Damn! Kola Boof Marries a white dude ...

Damn! Kola Boof Marries a white dude and goes off on AA

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#1 Jun 28, 2013
The African sister, Kola Boof, the popular author/social commentator known for being Osama Bin Laden's ex slave/mistress recently got married to a white guy and felt it necessary to explain her actions. Kola has always been unabashed in imparting her views; outspoken about the evils of white supremacy, so some are a bit surprised that she married a white guy; but love her or hate her, she always speaks her mind. Here's what she had to say:

"I have never been against marrying a White man, I have been several White men in the past…but I will admit that my preference (all my life) has been for Black men. It was always Black men who had the best chance with me."

"However, for those who absolutely can’t understand why “Kola Boof” would marry a White man, I would like to share with Americans my true feelings….I live in America…I don’t feel loved by Black American men as a group…I feel betrayed by Black men…I don’t trust Black men."

"Even though they are my preference (my first husband was Black)…I don’t think I could marry a Black man now at age 44 after everything I’ve witnessed as an American."

"I already have two sons by my first husband who was Black. Jason Appelbaum (her husband) has one teenaged son who is fully White. We have decided not to have children."

"But if life steps in and we do end up having a child, I would like it understood that our child will be considered “Biracial” and not Black. It’s very important to me that African-Americans understand that about me as an African woman."

I have already been accused of “breeding out of the race” and therefore, a hypocrite by my detractors for engaging a White man. The fact is, we don’t plan to have children.

Kola: "Jason (her husband) is astonished that BLACK people call me ugly. He read that @Bossip aritcle & couldn't believe it! He just thinks I'm beautiful!"

" But to be so UGLY....I'm the one always got a rich/famous man....now getting married.....not the biracial b!tches @ Bossip and LpStkA."

"I live in California....these Asian and Latina B!tches *LAUGH* when Black women are deserted and disrespected. They hate us."

" BLACK women needs her own revolution....fck other races of women."

" Because most Black American women just live in total delusion just kissing these women azzes."

" Dear AA women...I don't want to kiss Chinese women's azz & pretend that we are sisters. I don't want to comb Mexican girls hair."

" The thing about Black American women = they always want to be everybody's maid (except African women)They kiss up to other race women."

" A bunch of biracial/mixed feminist created the term "WOMEN OF COLOR" because they knew they weren't really black anymore."

" I don't ever allow them to put me in that category..I'm a Black women...not a women of color. Fck those B!tches!"

" The same Mexican chick who wants me to march with her..will turn around and say..I'm dark and don't deserve a man."

" Mexican, Filipinos and biracial women like LoLo Jones are just as racist/Colorist against black women as White women are."

" The term "WOC" is misleading...makes it seem as though we have solidarity with other color of women...no."

" Because Bw have our own unique struggle, the term WOC puts us at the back of the bus with others. Not good."

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#2 Jun 28, 2013
Does Kola or any other black person reserve the right to defend who is considered black and who is not?

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#3 Jun 28, 2013
LOL! Though I do agree with her about that LoLo Jones chick, who is always leveraging her biracial-ness when it's commercially convenient for her and throwing shade against black when she is pandering for inclusion with others.

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#4 Jun 28, 2013
She need too realize biracial women & other women of color are around because of Africans like her whom has bred & intermingled with non-Africans for generations. She's doing it now. And why is she going off on African Americans?? If her own ethnic group were so PRO-Black, she wouldn't be dating a WM. She's speakin' MORE about her own ethnic group than African Americans.

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#5 Jun 28, 2013
Redefined wrote:
She need too realize biracial women & other women of color are around because of Africans like her whom has bred & intermingled with non-Africans for generations. She's doing it now. And why is she going off on African Americans?? If her own ethnic group were so PRO-Black, she wouldn't be dating a WM. She's speakin' MORE about her own ethnic group than African Americans.
Very astute observation. Her entire diatribe is riddled with contradictions: She wants any future child with her white husband (possibly a female) declared biracial, yet she declares biracial females parasitic to REAL black women. She is open to producing the very thing that she unabashedly detest!

