I got stood up last night
cookies

United States

#61 Mar 30, 2013
BlackmanLovesAsians wrote:
this black chick made this thread so people would feel sorry for her. Typical she beast. Darkie!
what is wrong with bw?hmmmm....did a bw beat your a** one day?is that why u are so bitter?
Ride The Lightning

Lockhart, TX

#63 Mar 30, 2013
cookies wrote:
<quoted text>why talking to yourself ?lol
I wasn't talking to myself. I just went back to my earlier post in question to clarify that it was a joke. When I thought again about the part where she said her feelings were hurt I realized that what I said was too harsh. It was a cheap shot. Too cheap.
Ride The Lightning

Lockhart, TX

#65 Mar 30, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
I am a black woman and I updated this thread already to say the situation was a misunderstanding and he made it up to me
In terms of rude, I can be very rude to someone who is being disrespectful to me
But this guy is very nice to me so I treat him very well
I'm not arrogant at all
Oh ok. I based my response on the original post. I didn't see the updates, but I went back and got up to speed. Glad everything worked out for you. You deserve to be treated well.
AnObserver

Roswell, GA

#66 Mar 30, 2013
TBMR wrote:
And to the racist crackkkers in this thread you wont be getting any sort of reply from me regarding your ignorance so feel free to chat amongst yourselves
Young lady ( I use "lady" respectfully), you have been responding to a few already. There is an ancient cliche , "misery likes company" , which you must always be mindful of when people give you negative advice. You like men of your race, but the negatives thrown out there about them, mostly unjustly, are probably getting to you. If you are observant, you will notice black men are no better nor worse than other types of men. Good luck with your new friend. Wish some of the young highly professional bm I mentor, who want nothing else but bw could meet women like you. The barrels they are currently searching in have some seriously rotten apples.
Becky Sukdik O Brien

Castle Rock, CO

#67 Mar 30, 2013
TMBR,

How did the second-chance date go? Did you two have it yet?

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#68 Mar 30, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>2
Yeah he called the next day. He had an emergency which I doubted at first but then he showed me the proof. He made it up to me too yesterday by taking me out and we had such an awesome time
Thank you for your concern sis. I get what you mean but I think this one is decent. I'm going to give it some more time
Well that's nice to hear! He sounds like he may be a winner.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#74 Apr 1, 2013
Women are crazy!!! She was ready to give up on bm. Now she already head over heels. Crazy.(no offense)

Level 7

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#75 Apr 1, 2013
lol wrote:
Women are crazy!!! She was ready to give up on bm. Now she already head over heels. Crazy.(no offense)
I'm happy for her. Most of this anger you see is from women who just want a guy who fits what they want. If they don't get it, the frustration sets in. What people have to understand is that there is someone (sometimes more than one) for everyone. You cannot make that person appear to you on your schedule. People are fated. You just have to relax and let things happen in their own time.

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#76 Apr 1, 2013
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy wrote:
<quoted text>
That was your first mistake. You cooked for him. With most, not all, black men, cooking is a bit too far on a first date dear. A cold brewed beer and a good movie would've been just enough for him, I promise you. I'm sure he was expecting some p_33y being the nature of this guy who stood you up. Keep your head up though. There are plenty of more and other fish out there in the sea.
That's pretty much how you can tell she's lying.

Women don't really "cook" for anybody on the first date.

Maybe she can't cook and he doesn't want to deal with her. Obviously at some point he was interested.

Her personality seems a bit off too. Like she should be taking some kind of "personality" meds.

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#77 Apr 1, 2013
TBMR wrote:
Oh snap he just called me while I was posting in this thread lmaoooo what a coincidence
He said he had a family emergency that he's still dealing with right now
He sounded genuine
said he's sorry and will make it up to me big time
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy, its gotta be all that good energy you sent my way in this thread lol thank you :)
I feel better now, glad to know he wasnt trying to diss me. I had an awesome time on our other 2 dates and he said he did to so yaaaaay
What ever. You just realized that Amelia was a better woman than you, and her approach far exceeded yours.

Stick with your lie. Trust me, no one of any real importance believes anything you irbw's say. Just like when TGA owned all of you.

