carmen

Columbus, OH

#24 Mar 29, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Our whole entire race is a hot mess. Every day we are bashing each other in public. You donít see other races of men bashing their women and you also donít see other races of women bashing their men. We are the only race that takes pride in degrading our own. Non-blacks discusses their dislikes in their living room and around the kitchen table. However, as black people we have to get on YouTube and blogs and tell everyone black people are no good. The facts are there that they have problems with their own race as well because of divorces and yes abusive behavior. White women are in shelters too, which mean white men donít always protect their women and Iím sure there are abusive cases of Hispanic women too. We are just the ones who judge one person as a whole and tell the world to stay away from our own race. This site is prime example; I never thought I would see so many black people praising another race over their own people.
Shelters are there to protect women and children because successful societies consider women and children to be assets. Wm responded to the needs of ww/children by building the shelters in to the system when/if the individual wm failed at protection for whatever reason. How problems are solved is what determines the progress..not the fact that there is a problem (there will always be problems).

I think that's what most are pointing to when they speak of protections.

As far as the race thing, well, it seems there are lots who have no use for it. Some view race identification as outdated. Maybe that could explain why some have no problems bashing with others who are perceived to be of their group. Maybe they don't see themselves as having a group.

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#25 Mar 29, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
<quoted text> Exactly! And we fall for it every time.
I'm happy to say I have never watched one of Tommy's videos or visited his site. I don't need that negativity. I'm for trying to pull us together, not apart.
Me either. I've only watched them when they were posted on Topix. I wouldn't recommend anyone to watch his videos. His videos are no different than what we can see on mediatakeout or worldstarhiphop and those sites are seen as bottom of the barrel. So this speaks volume about his show.

“Never suffer fools gladly.”

Level 2

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#26 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
You dont see children raised by non bw killing each other, you dont see their daughters running the streets half naked with tatoos all over their body
Lmao you're an idiot. You need to do some traveling outside of your lame ass hood. Try the Middle East, or Southeast Asia for example. I guess you're going to tell me that those are children of bw running around killing each other and blowing shit up, or women running the streets half naked with tattoos playing fucky and sucky for tourists? Smh you really are playing yourself right now. Latino dude is right!
Big Knob

United States

#27 Mar 29, 2014
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
But PPL are going to side with this man because he can back up what he's saying. PPL are always going to talk sh*t but when you prove them right, you are only hurting yourself and helping them. In this world, PPL are going to constantly look for things to use against you especially if they don't like you and It doesn't even have to be a legitimate reason. Think about this BEFORE stating no one cares. This here is why non-BM can get points for bashing BM. You don't have to care about what he says but you have to care how you present yourself in this world.
I dont care about what burrito man says, I threw back in her face what she tried to pull with this video, as you can see she couldnt take it. I dont care about non bm score-ing points, when you tell the bw the truth about herself, they dont give a damn about what they say, and who agrees with them about you do they? But do this inreverse and then watch their reaction in reverse. My point is bw run men away from them, then turn around and blame the man for not being there..........
Big Knob

United States

#30 Mar 29, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text> Lmao you're an idiot. You need to do some traveling outside of your lame ass hood. Try the Middle East, or Southeast Asia for example. I guess you're going to tell me that those are children of bw running around killing each other and blowing shit up, or women running the streets half naked with tattoos playing fucky and sucky for tourists? Smh you really are playing yourself right now. Latino dude is right!
You couldnt take back what you tried to put out there huh, I made you look in the mirror and you dont like what you see.....the truth.......... As far as traveling, you dont know where ive been do you, typical bw ( you sound suspect to me ) get mad tries to shame you, loud talk you, stereotype you to get her way, but it wont work with me.........tell that to burrito man...that to..
Big Knob

United States

#32 Mar 29, 2014
Tommy does his thing like the BWE, but nobody is trying to shut down the bwe down like theyre trying to do to tommy,, and tommy didnt start this thread a bw did, and this a classic techique of bw to throw up the opinions of non bm up in a bm's face, to try jealousy attempts, and get a reaction, but when the bm dont fall for it, youve failed bw. like we give a damn about what non bm think .. Burrito man keeps his woman bare foot and pregnant and at home fixing his meals three times a day, ask the latinas..........maybe bw should be like the latinas?

“The Beating Heart Of Africa”

Level 4

Since: Mar 10

Washington, DC

#33 Mar 29, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
Oh snap!!! Black men are so pissed at this guy roflmbo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =UjRUt1YYPBMXX#t=289
Not really. He is on man who made a random video on youtube. Any man that attacks a woman verbally (unless she deserves it) or physically (should never happen) isn't a man at all.

“The Beating Heart Of Africa”

Level 4

Since: Mar 10

Washington, DC

#34 Mar 29, 2014
MsNewNew wrote:
Our whole entire race is a hot mess. Every day we are bashing each other in public. You donít see other races of men bashing their women and you also donít see other races of women bashing their men. We are the only race that takes pride in degrading our own. Non-blacks discusses their dislikes in their living room and around the kitchen table. However, as black people we have to get on YouTube and blogs and tell everyone black people are no good. The facts are there that they have problems with their own race as well because of divorces and yes abusive behavior. White women are in shelters too, which mean white men donít always protect their women and Iím sure there are abusive cases of Hispanic women too. We are just the ones who judge one person as a whole and tell the world to stay away from our own race. This site is prime example; I never thought I would see so many black people praising another race over their own people.
I was just about to make the point you made here.