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#6 Jun 28, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Very astute observation. Her entire diatribe is riddled with contradictions: She wants any future child with her white husband (possibly a female) declared biracial, yet she declares biracial females parasitic to REAL black women. She is open to producing the very thing that she unabashedly detest!
Exactly. But she's an African woman. This is MORE of an African American woman issue than an African. If she was back home in Africa, she wouldn't be complaining about women of color. So now she know what some African American women go through in America.

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#8 Jun 28, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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Exactly. But she's an African woman. This is MORE of an African American woman issue than an African. If she was back home in Africa, she wouldn't be complaining about women of color. So now she know what some African American women go through in America.
Even though I think that racism, colorism and classism are real and pervasive variables in the inter-female warfare that can not be dismissed; a great deal of the contemporary angst expressed by black women is attributable to the fierce competition over the finite supply of quality black men that are available. External to those variables, I believe that this paucity (real or imagined) of quality brothers is responsible for the amplification of any and all perceived advantages and differences enjoyed by some over the other, fosters a more intense antipathy among these women of different shades, hues, colors etc..

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#10 Jun 28, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Even though I think that racism, colorism and classism are real and pervasive variables in the inter-female warfare that can not be dismissed; a great deal of the contemporary angst expressed by black women is attributable to the fierce competition over the finite supply of quality black men that are available. External to those variables, I believe that this paucity (real or imagined) of quality brothers is responsible for the amplification of any and all perceived advantages and differences enjoyed by some over the other, fosters a more intense antipathy among these women of different shades, hues, colors etc..
Great Point & makes sense. Women are judged for their 'beauty' & the MORE differences you have among women, the worse. This is what women will to deal with when they are NOT dating men within' their own race.

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#11 Jun 28, 2013
She's a typical sellout faking like she's down for the cause then marries a WM.

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#12 Jun 28, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
She's a typical sellout faking like she's down for the cause then marries a WM.
Yeah, if she leaves out all of the Pro Black rhetoric and exhortions of black unity, condemning all of those in the past who dissented from her views; then her marrying a white guy would not have even register on the radar. And then she compounds the issue by laying blame at the feet of black men by saying that we "failed her" and that she was left without an option; when she clearly, in spite of her fiery denunciation of whites over the years; secretly was a romantic opportunist. I also think that her attack upon some of the sisters is a weak attempt to deflect away from her hypocrisy and a way to restore her damaged integrity.
sweetgirl102

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#13 Jun 28, 2013
I didn't get to write a full on post earlier, but is ANYONE surprised that she doesn't trust BM? Seriously?

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#14 Jun 28, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Very astute observation. Her entire diatribe is riddled with contradictions: She wants any future child with her white husband (possibly a female) declared biracial, yet she declares biracial females parasitic to REAL black women. She is open to producing the very thing that she unabashedly detest!
Co-sign!

She will be one of those women that has a dark, bi-racial child, and lives in America, and have a constant whine about her child being called Black.

And of course being a hypocrite, she will explain why all the other bi-racials are parasitic, but not her own offspring.
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#15 Jun 28, 2013
Dipshits,

Maybe 300 years ago white men were abusing blacks.

In 2013, blacks are killing and abusing other blacks (especially women) more than all of white violence combined for three centuries.

She's making a good choice dating a kind white guy.

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#16 Jun 28, 2013
sweetgirl102 wrote:
I didn't get to write a full on post earlier, but is ANYONE surprised that she doesn't trust BM? Seriously?
Well, if you read it closely, you will see that she's not too fond of African American women either. Calling yall "azz kissers" of other women.

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#17 Jun 28, 2013
Ms Mack wrote:
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Co-sign!
She will be one of those women that has a dark, bi-racial child, and lives in America, and have a constant whine about her child being called Black.
And of course being a hypocrite, she will explain why all the other bi-racials are parasitic, but not her own offspring.
Yeah, you are correct, I actually knew a sister who did this: Denounced black men that make bi-racial children, but eventually married a white guy and had a bi-racial child herself, whom much to her chagrin, was of a darker hue. So she constantly went around verbally reminding people that despite her darker hue, her daughter was bi-racial. This psychosis runs deep!
Stella

Lynwood, CA

#18 Jun 29, 2013
Can you people read?

