Latino Male Says AA Men Only Wimps in...

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#2065 May 21, 2014
Success is Catching wrote:
<quoted text>I used to like and respect BM but as a successful BW in my late 20s I've realized that I'm actually ashamed of most BM. Now everyone knows what most BM are truly about. Self-Centered, whiny, little boys. What has happened to the strong BM? No wonder our community is in shambles.
Agree 100%!! HOWEVER, who's fault is that? Sorry to say but some bw make their sons weak by overpampering them.. Some do a great job, but others don't teach their male children responsibility and how to cope with the real world... Even if it does work against them at times.. Bw have to everyday!! Why should I have to pick up the tab emotionally etc because a supposed man cant be bothered to pull his socks up and learn to behave responsibly.. I'm not even going to say just bm do this... I'm talking ALL IRRESPONSIBLE MEN... I HAVE NO TIME FOR THOSE TYPES!!
Marcus Washington

Laredo, TX

#2066 May 21, 2014
Dinie wrote:
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Agree 100%!! HOWEVER, who's fault is that? Sorry to say but some bw make their sons weak by overpampering them.. Some do a great job, but others don't teach their male children responsibility and how to cope with the real world... Even if it does work against them at times.. Bw have to everyday!! Why should I have to pick up the tab emotionally etc because a supposed man cant be bothered to pull his socks up and learn to behave responsibly.. I'm not even going to say just bm do this... I'm talking ALL IRRESPONSIBLE MEN... I HAVE NO TIME FOR THOSE TYPES!!
Can you teach me how to Twerk? I think Miguel would like my light skin booty especially if I wear my pink lacy thongs. Maybe then the midget mofo will leave Topix for good.

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Spotted World

#2067 Jun 2, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text> Are you happy and fulfilled that way, just curious?
I know you asked this a while back. I am mostly happy with nobody in my life. I would likely be happier with another person who lacks romantic or certain other attractions, and living just sharing an apartment. I'd love to be in a situation where I didn't have to deal with masculine energy or the attractons of others.

I mentioned a friend who passed, but in many ways, she was never emotionally available that much. I mean, she was always on the phone. Maybe she was a romance addict, sure, sometimes it went further than that, but it was mostly just constant calls. And a steady BF she had felt the same way, that he had to compete with everyone who called her. While I understand his feelings and can empathize, his reactions were not good -- like stumble in drunk or high and slap the phone out of her hand. But she was a bit co-dependent. I mean, she'd get a restraining order, and then let him in. She'd invite me over to fix her PC, and then hardly speak to me.
sinistory

Saltville, VA

#2068 Jun 2, 2014
Slavery only ended because some of the blacks looked like white people..

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#2069 Jun 3, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
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I know you asked this a while back. I am mostly happy with nobody in my life. I would likely be happier with another person who lacks romantic or certain other attractions, and living just sharing an apartment. I'd love to be in a situation where I didn't have to deal with masculine energy or the attractons of others.
I mentioned a friend who passed, but in many ways, she was never emotionally available that much. I mean, she was always on the phone. Maybe she was a romance addict, sure, sometimes it went further than that, but it was mostly just constant calls. And a steady BF she had felt the same way, that he had to compete with everyone who called her. While I understand his feelings and can empathize, his reactions were not good -- like stumble in drunk or high and slap the phone out of her hand. But she was a bit co-dependent. I mean, she'd get a restraining order, and then let him in. She'd invite me over to fix her PC, and then hardly speak to me.
She didn't sound like a true friend.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#2070 Jun 3, 2014
Capree wrote:
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She didn't sound like a true friend.
Capree

Its maceo talking to himself again! LMAO

he's has some weird obsession with WM and Latino....anybody lighter than him and that's better looking!

Latinos are going pass Black men in terms of Wealth and jobs now! LMAO Are you surprised? I'm not

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#2071 Jun 3, 2014
sinistory wrote:
Slavery only ended because some of the blacks looked like white people..
Slavery had been going on for over 300 years so there had been mulattoes quadroons octoroons for centuries before the end of slavery. Nobody gave a damn about them politically and slave owners only saw them as extra profit for the most part. Slavery ended because President Lincoln wanted unification of all of the states, however he knew that the South wanted to remain separate and would do so as long as they had their own confederate currency and the forced free labor of slaves to profit off of so the South had to be broken down which mean't freeing the slaves and burning many of the South's cotton fields which were their 2 most valuable assets.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#2072 Jun 3, 2014
Capree wrote:
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Slavery had been going on for over 300 years so there had been mulattoes quadroons octoroons for centuries before the end of slavery. Nobody gave a damn about them politically and slave owners only saw them as extra profit for the most part. Slavery ended because President Lincoln wanted unification of all of the states, however he knew that the South wanted to remain separate and would do so as long as they had their own confederate currency and the forced free labor of slaves to profit off of so the South had to be broken down which mean't freeing the slaves and burning many of the South's cotton fields which were their 2 most valuable assets.
Capree

