Big Knob

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#988 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
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Unrelated? It's about members of the black race, right? What? You all didn't expect similar video(s) on Black women.
This thread is just fine, thank you... I mean you did create it on a Black forum for black members. Who did you expect to only post on it?:)
Hatred of self, inserurity, bitterness, self-resentment, rage, vengeance, self-rejection, wont allow her to see the truth that youre trying to pump into those anti-brain cells of hers, she's suffering from the illusions of grandeur.......an older bw recently told these younger bw that you catch bees with honey and not vinegar, and thats ive had a husband for 55 years..........but this fool, goes through life pushing on doors that say pull......
You're a rose in a sea of ignorancy.........peace.

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#989 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Dude is a broke joke and we shouldn't let him speak for our race or take ANYTHING he say as value.
I took what he said as valuable because it was truth. It doesn't matter what his race is, nor did he say he was speaking for a race. He was giving his opinions which he has every right to.
However many quickly praised this non-black when he made videos on us all. What's funny in the video below is that he continued to DISS black women. On this video he changed it over. He stated he has seen a lot of YouTube videos from BLACK WOMEN bashing Black Men with the promoting of IR. He also said Black women need to STFU and try to listen a little bit... He said what the Black men are saying are really obvious. Yes he said there are some sweet black girls, but he is talking about the ones that are publicly bashing... like the bw on here for example.
"why black women can't find a man"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =SY59tXHqRtQXX
He makes valid points. I didn't see it as "dissing" or "bashing", probably because I could see the truth in what he was saying, and also because the negative comments he made didn't apply to me specifically. He said that he was not talking about every black woman but that the behavior is prevalent in black American culture...which is true. So I wasn't offended or hurt by what he was saying.

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#990 Apr 7, 2014
[QUOTE who="MsNewNew"Unrela ted? It's about members of the black race, right? What? You all didn't expect similar video(s) on Black women.
This thread is just fine, thank you... I mean you did create it on a Black forum for black members. Who did you expect to only post on it?:)[/QUOTE] The topic of this thread was a video on black men bashing black women. It has nothing to do with ir dating, or his opinions on black women's attitudes, or "black love", or heightism, or how Latinos behave, or any of the other stuff people have derailed the thread with. I created the thread to start a discussion on how black American men and women interact with each other. The only person really who said anything thought provoking was the lady who said that black American women should try not to argue so much with men, but to cultivate their femininity.(I agree with that.) Everyone else just devolved into more bashing and created a circus.

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#991 Apr 7, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
Since when is it appropriate for a non black to inject his opinions about bm or bw and it becomes the topic of discussion on a black forum?
Does his ethnic background or skin color make his observations any less truthful? I think not.
Do you think that latinas would post a thread about what bm think of latinos,?
It doesn't concern me what Latinas do or don't do.
And do you think that bm care about his opinions?
This thread seems to be a hot topic, so apparently so.
Wouldnt it be more intelligent if bp were focusing their attention on properly raising children, education, business, creating jobs, or is it more important what a $5.00 latino says.
Black people are out here doing that every day, in real life.

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#992 Apr 7, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Interesting thread, here.
I give props to MsNewNew and Bob Knob. I like their comments in respond to Khalisha. They put this rogue, defective Black American Woman in her place.
Now, MsNewNew and Bob Knob, it would make my day if you also second my slogan by calling Khalisha, a "Defective Black American Woman."
Just to hear a sister and brother say it, can resonate to many and returns a positive feedback that heals the consciousness of the Black Mind and to know what's Reality and what's Delusional. I shall hope to read the words from you two, eh?(Fist-Bump)
..........Please, let it be so).
First of all, I'm not Black American, and second, my name isn't Khalisha.
Ugh

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#993 Apr 7, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text>I took what he said as valuable because it was truth. It doesn't matter what his race is, nor did he say he was speaking for a race. He was giving his opinions which he has every right to. <quoted text> He makes valid points. I didn't see it as "dissing" or "bashing", probably because I could see the truth in what he was saying, and also because the negative comments he made didn't apply to me specifically. He said that he was not talking about every black woman but that the behavior is prevalent in black American culture...which is true. So I wasn't offended or hurt by what he was saying.
You see what you want to see, hear what you want to hear and that makes you DEFECTIVE when you can't hear and see the whole gravity of what the dude said and use discernment to arrive to the proper conclusion....as MsNewNew and Big Knob have done.

