Tommy Sotomayor

Since: Jun 12

Hoddesdon, UK

#1002 Oct 13, 2013
@Shallimarr...,

I was in London a few months ago (FA Cup Final). I walked along Oxford street and all I saw was Black guys with Black chicks advertising their unique culture...where are you?.
QBB

United States

#1003 Oct 13, 2013
U seemed mighy concerned about my opinion of whatever your situation is. I already told u I do not personally care. And btw, I dont drink. U did, however, post an unflattering pic of yourself holding a drink up high. Hmmm... cheers.

U r doing your best to not address the solution presented. Shall I re-post it for you?

Take all the time u need. I imagine it must be very very difficult to be held accountable for your own problems and to hVe to actually work at solving them rather than playing the blame-game.

Again, many many bw can help turn the situation around by being civil with the fathers of their kids, by being cooperative and welcoming to the fathers of their kids with regard to seeing them and/or having them in his care; with accepting that the fathers of your kids are to contribute to the welfare of the child but are NOT there to pay YOUR bills or solve YOUR problems. As stated before, you share a child with the father and beyond that nothing. Beyond the care of the child, make a life for yoirself and stay out of the father's life. Accept that! Accept his care for his child and do NOT interfere in his life that he has made elsewhere. Get over your anger and bitterness that it isn't gonna happen with you.
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So Capree, adress the solution. That's really all I'm interested in

Since: Jun 12

Hoddesdon, UK

#1004 Oct 13, 2013
@Shalimarr...,

We tend to be more Liberal when it comes to mixed relationships..well at least we do in the North West of England.

IMO London Blacks on the whole tend to keep their sh!t tight...they don’t intermingle with Whites in large numbers..at least not inner city Black Londoners.

Across the pond it all depends on which State/City you live..I'm familiar with St Louis..you should go there and it will open your shallow mind.

You need to narrow your opinions down..the West Coast of the US is somewhat similar to England IMO..they tend to be more Liberal when it come to mixed relationships IMO, conversely East coasters may take a whole different view.

You are just digging a hole when you try to lump all “AA” together.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1005 Oct 13, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I am quarter Chinese. That has pushed up my IQ.
The average Jamaican has an IQ of 70. That means you guys are verging on retarded. You have no way of evaluating and comprehending the nuances of white supremacy :)
You are just dumb fcks :) I don't blame you, white folks are much cleverer than you.
see, this explains why this b8tch posts every crazy thought that pops into her head. she`s living in some fantasyland where asians are smarter than everybody else...she`s like the dude who was walking around around thinking was invisible to everybody else, so dude was casually walking around naked and grabbing stuff that didn`t belong to him, and everybody is just looking at him like ``wtf!`` lol.

Since: Jun 12

Hoddesdon, UK

#1006 Oct 13, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>see, this explains why this b8tch posts every crazy thought that pops into her head. she`s living in some fantasyland where asians are smarter than everybody else...she`s like the dude who was walking around around thinking was invisible to everybody else, so dude was casually walking around naked and grabbing stuff that didn`t belong to him, and everybody is just looking at him like ``wtf!`` lol.
Hmmm, I'm conflicted now. Stoned is a LIAR and a fool I know that for a FACT. Asians are NOT smarter than the average Joe..agreed. However, we still have a lot to learn from those Asians..in language that you understand..they snatched the ball out of your hands and ran with it.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#1007 Oct 13, 2013
QBB wrote:
U seemed mighy concerned about my opinion of whatever your situation is. I already told u I do not personally care. And btw, I dont drink. U did, however, post an unflattering pic of yourself holding a drink up high. Hmmm... cheers.
U r doing your best to not address the solution presented. Shall I re-post it for you?
Take all the time u need. I imagine it must be very very difficult to be held accountable for your own problems and to hVe to actually work at solving them rather than playing the blame-game.
Again, many many bw can help turn the situation around by being civil with the fathers of their kids, by being cooperative and welcoming to the fathers of their kids with regard to seeing them and/or having them in his care; with accepting that the fathers of your kids are to contribute to the welfare of the child but are NOT there to pay YOUR bills or solve YOUR problems. As stated before, you share a child with the father and beyond that nothing. Beyond the care of the child, make a life for yoirself and stay out of the father's life. Accept that! Accept his care for his child and do NOT interfere in his life that he has made elsewhere. Get over your anger and bitterness that it isn't gonna happen with you.
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So Capree, adress the solution. That's really all I'm interested in
My solution is for black women not to even deal with asking the fathers for support at all and definitely not kissing the fathers of their babies azzes, just keep on to the courts and file for child support against them. But before doing so ladies check around all you can with his friends, family and associates to see where he is working and if he is working a second job also to insure your child gets all the support he/she deserves. Be vigilant in making sure that you get every support for your child, if not record so that you can report him to the courts when he is later or don't pay. Now first when finding out that you are pregnant, it would be a good idea to write down his social security number because even if he runs to another town or state, he can be traced through his SS#. Also if make sure you are done with him and your only connection are the kids so keep him out of your business and new life. Refuse all home visitations and never let him into you home. Have him pick up the children at your door, preferably with a relative or close friend stand outside with the kids upon his arrival.