Why openly bash one another? And put it on full display for all to see? It makes Blacks look foolish and it just needs to stop.
carmen

Columbus, OH

#35 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
Tommy does his thing like the BWE, but nobody is trying to shut down the bwe down like theyre trying to do to tommy,, and tommy didnt start this thread a bw did, and this a classic techique of bw to throw up the opinions of non bm up in a bm's face, to try jealousy attempts, and get a reaction, but when the bm dont fall for it, youve failed bw. like we give a damn about what non bm think .. Burrito man keeps his woman bare foot and pregnant and at home fixing his meals three times a day, ask the latinas..........maybe bw should be like the latinas?
No thanks, I like shoes too much.

:)
Diva On Da Rise

Nassau, Bahamas

#36 Mar 29, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
<quoted text>
Black men have failed black women in many ways, but probably the most egregious offense is that they have failed to PROTECT the women of their race. As an avid follower of any and everything that has to do with Malcolm X, there is a segment of one of his speeches that will ALWAYS stand out to me:
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
That speech was made about five decades ago, and the FACTS show that black people in America STILL have a big problem on our hands. These statistics are appalling:
- 60% of Black girls have experienced sexual abuse before the age of 18
Ė For every 1 Black woman that reports her rape, 15 DO NOT (for every 1 white woman that reports her rape, 5 do not)
Ė Black people are more likely to blame the VICTIM for being sexually assaulted
Ė Black people account for a disproportionate number of intimate partner homicides
Ė Almost one in three African American women have been subject to intimate partner violence
So aside from not protecting the women of their race physically and being the main cause of their pain, black men also have failed to protect their womenís honor, integrity and image. When I look around today I see black female form being continually oversexualized in the media, black women being overtly disrespected in music to the point itís viewed as normative behavior, and black women being abandoned as parents. NO other race does that to their women. So you can sit here and rant about "twerkin'" and how black women suck at life, but the buck stops at YOU. Because you prove this Latino man right with each and every word you just posted! You'd rather sit here and praise and uplift OTHER races' women--even though they have their issues as well, but you don't hear their men ranting like bitches against them on youtube, because THEIR MEN PROTECT THEM. DBR black men like you are a JOKE!
Preach...(seems like everyday more and more black women are getting smarter)...preach
Cigar Face21

Tampa, FL

#37 Mar 29, 2014
Khalisa wrote:
Oh snap!!! Black men are so pissed at this guy roflmbo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =UjRUt1YYPBMXX#t=289
Im not mad at this person. Only a retarded slow naive child would believe this man . How can he possibly know every single last brotha! You are a whiteman with a black man obsession. What sistah would be this stupid.lol!!

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#38 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> I dont care about what burrito man says, I threw back in her face what she tried to pull with this video, as you can see she couldnt take it. I dont care about non bm score-ing points, when you tell the bw the truth about herself, they dont give a damn about what they say, and who agrees with them about you do they? But do this inreverse and then watch their reaction in reverse. My point is bw run men away from them, then turn around and blame the man for not being there..........
But these videos will be used as ammo against BM because PPL believe BM worship non-BW anyway. So these videos will further perpetuate this belief NOT expose BW. You may NOT care about non-BM but this doesn't change the fact these videos are often used to perpetuate how all BM worship Non-BW. All of these videos does MORE harm than good because they create division.

“Freedom”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#39 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
Tommy does his thing like the BWE, but nobody is trying to shut down the bwe down like theyre trying to do to tommy,, and tommy didnt start this thread a bw did, and this a classic techique of bw to throw up the opinions of non bm up in a bm's face, to try jealousy attempts, and get a reaction, but when the bm dont fall for it, youve failed bw. like we give a damn about what non bm think .. Burrito man keeps his woman bare foot and pregnant and at home fixing his meals three times a day, ask the latinas..........maybe bw should be like the latinas?
If you are NOT apart of the solution, you are apart of the problem. We know were everyone stands by the kinda material you support.

