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Black men: a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women?

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Jamal

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#1 Apr 20, 2011
Now I'm not a black man that would ever be desperate enough to date a white girl but some of y'all be pissing me off. My friend invited me to this nasty azz group and I just had to look at the members. I couldn't help but notice that a majority of the white girls in this group are either fat, old and/ or just plain unattractive, common among white girls who "love black men."
I've been told numerous times that I am very good looking "for a black guy." And they act as if that's supposed to mean something more because it's coming from them the "epitome of beauty" LOL. I've had fat, ugly white women come up and flirt as if they KNOW I will be interested and then they actually get surprised when I tell them to waddle their fat cellulite@$$#$ out of my face. Doesn't it bother any of y'all that you are somebody's last resort?
Here is a reader comment from an article about a white woman who"loves" black men (AKA she was too fat/ old for a white man.) Just read it, it ipisses me off.
"I'm a woman in Seattle, 57 years old, & I avoided black men from the time they started hitting on me 40 years ago--until I fell in love with a man of mixed race in 2004. We had an affair of the heart, but never consummated it because he's married. Our relationship is now over. But in the meantime, I became curious & started dating other black men for the purpose of checking out the dynamic & the sex. In addition to many of the points you make, I found that the life experience of black men is closer to my struggle as a white woman than any entitled white male I ever dated or married. That's important. I never realized how important it was until I opened the door to a black man. We rose above it. We developed character. But we never forgot the prejudice that was levied against us, as black men & white women in America. The other important thing I discovered is that black men are "fascinated with the equipment." A black man takes it as a slight if his woman doesn't have an orgasm. I never encountered a white man who cared that much. Black men act like they have all the time in the world to make love to you. That translates into security & relaxation for me, the environment I need to have an orgasm. I never could with white men because I was nervous that he'd quit trying as soon as he decided it was pointless, leaving me hanging. Black men know more about how to please women. They learn it from an early age. They don't imitate what they see in Playboy or porno flicks. They are like urban sex scientists, determined to conduct a complete survey of the sample they've selected. Black women drive black men into the arms of white women by ridiculing their men. Maybe some of the mockery is deserved. Maybe some of these men are too arrogant & need to be taken down a peg. But the degree to which I've seen black women degrade a brother is tantamount to domestic abuse, without the corporal element. Then, as you note, they get mad at the white woman to whom the black man flees. Your article was great. I have different reasons, on many points, for desiring black men & being unable to have sex with a white man anymore, but many of the points you make are ones I share, or hadn't articulated until today. Now I can see them clearly. Thank you so much".

“esa hembra es mala”

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#2 Apr 20, 2011
LOL yea I remember a black man on youtube making a video about this to funny.
Jamal

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#3 Apr 20, 2011
This white woman admits that she "avoided black men" when she was younger (AKA Too good/ hot for one until she met and married her mixed husband ironically when she was 52. What a coincidence, once she is "Over the hill," suddenly race doesn't matter anymore
.
http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news&columns...
Here is another white woman who "started to love black men" at 40.

Here is what she looks like.(She is the fat @$$ sundamaged, trool on the left)
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2169727/susan_c...

Isn't it funny that in their younger days, when they think they are the $h!t, white women think they are too good for a black man (LMAO) but when they start looking nasty (for white women that's like 28 or so.) or get fat, they all of a sudden "love" black men. One of these nasty b!$%#es approached me at work and I had to tell her to get her sundamaged, tuna colored *** out of my face and go to pilates or something.

Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Seriously, not every black man is desperate enough to date you. Black men, don't we deserve better?

Doesn't this bother any of you?

Here is a youtube video talking about it!