Since: Jun 12

Hoddesdon, UK

#1008 Oct 13, 2013
:)
QBB

United States

#1009 Oct 13, 2013
You, Capree, are one mad female. So your solution is to START from a posture of hostility, non-cooperation, "attitude", and difficulty---right off the bat. And women like u wonder why things just don't go well for u.

Who's talking about asking kissing a man's a--? Just you and women like you. This isn't about kissing a man's a--. You have made the problem even clearer---you r starting off with the wrong attitude. Why is that??? Could it be that I said allow the father to be a father to his child and contribute to the CHILD's welfare, but live your own life and know that the father is NOT there to pay YOUR bills or YOUR way thru life? Yep. That's what u and women like you don't want to hear.

When u find out unr pregnant write his ss# down? Heee heeeee! You are showing and telling the game your kind of women fomk play on bm ALL THE TIME.! Thanks for finally saying it-- bm on here have been saying it all along!!!

Right from jump you show the kind of mentality you have. What kind of message is your lousy behavior and attitude demonstrating to your children. Hee heeee ....

Maybe you need to go have another drink like the one in the unflattering picture you posted.

Tsk tsk tsk. Your words rnot at all surprising. U r def not the kind of woman any man in his right (or wrong) mind even wants to deal with. Too much evil brewing.
QBB

United States

#1010 Oct 13, 2013
Capree, u will treat a man like that because u were irresponsible enough to get pregnant (but most likely on purpose) and then go thru all that in the name of the "child"??? Give me a break. The child is just your money-maker, an insurance policy. and just a sick attempt to keep a man around your scheming self. Women like u can keep scheming and it will keep backfiring on u just like it has been.

PATHETIC!!!

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#1011 Oct 13, 2013
freddie47 wrote:
<quoted text>
Hmmm, I'm conflicted now. Stoned is a LIAR and a fool I know that for a FACT. Asians are NOT smarter than the average Joe..agreed. However, we still have a lot to learn from those Asians..in language that you understand..they snatched the ball out of your hands and ran with it.
yeah, we as humans all have a lot we can learn from each other...especially history. if we really study history it will help us understand a lot of the crap that passes for conventional wisdom such as the whole ``asians are smarter and or work harder`` routines.

Since: Jun 12

Hoddesdon, UK

#1012 Oct 13, 2013
@es...,

Thanks..maybe a few generations need to be purged. No one seems to have any real answers these days..if a Blackman comes up with a clear solution he’s labelled a Whiteman by numbskulls.

I for one do NOT sympathize with Blacks being locked up..they are given every opportunity to stay out of jail IMO.

I do agree that Shalimarr is an idiot..your reason for calling her an idiot may differ from mine.

IMO she is hung up on the light skin dark skin thing.