Nuff said!
Big Knob

United States

#40 Mar 29, 2014
carmen wrote:
<quoted text>
No thanks, I like shoes too much.
:)
I try to get bp to inderstand, that you must stand up on your own two feet and do for self, if there is a problem that bw want to share then address that to bm directly, then you'll know & seperate the real men from the simps, these type of tactics only cause arguements and nothing never gets done thats important,. Im not mad at bw there are bw in my twice weekly study group, I personally fought against the sexist attutudes of some bm in the group. I volunteer to mentor the youth. Im a landlord and all of my tennants are bw and ive helped them out who were behind in their rents... Ive lowerd rents for those who are going back to school. I challange bw as individials and not the whole group, ive said in many of my post that BOTH bm & bw are equally responsible for the mess youve created, and you solve your own problem. Ive said that we bp should stop using white folks as the norm and should look at succcessful blks as the norm, realizing that if they did it you can to. Ive work on a campaign for a bm to get elected to the city council, and we held him accountable and as a result hundreds of bm & bw got jobs on city projects, and with contractors for the city. I didnt do it by myself, but I did help........now ask the latinas about burrito man, he keeps his woman barefoot and pregnant, and is controlling, now do you want that?
carmen

Columbus, OH

#41 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>I try to get bp to inderstand, that you must stand up on your own two feet and do for self, if there is a problem that bw want to share then address that to bm directly, then you'll know & seperate the real men from the simps, these type of tactics only cause arguements and nothing never gets done thats important,. Im not mad at bw there are bw in my twice weekly study group, I personally fought against the sexist attutudes of some bm in the group. I volunteer to mentor the youth. Im a landlord and all of my tennants are bw and ive helped them out who were behind in their rents... Ive lowerd rents for those who are going back to school. I challange bw as individials and not the whole group, ive said in many of my post that BOTH bm & bw are equally responsible for the mess youve created, and you solve your own problem. Ive said that we bp should stop using white folks as the norm and should look at succcessful blks as the norm, realizing that if they did it you can to. Ive work on a campaign for a bm to get elected to the city council, and we held him accountable and as a result hundreds of bm & bw got jobs on city projects, and with contractors for the city. I didnt do it by myself, but I did help........now ask the latinas about burrito man, he keeps his woman barefoot and pregnant, and is controlling, now do you want that?
I hear you. Sounds like you are doing good works out in the real world. Hopefully you feel appreciated.

As far as the controlling, well, I'd give up some control if it was for protection (if I was in such a situation). Otherwise, giving up control without protection is foolish. Overall, it seems as if the latin culture is steeped in a lot of traditions many of us have abandoned (either by force or choice) so the barefoot and pregnant sounds odd to me because I'm far removed from that model. But given that the basic traits needed to sustain a culture are still high, such as marriage, low abortion rates, I'd say what they are doing is working for them for now.
Big Knob

United States

#42 Mar 29, 2014
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
But these videos will be used as ammo against BM because PPL believe BM worship non-BW anyway. So these videos will further perpetuate this belief NOT expose BW. You may NOT care about non-BM but this doesn't change the fact these videos are often used to perpetuate how all BM worship Non-BW. All of these videos does MORE harm than good because they create division.
They dont believe that, see the bm is like a magnet, we create the music, the style, & are all into sports, fashion, politics, and we've played a role in shaping america, where as they havent. and alot of these cats envy the fact that spanish culture hasnt caught on in america, no one but them listens to the music, even latin jazz (afro-cuban before the 70s name change to latin jazz by whites ) is black music so is salsa dance and music black. and its no secret that latin culture is anti black, and full of colorism, even the BWE knows that. Burrito man loves to hit on these sisters, but get mad as hell when a bm gets himself a latina, youve got to understand that alot of non bm hate on the bm because of the bms finesse , so they'll degrade bw to get back at bm,........in the 90 & early 2000s their was alot of bad blood between the two..........and bm defending bw is the reasons why hundreds were killed in street warfare, ask law enforcement.

“You Can Fall”

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

But You Can Rise Also

#43 Mar 29, 2014
Redefined wrote:
<quoted text>
Me either. I've only watched them when they were posted on Topix. I wouldn't recommend anyone to watch his videos. His videos are no different than what we can see on mediatakeout or worldstarhiphop and those sites are seen as bottom of the barrel. So this speaks volume about his show.
So true! When you're lost and in search of a leader you will accept anything.

“You Can Fall”

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

But You Can Rise Also

#44 Mar 29, 2014
Drogba__ wrote:
<quoted text>
I was just about to make the point you made here.
Why openly bash one another? And put it on full display for all to see? It makes Blacks look foolish and it just needs to stop.
Foolish and very disgraceful to have this much hate for your own skin color because of the choices they made. Now they view every bw or bm as the same. Just sad...
q t pie

Kansas City, MO

#45 Mar 29, 2014
U see? Other races of men are laughing at u turd d/cks. I've been saying it all along :-)

“Never suffer fools gladly.”

Level 2

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#46 Mar 29, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
You couldnt take back what you tried to put out there huh, I made you look in the mirror and you dont like what you see.....the truth.......... As far as traveling, you dont know where ive been do you, typical bw ( you sound suspect to me ) get mad tries to shame you, loud talk you, stereotype you to get her way, but it wont work with me.........tell that to burrito man...that to..
Lool what are you even talking about? The only person who should be holding up a mirror is YOU...because you got butthurt off of the TRUTH he was spitting in that video and with every response here you keep proving him right. I'm neither mad nor am I "loud talking" anyone, since this is an online forum where people TYPE in responses lol. I posted the video because a) I thought he was being 100% truthful in what he was saying and b) the angry responses from bm were hilarious. He was obviously stepping on a lot of toes. Other than those two reasons, I really couldn't give a crap, because I've never been emotionally invested in AA men.

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