And my friends wonder why I take a white woman flirting with me as an insult.
https://www.facebook.com/topic.php...
Jamal

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#4 Apr 20, 2011
SEXYBLKWOMAN wrote:
LOL yea I remember a black man on youtube making a video about this to funny.
More Black men are beginning to speak up; it's not a good look for us. The problem as I see it is other black men are too embarrass to address this issue at all, but we are only aiding other brotha's delusionals..thus causing all of our downfalls. It's time to call other brothas on this violation...allowing very unattractive white women to be care for by us when their own white men refuse to do it, that's one less sista without her rightful protection & provision. Let the white men take care of all their women, that should not be a brotha's job, aim, or goal. We can do better.

“esa hembra es mala”

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#5 Apr 20, 2011
Haha if I was them I would speak up too talk about low standards LMOA.
Jamal wrote:
<quoted text>More Black men are beginning to speak up; it's not a good look for us. The problem as I see it is other black men are too embarrass to address this issue at all, but we are only aiding other brotha's delusionals..thus causing all of our downfalls. It's time to call other brothas on this violation...allowing very unattractive white women to be care for by us when their own white men refuse to do it, that's one less sista without her rightful protection & provision. Let the white men take care of all their women, that should not be a brotha's job, aim, or goal. We can do better.
Jamal

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#6 Apr 20, 2011
I am piss when white women hit on me and even more upsetting when I see or hear other brothas thinking it's some sorta of compliment. We have the best women in the world; which is why every man is attempting to turn us against each other while throwing their trash at us, in order to take our gorgeous queens. I cannot be the only bro who sees this? We simply have to step up our game.
* Watch the video
Jamal

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#7 Apr 20, 2011
I am piss when white women hit on me and even more upsetting when I see or hear other brothas thinking it's some sorta of compliment. We have the best women in the world; which is why every man is attempting to turn us against each other while throwing their trash at us, in order to take our gorgeous queens. I cannot be the only bro who sees this? We simply have to step up our game.
* Watch the vid bros
Bump

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#10 Apr 21, 2011
Bump
Speak up REAL BM
Jamal

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#11 Apr 22, 2011
Example one....

http://www.devdang.com/images/Kathy-Griffin-D...

The Old spice brotha who is in his 30s is dating of all people a very unattractive and old white woman-Kathy Griffin...not only is this woman ugly, but she comes to a younger brotha when she is old (50 something) and used up (divorce with kids) and you mean to tell me this brotha has no pride? He could easily get with a decent looking sista with no kids around his age...so why is he settling for WM's leftovers?
Jamal

AOL

#12 Apr 22, 2011
lmbao wrote:
White "women" are disgusting animals and good black men have no business even being around them.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =L3Yu4k7eGWoXX&oref=http%3 A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fresul ts%3Fsearch_query%3Dbeastialit y%26aq%3Df&has_verified=1
I'm going to have to go ahead and agree with you. Good brothas don't go no where near a nasty she beast. Any smart sistah would never mess with a BM who has been with a white girl.

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#14 Apr 22, 2011
Jamal wrote:
<quoted text>I'm going to have to go ahead and agree with you. Good brothas don't go no where near a nasty she beast. Any smart sistah would never mess with a BM who has been with a white girl.
I had a really nice, church going brotha really diggin me one time. He really wasn't my type but I thought I'd give it a shot, besides, it was just a "getting to know" each other type relationship. I hate to admit it but when he showed me a picture of his kids, three of them were mixed, I instantly just did not want anything to do with him. Especially after I found out that his ex-wife was black and that he left her for her best friend who happened to be white. He had a daughter with her and guess what, she(white girl) dogged him out!
whites lie

Fort Worth, TX

#16 Apr 22, 2011
After the white cavewench is used up,old,fat,and wrinkly,they come running to black men.Disgusting.

