Do WOMEN cheat as much as MEN??

Do WOMEN cheat as much as MEN??

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Dalton, GA

#1 Feb 8, 2014
They say men are dogs,but maybe men learned it from women

http://m.voices.yahoo.com/penis-evolution-int...

There is some evolutionary evidence that the human penis evolved as a mechanism to displace sperm(1). By using the coronal ridge to create a suction mechanism, the penis is able to remove sperm already deposited in the female's reproductive tract. This is significant because it would imply that females are not monogamous, otherwise sperm displacement would be useless, because only one male's sperm would be present. Humans are culturally socialized to believe that women do not seek out sex. If the penis did evolve as an instrument to displace sperm, which there is much evidence to suggest, Western culture may have to reassess the way they categorize women sexually.

Gallup and coauthor, Rebecca Burch, conjecture that,“A longer penis would not only have been an advantage for leaving semen in a less accessible part of the vagina, but by filling and expanding the vagina it also would aid and abet the displacement of semen left by other males as a means of maximizing the likelihood of paternity.”
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Dalton, GA

#2 Feb 8, 2014
Are women just better at covering up their tracks?
"Momas baby daddys maybe" is an old saying.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-121...

The biggest difference is that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret,' he says.'If you look at the studies into paternity, even conservative figures show that between eight and 15 per cent of children haven't been fathered by the man who thinks he's the biological parent.

We lie so much that often we don't even think of it as lying at all, but as 'relationship management'

The truth is that we have always lied about our sex lives. British men consistently claim to have had more partners than women - the current average is 13, while women claim to have had only nine.

When studies about sexual partners or fidelity use a mixture of face-to-face interviews and anonymous computer questionnaires, men will give the same answers to both, but women will report much higher numbers when the answers are anonymous.

“SASSYANDTRASHY”

Since: Jan 14

IS A WHITE WOMAN!!!

#3 Feb 8, 2014
I dont cheat.thats horrible.
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Dalton, GA

#4 Feb 8, 2014
That's a happy man lol

http://m.youtube.com/watch...
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Dalton, GA

#5 Feb 8, 2014
D
Sassykaat wrote:
I dont cheat.thats horrible.
Do you consider flirting behind your boyfriends back on topix cheating? Would you do that in his face? Everyone has a different definition of "cheating".
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Dalton, GA

#6 Feb 8, 2014
http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/myth-...

New studies reveal humans aren't wired for monogmy as previously assumed

According to a recent study of middle-aged British women, more than 20% of the participants admitted to having cheated on their spouses or live-in partners at some point in their lives.

Think of the birds. Many species are monogamous in the sense that males and females pair up to raise chicks. But fascinating experiments reveal that both males and females engage in sneaky “extramarital” affairs.

Female promiscuity is common among many primate species, too. In chimpanzee societies, it’s normal for ovulating females to mate with lots of males.

Why do females mate promiscuously? There are probably several reasons.

In some cases, promiscuity helps females insure that they find the best genes for their kids.
Anthony

Cleveland, OH

#7 Feb 8, 2014
I think most women are emotionally connected to men than men are of women.

I think most women cheat, just like all women think all men have the potential to be rapist. The reason I say that is because some women, not all women, but some women will cause some kind of drama, some kind of deception to gain some kind of advantage in the relationship, especially since most women can't become physical & especially when women feel like they're losing control.

How do u define cheating?
If a women have sex with another woman is it cheating? If a woman masturbate about other men or women is it cheating? Some women don't think oral sex is cheating, just like some men think performing oral sex don't make them bisexual or gay. lol. Some women think men that flirt cheat, just like most women think all men have the potential to be rapist, especially black men. Some women will keep other men in limbo with the perception that he may have a chance, just in case their man is acting up or possibly cheating. Some women may think that if a man fantasize about another woman than it's cheating. Define Cheating?

I personally think if you're in a relationship for over 15 to 20 years than it's more than likely both of you cheated on each other at least once, especially during very trying financial times or times of broken communication. What am I saying? Don't listen to me, I don't know what I'm talking about. I never been married & I'm single with no kids.

