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#573 Dec 5, 2012
Matthew_1 wrote:
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I think she has messaged me before i dont remember, shes confused and doesnt know what she wants.
Not like I would believe anything from you but she clearly is telling you white guys that she wants to be pursued. I say give her what she wants and take her with you when you leave.
Almoravid

Rotterdam, Netherlands

#575 Dec 6, 2012
LOL AT BARROS ABOVE!
JOHN DIGO

Sudan

#576 Dec 6, 2012
we all know that the opposite attraction phenomena which clearly state that white men more attracted to blck women and the reverse is also true
Almoravid

Rotterdam, Netherlands

#577 Dec 6, 2012
LOL at this idiot above imposing as a Sudanese.

You are a complete waste and shyt for brains.

Die of UV skin cancer and go to hell with your racism.

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#578 Dec 6, 2012
As a foonote: Its not about skin complexion, its about feminine beauty; beauty of the physical, emotional and spiritual variety.

In a physical comparison, of all those girls, the darker sister on the end would win a great deal of the attention, if not most. Dark skin in and of itself is not a liability!

http://bossip.com/691909/twitpic-chicks-toya-...

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#579 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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I'm not suppose to be telling you this, and if you reveal me as the source, my masculine club membership priviledges will be immediately revoked; but all of us men have a finely tuned transmitter that snatches your "come herether" frequencies out of the air and descramble them accordingly.
So, you are obviously emitting a signal that the white guys are picking up as a green light and the brothes are receiving a "persona non grata" red light...lol! Also it could be that your telepathetic batteries are blinking and your signals are weak, leaving us confused, so it's not really our fault!
The truth of matter is that only a small minority of men are actually inflexible exclusive to one type of woman and certain organic beauty transcends all of these preferences; or in other words, most full blooded heterosexual males have not antidote for what a beautiful woman brings to the table, so to believe that black men have some romantic aversion to you is either a figment of your interracial imagination or your emitting Negro repellant frequencies.
NICE!

HAHAHAHAHA!!!

Its true...the bruhvas know off top when a sista's vibes is either transmitting "come herether" or "SPEED ON BEFORE YOU GET PEE'D ON". And the bruhvas don't assert themselves toward women like that, Black or any other race of women.

Don't get it twisted...we like a challenge...we're up for the challenge...but I've noticed a lot sistas can sometime distort being "challenging" with being disinterested altogether.

In some cases, disinterest is really what she's feeling, but she doesn't want to trade in all of the attention recieved for being honest with a man.

Slippery slope Black women are.

Gotta love 'em.
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#580 Dec 6, 2012
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#581 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>NICE!
HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Its true...the bruhvas know off top when a sista's vibes is either transmitting "come herether" or "SPEED ON BEFORE YOU GET PEE'D ON". And the bruhvas don't assert themselves toward women like that, Black or any other race of women.
Don't get it twisted...we like a challenge...we're up for the challenge...but I've noticed a lot sistas can sometime distort being "challenging" with being disinterested altogether.
In some cases, disinterest is really what she's feeling, but she doesn't want to trade in all of the attention recieved for being honest with a man.
Slippery slope Black women are.
Gotta love 'em.
And the sisters who understand this and treat it like it's an art form, have no problem attracting or getting a man, regardless of their hue of color. However, most tend to oversimplify the exercise in believing that either they possess classical, conventional, popular beauty or they well be romantic welfare recepients.

They grossly undervalue the benefits of a little personality and proper calibration of their feminine frequencies, and leave all types of possibilities on the table. The herd think and conditioning mentality are killing their romantic fortunates because they talk themselves out of it before they are even eliminated; and hell, if they don't believe in their own appeal, how do they expect anone else to do so?

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#582 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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And the sisters who understand this and treat it like it's an art form, have no problem attracting or getting a man, regardless of their hue of color. However, most tend to oversimplify the exercise in believing that either they possess classical, conventional, popular beauty or they well be romantic welfare recepients.
They grossly undervalue the benefits of a little personality and proper calibration of their feminine frequencies, and leave all types of possibilities on the table. The herd think and conditioning mentality are killing their romantic fortunates because they talk themselves out of it before they are even eliminated; and hell, if they don't believe in their own appeal, how do they expect anone else to do so?
TRUTH! A lot of dudes are gunshy. I think there's entirely TOO MUCH stock being placed in what women look like. I know that men inherently have traits that cause us to be allured by what we SEE, but somewhere past 28 we're going to have to twerk these value systems where a chick is going to have to bring something more to the table than just round tits and a thick @$$.