Kola made it very clear that she already has Black children and will not be having anymore kids. She's over 40 and not interested in having a baby. Neither is Jason. He has a kid already.

Also, I don't feel she put down AA women. She described exactly what many AA women feel.
alfie

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#19 Jun 29, 2013
just another whori...ng ,backstabbing,wm worshipping ,traitor sheboon....

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#20 Jun 29, 2013
Stella wrote:
Can you people read?
Kola made it very clear that she already has Black children and will not be having anymore kids. She's over 40 and not interested in having a baby. Neither is Jason. He has a kid already.
Also, I don't feel she put down AA women. She described exactly what many AA women feel.
LOL! No can you read should be the question? She stated that they were not planning on having kids, BUT, if they were so blessed, she would consider them BIRACIAL, and not black.

So her saying that AA women were azz-kissers of other non black women is not a put down, or that AA women wants to be every one's maid's but African women is not a put down? Come on you are working way too hard to ignore what she is saying.

And by the way, reality is not defined by what you feel. Feeling are subjective. I could easily find any number of AA men who feel similarly about AA women.
Sadbutrue

Arlington, VA

#21 Jun 29, 2013
Cogito2-MACEO wrote:
The African sister, Kola Boof, the popular author/social commentator known for being Osama Bin Laden's ex slave/mistress recently got married to a white guy and felt it necessary to explain her actions. Kola has always been unabashed in imparting her views; outspoken about the evils of white supremacy, so some are a bit surprised that she married a white guy; but love her or hate her, she always speaks her mind. Here's what she had to say:
"I have never been against marrying a White man, I have been several White men in the past…but I will admit that my preference (all my life) has been for Black men. It was always Black men who had the best chance with me."
"However, for those who absolutely can’t understand why “Kola Boof” would marry a White man, I would like to share with Americans my true feelings….I live in America…I don’t feel loved by Black American men as a group…I feel betrayed by Black men…I don’t trust Black men."
"Even though they are my preference (my first husband was Black)…I don’t think I could marry a Black man now at age 44 after everything I’ve witnessed as an American."
"I already have two sons by my first husband who was Black. Jason Appelbaum (her husband) has one teenaged son who is fully White. We have decided not to have children."
"But if life steps in and we do end up having a child, I would like it understood that our child will be considered “Biracial” and not Black. It’s very important to me that African-Americans understand that about me as an African woman."
I have already been accused of “breeding out of the race” and therefore, a hypocrite by my detractors for engaging a White man. The fact is, we don’t plan to have children.
Kola: "Jason (her husband) is astonished that BLACK people call me ugly. He read that @Bossip aritcle & couldn't believe it! He just thinks I'm beautiful!"
" But to be so UGLY....I'm the one always got a rich/famous man....now getting married.....not the biracial b!tches @ Bossip and LpStkA."
Maceo

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Sadbutrue

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#22 Jun 29, 2013
Redefined wrote:
She need too realize biracial women & other women of color are around because of Africans like her whom has bred & intermingled with non-Africans for generations. She's doing it now. And why is she going off on African Americans?? If her own ethnic group were so PRO-Black, she wouldn't be dating a WM. She's speakin' MORE about her own ethnic group than African Americans.
MACEO

As I said many times prior, African men approach me and tell me their status in less than 2 sentences and always ask me to go out! As soon as I go out if there around they try to "Corner me" or quickly run over or go out of their way.

I' don't consider myself stunning my no means. Ive also noticed that if I'm not interested in them they will call me every 6-8 months to see if I'm ready to settle down or am I available!

Why do African men come up and tell me their a Phd or MD in less than 2 sentences? What she's saying is correct!

Some African men act like Black men who are desperate for white women and will take anything!

African men are more selective when they go after Mixed Race Black women. They want to make sure your educated and can represent them!

Mind you, I love the Africans in terms of culture but their culture is so different! I rather date/marry a White man as Ive grown up in the States! Other races of Black men don't interest me!

I know that you want Black women to date/marry Africans or other Black men MACEO; but that simply doesn't work! As you've been seeing Black women chose White males 89% of the time when they cross the color line!

Sorry!!!!

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!1

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