Do you love nerdy Black guys?

Do you love nerdy Black guys?

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“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#1 Mar 25, 2014
I love nerdy Black guys, and yes, I am a Black female. This is a misunderstanding for some people because they think all Black women want the cool guys, or the thugs or ones who look like rappers. I was talking to a friend of mine today who looks like Steve Urchal. He even wears glasses and has a higher voice (lol), & he's one of the nicest guys I know and always very polite and he smiles at me a lot. He's super smart yoo! He's in college at a top University, involved with all of the Black Student Union clubs and even works and lives in the Black student theme house on campus. He's goofy, and adorable, and so I have decided something...

Corny, nerdy Black people who aren't even slightly cool need to come together and create MORE like them! Be proud of our awkwardness!!! I'm over the phase of women chasing "swag" and the guys who care about their hair being cut perfectly or wearing the best clothes, etc.. I want the smart man who knows a lot about different subjects and has an intellect's outlook on life. If he's short and "goofy" and his laugh is awkward and he can't talk to girls, but loves Star Trek (series, not just movies) then IMO he's adorable!! Those kinds of men are best for families, right? For mature relationships they beat out any man with "swag", so why aren't more Black females chasing them? I know they're my kind of guy, if I were single.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#2 Mar 25, 2014
<<------- A proud Black chick who loves Lord of the Rings and admires Neil DeGrasse Tyson & Michio Kaku more than any celeb around these days (outside of Lupita Nyong'o lol)!

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#3 Mar 25, 2014
PinkPearl wrote:
I love nerdy Black guys, and yes, I am a Black female. This is a misunderstanding for some people because they think all Black women want the cool guys, or the thugs or ones who look like rappers. I was talking to a friend of mine today who looks like Steve Urchal. He even wears glasses and has a higher voice (lol), & he's one of the nicest guys I know and always very polite and he smiles at me a lot. He's super smart yoo! He's in college at a top University, involved with all of the Black Student Union clubs and even works and lives in the Black student theme house on campus. He's goofy, and adorable, and so I have decided something...
Corny, nerdy Black people who aren't even slightly cool need to come together and create MORE like them! Be proud of our awkwardness!!! I'm over the phase of women chasing "swag" and the guys who care about their hair being cut perfectly or wearing the best clothes, etc.. I want the smart man who knows a lot about different subjects and has an intellect's outlook on life. If he's short and "goofy" and his laugh is awkward and he can't talk to girls, but loves Star Trek (series, not just movies) then IMO he's adorable!! Those kinds of men are best for families, right? For mature relationships they beat out any man with "swag", so why aren't more Black females chasing them? I know they're my kind of guy, if I were single.
You are in the distinct minority!
Jax

Ridgewood, NY

#4 Mar 25, 2014
You mean people like Urkel?
Anon

New York, NY

#6 Mar 25, 2014
PinkPearl wrote:
<<------- A proud Black chick who loves Lord of the Rings and admires Neil DeGrasse Tyson & Michio Kaku more than any celeb around these days (outside of Lupita Nyong'o lol)!
If that picture is you, you're a beautiful Black woman, and a deep thinker, too.
It's almost criminal that we have allowed swaggers and rappers to define Black culture. This is the reason why intelligent, normal Black guys ( I don't like the term nerdy ) are being overlooked by Black women who swear they can't find 'a good man'. The truth is they are not looking for good Black men, because good Black men want a family life with a woman who can boil water, at least, and who can help him accumulate wealth.
Anon

New York, NY

#7 Mar 25, 2014
Anon wrote:
<quoted text>If that picture is you, you're a beautiful Black woman, and a deep thinker, too.
It's almost criminal that we have allowed swaggers and rappers to define Black culture. This is the reason why intelligent, normal Black guys ( I don't like the term nerdy ) are being overlooked by Black women who swear they can't find 'a good man'. The truth is they are not looking for good Black men, because good Black men want a family life with a woman who can boil water, at least, and who can help him accumulate wealth.
'because good Black men want' should be 'because a good Black man wants'.
mr scholar86