If the Latino had said:

'Black Man are horrible to their Woman but Woman are at fault too. And Black Women need to shut up and stop bashing BM in public just to curry favors with White Men. And Black men need to clean up their act with their Women and take responsibility.'

Khalisha will only see this:

'Black Men are horrible to their Woman. And Black Men need to clean up their act with their Women and take responsibility."

You see....that's called, Selective Reading, and hearing what you want to hear and seeing what you want to see and that makes you what????

A Defective Black American Woman!

(I have spoken!)

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#994 Apr 7, 2014
Ugh wrote:
You see what you want to see, hear what you want to hear and that makes you DEFECTIVE when you can't hear and see the whole gravity of what the dude said and use discernment to arrive to the proper conclusion....as MsNewNew and Big Knob have done.
Lol hilarious. This is another thing that makes black Americans look like idiots, the mob mentality. So someone's "defective" because they approach a subject differently and arrived at a different opinion than you and your cheerleaders?
If the Latino had said:
'Black Man are horrible to their Woman but Woman are at fault too. And Black Women need to shut up and stop bashing BM in public just to curry favors with White Men. And Black men need to clean up their act with their Women and take responsibility.'
Khalisha will only see this:
'Black Men are horrible to their Woman. And Black Men need to clean up their act with their Women and take responsibility."
You see....that's called, Selective Reading, and hearing what you want to hear and seeing what you want to see and that makes you what????
A Defective Black American Woman!
(I have spoken!)
My name is NOT "Khalisha", nor am I "defective" or even black American...lol the irony in you harping on me about selective reading.

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#995 Apr 7, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text>I took what he said as valuable because it was truth. It doesn't matter what his race is, nor did he say he was speaking for a race. He was giving his opinions which he has every right to. <quoted text> He makes valid points. I didn't see it as "dissing" or "bashing", probably because I could see the truth in what he was saying, and also because the negative comments he made didn't apply to me specifically. He said that he was not talking about every black woman but that the behavior is prevalent in black American culture...which is true. So I wasn't offended or hurt by what he was saying.
Smh! I know, I know... you only see it as bashing when it comes from Black men. When this non-black talks about black men he is telling the truth, however when he flips it on black women you pick it apart. I HEARD on the video that black women also publicly bashes, while promoting IR. Didn't you? But you're saying he's not talking about you, right? Yet, we can go back on this thread and read all your bashing.

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#996 Apr 7, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text> The topic of this thread was a video on black men bashing black women. It has nothing to do with ir dating, or his opinions on black women's attitudes, or "black love", or heightism, or how Latinos behave, or any of the other stuff people have derailed the thread with. I created the thread to start a discussion on how black American men and women interact with each other. The only person really who said anything thought provoking was the lady who said that black American women should try not to argue so much with men, but to cultivate their femininity.(I agree with that.) Everyone else just devolved into more bashing and created a circus.
Oh' now its not about other races and gender. This thread was not for any type of calm discussion. You started off with your very first comment laughing at black men. Matter of fact you did most of the bashing. You did exactly everything you claim the black men are doing. You bashed and promoted IR.

A "few" of your comments...that help created a circus.

"and why do these black women hate their hair? Did this self-hatred come out of a vacuum? Do most black men praise, uplift and cherish black women who wear their natural kinky hair? The only images of beautiful dark-skinned women I see at all is in black women's forums and magazines. I never see any mainstream or black male-oriented outlets that unanimously approve of and glorify the natural black woman. I see white women, or those "hair hat" women with tons of makeup, ass out and fake lashes, nails etc, as well as mulattas and Latinas with tons of makeup, ass out and fake lashes, nails etc. Since we all know that most black women desire black males, and black male-oriented outlets show this type of women, what the hell do you expect BUT for black women to conform to that standard?"

"Yeah, he is, and so are you, you f*cking gay coon, whining about black women's hair styles while glorying other races' women. Do you secretly want to be a white woman? Or do you really think that this will score points with them? Lol get off their clits please"

"That's exactly why black American women need to open their minds and explore other options. Stop being dumb NBABM (nothing but a black man) type of women and stop settling for bums just because they're black! Stop settling for scraps from black men who want to play the field, and CLOSE your wombs to damaged and unsuited men! Be loyal to your WOMBS, not to black men, and make your wombs available only to the sort of men by whom you would sincerely wish to have children".

