I'm a black girl why do I only attract white guys?

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<quoted text>Lol! Its okay. I only provided them b/c your fellow brethren were so insistent about them earlier to your own detriment.
And of course you hate black women guts. DUH! That's the crux of this entire thread and what we've been discussing thus far. And of course you didn't read. That's also part of the problem now.
Have a blessed night.
BYTCH I have more money than I know what to do with, one thing for sure I will NEVER SPEND ONE DIME of it on black bytches like YOU! Go fyck your great white man, and STFU!
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White women chase ANY men for money and have all kinds of shows on how to snag a millionaire. Why are you still dating them. Why is it ok to date a filthy money grubbing filth ww and not a bw. Double standards I see. Sisters too dark to get a break uh. Your self hating colorstruck. You should be helping your own bw and taking them out of poverty if you have the means, instead your giving your money to a ww who probably don't need it. It's like you see your black mother hungry and you step over her to go help a white stranger. Think BROTHA, THINK!
I know you didn't just call me Brotha!
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White women chase ANY men for money and have all kinds of shows on how to snag a millionaire. Why are you still dating them. Why is it ok to date a filthy money grubbing filth ww and not a bw. Double standards I see. Sisters too dark to get a break uh. Your self hating colorstruck. You should be helping your own bw and taking them out of poverty if you have the means, instead your giving your money to a ww who probably don't need it. It's like you see your black mother hungry and you step over her to go help a white stranger. Think BROTHA, THINK!
Kaboom is a racist white man posing as a black man. Men like him are disgusting and repugnant!
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I know you didn't just call me Brotha!
Well you act like one. Are you not a black man in disguise actually living in the hood?
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Pamela wrote:
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Kaboom is a racist white man posing as a black man. Men like him are disgusting and repugnant!
Oh, I know, but as far as I'm concerned since he's in a black forum, he is black and I will address him as such. He likes to play.
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I know you didn't just call me Brotha!
You said you were from the hood, what ghetto are you from. It must be horrible living with bed bugs and cocroaches. How do you survive?
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And what do you prescribe as a remedy to this problem that you insist exist: Make every dark sister romantic first round draft picks, whether they deserve it or not. And how do we distribute the remaining brothes amongst the remaining hues of colors of black women that are not Dark.
I cut out the rest b/c it was useless. Of course you will try to discredit the studies because you do not like the findings.
That is completely understandable. However, you cannot dismiss them b/c there is far more evidence of black men liking lighter skinned women than the reverse and as I have found studies to support my claim, I would invite you to find studies to support your claim that brothers do NOT preference lighter skin over darker skin in our community. Good luck.

As for your earnest request for solutions, NOW we can get down to business. We established that this is an issue. That not every dark-skinned woman that has been treated like shyt or ignored by black men is indeed NOT ugly or making shyt up.
So solutions to this issue? What should black women do?
Privilege and appreciate the men who appreciate them, instead of whining about the men who don't. Embrace their own brand of beauty instead of being cheap imitations of other women and therefore validating the ignorant beliefs held by colorwashed black men and racist white men about the superiority of light skin.
Refuse to accept disrespect or ignorance from ANY man of any race. Demand marriage and committment instead of settling. Realize that this is going to be a lonely road because many black and other men feel entitled to sex without commitment from these women due to their low associations of black skin with women, but stick to their guns regardless.
Now u and many other black males in this thread have been so bewildered and automatically offended by my revealing the scope of how many black men are affected by this mess.
So you went in guns ablazing. Not once did you stop to ask for solutions. Because while black men are to blame for buying the bullshyt that their women are inferior and treating them as such, black women are to blame for perpetrating these beliefs by allowing black men to treat them as such.

We as a community have developed such a mentality of "HELL NAW IT AIN'T MY FAULT" that we don't want to accept responsibility for anything. If you go back and read my posts, you would see that I'd actually given the black woman's roles in these solutions ages ago.

Black men have been blame for everything so much, that many of you don't want to take responsibility for ANYTHING. I get it, but I'm not going to hide from the truth just because you guys haven't been treated fairly.
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<quoted text>The evidence is her, me, you, and every other African American male and female, we make up what is going on so look around you and maybe you will see. I can honestly say I can somehow relate to what BSG is saying, why is it so impossible for a black guy to hate himself but it is seen as the truth when we black women hate ourselves when we as a people make up everything that is going on? Why is it impossible for a black women and men to be genuinely hurting and overlooked by their own people? It is not impossible and it is happening.
Also, here is a corny saying, "Actions speak louder than Words."
Well the OP is making it out to look like AAm don't find darker skinned bw appealing. I know that isn't true!
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<quoted text>Look how poor whites carry themselves and how poor blacks do ..
Remember Kartina and how blacks acted ? How whites acted orderly and nice and how blacks did ..?
"The most anyone can learn is from simple observation "
Katrina or any natural disaster can bring out the worse or the best in anyone. There are good and bad in both groups. Don't let it phase you.
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BYTCH I have more money than I know what to do with, one thing for sure I will NEVER SPEND ONE DIME of it on black bytches like YOU! Go fyck your great white man, and STFU!
Kaboom15 I found a photo of you. Do you like it?

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YAWN!!!! I call bullsht on this one. And if black men ain't approaching is not because you're darkskin, it is because you're ugly!
Skin color ain't the issue!
LMAO!!!