Antioch, TN

#8 Mar 25, 2014
More women, especially black women should be like you. This goes to show not all black people think alike.
PinkPearl wrote:
I love nerdy Black guys, and yes, I am a Black female. This is a misunderstanding for some people because they think all Black women want the cool guys, or the thugs or ones who look like rappers. I was talking to a friend of mine today who looks like Steve Urchal. He even wears glasses and has a higher voice (lol), & he's one of the nicest guys I know and always very polite and he smiles at me a lot. He's super smart yoo! He's in college at a top University, involved with all of the Black Student Union clubs and even works and lives in the Black student theme house on campus. He's goofy, and adorable, and so I have decided something...
Corny, nerdy Black people who aren't even slightly cool need to come together and create MORE like them! Be proud of our awkwardness!!! I'm over the phase of women chasing "swag" and the guys who care about their hair being cut perfectly or wearing the best clothes, etc.. I want the smart man who knows a lot about different subjects and has an intellect's outlook on life. If he's short and "goofy" and his laugh is awkward and he can't talk to girls, but loves Star Trek (series, not just movies) then IMO he's adorable!! Those kinds of men are best for families, right? For mature relationships they beat out any man with "swag", so why aren't more Black females chasing them? I know they're my kind of guy, if I were single.

“The Beating Heart Of Africa”

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Since: Mar 10

Washington, DC

#9 Mar 25, 2014
I'm a nerd at heart and I think guys who fall into that category you've mentioned don't get enough respect from Black women. These are the guys that end up going outside their race.

Don't they say Nerds run the world?

More Black women should think like you because swag and all that other stuff gets you so far. It's smarts and intellect that go the distance.
Cyrus

Manassas, VA

#10 Mar 25, 2014
CIGAR FACE21 wrote:
Why now! I was readind on how you were uplifting white and Latino men and had a problem with blackmen. What made you change your thought pattern?
She is a confused bipolar nutcase.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#11 Mar 25, 2014
CIGAR FACE21 wrote:
Why now! I was readind on how you were uplifting white and Latino men and had a problem with blackmen. What made you change your thought pattern?
I don't like the stupid, angry Black guys who sit on the internet stereotyping Black women. Those guys can rot in hades & I wouldn't care. Nothing has changed. I just like nice, nerdy Black males too.:)

“Black in Amerikkka”

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#12 Mar 25, 2014
PinkPearl wrote:
I love nerdy Black guys, and yes, I am a Black female. This is a misunderstanding for some people because they think all Black women want the cool guys, or the thugs or ones who look like rappers. I was talking to a friend of mine today who looks like Steve Urchal. He even wears glasses and has a higher voice (lol), & he's one of the nicest guys I know and always very polite and he smiles at me a lot. He's super smart yoo! He's in college at a top University, involved with all of the Black Student Union clubs and even works and lives in the Black student theme house on campus. He's goofy, and adorable, and so I have decided something...
Corny, nerdy Black people who aren't even slightly cool need to come together and create MORE like them! Be proud of our awkwardness!!! I'm over the phase of women chasing "swag" and the guys who care about their hair being cut perfectly or wearing the best clothes, etc.. I want the smart man who knows a lot about different subjects and has an intellect's outlook on life. If he's short and "goofy" and his laugh is awkward and he can't talk to girls, but loves Star Trek (series, not just movies) then IMO he's adorable!! Those kinds of men are best for families, right? For mature relationships they beat out any man with "swag", so why aren't more Black females chasing them? I know they're my kind of guy, if I were single.
There are intelligent people with all types of personalities,some even so-called thugs.Not just "Nerds"(socially awkward people). Do you agree with this so-called "nerd's" assessment of women?



