text>Let's not pretend like this isn't a problem in the black community. BM do not hold darkskin BW in very high regard. We are very disposable to them
We don't hold unattractive** women in high regard. We do hold attractive** dark skin women in very high regard.

Don't blame your lack of attention on your skin tone.
Pure Observation

Washington, DC

#653 Dec 8, 2012
Largent000 wrote:
<quoted text>We really do.
Read that again Einstein.

Level 7

Since: Jun 10

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#654 Dec 8, 2012
I'm just saying, it get's pretty old when a woman who looks like this:

http://fashaddix.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/...

Wants to blame her lack of suitors on skin color...

If she looked like this (about same skin tone):
http://i.ytimg.com/vi/BhIXGZig7k8/0.jpg

There would be no problem.
Quante

United States

#655 Dec 8, 2012
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> because its a public forum !!!! And don't get me wrong I know it's some f()cked up Bm out there but it's not all of them. I love Bm my only problem is the ones that don't take care of their kids that is my only pet peeve with them
I'm a 26 your recent graduate of constitutional law! Im not here to judge nobody. Every last one of those black girls back in College were dismissed by their white boyfreinds after graduation because they were black. they were incredibly mean to black guys and got them in trouble for no apparent reason. it's like they were born to hate us for some reason. now since I'm out of college there's no way in the heck I would ever get involved with a black woman. they ignore the good black guys and they throw themselves at nasty looking white guys. Blackgirls only good for sex and wilf partiestuff but when it comes to wife and family I'm going to marry a white womam. at least you know what your getting into

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