Abusive women will challenge a man's ego

Abusive women will challenge a man's ego

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Too Late

United States

#1 Jan 13, 2012
It is amazing that bw can use a man's ego as a weapon but, the same bw can't see when her own ego is being used against her.

Anytime an abusive woman tell a man to step up, stop whining or be a man, she's working the males ego. Such women will forever be abusers. I SAID FOREVER! Only a foolish man will think such a woman will change

The Need for Approval

Another highly effective device abusive women use to control you is denying approval and acceptance. It’s natural to want to be liked and admired—especially by the person you love. Being criticized, demeaned, rejected and told repeatedly,“not good enough,”“you don’t measure up,” or that you’ve “failed again” is demoralizing. It also spurs you on to try even harder to please her and herein lies the problem: These women are never satisfied. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. She will never bestow upon you the kind of love and acceptance you seek.

Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? A woman like this is an abusive, entitled and incredibly self-serving bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.

You’re perpetuating a sick dynamic by seeking approval from someone who’ll never give it to you. Why? Because these women experience giving approval to others as a psychological and visceral loss. To tell you,“nice job” or “I appreciate you” somehow makes her feel less than and, as you well know, these women won’t tolerate that for a second.

Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? She’s an emotionally abusive bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
Too Late

United States

#2 Jan 13, 2012
Once a bw tell a bm to step up, be a man, etc, you know that life with such a woman is trouble.

Run and don't ever think of going back
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#3 Jan 13, 2012
Boo hoo hoo..

So sad for you..

Grrrr!!! I just did a poo!!
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#4 Jan 13, 2012
This is ALREADY A CRAP THREAD..

Straight to the POOPER with this one I thinks..
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#6 Jan 13, 2012
Too Late wrote:
Once a bw tell a bm to step up, be a man, etc, you know that life with such a woman is trouble.
Run and don't ever think of going back
Run Forest run!!!
Run Forest run!!!
I mean, run n-word run!!
Run n-word run!!!

If you can go fast enough, you may even be able to outrun your own responsibilities..

Typical AA male..

“Fooyre na fooDa Demngal saa e ”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#7 Jan 13, 2012
Too Late wrote:
It is amazing that bw can use a man's ego as a weapon but, the same bw can't see when her own ego is being used against her.
Anytime an abusive woman tell a man to step up, stop whining or be a man, she's working the males ego. Such women will forever be abusers. I SAID FOREVER! Only a foolish man will think such a woman will change
The Need for Approval
Another highly effective device abusive women use to control you is denying approval and acceptance. It’s natural to want to be liked and admired—especially by the person you love. Being criticized, demeaned, rejected and told repeatedly,“not good enough,”“you don’t measure up,” or that you’ve “failed again” is demoralizing. It also spurs you on to try even harder to please her and herein lies the problem: These women are never satisfied. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. She will never bestow upon you the kind of love and acceptance you seek.
Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? A woman like this is an abusive, entitled and incredibly self-serving bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
You’re perpetuating a sick dynamic by seeking approval from someone who’ll never give it to you. Why? Because these women experience giving approval to others as a psychological and visceral loss. To tell you,“nice job” or “I appreciate you” somehow makes her feel less than and, as you well know, these women won’t tolerate that for a second.
Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? She’s an emotionally abusive bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
are you sure you r not a girl yourself. you bitch 24/hours a day when nobody is listening.

pms umch
Ambiguous

United States

#8 Jan 13, 2012
Lay off bw I have dated many like this and its a trait many women have.
Too Late

United States

#9 Jan 13, 2012
^^^^ MEOWWWW

Said the cat hit by the shoe
Too Late

United States

#10 Jan 13, 2012
Ambiguous wrote:
Lay off bw I have dated many like this and its a trait many women have.
Who are you suppose to be?

I'M JUST WARMING UP
Too Late

United States

#11 Jan 13, 2012
drugsaredumb wrote:
<quoted text>
are you sure you r not a girl yourself. you bitch 24/hours a day when nobody is listening.
pms umch
The shoe fit you perfectly and here's another dose for the misandric somalia butch

The Need for Approval

Another highly effective device abusive women use to control you is denying approval and acceptance. It’s natural to want to be liked and admired—especially by the person you love. Being criticized, demeaned, rejected and told repeatedly,“not good enough,”“you don’t measure up,” or that you’ve “failed again” is demoralizing. It also spurs you on to try even harder to please her and herein lies the problem: These women are never satisfied. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. She will never bestow upon you the kind of love and acceptance you seek.

Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? A woman like this is an abusive, entitled and incredibly self-serving bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.

You’re perpetuating a sick dynamic by seeking approval from someone who’ll never give it to you. Why? Because these women experience giving approval to others as a psychological and visceral loss. To tell you,“nice job” or “I appreciate you” somehow makes her feel less than and, as you well know, these women won’t tolerate that for a second.

Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? She’s an emotionally abusive bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.

“Fooyre na fooDa Demngal saa e ”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#12 Jan 13, 2012
Ambiguous wrote:
Lay off bw I have dated many like this and its a trait many women have.
thanks for being honest and putting girly retarded moses to shame.

i swear he is gay, once he told me i will never make a man happy and i will be single for the rest of my life. guess what two days later a boy asked me out and he was happy i went on a date with him.

what now moses.looks like your ancestors don't like you to allow ur curses to get through.

Level 7

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#13 Jan 13, 2012
drugsaredumb wrote:
<quoted text>
thanks for being honest and putting girly retarded moses to shame.
i swear he is gay, once he told me i will never make a man happy and i will be single for the rest of my life. guess what two days later a boy asked me out and he was happy i went on a date with him.
what now moses.looks like your ancestors don't like you to allow ur curses to get through.
so you went on a date? A supposed muslim went on a date with a person of the opposite sex?
Satan

Toronto, Canada

#16 May 28, 2012
I give up.
Moses-1, must be pmsing.
Moses-1, your mother is a BW.
Do you hate her too girl?

STOP WITH THIS NONSENSE.

I HAVE SPOKEN.
strong bm

United States

#17 Jun 15, 2012
Kick rocks
Animal Control

Lady Lake, FL

#18 Jun 15, 2012
drugsaredumb wrote:
<quoted text>
thanks for being honest and putting girly retarded moses to shame.
i swear he is gay, once he told me i will never make a man happy and i will be single for the rest of my life. guess what two days later a boy asked me out and he was happy i went on a date with him.
what now moses.looks like your ancestors don't like you to allow ur curses to get through.
NoMo the HoMo puts himSELF to shame, he don't need no help from AA's that are ashamed of him being part of their race.
Bill

Harrisburg, PA

#19 Jun 15, 2012
Advice:

Terminate the relationship.
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#20 Jun 15, 2012
Too Late wrote:
It is amazing that bw can use a man's ego as a weapon but, the same bw can't see when her own ego is being used against her.
Anytime an abusive woman tell a man to step up, stop whining or be a man, she's working the males ego. Such women will forever be abusers. I SAID FOREVER! Only a foolish man will think such a woman will change
The Need for Approval
Another highly effective device abusive women use to control you is denying approval and acceptance. It’s natural to want to be liked and admired—especially by the person you love. Being criticized, demeaned, rejected and told repeatedly,“not good enough,”“you don’t measure up,” or that you’ve “failed again” is demoralizing. It also spurs you on to try even harder to please her and herein lies the problem: These women are never satisfied. Nothing you do will ever be good enough. She will never bestow upon you the kind of love and acceptance you seek.
Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? A woman like this is an abusive, entitled and incredibly self-serving bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
You’re perpetuating a sick dynamic by seeking approval from someone who’ll never give it to you. Why? Because these women experience giving approval to others as a psychological and visceral loss. To tell you,“nice job” or “I appreciate you” somehow makes her feel less than and, as you well know, these women won’t tolerate that for a second.
Why does your wife’s/girlfriend’s/ex’s approval mean so much to you? Do you actually respect her and the way she conducts herself? She’s an emotionally abusive bully, so why do you care what she thinks?  Seeking approval from someone who takes pleasure in cutting you down is a recipe for disappointment and pain.
Great post!

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#21 Jun 15, 2012
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>Great post!
!
i see you let some woman shatter our ego. just pick up the pieces and move on
THE RELIC

United States

#22 Jun 15, 2012
dragonpat wrote:
<quoted text>
!
i see you let some woman shatter our ego. just pick up the pieces and move on
women weld all the power and none are flawed.

You're a narcissistic fool
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#23 Jun 15, 2012
dragonpat wrote:
!
i see you let some woman shatter our ego. just pick up the pieces and move on
No, she didn't shatter my ego because I don't HAVE one, but she TRIED!

; ^)

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