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<quoted text>I cut out the rest b/c it was useless. Of course you will try to discredit the studies because you do not like the findings.
That is completely understandable. However, you cannot dismiss them b/c there is far more evidence of black men liking lighter skinned women than the reverse and as I have found studies to support my claim, I would invite you to find studies to support your claim that brothers do NOT preference lighter skin over darker skin in our community. Good luck.
As for your earnest request for solutions, NOW we can get down to business. We established that this is an issue. That not every dark-skinned woman that has been treated like shyt or ignored by black men is indeed NOT ugly or making shyt up.
So solutions to this issue? What should black women do?
Privilege and appreciate the men who appreciate them, instead of whining about the men who don't. Embrace their own brand of beauty instead of being cheap imitations of other women and therefore validating the ignorant beliefs held by colorwashed black men and racist white men about the superiority of light skin.
Refuse to accept disrespect or ignorance from ANY man of any race. Demand marriage and committment instead of settling. Realize that this is going to be a lonely road because many black and other men feel entitled to sex without commitment from these women due to their low associations of black skin with women, but stick to their guns regardless.
Now u and many other black males in this thread have been so bewildered and automatically offended by my revealing the scope of how many black men are affected by this mess.
So you went in guns ablazing. Not once did you stop to ask for solutions. Because while black men are to blame for buying the bullshyt that their women are inferior and treating them as such, black women are to blame for perpetrating these beliefs by allowing black men to treat them as such.
We as a community have developed such a mentality of "HELL NAW IT AIN'T MY FAULT" that we don't want to accept responsibility for anything. If you go back and read my posts, you would see that I'd actually given the black woman's roles in these solutions ages ago.
Black men have been blame for everything so much, that many of you don't want to take responsibility for ANYTHING. I get it, but I'm not going to hide from the truth just because you guys haven't been treated fairly.
LOL! You certaily have a flair for the dramatic! Its ironic that you repeatedly talk about respect etc..., but you continue to label the counterparty in this debate as "WHINERS" I conceded in my initial post that COLORISM in the black community does exist but you insist that the indictment include every bm whether or not they are guilty of it. And the rest of you disquisition is missing it's target: It should be addresse to black women, not black men. They should manage their own self esteem and not out source the responsibility to bm.

I take responsiblity for what I am responsible for, not for what others are. There is nothing you can say or tell me to convince me that I bear the responsibility for how some sister feels about herself. I know that the feeling of males don't count, but, I too was rejected by many women in my adolescene and young adult years, but I didn't let it affect me, nor do I or did I every blame sisters for having their own standard or desires, nor did I ever feel the need to examine their motives. So, maybe you should spend the energy that you are wasting trying to convince bm that we responsible for how you feel, and invest in teaching self love with those who suffer this deficit.

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<quoted text>Basically you are saying that you are one of the brothers these women are talking about and you know better than to do a google search because what will pop up is only going to make you look worse. LMAO!
Its okay though. I'm going to help you and other black men with this affliction, by exposing the truth, helping you to see the scope of the issue, take responsibility for it and move on. Thanks for your response.
All you have proven is that the conclusion that many black men have come to in regards to intelligent conversation with black women is true... can't have it.

You have no sources, and everything points to the exact opposite of everything you are saying.

Basically now you are stating that black women are bad mothers and don't have a positive influence in their sons and daughters lives.

There is absolutely nothing in this world that could triumph over a good example set by a black mother on what the ideal woman is. If you are stating that black women can't raise their children to respect black women, because they don't set a proper example of a respectable woman, then i somewhat agree.

Other than that.. Nothing you have stated makes even the slightest amount of sense.. especially with the fact that there are dark women in existence... which are the offspring of dark Blacks.

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Why was there a documentrary made about dark girls and their plight???Why wasnt their one made about ligt girls.
There's documentaries that state that most black women are fat lazy hwores. do you agree with that as well?

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wm are attraction to bw and why not they are gorgeous . Racist wm might not be but even some of them are but they're afraid of being chastised by their racist buddies.

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There is however documented proof that black women don't date intelligent black men, and also that black women don't date darkskin black men either.

There's tons of documentaries, studies, and I know black men that have experienced hatred from black women just because they are intelligent and not thugs.

Another documented fact is that black women don't date men under 6ft tall.

This is regardless of how short the black female is.

So it's evidence, studies, and documented facts proving that White and other non black women treat intelligent black men, black men below 6ft tall better than black women do.
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Kaboom15 wrote:
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BYTCH I have more money than I know what to do with, one thing for sure I will NEVER SPEND ONE DIME of it on black bytches like YOU! Go fyck your great white man, and STFU!
I got the white monkey for you. You like? Are you hiding Kaboom, baboon.
How long did it take for your white mother to take a crap? Hmm lets see, 9 months of carry you.

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<quoted text>So you do not believe some black men reject black women who are dark...is it really that impossible?
You guys are being unfair for you believe black women are in denial about hating who they are but you do not believe this is the same for black men...unfair. You guys also treat as if black women are nothing but "sob stories" but guess what...some black women as well as black men really experience what perceive as "sob stories." Some black men and women are really hurting.
Brothas ON this thread, did you read this post yet???

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There's documentaries that state that most black women are fat lazy hwores. do you agree with that as well?
Bwahahaha! Smitty, you're crazy! lol
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BYTCH I have more money than I know what to do with, one thing for sure I will NEVER SPEND ONE DIME of it on black bytches like YOU! Go fyck your great white man, and STFU!
Bytches get payed so why don't you go pay a bytch you uneducated white little monkey with holes in you're face, and a wine cap for ears. You messed with the wrong one. I'll be on you like white on rice when I see you post. You go hide and everytime you see this picture know that it's your monkey azz.

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