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#997 Apr 7, 2014
Tourpix Rocus wrote:
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Excellent observation.
I did watch the video and couldn't help to watch his surroundings, coupled with poor grammar.
Some of us are to quick to allow others dictate who we are and where we are in this life. After-all people, we are the Ancients of this planet.
Have we all fallen so low that anything can come and drill us of our Humanity and we accept it as the Gospel truth, when they have similar or worst problems of their own which they refuse to highlight?
I am a Black man. Strong and very conscious.
Thank you... Your comment is point on as well.

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#998 Apr 7, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Interesting thread, here.
I give props to MsNewNew and Bob Knob. I like their comments in respond to Khalisha. They put this rogue, defective Black American Woman in her place.
Now, MsNewNew and Bob Knob, it would make my day if you also second my slogan by calling Khalisha, a "Defective Black American Woman."
Just to hear a sister and brother say it, can resonate to many and returns a positive feedback that heals the consciousness of the Black Mind and to know what's Reality and what's Delusional. I shall hope to read the words from you two, eh?(Fist-Bump)
..........Please, let it be so).
I'm sorry but that word is all yours...

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#999 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Smh! I know, I know... you only see it as bashing when it comes from Black men. When this non-black talks about black men he is telling the truth, however when he flips it on black women you pick it apart. I HEARD on the video that black women also publicly bashes, while promoting IR. Didn't you? But you're saying he's not talking about you, right? Yet, we can go back on this thread and read all your bashing.
What are you talking about? I never said anything about him bashing anyone, man or woman! I never said anything about black women bashing one way or the other, and even if he did say all that, so what? Women of all races bitch and complain about men's behavior, it's almost as if it's expected of women, and yes, some misguided black American women do believe that IR is the end all be all to their problems (I'm not one of those women).

These DBR black men are the ONLY men who do it in such huge numbers though, viciously attacking their women's appearance, belittling their women as inherently inferior to other races of women, and it's very bitch made of them and everyone notices it, which makes them a laughing stock.

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#1000 Apr 7, 2014
Tourpix Rocus wrote:
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Another excellent observation.
One must know themselves in order to understand what they're up against.
Thanks again... How can you say this thread was created for a discussion of solutions when the word coon is used? Broke dude is not the only one sitting in the dark.

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#1001 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Oh' now its not about other races and gender.
No, it never was.
This thread was not for any type of calm discussion. You started off with your very first comment laughing at black men. Matter of fact you did most of the bashing. You did exactly everything you claim the black men are doing. You bashed and promoted IR.
That's your very baseless opinion, not even remotely rooted in fact. I never even mentioned anything about IR, it was the black men on this thread who started bitching about "irbw". and I was laughing at the dumbasses who were whining and bitching in the comments section of that video, confirming what the guy had said in the first place.
A "few" of your comments...that help created a circus.
"and why do these black women hate their hair? Did this self-hatred come out of a vacuum? Do most black men praise, uplift and cherish black women who wear their natural kinky hair? The only images of beautiful dark-skinned women I see at all is in black women's forums and magazines. I never see any mainstream or black male-oriented outlets that unanimously approve of and glorify the natural black woman. I see white women, or those "hair hat" women with tons of makeup, ass out and fake lashes, nails etc, as well as mulattas and Latinas with tons of makeup, ass out and fake lashes, nails etc. Since we all know that most black women desire black males, and black male-oriented outlets show this type of women, what the hell do you expect BUT for black women to conform to that standard?"
What about that comment created a circus?
"Yeah, he is, and so are you, you f*cking gay coon, whining about black women's hair styles while glorying other races' women. Do you secretly want to be a white woman? Or do you really think that this will score points with them? Lol get off their clits please"
A response to one troll who was behaving like a homosexual negro.
"That's exactly why black American women need to open their minds and explore other options. Stop being dumb NBABM (nothing but a black man) type of women and stop settling for bums just because they're black! Stop settling for scraps from black men who want to play the field, and CLOSE your wombs to damaged and unsuited men! Be loyal to your WOMBS, not to black men, and make your wombs available only to the sort of men by whom you would sincerely wish to have children".
I stand by those comments 100%. Black women need to choose a mate who will respect them and cherish them, regardless of race. It's misguided racial loyalty that leads to many women settling for thugs and losers, or sharing men in the first place. Black women and men do NOT owe each other anything based off of skin color alone.