IMO that sh!t is a just a method to divide the masses..she has succumbed, and it shows in the fact that she is easily led..she kisses the azz of those that constantly sh!t on her.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#1014 Oct 13, 2013
QBB wrote:
You, Capree, are one mad female. So your solution is to START from a posture of hostility, non-cooperation, "attitude", and difficulty---right off the bat. And women like u wonder why things just don't go well for u.
Who's talking about asking kissing a man's a--? Just you and women like you. This isn't about kissing a man's a--. You have made the problem even clearer---you r starting off with the wrong attitude. Why is that??? Could it be that I said allow the father to be a father to his child and contribute to the CHILD's welfare, but live your own life
I am not angry or hostile at all and I agreed with you when you said that the exs should lead separate lives but what I disagreed with was when you said the mom need to be civil an welcoming to the ex. Why when it's not necessary that they even see one another at all? He is only there for the children which he can pick and drop off without any contact with his ex. If the father and mother want to lead their separate lives then they only contact they should have is over the phone then only about the kids.
QBB wrote:
and know that the father is NOT there to pay YOUR bills or YOUR way thru life? Yep. That's what u and women like you don't want to hear.
When u find out unr pregnant write his ss# down? Heee heeeee! You are showing and telling the game your kind of women fomk play on bm ALL THE TIME.! Thanks for finally saying it-- bm on here have been saying it all along!!!
No sweetie, I am not doing whatever you tried to say but many black men being forced to pay child support do like to play little games like quitting their known job and moving out of state to work so they can avoid paying child support. By having his SS# handy black women can track down where he is working and the child support taken from the paychecks of his new job.
QBB wrote:
Right from jump you show the kind of mentality you have. What kind of message is your lousy behavior and attitude demonstrating to your children. Hee heeee ....
Maybe you need to go have another drink like the one in the unflattering picture you posted.
Tsk tsk tsk. Your words rnot at all surprising. U r def not the kind of woman any man in his right (or wrong) mind even wants to deal with. Too much evil brewing.
I am merely advising other women how not to get played by self-serving black men. You think it is lousy but others find it logical when dealing with sneaky black men.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#1015 Oct 13, 2013
QBB wrote:
Capree, u will treat a man like that because u were irresponsible enough to get pregnant (but most likely on purpose) and then go thru all that in the name of the "child"??? Give me a break. The child is just your money-maker, an insurance policy. and just a sick attempt to keep a man around your scheming self. Women like u can keep scheming and it will keep backfiring on u just like it has been.
PATHETIC!!!
Really you need to take the man and your own emotions out it because it should be all about the child or children. When a grownazz man who knows about what sex can result in, choses to lays down with a woman not protecting his interest at all, just thinking of pucci then he is conceiving a baby on purpose as much as the woman is. Why do you black men think that you are the only ones in the world for the mothers of your kids when there are millions of other black men and 10s of millions of other men to get with? Frankly if I had been attracted to black men and had become a babymama, I would have no problems in not seeing you but having you pay your full child support while I am off with my new lover.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#1016 Oct 13, 2013
QBB wrote:
The child is just your money-maker, an insurance policy.!!!
Unless you are wealthy, the courts won't make you low-income black men pay even half of what it cost to raise children so the mothers are not making a profit off of you alls tiny little support check but having to add 60% to them to properly raise your children.
QBB

United States

#1017 Oct 15, 2013
Like I and other bm on here have tried to tell u and the other bw on here who r just like u-- not taking responsibility for what u bw do and trying to blame bm for your unmarried state, your single motherhood state, and your general state of anger and unhappiness will keep u right where u r. Your mentality is bottom of the barrel.

Look back over your words Capree. You r getting mad and hostile because u think a bm is just your errand boy. No man is obligated to pay your bills or help you solve problems or be some kind of companion to u if he isn't married to you. He owes you NOTHING. The only person he is obligated to care for is his child, NOT you. That is what u r mad about...that and the fact that no one seemed to find your drink picture flattering.

I'm talking about being cordial. U cant have your way so u want to act like a brat and be hostile. Y not go a step further in your fake concern-- how about YOU drop the kids off And pick the kids up at their father's house. Hee hee, that way you can be absolutely sure the man will be nowhere near your little home. Go outta your way and do that and show your kids how silly their mother actually is!

“>3 =O”

Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#1018 Oct 16, 2013
What sucks is that Tommy has a daughter, if he wasn't cursed with a daughter he wouldn't give a damn about those ho's. He would only focus on black male issues or just do whats good for him. He would probably be better off just leaving her with her mom.
Albert B

London, UK

#1019 Oct 21, 2013
I just discovered his stuff. He's hilarious.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#1020 Oct 21, 2013
Albert B wrote:
I just discovered his stuff. He's hilarious.
Check out his rap sheet. He's woman beating filth Bertie.
Albert B

London, UK

#1021 Oct 21, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Check out his rap sheet. He's woman beating filth Bertie.
I had no idea.
I saw a that video of his when he's insulting the ghetto gagger. It reminded me of Chris rock. His accent helps.

Did you mark me as spam?tsk tsk

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#1022 Oct 21, 2013
Jstylez wrote:
What sucks is that Tommy has a daughter, if he wasn't cursed with a daughter he wouldn't give a damn about those ho's. He would only focus on black male issues or just do whats good for him. He would probably be better off just leaving her with her mom.
He is only cursed with being born a black man who hates black people and I mean black males also.

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