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#17 Apr 22, 2011
MizzHoneyBeeZ wrote:
<quoted text>I had a really nice, church going brotha really diggin me one time. He really wasn't my type but I thought I'd give it a shot, besides, it was just a "getting to know" each other type relationship. I hate to admit it but when he showed me a picture of his kids, three of them were mixed, I instantly just did not want anything to do with him. Especially after I found out that his ex-wife was black and that he left her for her best friend who happened to be white. He had a daughter with her and guess what, she(white girl) dogged him out!
you're a smart woman.. lol
smartone

Chicago, IL

#18 Apr 23, 2011
I have seen black men in this town date anything white she could be old fat ugly one tooth and a kick stand an a black man will put her on a pedastal have lots of bi-racial babies with her marry her and be a good father to his kids!an come home everynite an it doesnt matter if the brotha is educated rich or poor! Im not talkin about all black men just what I have seen living in chicago an the ugly fat white women will throw themselves at the most low class in and out of jail dude cause she know she will get treated good REAL TALK!!!
Honker666

Mclean, VA

#19 Apr 23, 2011
Pamela

San Antonio, TX

#20 Apr 23, 2011
I don't blame Jamal for feeling disgusted by ugly and old white women hitting on him.

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#21 Apr 23, 2011
Too funny.
mybossisafatbitc h

United States

#22 Apr 23, 2011
Jamal Im with you bro.
Jamal wrote:
Now I'm not a black man that would ever be desperate enough to date a white girl but some of y'all be pissing me off. My friend invited me to this nasty azz group and I just had to look at the members. I couldn't help but notice that a majority of the white girls in this group are either fat, old and/ or just plain unattractive, common among white girls who "love black men."
I've been told numerous times that I am very good looking "for a black guy." And they act as if that's supposed to mean something more because it's coming from them the "epitome of beauty" LOL. I've had fat, ugly white women come up and flirt as if they KNOW I will be interested and then they actually get surprised when I tell them to waddle their fat cellulite@$$#$ out of my face. Doesn't it bother any of y'all that you are somebody's last resort?
Here is a reader comment from an article about a white woman who"loves" black men (AKA she was too fat/ old for a white man.) Just read it, it ipisses me off.
"I'm a woman in Seattle, 57 years old, & I avoided black men from the time they started hitting on me 40 years ago--until I fell in love with a man of mixed race in 2004. We had an affair of the heart, but never consummated it because he's married. Our relationship is now over. But in the meantime, I became curious & started dating other black men for the purpose of checking out the dynamic & the sex. In addition to many of the points you make, I found that the life experience of black men is closer to my struggle as a white woman than any entitled white male I ever dated or married. That's important. I never realized how important it was until I opened the door to a black man. We rose above it. We developed character. But we never forgot the prejudice that was levied against us, as black men & white women in America. The other important thing I discovered is that black men are "fascinated with the equipment." A black man takes it as a slight if his woman doesn't have an orgasm. I never encountered a white man who cared that much. Black men act like they have all the time in the world to make love to you. That translates into security & relaxation for me, the environment I need to have an orgasm. I never could with white men because I was nervous that he'd quit trying as soon as he decided it was pointless, leaving me hanging. Black men know more about how to please women. They learn it from an early age. They don't imitate what they see in Playboy or porno flicks. They are like urban sex scientists, determined to conduct a complete survey of the sample they've selected. Black women drive black men into the arms of white women by ridiculing their men. Maybe some of the mockery is deserved. Maybe some of these men are too arrogant & need to be taken down a peg. But the degree to which I've seen black women degrade a brother is tantamount to domestic abuse, without the corporal element. Then, as you note, they get mad at the white woman to whom the black man flees. Your article was great. I have different reasons, on many points, for desiring black men & being unable to have sex with a white man anymore, but many of the points you make are ones I share, or hadn't articulated until today. Now I can see them clearly. Thank you so much".

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Since: Oct 10

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#23 Apr 23, 2011
Honker666 wrote:
After looking at that first pic, I couldn't swallow. OMG, what are black men thinking, I hate this! Are they that desparate? I know it's not all but Dang man, No sistahs were worthy? GEEZ man.
TheAnswer

Pennsauken, NJ

#24 Apr 24, 2011
Black Men are so brainwashed, they will gladly take the Trash we throw out, discard and spit on.
Then like total morons give up the very finest BW in exchange for a morbidly obese white woman that animals run from in fear.

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