Okay, we understand but look at Black men today? They dont even try to do anything for the race but they will chase and waste time chasing P^ssy. I read some of the remarks that White folks said about Black males and most of it was true!

They do things as well but find time to create things that help others while Black men want to live off the backs of others accomplishments and prey on mostly women!

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#2074 Jun 3, 2014
Sadbuttrue wrote:
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Capree
Okay, we understand but look at Black men today? They dont even try to do anything for the race but they will chase and waste time chasing P^ssy. I read some of the remarks that White folks said about Black males and most of it was true!
They do things as well but find time to create things that help others while Black men want to live off the backs of others accomplishments and prey on mostly women!
Some Black men have so many more opportunities that they ignore just to continue to wine and blame.

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#2075 Jun 3, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text> Some Black men have so many more opportunities that they ignore just to continue to wine and blame.
Yep.. They shame the ones that actually do have other things to do than blame others..

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#2076 Jun 3, 2014
SSDD....,,,,,,

Nothing new...EH???
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#2077 Jun 3, 2014
Capree wrote:
<quoted text> Some Black men have so many more opportunities that they ignore just to continue to wine and blame.
Capree

Yes, they prefer being marginal or lazy but then expect some one to reward them for just being men its insane. They have this jealously towards BM who excel but the women work for it.

Most BM I see in my company are "marginal" and refused to do get the Degree's and Certifications. They invest more in chasing WW, Sex, making OOW babies and playing women than they do planning their lives!

That's what Black men do!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#2078 Jun 3, 2014
Dinie wrote:
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Yep.. They shame the ones that actually do have other things to do than blame others..
Maceo
People look at your life and laugh! LMAO

Come on you didn't help your White wife with her business, nor your Mother who had cancer so who respects a fool like you?

NOBODY!

People know what's posted is true! LMAO

Which is why folks don't respect you especially women!

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#2079 Jun 4, 2014
Dinie wrote:
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Yep.. They shame the ones that actually do have other things to do than blame others..
Exactly!

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#2080 Jun 4, 2014
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Yes, they prefer being marginal or lazy but then expect some one to reward them for just being men its insane. They have this jealously towards BM who excel but the women work for it.
Most BM I see in my company are "marginal" and refused to do get the Degree's and Certifications. They invest more in chasing WW, Sex, making OOW babies and playing women than they do planning their lives!
That's what Black men do!
True and then when the more ambitious white men climbs above of such black men, they yell racism and when more harder black men climbs a head of these same black men then they accuse the black men of brown nosing or being Toms. It is all just whining, complaining, accusing and blaming with a lot of black men.

“Never suffer fools gladly.”

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#2081 Sep 15, 2014
dev143 wrote:
The one good thing to come out of this Mexican dude talking smack is that it makes it easy to identify BW who simply are not down for the cause. Any BW that cosigns another race putting down men of her race is instantly dead to me, virtually forever. The only possibly way for them to "come back to life" would be to dedicate the rest of her life (almost like a nun) doing good deeds (without expecting anything in return) for black men and young black men. Be it volunteering to help a black boy scout troop, volunteering at an inner city YMCA, heck, if she is in a position of power at a company pushing black men's resumes to the front of the hiring stack. There would be no end. She would have to continue making amends for the rest of her life to make up for such a betrayal.
Get one thing through your thick skull: Black women are NOT community anchors, we're not mules, we're not mammies, we're not maids and we're not race preservers. We're not inanimate objects or machines, we're human beings with feelings and emotions. The
"black community" actually views black women as property and non-human beings where black men feel that we're their 24-7 bash-a-thon targets, bashing, stereotyping, and belittling us about every little thing. Black women are your constant burden holders in which the "black community" often throws every little fault and responsibility on us like we're the cause of it, yet we have no power because the "black community" cares more about black men than black women. It's just sad to see so many sistas be confined like this, made into womb providing copying machines, and mammies for the "black community". All black women are good for is making black babies and marching in the streets every time something happens to black men. Look at what happened with Ferguson, black women, dark-skinned black women, the very image of the original black woman that the "community" hates so much, was on the FRONT LINES with the damn capes on there to march for their "Black Kangs™", and for what? What do they have to show for it?

