Why Do us BW have a Hard time Competing?

[Lisa]

i just wont to know the opinions from everyone because it seem like us black women in america and the uk have such a hard time competing with other groups of women. I notice this myself and i notice it all the time.

what do you think we have a hard time competing with other women for men.

all opions are welcomed

[lola]

I don't need to compete troll, I just laugh at all the desperate losers who should focus on more interesting things in their lives. Don't worry about bw noone life is perfect . Bw get on just fine.

[Lisa]

lola wrote:

I don't need to compete troll, I just laugh at all the desperate losers who should focus on more interesting things in their lives. Don't worry about bw noone life is perfect . Bw get on just fine.

dont make me a troll because i focusing on real issues we black women face. maybe we do have bad attitude and weight problems. you know we have hard time getting a man cause that what we mostly talk about.

[Lisa]

we always talk about not havin man lets talk about why

[Lisa]

how many think it how we look and weight? i no in the uk the black females are high majority overwieght and i don't know their attitudes.

[SweetPride]

Lisa wrote:

i just wont to know the opinions from everyone because it seem like us black women in america and the uk have such a hard time competing with other groups of women. I notice this myself and i notice it all the time.
what do you think we have a hard time competing with other women for men.
all opions are welcomed

ill be honest i know we are very loud and i think that scares men away because other women are soft spoken and more feminine than us. but we have hard exterior and masculine attitude because we have to be the man and woman other women just have to be women

[lola]

If you are insecure and need to obsesss over what bw are doing and not doing then that's fine but let's not pretend you're anything other than a troll crying out for attention to your otherwise dull and lonely existense. Please make youself a snack and stfu!

[J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH]

alot of the black women i am around... seem to have too high of standards when it comes to physical attraction... i mean like stright up 300 lbs, ugly black chicks chasing 6'5" 200 lbs guys who look like pro athletes... the guys F them and leave them, and the girls are clueless to why he left

its becuase he can do better than you! he was never going to stay past a wk... lol

I know this comes of a a-holey... but its the truth, people are shallow.

If u want more than a booty call, be truthful with yourself and form realistic expectations... otherwise, your just setting yourself up for dissapointment

fat white chicks can get better looking guys than fat black chicks, thats just the way it is

its not fair, but black woman have to work harder

[SweetPride]

i admit we do have the most negative aggressive attitudes and that probably turns men off the most

[Getting it Straight]

Lisa wrote:

i just wont to know the opinions from everyone because it seem like us black women in america and the uk have such a hard time competing with other groups of women. I notice this myself and i notice it all the time.
what do you think we have a hard time competing with other women for men.
all opions are welcomed

I. Not feminine in ways other groups are. I am not saying BW are not, but there is an extra emphasis on materialism which should or could be replaced with being gentle, kind, etc.

2. BW often are cold towards other BW who possibly could have helped them.

3. The loudness! WTF is that about?

4. Weight. Are BW emotionally eating?

[J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH]

there have been studies done... and the most succesful relationships are those, where the woman is more physically attractive than the man, and the man is smarter than the woman

[lola]

I can't believe some of you bw are falling for the hype. The only person you need to care about is yourself and others will care back, you are being brainwashed and played, to much roaming these sites has clouded your minds, it,s stupid. Why it hurts you that some bm insult you and date out when their contribution to your livelyhood has been nada amuses me. I don't hate bm but I am not on their diks like they'rr so grand. What do other women gain let's see a bunch of out of wedlock kids or single mothers and a bunch of men living off the wm's gains and maybe theirs womans to because they dont have the guts to what is right as men. Who love blaming their mothers and everyone. It's wm ww bm and even mixed people who are commiting sucides these so called people u think have it good. Theses people want to bring bw down tto their meek pathetic ldvels and it's a shame a few of you are playing in the hands of haters, the godless.

[Soul_Electronica]

Lisa wrote:

i just wont to know the opinions from everyone because it seem like us black women in america and the uk have such a hard time competing with other groups of women. I notice this myself and i notice it all the time.
what do you think we have a hard time competing with other women for men.
all opions are welcomed

Honestly, if you have to "compete" for a man he's not worth your time/energy. You should never be concerned with the "opponent". Are these "hos" just trying to hop on as many big black mandingos as possible?