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Cleveland, OH

#9 Feb 8, 2014
Sassykaat wrote:
I dont cheat.thats horrible.
Sure u don't, sure. Let's check back in with you when you turn 70 or 80 years old. I'm sure you may give the same lie. lol.
no to monogamy

Tampa, FL

#10 Feb 8, 2014
I thought that scientists believe that the larger glans in a human penis was because humans have evolved to find sex more sensual and stimulating?

i can’t see suction pump as being a good method of removing sperm, besides the tricky buggers are heading north PDQ, and you’ll never get them all out…even if it were an affective mechanism, it just means that the male currently mating wants his genes in the pool above all others.

We must also not forget that monogamy among primates isn’t the natural thing to do, there’s usually an alpha male with breeding rights, the guys on the periphery have to be sneaky…and I’d say that monogamy isn’t good for genetic diversity either, you’d only have one, probably local, male putting his genes in the pool, add that to the fact that most females are local too, and you have poor genetic diversity.

When you think about it, small family groups interbreeding to maintain a ‘pure’ bloodline is the problem the pharaohs of Egypt had, they were getting badly deformed as the dynasties moved on, look at King Tut, married his sister and had two stillborn kids, and Tut had all kinds of genetic deformities and weaknesses.

Maybe human monogamy is part of the reason humans have very little genetic diversity - all 7 billion people on Earth have LESS genetic diversity than any family group of chimpanzees larger than 55 individuals…quite a thought.

Really, lifelong monogamy is a mugs game for both partners and the species.
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Macon, GA

#11 Feb 8, 2014
One study showed that women have more vaginal orgasms(even if they rarely had them before) with lovers they're cheating with than with their long term partners, even if the orgasm rate is roughly equal. The cervix dipping that occurs in both, but stronger in vaginal may help induce pregnancy. there is so much going onbiologically we're not aware of.


Some argue religion and marriage was originally created by men as a means of keeping women faithful and for a man to know his woman's child was his own. Two of the ten commandments are: Thou shalt not commit adultery. This one was aimed at the women. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbours wife. After the ice age early man discovered that he could tend and farm crops and live a life much more succesfully than hunting alone. This is when the concept of property was born. The men began to view women as property for life, so they invented marriage and religion for this to work.
darealist

Mountain View, CA

#12 Feb 8, 2014
Of course they do.

“Sexy & Independent”

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#13 Feb 8, 2014
Both men and women cheat. I don't have the actual stats or numbers. I do personally feel that women are better at hiding it. I don't cheat on men and I would NOT want to hurt someone with cheating. If you are NOT interested in your PARTNER anymore, just tell them and move on. There is NO need to hurt people.....................
darealist

Mountain View, CA

#14 Feb 8, 2014
I've been cheated on so much idgaf.

“Everyone Loves”

Since: Jan 14

Afternoon Delight

#15 Feb 8, 2014
Ive cheated before I dont think its a big deal
darealist

Mountain View, CA

#16 Feb 8, 2014
You should be ashamed.
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Smiths Station, AL

#18 Feb 9, 2014
darealist wrote:
I've been cheated on so much idgaf.
Is this Fairguy?
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Smiths Station, AL

#19 Feb 9, 2014
Halle Berry Sister wrote:
Both men and women cheat. I don't have the actual stats or numbers. I do personally feel that women are better at hiding it. I don't cheat on men and I would NOT want to hurt someone with cheating. If you are NOT interested in your PARTNER anymore, just tell them and move on. There is NO need to hurt people..........
Well said,and I agree.

“Behave Yourself”

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Since: Jul 07

Fort Worth, Texas

#20 Feb 9, 2014
Is it cheating if you're not married to each other? It's not cheating if the cheater never promised to "forsake all others." It appears more and more that women have come to expect cheating on the part of their men which no doubt makes it easier for women to cheat as well.
Truth

United States

#21 Feb 9, 2014
I've rarely met a women who wouldn't.

“SASSYANDTRASHY”

Since: Jan 14

IS A WHITE WOMAN!!!

#22 Feb 11, 2014
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D<quoted text>Do you consider flirting behind your boyfriends back on topix cheating? Would you do that in his face? Everyone has a different definition of "cheating".
flirting online was never a problem to my ex.I would not mind my man chatting with women online.as long as it was sexual,and not not emotional.

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