Black women are the only ones still letting themselves be brainwashed into this blind loyalty that's ruining their futures. Sitting up in church on Sundays listening to a "MARRIED" preacher with multiple side women tell them to keep it closed and just wait on that
'good brotha", talmbout "Right now Jeeesus is yo man, sista!" lmao. And they sit in church as pitiful as ever, damn near 50 and single with no beautiful family to grow old with.

Overall black women collectively are ignored and black women remain lonely and single, just pitiful waiting on some "Black Kang™" that sure as hell isn't waiting on them.

fohwtbs, I'm not the one.

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#2082 Sep 15, 2014
hey gentlemen, black American women are not the only black women out there. If you see these women going after the wrong men, go after black women from other countries. Sometimes people need to let others know that their behaviour is intolerable. If people don't listen to reason, let them know your thoughts with your actions.

As an African man, all I can say is that when it comes to black women:

1. My own African women
2. Caribbean Black women
3. Black women in Europe
4. American black women

That's what I will stick to. Don't worry about women who think they are white.
darline

Hyattsville, MD

#2083 Sep 15, 2014
Stupid Thread wrote:
hey gentlemen, black American women are not the only black women out there. If you see these women going after the wrong men, go after black women from other countries. Sometimes people need to let others know that their behaviour is intolerable. If people don't listen to reason, let them know your thoughts with your actions.
As an African man, all I can say is that when it comes to black women:
1. My own African women
2. Caribbean Black women
3. Black women in Europe
4. American black women
That's what I will stick to. Don't worry about women who think they are white.
Why are you even worried about American black women when we are not even the same ethnicity as you?

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#2084 Sep 15, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
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Get one thing through your thick skull: Black women are NOT community anchors, we're not mules, we're not mammies, we're not maids and we're not race preservers. We're not inanimate objects or machines, we're human beings with feelings and emotions. The
"black community" actually views black women as property and non-human beings where black men feel that we're their 24-7 bash-a-thon targets, bashing, stereotyping, and belittling us about every little thing. Black women are your constant burden holders in which the "black community" often throws every little fault and responsibility on us like we're the cause of it, yet we have no power because the "black community" cares more about black men than black women. It's just sad to see so many sistas be confined like this, made into womb providing copying machines, and mammies for the "black community". All black women are good for is making black babies and marching in the streets every time something happens to black men. Look at what happened with Ferguson, black women, dark-skinned black women, the very image of the original black woman that the "community" hates so much, was on the FRONT LINES with the damn capes on there to march for their "Black Kangs™", and for what? What do they have to show for it?
Black women are the only ones still letting themselves be brainwashed into this blind loyalty that's ruining their futures. Sitting up in church on Sundays listening to a "MARRIED" preacher with multiple side women tell them to keep it closed and just wait on that
'good brotha", talmbout "Right now Jeeesus is yo man, sista!" lmao. And they sit in church as pitiful as ever, damn near 50 and single with no beautiful family to grow old with.
Overall black women collectively are ignored and black women remain lonely and single, just pitiful waiting on some "Black Kang™" that sure as hell isn't waiting on them.
fohwtbs, I'm not the one.
Preach! Black men expect black women to carry everything on our shoulders, except no credit but all of the blame. Black men expect black women to be full-time breadwinners, maids, cooks, their mamas, sole raisers of black children, counselors, sounding boards and whores when they get home. Black men expect love, praise, protection and complete loyalty from black women but for black men never to have to give the same back in return to black women. Black men also expect black women to be grateful to be in their presence, accept any bad treatment and like old dogs, to get in the backseats for their white or non-black women. Black women who are still letting family, friends and a very bias African American community brainwash them like this, are just sacrificing their lives to black men who wouldn't even dash water on them if these black women where on fire. Those black men would just let you burn to crisp and then go and find some more black females who are willing to be fools for them.

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#2085 Sep 15, 2014
darline wrote:
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Why are you even worried about American black women when we are not even the same ethnicity as you?
I don't get it either, African men who have their black African women from their same cultures and IR black men who praise and profess their love for white women and other non-blacks daily yet all of them are constantly breathing down African American women's backs, worried about what we say, how we look, what we do and how we do it.

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