I'm a black girl why do I only attrac...

I'm a black girl why do I only attract white guys?

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#1 Dec 1, 2012
I'm darkskinned, slim, with long hair. I only attract white guys, black guys just look but never ask me out. but the white guys will approach and strike up a conversation. why is that?
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#2 Dec 1, 2012
Maybe I am wrong but a lot of black men SOME are narrow minded and don't like us dark skinned black women because they say we are unattractive and prefer white, Mexican and light skinned women, BUT I think the white men ask you out because you are beautiful and sexy (nohomo) :)

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#3 Dec 1, 2012
Beautiful darkskinned bw will usually attract more wm. Idk its just how it is. Just how a bw with natural hair will attract more men of other ethnic backgrounds than a bw with green weave. White men are more appreciative of beautiful women, dark , asian ect. Permed hair, natural, straight. I'm not saying most or even all. But its common for attractive bw to attract more white men. A lot of black men like to appreciate certain beauties, which often exclude black. Don't get all happy thinking a wm won't hurt you because I lot of them just want some "fine black azz". Don't be discouraged. If a man doesn't find u attractive don't chase after him. Love who loves you. Just be careful with wm. Men are men.

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#4 Dec 1, 2012
Yeah, I happen to wear my real hair too. It doesn't make sense. BM complain that dark BW wear weaves or have short damaged hair but when she doesn't they don't want to talk to her. Yet they will talk to the lightskin girl with long hair but wont talk to me. A white guy is more likely to approach me than a black guy. Its really crazy.
allthembrothers

Saint Paul, MN

#5 Dec 1, 2012
honk want to feel cool with them sister,,,,,

,,,,babi u cuold be FAT with NO danm hair,,,and them honk still step,,,,

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u draw,
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#6 Dec 1, 2012
I couldn't of said it better myself :)
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#7 Dec 1, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
Yeah, I happen to wear my real hair too. It doesn't make sense. BM complain that dark BW wear weaves or have short damaged hair but when she doesn't they don't want to talk to her. Yet they will talk to the lightskin girl with long hair but wont talk to me. A white guy is more likely to approach me than a black guy. Its really crazy.
I wear my own natural hair and slim too and get the same response. Wow we have a lot in common :)

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#8 Dec 1, 2012
I agree with hello world and being slim or thin is more valued in the white community.

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#9 Dec 1, 2012
but every black woman dont look good thick. some of us just look fat with extra lbs. then when we get slim they tell us we look sick or that we are trying to be white. i guess darkskin bw will never be good enough

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#10 Dec 1, 2012
How come black men dont chastise lightskin girls for acting white? i mean if a darkskin girl got long hair, carry herself with class, they say she trying to be white and dont want anything to do with her. its like in order to be accepted as a dark woman you must be ghetto acting
Black Deal

United States

#12 Dec 1, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
Yeah, I happen to wear my real hair too. It doesn't make sense. BM complain that dark BW wear weaves or have short damaged hair but when she doesn't they don't want to talk to her. Yet they will talk to the lightskin girl with long hair but wont talk to me. A white guy is more likely to approach me than a black guy. Its really crazy.
White mfs attracted to you BW

They with dark skinned women in Europe to

Come back to us BM
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#13 Dec 1, 2012
Those are racist, ignorant simpletons who are narrow minded and clumsy.black is beautiful ,but I see what you mean. It seems like whatever we do it's a problem...

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#14 Dec 1, 2012
I had this conversation with someone close to me who is a black man. There was a black man who was following me in the store and kept looking at me, but wouldn't say anything. He was in the military obviously. Looked close to my age. I said that in Utah, white men will just ask you out and strike up a conversation. Black men just stare and that is what causes them to miss out. He said that they may be afraid that black women are going to be mean to them o tell them they have a boyfriend right away and that may cause them to not be as confident because they don't want to feel embarrassed. If he had approached me, I would have had to say I was taken because I am. But, there are black women who are not.

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#15 Dec 1, 2012
VirgoSLC wrote:
I had this conversation with someone close to me who is a black man. There was a black man who was following me in the store and kept looking at me, but wouldn't say anything. He was in the military obviously. Looked close to my age. I said that in Utah, white men will just ask you out and strike up a conversation. Black men just stare and that is what causes them to miss out. He said that they may be afraid that black women are going to be mean to them o tell them they have a boyfriend right away and that may cause them to not be as confident because they don't want to feel embarrassed. If he had approached me, I would have had to say I was taken because I am. But, there are black women who are not.
When you're nice to a black guy he either thinks you're acting white or will walk all over you and treat you like you're dumb
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#16 Dec 1, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
I'm darkskinned, slim, with long hair. I only attract white guys, black guys just look but never ask me out. but the white guys will approach and strike up a conversation. why is that?
I'm not suppose to be telling you this, and if you reveal me as the source, my masculine club membership priviledges will be immediately revoked; but all of us men have a finely tuned transmitter that snatches your "come herether" frequencies out of the air and descramble them accordingly.

So, you are obviously emitting a signal that the white guys are picking up as a green light and the brothes are receiving a "persona non grata" red light...lol! Also it could be that your telepathetic batteries are blinking and your signals are weak, leaving us confused, so it's not really our fault!

The truth of matter is that only a small minority of men are actually inflexible exclusive to one type of woman and certain organic beauty transcends all of these preferences; or in other words, most full blooded heterosexual males have not antidote for what a beautiful woman brings to the table, so to believe that black men have some romantic aversion to you is either a figment of your interracial imagination or your emitting Negro repellant frequencies.

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#17 Dec 1, 2012
African-American men are such a paradox!
I'm not even going to try to understand them anymore!
Black Deal

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#18 Dec 1, 2012
Angel Ronnie wrote:
African-American men are such a paradox!
I'm not even going to try to understand them anymore!
Get African man
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#20 Dec 1, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
<quoted text>When you're nice to a black guy he either thinks you're acting white or will walk all over you and treat you like you're dumb


Yep, you have figured us out. We have all been programmed exactly the same without deviation and we all respond to the same stimuli in the exact same manner. We are, of course, the only humans who are robotically monolithic in behavior (sisters are unique individuals but we are carbon copies of each other), so once you've experienced one of us, you've experience all of us; all nineteen (19) million of us! Go figure!

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#21 Dec 1, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>
Yep, you have figured us out. We have all been programmed exactly the same without deviation and we all respond to the same stimuli in the exact same manner. We are, of course, the only humans who are robotically monolithic in behavior (sisters are unique individuals but we are carbon copies of each other), so once you've experienced one of us, you've experience all of us; all nineteen (19) million of us! Go figure!
Let's not pretend like this isn't a problem in the black community. BM do not hold darkskin BW in very high regard. We are very disposable to them
sweetcocoa

United States

#22 Dec 1, 2012
IHeartDancing wrote:
I'm darkskinned, slim, with long hair. I only attract white guys, black guys just look but never ask me out. but the white guys will approach and strike up a conversation. why is that?
I am sure that you attract other men too. Date whoever you want to date and be happy. I attract all men. Just be happy.

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