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#1002 Apr 7, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text> What are you talking about? I never said anything about him bashing anyone, man or woman! I never said anything about black women bashing one way or the other, and even if he did say all that, so what? Women of all races bitch and complain about men's behavior, it's almost as if it's expected of women, and yes, some misguided black American women do believe that IR is the end all be all to their problems (I'm not one of those women).
These DBR black men are the ONLY men who do it in such huge numbers though, viciously attacking their women's appearance, belittling their women as inherently inferior to other races of women, and it's very bitch made of them and everyone notices it, which makes them a laughing stock.
You do know the word Bash is in your title? That alone took it there.

What exactly do you want these Black men to do for YOU?

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#1003 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Thanks again... How can you say this thread was created for a discussion of solutions when the word coon is used? Broke dude is not the only one sitting in the dark.
Plenty of these dumb negroes lobbied personal attacks at me first. I simply responded in kind.

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#1004 Apr 7, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>Unrelated? Since when is it apporiate for a non black to inject his opinions about bm or bw and it becomes the topic of discussion on a black fourm? Do you think that latinas would post a thread about what bm think of latinos,? And do you think that bm care about his opinions? Wouldnt it be more intelligent if bp were focusing their attention on properly raising children, education, business, creating jobs, or is it more important what a $5.00 latino says. Do you see any other race of women out here blog begging for other cultures of men while bashing the men in their community, then get mad when those bm fire back with telling the truth, about some of you tragic bw. And what race of women are all in the media telling the world that youre going to start going natural, shouldnt you want to automatically be yourself, and wear your own hair. What race of women writes a book on how to get a wm, while criticising ir when the men are black. when I said that bm dont care about this guys opinion, that makes the thread moot, but not to ignorant ass desperate for attention bw on here, or online, posting only your onesided story.......no wonder real bw seperate themselves from the koola boof type ratchets.........can you blame them.
The whole thing is that WE are the only race that's doing the bashing in public. Maybe that's his point by making several different videos only on our race. Its sad that minds was closed when viewing them both. If he connected them together it would be called Black people bashing.

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#1005 Apr 7, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text>No, it never was. <quoted text>That's your very baseless opinion, not even remotely rooted in fact. I never even mentioned anything about IR, it was the black men on this thread who started bitching about "irbw". and I was laughing at the dumbasses who were whining and bitching in the comments section of that video, confirming what the guy had said in the first place.
<quoted text> What about that comment created a circus?
<quoted text> A response to one troll who was behaving like a homosexual negro.
<quoted text> I stand by those comments 100%. Black women need to choose a mate who will respect them and cherish them, regardless of race. It's misguided racial loyalty that leads to many women settling for thugs and losers, or sharing men in the first place. Black women and men do NOT owe each other anything based off of skin color alone.
K, to them all...

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#1006 Apr 7, 2014
gonewiththepast wrote:
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i understand i have a latino friend who only dates black women, so i understand, i always try to be understand 67% of the time, my latino friend has been trough alot with his family, he is a very good person, very kind and good friend,but however i do not like the women he dates, they are somewhat ghetto like in manner and seem like sluts, he once dated a latino lady but he cheated on her (thats the only thing he ever did wrong in my eyes) she was the best girlfriend ive ever seen , to me she was very good for im, but she could not be faithful and she had enough and left, she was a very kind person as well,im sorry to hear what happened with your brother =(,but i hope you find peace and make the right choices,
my choices have always been right every since my first Black gf they all been black. About slut maybe u need to open your eyes cuz there also alot of Latinas that are slut as matter a fact I've seen more. My black friend only date Latinas and married one she passed away of aids and now my friend has it but see I talk about her. Like I said I don't hate Latinas cuz I do hate Latinas then am hating my mom and that's where u really have to think about it.

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#1007 Apr 7, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
You do know the word Bash is in your title? That alone took it there.
Yes, because he referred to black American men bashing their women, they are the only ones who do that like bitches.
What exactly do you want these Black men to do for YOU?
I want them to stop whining, stop bashing their women, stop going on about women's hair styles, take care of their children, be more family oriented and improve their work ethic. Get like African and Afro-Caribbean men.

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