And, I also agree that the sistas that do not have a "Buffy" body and "Pocahontas hair" that somehow she's disqualified from obtaining "Denzel". Again, just like men, women too need to, as you've stated already, reCALIBRATE their values in what's essential in a LIFE PARTNER. And in the event that one is not interested in a LIFE PARTNER, keep it 1-hunnit. In the meantime stop tryin' to wife-up & hubby-up H03s!

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#583 Dec 6, 2012
*TWEAK* value sytems...

Good lawd, I said "TWERK".

As you can see where my "HEAD" is at!

LOLOL!!!!

FATHER...smh

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#584 Dec 6, 2012
Largent000 wrote:
<quoted text>No way!
Way

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#585 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>TRUTH! A lot of dudes are gunshy. I think there's entirely TOO MUCH stock being placed in what women look like. I know that men inherently have traits that cause us to be allured by what we SEE, but somewhere past 28 we're going to have to twerk these value systems where a chick is going to have to bring something more to the table than just round tits and a thick @$$.
And, I also agree that the sistas that do not have a "Buffy" body and "Pocahontas hair" that somehow she's disqualified from obtaining "Denzel". Again, just like men, women too need to, as you've stated already, reCALIBRATE their values in what's essential in a LIFE PARTNER. And in the event that one is not interested in a LIFE PARTNER, keep it 1-hunnit. In the meantime stop tryin' to wife-up & hubby-up H03s!
Excellent points! Yes, men are first and foremost, visual creatures, but good looks only gets you into the club before 10 pm, but after that is when the issue of sustainability kicks in; it becomes a competition of intangibles. Its like in business, "Okay, you have my attention, now what else have you got?"

The balance between moderate to good looks coupled with the intrinsic qualities that constitutes the core of relationships wins the prize; which is why the preponderant of marriages are usually with woman that would be classified as 6-8 on an aesthetic scale because they usually, not always, have less narcissistic personalities and develop those other long term requisities that lures men in.

But this "woe is me, no one wants me because I'm dark" mentality is a death blow to their prospects. It's analogous to an athlete believing he will lose the game even before he plays the game....and in such cases, he usually does. Men appreciate and love healthy confidence and self esteem...its a selling point!

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#586 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
*TWEAK* value sytems...
Good lawd, I said "TWERK".
As you can see where my "HEAD" is at!
LOLOL!!!!
FATHER...smh
Yeah, that was a freudian slip and bust your azz! LOL! Its too early for the strip clubs dawg!

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#587 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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Excellent points! Yes, men are first and foremost, visual creatures, but good looks only gets you into the club before 10 pm, but after that is when the issue of sustainability kicks in; it becomes a competition of intangibles. Its like in business, "Okay, you have my attention, now what else have you got?"
The balance between moderate to good looks coupled with the intrinsic qualities that constitutes the core of relationships wins the prize; which is why the preponderant of marriages are usually with woman that would be classified as 6-8 on an aesthetic scale because they usually, not always, have less narcissistic personalities and develop those other long term requisities that lures men in.
But this "woe is me, no one wants me because I'm dark" mentality is a death blow to their prospects. It's analogous to an athlete believing he will lose the game even before he plays the game....and in such cases, he usually does. Men appreciate and love healthy confidence and self esteem...its a selling point!
But the whole "woe is me, noone wants me because I'm dark" is a mentality based off of what these women see and have experienced at some point. I agree that it does set them back, but we can't write it off that sadly enough, this is the plight of some of our sistas, and we as Black men must do what we can to dispell this bullsh!t devide between the 2 complexion's.

hell...there are light skinned women who feel inferior to darker shades of women especially if they suspect that the man they're interested in deals with darker shades of women EXCLUSIVELY.