Most just laugh at how desperate and backwards you all are.
lol

Atlanta, GA

#78 Apr 1, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm happy for her. Most of this anger you see is from women who just want a guy who fits what they want. If they don't get it, the frustration sets in. What people have to understand is that there is someone (sometimes more than one) for everyone. You cannot make that person appear to you on your schedule. People are fated. You just have to relax and let things happen in their own time.
I wouldn't know.... Seem childish to me how some women act. Couple bad experiences and they ready to sware off black men.
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy

Castle Rock, CO

#80 Apr 1, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
<quoted text>
That's pretty much how you can tell she's lying.
Women don't really "cook" for anybody on the first date.
Maybe she can't cook and he doesn't want to deal with her. Obviously at some point he was interested.
Her personality seems a bit off too. Like she should be taking some kind of "personality" meds.
Now that was mean lol. But yes, I advice NO woman to cook for any man on a first date. First of all, you never invite a man into your home just meeting him. It's dangerous and sends off the wrong impression. Secondly, he should take her out on the first date. I'm young but old fashioned.
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy

Castle Rock, CO

#81 Apr 1, 2013
*advise

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#83 Apr 1, 2013
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy wrote:
<quoted text>
Now that was mean lol. But yes, I advice NO woman to cook for any man on a first date. First of all, you never invite a man into your home just meeting him. It's dangerous and sends off the wrong impression. Secondly, he should take her out on the first date. I'm young but old fashioned.
That's really good advice :) I like your style.. you're my biracial Queen :)

I think that and you've probably observed it here, but a lot of IRBW have no clue in terms of how to approach relationships.

Your advice is very solid, and even though these women are older than you, they can learn a thing or two. You obviously know how to please a man as well, because I am very pleased with you, and I'm sure you have a man that feels the same way.

Great posts sweetheart :)

Level 7

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#89 Apr 1, 2013
lol wrote:
<quoted text>I wouldn't know.... Seem childish to me how some women act. Couple bad experiences and they ready to sware off black men.
I agree. The reactions are rather extreme.

Level 7

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#93 Apr 1, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>I'm LOLing at ya'll insisting on turning my thread into some other shit so you can ruin it

I wont let you guys kill my vibe though

I'm glad I met the guy I did. He LOVES bw. Puts us first and foremost. He is very conscious and positive and pro-black

If nothing comes of us thats fine but I'm just glad I met him and learned that not every black man is going to be the devil like anderson or a coon like harrisson ... there ARE good black men out there who love bw ... if nothing else he taught me that and i appreciate it
Not trying to kill your vibe or your thread. I simply responded to the comments posed. Like I said before, I hope it all works out for you.

Level 7

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#94 Apr 1, 2013
TBMR wrote:
And btw YOU telling me about bm who love bw means nothing since you arent one yourself and neither is anderson or harrisson or any of the other IRBM who are constantly in these sorts of threads

I MET a REAL black man who SHOWED me

he doesnt just talk the talk, he walks the walk

Will we get married? who knows

but I do know he taught me something and helped lift my spirits that bm like anderson and harrisson broke a long time ago and I appreciate him for that

If he and I stop dating I WILL still keep my options open for IR though. Only an idiot would make bm their only option in THIS city where 90% of the bm are IRBM
Oh good lord....here we go again. Believe what you wish. I, for one, am getting off your carousel.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#95 Apr 1, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Thanks sis
yeah he seems like a very decent person
only time will tell in the end though
True
lol

Atlanta, GA

#96 Apr 1, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh good lord....here we go again. Believe what you wish. I, for one, am getting off your carousel.
She talking about marriage already. This woman is crazy! Going in head first. I feel sorry for the dude. I hope it all work out for her though.

“Helping you ”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

achieve perfection

#97 Apr 1, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree. The reactions are rather extreme.
That's why nobody takes them seriously. They just look like stupid azz bitter for no reason dumfks.

Everybody else knows that relationships in general are hard work. BW need to just stop talking about relationships, it's really driving their value into the ground.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

African-American Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
News Barack Obama, our next President (Nov '08) 2 min VetnorsGate 1,564,727
BM are the exact opposite of what they believe ... 4 min Got_Rope 3
Do you black people really think you're normal... 5 min KIP 6
Glit-toss results in good glit, Prison, lol. 5 min Crated and Shippe... 12
2019 will mark 400 years of the "Negroe" in Ame... (Dec '10) 7 min Due 70
Why Are White People So Obsessed with O.J. Simp... 7 min KIP 114
Can Blacks Be Impartial And Trusted Enough To ... 8 min Satan-Abuser of H... 64
News Anti-racist author Tim Wise: White America desp... 38 min Dudley 817
Dan Snow: OJ is still so handsome. 4 hr Truth 38
More from around the web