Why is it hard to find a good black man?

Why is it hard to find a good black man?

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Since: Dec 08

Four Oaks, NC

#1 Dec 28, 2008
Why can't we as black women find a good black man that don't come with the games, the bs, and drama.

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#2 Dec 28, 2008
You gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
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Hyattsville, MD

#3 Dec 28, 2008
ldyofdesire wrote:
Why can't we as black women find a good black man that don't come with the games, the bs, and drama.
Its not that hard at all. You know damn well where to find decent men. Its just that you think these men are boring.
Why don't you rephrase your question for what you really want.

"How can I find a corporate tupac nice guy?"

Since: Sep 08

United States

#4 Dec 28, 2008
i dont know whats wrong with black people.black men blame black and and black girls blame black men.my black friends act and talk uneducated,thuggish and senseless and yet they talk about "u cant find a good black woman these day" as if a good bw would want a man like any of them.they tell me "there r some good sisters out there but most are skunks and hoes".u bw talk loud and act uncontralable sometimes and yet u expect to find a good man.u want to wear the damn pants and that shouldnt happen.heck most bw think "real" off of "real chance of love" is a real man but any smart person wont see a difference between him and his stupid brother.i saw the show once but most of them think he is gentle or a real man.honestly i dont think bw and bm r good for each other.

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#5 Dec 28, 2008
If the only black people you see are like you describe, you need to expand your surroundings. We all are not loud hoes that act uncontrollably. We are not all thuggish and senseless. Please do not speak for all of us.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#6 Dec 28, 2008
Because we good black men are either taken by a woman of a different race, are either acting like playas to attract black women as since they have no other choice but to do it in order to get black women, having high superficial standards in a good black man, not searching in places where you're likely to find one, especially places based off your interests, and etc.

Since: Sep 08

United States

#7 Dec 28, 2008
Curlylocks wrote:
If the only black people you see are like you describe, you need to expand your surroundings. We all are not loud hoes that act uncontrollably. We are not all thuggish and senseless. Please do not speak for all of us.
not all act like that but atleast 90 to 95% do and i am not even surrounded by thugs or hoes.i didnt say thats what i think of bw, i said that what my black friends think of black women.
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#8 Dec 28, 2008
Because few of them exist.
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#9 Dec 28, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
Because we good black men are either taken by a woman of a different race, are either acting like playas to attract black women as since they have no other choice but to do it in order to get black women, having high superficial standards in a good black man, not searching in places where you're likely to find one, especially places based off your interests, and etc.
If you are what passes for a good black "man" then I am laughing my ass off.

“Not African, we're Orginal!”

Since: Sep 08

The World

#10 Dec 28, 2008
ldyofdesire wrote:
Why can't we as black women find a good black man that don't come with the games, the bs, and drama.
"Find good black men"? lol! Soo...are y'all asking us out, inviting us on a date, taking our numbers?

“BLACK FIRST”

Since: Nov 08

maryland

#11 Dec 28, 2008
i just want to give a shout out to the good black

and keep you heads up

“BLACK FIRST”

Since: Nov 08

maryland

#12 Dec 28, 2008
AND HERE WE GO

the questions is not "Why is it hard to find a good black man?" no the real question is why cant black women choose good black men over the bad ones but im sure black women will deny this till the day they die

This video prove the my point

http://uk.youtube.com/watch...
Intelligent black man

Seattle, WA

#13 Dec 28, 2008
Watch what obama has to say about this topic, it'll change the way you see things.
BTw, women of all races say the same thing about their men. Why? women dont want nice guys, they want players, cause players are better at talking to women.
When you are finished watching what obama has to say, you'll be able to apreciate good men, instead of throwing them around like nothing

“BLACK FIRST”

Since: Nov 08

maryland

#14 Dec 28, 2008
when BLACK WOMEN SEE THIS VIDEO, I WANT TO SEE THEM TELL ME IM WRONG AND IF YOU DO YOU ARE A DUMB ASS!!!

THE KING HAS SPOKEN

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#15 Dec 28, 2008
ghana wrote:
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not all act like that but atleast 90 to 95% do and i am not even surrounded by thugs or hoes.i didnt say thats what i think of bw, i said that what my black friends think of black women.
90-95%! WHERE DO YOU FOOLS FIND THESE STATISTICS!!!!

“Not African, we're Orginal!”

Since: Sep 08

The World

#16 Dec 28, 2008
supremeking wrote:
AND HERE WE GO
the questions is not "Why is it hard to find a good black man?" no the real question is why cant black women choose good black men over the bad ones but im sure black women will deny this till the day they die
This video prove the my point
http://uk.youtube.com/watch...
I'm going to open a thread with this.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#17 Dec 28, 2008
supremeking wrote:
AND HERE WE GO
the questions is not "Why is it hard to find a good black man?" no the real question is why cant black women choose good black men over the bad ones but im sure black women will deny this till the day they die
This video prove the my point
http://uk.youtube.com/watch...
Mack The Great cosigns!TheSargeWP has spoken!

Since: Sep 08

United States

#18 Dec 28, 2008
Curlylocks wrote:
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90-95%! WHERE DO YOU FOOLS FIND THESE STATISTICS!!!!
it is not a nation wide stat,just a stat i've met.not give me the "it must be ur surroundings" explanation cause i live in a pleasant place.

“I'm jus sayin”

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Since: Oct 07

United States

#19 Dec 28, 2008
I've seen and know of plenty of good black men. Some even come to me for advice on why black women act this way or that, why do they play this game or that game.

I had a friend that had a couple of good men, but chose to go with & have a child with the one that abused her. She called the other guys "squares", and apparently this guy she's with is more "street". Sadly, this is the thinking of many black women.

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#20 Dec 28, 2008
Incredible!

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