Not to mention, most of them are more open to approaching men they want. Our folks tell us not to approach a man first, so do your black male friends...why, we will never know.

[Soul_Electronica]

lola wrote:

I can't believe some of you bw are falling for the hype. The only person you need to care about is yourself and others will care back, you are being brainwashed and played, to much roaming these sites has clouded your minds, it,s stupid. Why it hurts you that some bm insult you and date out when their contribution to your livelyhood has been nada amuses me. I don't hate bm but I am not on their diks like they'rr so grand. What do other women gain let's see a bunch of out of wedlock kids or single mothers and a bunch of men living off the wm's gains and maybe theirs womans to because they dont have the guts to what is right as men. Who love blaming their mothers and everyone. It's wm ww bm and even mixed people who are commiting sucides these so called people u think have it good. Theses people want to bring bw down tto their meek pathetic ldvels and it's a shame a few of you are playing in the hands of haters, the godless.

Preach!!!

This is why I don't let this site fck with my head.

[SweetPride]

J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH wrote:

alot of the black women i am around... seem to have too high of standards when it comes to physical attraction... i mean like stright up 300 lbs, ugly black chicks chasing 6'5" 200 lbs guys who look like pro athletes... the guys F them and leave them, and the girls are clueless to why he left
its becuase he can do better than you! he was never going to stay past a wk... lol
I know this comes of a a-holey... but its the truth, people are shallow.
If u want more than a booty call, be truthful with yourself and form realistic expectations... otherwise, your just setting yourself up for dissapointment
fat white chicks can get better looking guys than fat black chicks, thats just the way it is
its not fair, but black woman have to work harder

this is a lie and you know it! us black women have the modest standards of all. fat white men like you have high standards!

[Skiff Azlaan]

Lisa wrote:

i just wont to know the opinions from everyone because it seem like us black women in america and the uk have such a hard time competing with other groups of women. I notice this myself and i notice it all the time.
what do you think we have a hard time competing with other women for men.
all opions are welcomed

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[SweetPride]

lola wrote:

I can't believe some of you bw are falling for the hype. The only person you need to care about is yourself and others will care back, you are being brainwashed and played, to much roaming these sites has clouded your minds, it,s stupid. Why it hurts you that some bm insult you and date out when their contribution to your livelyhood has been nada amuses me. I don't hate bm but I am not on their diks like they'rr so grand. What do other women gain let's see a bunch of out of wedlock kids or single mothers and a bunch of men living off the wm's gains and maybe theirs womans to because they dont have the guts to what is right as men. Who love blaming their mothers and everyone. It's wm ww bm and even mixed people who are commiting sucides these so called people u think have it good. Theses people want to bring bw down tto their meek pathetic ldvels and it's a shame a few of you are playing in the hands of haters, the godless.

girl your right. but if we don't want to impress nobody then we not going to get nobody and need to stop complaining about not having anybody.

our situation is different because bm bailed on us.

[J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH]

SweetPride wrote:

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this is a lie and you know it! us black women have the modest standards of all. fat white men like you have high standards!

lol, not in my expierence... white men usually have higher standards cuz they have the most options (work ethic, success, and $$$)... but even a broke a5s black dude with a good body can do better than a 300lb chick

the quicker u girls realize this, the less angish u will go through

[lola]

Sorry about typo's this pad. Don't play into the psychological mind field that the insecure and evil mindec people are trying go trap some bw in, as bw I know even if you do you will get yourselves through to the other side. Out. Of all the women bw are the most ok, ww with all their hype are still thr most insecure. All these non bw their life is not as perfect as h media or some bm like to make out don't bye into the hype. I would never like to be anyone but myslf I am happy being me.

[lola]

J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH wrote:

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lol, not in my expierence... white men usually have higher standards cuz they have the most options (work ethic, success, and $$$)... but even a broke a5s black dude with a good body can do better than a 300lb chick
the quicker u girls realize this, the less angish u will go through

you're a joke, let's stop playing clown games like bm have standards they like fat, skinny any woman they love a thick woman, the bm dating your friends are the player types going from one hole to another. A lot of the ww around where I live I never see the bm just fat plain faced monster looking ww making their biracial children look silly and making others think what kind of home do these kids live in. Most of the fat bw have men and many of them like their woman big or thick.