"women are emotional creatures not logical
so intelligence isnt what appeals to a female
if that where so,nerds would have the most women
women arent attracted by what you know
they arent attracted to a strong mind,theyre attracted to a strong personality.What you know is irrelevant to them.
Thats why religion has always appealed to women,
even if the religion out right oppresses them.As long the man speaking projected a strong personality,females submit to him.Females dont need to know things,they need to FEEL things.Thugs practice the art of personality"
Guest

Jonesboro, GA

#13 Mar 25, 2014
lol

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#15 Mar 25, 2014
God Body720 wrote:
<quoted text>There are intelligent people with all types of personalities,some even so-called thugs.Not just "Nerds"(socially awkward people). Do you agree with this so-called "nerd's" assessment of women?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =UxGMCXGU0dAXX
"women are emotional creatures not logical
so intelligence isnt what appeals to a female
if that where so,nerds would have the most women
women arent attracted by what you know
they arent attracted to a strong mind,theyre attracted to a strong personality.What you know is irrelevant to them.
Thats why religion has always appealed to women,
even if the religion out right oppresses them.As long the man speaking projected a strong personality,females submit to him.Females dont need to know things,they need to FEEL things.Thugs practice the art of personality"
Very interesting!
Style

London, UK

#16 Mar 25, 2014
I want to post THIS. It's for Black Men who want some deep insight into how Black Women THINK!



Feel free to comment...
Tyco

Newmarket, Canada

#18 Mar 26, 2014
PinkPearl is a sell out that has been degrading Black men for a long time on here.

Her bf is not even Black.

She is the type of Black woman that would chase after thugs or White boys and probably laughed at Black men who were not thugs or have swag.

Now that she is old and only non BM want her, she wants to come back running and begging brothers who have their head screwed on right.

You have now been penetrated by non BM of every sort, and expect us BM to take you back?? You are a waste.
MrScholar 86

Greenwood, MS

#19 Mar 26, 2014
Actually, most woman love for a man to be smart. Many people think women dislike "nerds" because they are very smart. Some people, not just women, get annoyed with nerds because they might explain things in a confusing way. For the most part, women love a smart mind, but hate the awkwardness. Being smart is a form of being strong which in turn is a type of security. Being awkward is seen as a form of being dumb,which in turn causes her to feel insecure. So actually, most women would reject a nerd not because he is smart, but because she feel he is dumb.

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#20 Mar 26, 2014
Tyco wrote:
PinkPearl is a sell out that has been degrading Black men for a long time on here.
Her bf is not even Black.
She is the type of Black woman that would chase after thugs or White boys and probably laughed at Black men who were not thugs or have swag.
Now that she is old and only non BM want her, she wants to come back running and begging brothers who have their head screwed on right.
You have now been penetrated by non BM of every sort, and expect us BM to take you back?? You are a waste.
Wow. Reading this post, I almost was convinced you knew her. Almost.

“.”

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Since: Feb 10

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#23 Mar 26, 2014
I love mysterious, intelligent, awkward and nerdy guys as well! My bf is one lol.
Tyco

Newmarket, Canada

#24 Mar 27, 2014
Black women do not like nerdy Black men!

Every nerdy Black man can attest to this. They get shunned by Black women. This is why nerdy smart Black men are the type to mostly likely be taken by White women.

The original poster is dating a non Black man and expect us to believe what she is saying, lol.

And I laugh at these Black women on here claiming to like nerdy Black men, stop your BS.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

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#25 Mar 27, 2014
Tyco wrote:
Black women do not like nerdy Black men!

Every nerdy Black man can attest to this. They get shunned by Black women. This is why nerdy smart Black men are the type to mostly likely be taken by White women.

The original poster is dating a non Black man and expect us to believe what she is saying, lol.

And I laugh at these Black women on here claiming to like nerdy Black men, stop your BS.
Well nerdy black women aren't sought after by black men.

Perhaps that's why those types of people generally seek one another out and have more money than majority of black people.

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