Black Women have their complex's just like WE do. Its our responsible to get ourselves in check as individuals and realize that there's a pool of men and women that will accept us REGARDLESS of skintone, hair texture, physical fitness, tax bracket, etcetera...but we have an accountability toward oneanother to be a lot more affirming than what we have been to oneanother too.

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#588 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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Yeah, that was a freudian slip and bust your azz! LOL! Its too early for the strip clubs dawg!
Shiiiiiyit!

When strippers were my thing, I'd be in the club on my luch hour.

LOLOL!!!!
carmel dream

Chicago, IL

#589 Dec 6, 2012
Jesuslove wrote:
Maybe I am wrong but a lot of black men SOME are narrow minded and don't like us dark skinned black women because they say we are unattractive and prefer white, Mexican and light skinned women, BUT I think the white men ask you out because you are beautiful and sexy (nohomo):)
I agree with you alot of black men are so hung up on lighter girls,white and hispanic girls seems they have forgotten us.Its ok because i dont waste my time on black men anymore i date who appreciates me. most black men have really bad attitude problems and they dont have a clue how to treat a woman. i only see black men acting right when they have a fat white girl on their arms. its really sad but true i know someone will say not ALL blah skippy blah but im just tired of them white women can have them

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#590 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>But the whole "woe is me, noone wants me because I'm dark" is a mentality based off of what these women see and have experienced at some point. I agree that it does set them back, but we can't write it off that sadly enough, this is the plight of some of our sistas, and we as Black men must do what we can to dispell this bullsh!t devide between the 2 complexion's.
hell...there are light skinned women who feel inferior to darker shades of women especially if they suspect that the man they're interested in deals with darker shades of women EXCLUSIVELY.
Black Women have their complex's just like WE do. Its our responsible to get ourselves in check as individuals and realize that there's a pool of men and women that will accept us REGARDLESS of skintone, hair texture, physical fitness, tax bracket, etcetera...but we have an accountability toward oneanother to be a lot more affirming than what we have been to oneanother too.
Well, this is where you and I differ. Just as women are not responsibile for ours, we are not the custodians of their self worth and esteem. Men are rejected on the very same basis that women are: Complexion, hair texture, body weight, facial features etc.., but we don't ask them to be responsible for our self worth or esteem, we dust ourselves off and keep it moving.

Competing for masculine or feminine romantic attention is no different than competing for a job or any type of social or professional distinction; there will be competition and we must do what we must in order to secure market share. I can be empathetic without surrending my right to make a choice or preference without my choice being responsible for their diminished self esteem. That is control by other means. As I always say, love or romance is not an entitlement program, we all have obstacle to overcome.

Also, one perspective that most never talk about in these types of discussions is that though the lighter sisters may, in a culture of colorism, have a perceived advantage with black men, however it does not always manifest in their end objective, which is marriage. I have heard many men speak of their perception and belief that these women, attention wise, are too high mantenance and that they draw too much attention, which creates insecurity in some men. There are tons of beautiful lighter hued sisters here in Los angeles that are romanticlly stuggling like everyone else in that they can't find a husband; someone to date or be with them..yes, but to marry them....not necessarily!

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#591 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Shiiiiiyit!
When strippers were my thing, I'd be in the club on my luch hour.
LOLOL!!!!
Yeah, if they had good food..right! LOL!

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#592 Dec 6, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
<quoted text>Let's not pretend like this isn't a problem in the black community. BM do not hold darkskin BW in very high regard. We are very disposable to them
girl be careful when telling the TRUTH on topix they will get really really mad most times they don't like you to tell the truth about issues in the black community!!! They like to sweep real issues under the mat!! You will see

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#593 Dec 6, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
I'm darkskinned, slim, with long hair. I only attract white guys, black guys just look but never ask me out. but the white guys will approach and strike up a conversation. why is that?
Some irwm approach/dates dark skinned Black women because it will make them stand out to others. In their mind dating a black woman means really dating a BLACK/dark woman and when they are seen as a couple people will notice him, a white man dating a black woman.

Since you brought this up, how do you approach each races of men? Now that you believe you only attract white guys, do you smile at the white and turn away from the black? You know, people can sense if they will be wasting their time in advance. Facial expression or a snobby attitude will make certain people walk the other way.

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